Arguing with holes
Arguing with holes is a meme about how femoids will very often respond to criticism, or arguments with which they disagree, by saying, e.g. "This attitude is why you're incel"; the implication being that the man had better change his stance if he wants to have access to women's holes (e.g. their vagina). This fallacy is known as an appeal to force.
The male mode of communication is often logic-based, i.e. it revolves around the presentation of evidence and counter-evidence to reach a factual conclusion. In comparison, femoids' mode of communication is usually emotion-based, and usually amounts to little more than manipulation and blackmail, aided by their frequent use of the "I have the pussy so I make the rules" card. It may be the result of femoids having a weaker mental capacity for logic than males, rather having been evolutionarily selected for the ability to play damsel-in-distress and for, later down the evolutionary line, the ability and willingness to use shaming tactics to "win" in a social context. Hence arguing with holes is futile, for they will inevitably, usually sooner rather than later, commence shaming their interlocutors by implying or accusing them of character flaws instead of presenting a logic-based case, as a male would do.