An average Becky is a variant of the femoid who is subordinate to the high-tier normie/Becky in terms of looks and social status. In its broadest sense, Beckys are a 3/10 to 7/10 on the decile system, ranging from ugly Becky to high-tier Becky.
Despite their lower position on the social totem pole, young Beckys will nonetheless ignore around 80% of men, including their looksmatches, unless said looksmatches happen to earn at least as much as she does. This sexual jockeying often puts them at odds with both each other as well as with Stacies, inciting fierce intrasexual competition and eating disorders. Although Beckys will gleefully fuck Chad, Beckys will often end up settling for a betabux Brad or a high-tier normie when she begins to approach the Wall or wants to raise a child, and hence fails to secure Chad.
"Nerds"[edit | edit source]
Often Becky's try to navigate around their looksmatch by becoming a fake nerd. In the 2010s, nerd-dom became almost hip due to the rise of information technology, and therefore women now wanted to be apart of it. Though not for their looksmatch, but to get access to Chad engineers and wealthy start-up founders (see also women in STEM). Thus, we saw the rise of IM LIEK SUCH A NERD LOL.
Validation-seeking[edit | edit source]
validation-seeking in theory means that you seek out compliments to boost your own confidence and in practise may involve going on dates to see whether one's SMV is high enough to maintain a set of beta orbiters. In laymen's terms, if someone seeking validation is essentially trying to see if others are thirsting after them, usually a woman seeking whether men thirst after her. validation-seeking is often viewed as unethical, as the purveyor gives the impression of availability in order to gauge or estimate their (read: her) own attractiveness, but in reality, never intended to really date such person or give them a chance.
Unlike women who are at the top decile for attractiveness, beckies frequently date or seduce men in order to gauge their own attractiveness levels. Stacylites and high-tier beckies also sometimes do this, but not as often. There are a number of paradigms whereby on aggregate, the amount of times Becky engages in validation-seeking increases. This includes when becky reaches her late twenties; at this point, her validation-seeking is an attempt to see whether her looks have faded. Another paradigm is when they (read: she) leaves a mixed gender environment such as college. This is because her dating pool has narrowed significantly because of the reduction of interactions with the opposite sex, and as such, the reduction in the amount of IOI's (indicators of interest) she receives. The concurrent drop in IOI's and self-esteem is the main catalyst behind her becoming a validation-seeker.
Low self esteem[edit | edit source]
Most Beckys compensate at some point. Most average woman are terrified of the "average life", especially having to admit to their femoid friends that it is only average. Awkward! So they travel and go on ridiculous spending sprees to prove their worth. Entire industries have formed around this societal and gynocentric ill (e.g. shopping malls and selfie stick manufacturers). This comes with bombarding their social media with pictures of food and lavish venues. They will also take photos of themselves with hot guys during vacations & parties to signal wealth and status. The most well known example of this phenomena is Anna Sorokin. Much of these kinds of confusion seem to stem from feminism pushing the notion that women need to and can do careers, as well as deteriorating monogamy norms and lax enforcement of social status all around, but probably also a more globalized culture leading to fiercer social comparison against more people, as well as stagnating economies increasing competitiveness for high-income Chad.