Game is being attractive through smooth, charismatic behavior and speaking with flow and elegance, much like dance, music or poetry. This is not to be confused with negging or acting aggressively, which are copes for people that don't have game. Just like the way a person looks, and dresses, speech and behavior can be beautiful as well.
Most lookism theorists and lookist blackpillers think game is mostly determined by one's looks, and can hardly be improved for most incels. I.e. they believe good looking people are allowed to express themselves more than ugly people, and hence develop a more compelling demeanor.
Autists lack game[edit | edit source]
Individuals with mental conditions, like Asperger's syndrome talk and act in a awkward manner which is for the most part not beautiful. Autists, in particular, have an excessively hyper-masculine communication style, they often respond in a delayed fashion and have facial expressions that mismatch with their speech content. This is often perceived as rude, blunt and direct. Autists also excessively use the personal pronouns I, you, he, she, it, me, him, her. And scarcely use the pronouns we, they, us, them, so autists come off as selfish, self centered, and lacking in empathy, contributing to their lack of likability.
This communication style makes them bearable in any area were status is determined by rank and competence, instead of likability, such as in the military, but they struggle with friendships, and maintaining useful connections and relationships. Beautiful people are often forgiven if they happen to have no game, due to halo effect.
Conversation game[edit | edit source]
Style and presentation is an essential part of game. One way of improving conversation game is to leave out personal pronouns "I, you, he, she, it, me, him, her" and replace them with nicknames such as "bud, a person, bro, man, sweetheart". Or leave them out entirely.
For example instead of "Are you going to the grocery store today?" Use "When will the groceries be bought?" This puts focus on the groceries which is the intent of the conversation and doesn't insinuate in any way that the other person was supposed to get the groceries, which can cause conflict. An attractive speech pattern is not necessarily feminine, or neurotypical, but descriptive, narrative, and storyteller like.
Examples & counterexamples[edit | edit source]
Attractive/beautiful pick-up line:
"Sweetheart, just cuz a man's intimidating doesn't mean the guy's a bad person. Well, maybe, but good things come in rough packages, sometimes. Now, a sweetheart deserves someone to love and a man deserves the same. In the manosphere we tend to associate with the masculine, with strength, with power and that's all very appealing, but that's not where real love comes from.""
Autistic pick-up line:
"I'm a little intimidating but I'm actually a good person. Well maybe i'm not, but I do good things and I have good morals. Your the sweetheart. Your beautiful. You deserve someone to love you for you and for the person you are. You're the most perfect girl in the world, just try and love yourself. You are beautiful. You deserve to have the love of your life in your world."
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- Notice that the speech pattern uses an excessive amount of first person I, me, it pronouns, and the person prefers to simply list facts. There is no rhythm or flow. This is great for writing science articles, an evolutionary novel activity, that autists excel at, but terrible for communicating with other people, and being likeable.
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- Notice how when the personal tone is removed, the speech pattern becomes purely descriptive, storyteller, narrative like,and much more enjoyable to read and interesting. Facts are still listed, although now there's a sense of style, rhythm, flow, and finesse.
Chad speech pattern pick-up:
"Will those long, chocolate legs buckle while that ass gets pounded? Will that tight wet pussy be able to handle this monster cock? Cuz This big dick can fill that hole for sure, baby. We can't just fuck we have to fuck HARD. Only a real woman can fuck with this stud!"
Autistic virgin speech pattern pickup
"Will those long chocolate legs buckle while I'm bending you over? No? Ok. Well I'l try again later. But now I want to taste you. I want to hear you moan, and you know how much I love hearing you moan. Yes, I'll keep trying to bend you over. I think I can get you to do it. I can see that your ass is really fat and i love that about you. Don't fight it, you know you want me to. You can feel my hard cock pushing against your ass right now! I know it feels good, just let me fuck! Your pushing me away? What are you doing that for?"
Evolution[edit | edit source]
The beauty of speech and thought has possibly evolved as useful competence for "social survival" (social brain hypothesis of intelligence), and/or aesthetic sexual selection and related feedback loops (sexual selection hypothesis of intelligence). Arguably, people can cooperate and negotiate well without poise and elegance though, lending sexual/aesthetic selection some credibility.
See also[edit | edit source]
- Fisherian runaway
- Looks theory
- Halo effect
- Looksmaxxing and Category:Aesthetics for various aspects of human aesthetics