A betabux or betabuxx (cacography and contraction of beta bucks), also called beta male provider, is a male in a romantic relationship which is mostly predicated on him being an ATM machine, provider of drugs, housing and the like, i.e. he engages in a slow life history, high-investment reproductive strategy using his amassed resources to make up for his otherwise low looks or status or both. Many of today's beta males are thought to only be able to get laid by getting betabuxxed to used up single mothers who have been pumped and dumped by Chad.
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Betabux relationships are typically abusive in that the femoid reciprocates with minimal or no sexual affection, exploiting the agreeableness of the man, and keeping him just close enough for continued investment. Some academics have proposed this behavior is innate to women, calling it a dual-mating strategy in which women secure high quality genes from an attractive male in their prime years, to then settle for a beta provider "later on in life though". Paradoxically this often comes at a greater financial cost than hiring a hooker for the beta male, but the beta male is typically too conscientious and agreeable to consider such possibilities. Since betabux males often missed out on sex during their formative years, they are often desperate, foolish and gullible when it comes to dealing with femoids. Just how misaligned this situation is with human biology of physical attraction, becomes apparent in scientific data on men's preferences for young women and women's higher rate of facial aging.
Most men are betabuxxed in one way or the other, and historical and cross-cultural evidence suggests this has always been the case with women specializing in extracting resources from men.The only difference now is the return of betabuxxing is in the past you would receive at minimal a virgin wife and children but feminisms and destruction of religion has lowered all the returns from that ordeal.
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Betabuxxing involving former single mothers is not very common as only 3% of all children in the U.S. live with a step father, even though around 10% of families in the U.S. involve single mothers and even more in the lower economic strata. There is some evidence of betabuxxing on the demographics of inceldom article in that there is a sudden drop of male adult virgins around 35 which is is not present in women. It suddenly drops from 3.1% to 1.3%, suggesting at least 1% of men are storybook betabuxxed. Though a lot more betas may have had sex once or twice, i.e. not count as adult virgins and then betabux eventually. Moreover, one can also describe all betas in society providing for the high incident rates of single mothers via taxes as instance of the betabux phenomenon, with the state acting like a provider male and the betas not even getting sex in return.
The archaetypal beta provider[edit | edit source]
Timothy is a 35 year old engineer with a good career. Femoids find Timothy to be unattractive, and he was a kissless virgin until he met Jenny, who he married shortly after their relationship started. Jenny is a 36 year old single mother who already had 3 kids. Jenny used to be attractive in her teenage years and early 20s, but is no longer due to poor diet, and excessive partying and drinking during her prime years. Jenny used to spend lots of time getting fucked by dominant Chads, but none of them were willing to settle down with her because Chads have many better options than her. Jenny realized she needed to lower her standards to secure a source of income, even if that meant settling for a less attractive man. Jenny now relies on Timothy's income to maintain her lifestyle and provide for her kids. This is why she married Timothy, who is a reliable beta provider. Jenny has never told Timothy the raw truth about why she chose Timothy to settle down with. Instead, she clouds Timothy's judgement with occasional romantic gestures, as this makes it easier to keep Timothy's self-sabotaging behavior ongoing. Jenny has zero intentions of ever having children with Timothy, because she deems his genes to be inferior for her offspring.
Due to his servile mannerisms, and his enabling of golddigging, the betabux archetype is often mocked and ridiculed in manosphere circles. He is the sycophant of the dating scene. He is seen as the self-abasing, nuthugging, bootyclapping, brownie points-seeking, servile, toadyish, radfem-pleasing, butt-licking, abject obsequious semi-male lackey of the dating world.
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