Sex drive or libido refers to the strength of sexual motivation. Most evidence suggests men's sex drive is on average higher than women's. This page intends to gather scientific and anecdotal evidence in support of this notion.
Counter-arguments often resort to cultural explanations, such as female trepidation pertaining to slut-shaming and physical strength differences leading to male violence against promiscuous women, but these counter-arguments are challenged by evidence of higher male sexual motivation in homosexuals and differences in masturbation frequency, as well as by cross-cultural replications.
Social psychologist Professor Roy Baumeister from Princeton University wrote about the male sex drive:
"Across many different studies and measures, men have been shown to have more frequent and more intense sexual desires than women, as reflected in spontaneous thoughts about sex, frequency and variety of sexual fantasies, desired frequency of intercourse, desired number of partners, masturbation, liking for various sexual practices, willingness to forego sex, initiating versus refusing sex, making sacrifices for sex, and other measures. No contrary findings (indicating stronger sexual motivation among women) were found. Hence we conclude that the male sex drive is stronger than the female sex drive."
"Given the mismatch between men's and women's desires, most men are doomed to experience chronic sexual frustration. […] They are doomed to be horny."
- 1 Overview
- 2 Evidence for higher male libido
- 2.1 Anaphrodisiacs
- 2.2 Anatomy
- 2.3 Asexuality
- 2.4 Abstinence vows
- 2.5 Allosexuality vs demisexuality
- 2.6 Availability and male surplus
- 2.7 Casual sex
- 2.8 Coccyx fallacy
- 2.9 Cross-cultural differences
- 2.10 Dating coaches
- 2.11 Dead bedroom complaint
- 2.12 Deferral of sex (coyness)
- 2.13 Disorders
- 2.14 Erotic massage
- 2.15 Faking orgasms
- 2.16 Female bisexuality
- 2.17 Grooling vs erections
- 2.18 Happily single
- 2.19 Homosexuals
- 2.20 Initiation and female passivity
- 2.21 Internet forums
- 2.22 Masturbation
- 2.23 Male line-up
- 2.24 Porn consumption
- 2.25 Porn conventions
- 2.26 Prostitution
- 2.27 Susceptibility to seduction
- 2.28 Sexbots
- 2.29 Sexual disgust
- 2.30 Sexual regret
- 2.31 Sexual fantasies, thoughts and cognitions
- 2.32 Smartphone apps
- 2.33 Social experiment
- 2.34 Status drive and risk taking
- 2.35 Tantric
- 2.36 Transgender
- 2.37 Testosterone
- 2.38 Virginity
- 2.39 Violent snapping
- 2.40 Video chats
- 2.41 Webcamming
- 2.42 Willingness to face jail
- 2.43 Workload
- 3 Memes and art
- 4 References
Overview[edit | edit source]
In many animals, including humans, the males have a more active sex drive and a higher activity level overall which can be explained by Bateman's principle, i.e. by greater parental investment on part of the females. One peculiarity of human sexuality is that the females have a hidden estrus (for the most part). Female animals who are displaying they estrus are said to be in heat, behavior that is actively discouraged for human females possibly for the purpose of paternity assurance.
It is difficult to tell apart the promiscuity-vs-choosiness dimension and overall frequency and strength of sexual desire. A promiscuous (non-choosy) mater will likely engage in lots of sex even if their mating preferences are not fulfilled. Since women are choosy maters, their libido may be higher when mating with high SMV men exclusively, though likely still not higher than men's because there are many findings that men's libido is higher when mate choice does not matter (e.g. masturbation in a stable relationship). Women's greater choosiness may also result in them getting bored with sex sooner as they find flaws that dissatisfy them sooner, so one overall observes men being much more likely to initiate and want sex in ongoing relationships.
Baumeister (2001) also notes that sex differences in sex drive do not transfer to related drives such as extrinsically motivated sex e.g. by the wish for a baby (which is sometimes reported higher in women), nor to orgasmic capacity (higher in women), nor to enjoyment of sex (roughly equal).
Women tend to underreport their sexual activity, which should imply that they overreport sexlessness and disinterest in sex, which may explain some of the reported difference in sex drive, but unlikely all of it.
Evidence for higher male libido[edit | edit source]
Anaphrodisiacs[edit | edit source]
Tobacco is a powerful anaphrodisiac. It is also one of the most commonly used anaphrodisiacs. But it is mostly used by men, and in countries such as Nauru and Kiribati, smokers constitute roughly half of all adults. Since the prevalence of this anaphrodisiac is so high, and since its usage inclines mostly male, it may mask the actual average libido of men, which without such prevalence tobacco usage would be higher.
The history of anaphrodisiacs also shows that its historical endorsement by healthcare organizations or other organizations was usually aimed at demographics that were primarily male, such as soldiers who were offered saltpeter. Such efforts to tame male libido shows that the male sex drive was at least historically viewed as more reckless and in need of a leash.
Anatomy[edit | edit source]
Women get less out of penovaginal sex than men since their primary erogenous zone isn't even in the vagina. Its outside of it on the clitoris.
Asexuality[edit | edit source]
A 2004 study by Anthony F. Bogaert found that there were proportionally more female asexuals than male asexuals. The study also found that male bisexuals and homosexuals outnumbered their male asexual counterparts. This sexual orientation was reversed for women, where female asexuals outnumbered their bi and lesbian counterparts. There were 29.23% of males in the sample of asexuals (N = 195), but 43.17% among sexuals (N = 18,426, X² = 15.30, p < 0.001).
Abstinence vows[edit | edit source]
Allosexuality vs demisexuality[edit | edit source]
Human sexuality has the two major inclinations of allosexuality and demisexuality. The former is the more roughneck of the two that is more focused on sex, whilst the latter combines emotional attachment to sex. Or in other words, allosexuality has a greater amount of correlations to sex drive when compared with demisexuality. According to Jenni Skyler, (Ph.D sexologist), demisexuality is a primarily female trait.
Availability and male surplus[edit | edit source]
Not only is women's sex driver lower, women are also reproductively unavailable 10-15% of the time due to menstruation, around only 15% of which are willing to engage in sex. Plus, all men aged 20 to 40 prefer women in their 20s and the ratio of these groups is even growing due to falling birth rates and a slightly higher birth rate of males. Hence, lots of men compete for few fertile women. The male surplus is especially dramatic in India and China.
Casual sex[edit | edit source]
Women are much more reluctant to engage in casual sexual activity, a sex difference that is directly predicted by Bateman's principle. Women have greater parental investment, so they need to be more careful, i.e. their strategy is about slow life history speed (LH), i.e. only have sex with high quality partners and late, whereas men's sexuality is about fast LH, i.e. have lots of sex early. This implies that men are much less choosy about casual sex. In case of marriage and long-term dating where men provide their resources, men are also very choosy. One can find these patterns cross-culturally. E.g. in one study, sex drive and sociosexuality (casual sex) showed consistent sex differences across 53 nations (d̅ = .62, .74). Gender empowerment measures correlated with sociosexuality, but were uncorrelated with sex drive.
Coccyx fallacy[edit | edit source]
Overall, the coccyx fallacy discusses the trope, which isn't uncommon, that sex is dispensable, and that sex isn't a right. In essence, the coccyx fallacy diminutizes the status of sex to something which is akin to an visa waiver, something someone with a residency permit has access to.
There are many people who believe that sex is dispensable, although these same people are aware that using the term "dispensable" itself is unlikely to garner sympathy, as it seems too tactless and forthright. As such, these people use less blunt terminology to convey their thoughts. Instead they'll use idioms such as "noone has a right to sex", "sex is a privilege", "you won't die if you don't have sex", or "so what if you're having a dry spell, get over it".
But what do most of these people who use such euphemistic terminology which in essence amounts to "sex is dispensable" have in common? Whenever you read the blogs, newspaper columns, forum threads or vlogs of such people, they are almost always without exception female. These female journalists/writers never actually convey that they're female and purport to speak on behalf of humanity in general, i.e. for both sexes. If society was less obsessed with the "gender is a social construct" trope, or "the fairer sex and the sterner sex are the same" trope, then the discrepancy between the libidos of males and females might be less controversial.
Test for yourself. The next time you see someone trivializing the notion of sexual inactivity, check out the author's profile, handle, or pen-name. It is almost always a feminine name.
Cross-cultural differences[edit | edit source]
Sex drive and sociosexuality (casual sex) showed consistent sex differences across 53 nations (mean d = .62, and d = .74 respectively). Gender empowerment measures correlated with sociosexuality, but were uncorrelated with sex drive.
In a global survey conducted by Durex in 2006, men were the least satisfied with how often they have sex. 41% want it more frequently compared to just 29% of women.
Dating coaches[edit | edit source]
Hiring a dating coach ostensibly has the end goal of a sexual relationship in mind. However, the rate to which men and women seek the services of dating coaches is not the same. In fact men far outnumber women in this endeavour. Although visiting a dating coach office isn't necessarily in and of itself a portal into the sexual realm, the fact that men outnumber women in actions which feasibly lead to sex suggests that for men, is suggestive of the idiom actions speak louder than words. And if data on dating coach statistics are anything to go by, the actions of the two genders male and women have spoken loudly, i.e. men work harder to obtain sex and are more likely to engage in idiosyncratic behaviour (such as visiting dating coaches) in an effort to obtain sex.
Dead bedroom complaint[edit | edit source]
Women have a higher rate of sexual dysfunction within relationships than men (43% of women and 31% of men report some degree of difficulty). Women also become disinterested with sex much sooner than men. And men are more than three times as likely to initiate sex in stable relationships.
Deferral of sex (coyness)[edit | edit source]
Women are more reluctant to have sex immediately, a tendency which can be seen in many female animals explained by female overall choosiness. Among fresh couples, men desired sex earlier in a relationship (M 28% vs W 3% were "reluctant virgins" in such relationships). Cohen and Shotland (1996) computed correlations between when people thought sex should start and when they actually began having sex. For the men, the correlation was not significant (r = .19), which implies they had no say, whereas for women the correlation was very high (r = .88). Moreover, women rarely initiate, and hence get to choose. Hence it is likely that women cause this pattern somewhat more than men. All of these results are evidence of Briffault's law.
Women's waiting and reluctance to mate is called coyness. It has been proposed that women use this behavior to evaluate the man's suitability as provider (McNamara 2008, Wachtmeister 1999), but also to ensure that there is still an opportunity for a better mating opportunities arise in the meanwhile.
Disorders[edit | edit source]
Frigidity / Hyposexuality[edit | edit source]
A higher rate of women than men suffer from frigidity/hyposexuality, meaning the lack sexual desire. Women have higher rates of SAD (sexual aversive disorder) and HSDD (hyposexual desire disorder). Whereas 32% of women lack interest in sex for several months of the year, only 15% of men reported the same.
In 2010, Brotto discussed the prevalence of HSDD among women. Data suggests 34% of women between the ages of 18 and 74 experienced decreased sexual interest often or most of the time. In contrast, Vansintejan, Janssen, Van De Vijver, Vandevoorde, and Devroey (2013) reported an estimated 15% of the general male population experienced HSDD
The frequency of hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD) and the frequency of comorbidity of sexual disorders was recorded from a total population of 906 subjects studied in a multisite pharmaceutical study. Sixty-five percent had a primary diagnosis of HSDD. HSDD was far more common in females than male subjects. Males diagnosed with HSDD were significantly older than women diagnosed with HSDD.
—Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder: Prevalence and Comorbidity in 906 Subjects, Rt Segraves 2008
In 1999, The National Health and Social Life Survey (NHSLS) assessed sexual functioning among men and women in the U.S. The survey reported that 43% of women experienced some type of sexual dysfunction compared to only 31% of men. In women, the most common complaint was low sexual desire (22%) (Laumann et al, 1999). In 2005, The Global Study of Sexual Attitudes and Behaviors (GSSAB) found similar results in a larger-scaled international survey of sexual problems among men and women 40 to 80 years of age. The GSSAB found that 26% to 43% of women experienced low sexual desire compared to 13% to 28% of men (Gingell et al., 2005).
—The Causes and Prevalence of Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder: Part I, Feldhaus-Dahir, Melissa 2009
Hypersexuality / nymphomania[edit | edit source]
In November 2016 Janna A. Dickenson, did a University of Minnesota study on compulsive sexual behavior disorder on 2,325 adults between 18 and 50 yo. It found that more men than women were affected by the condition at 10% and 7% percent respectively (X² = 13.5, p = 0.0002).
Erotic massage[edit | edit source]
Whereas female clients outnumber male clients at several ordinary spa massages, including the UK and Australia, at rates of more than two thirds, once the venue is of a sexual nature you see a flip, with male clients outnumbering female clients.
Faking orgasms[edit | edit source]
Studies have also shown a mismatch between verbally claimed female arousal, and devices such as vaginal photoplethysmographs which measure physical manifestations of their arousal (such as grool or blood flow). Women's moaning might act as a mating call to incite male competition (see sexclamation), rather than expression of pleasure, or it may be a vestige of such behavior.
Female bisexuality[edit | edit source]
Some studies have shown that women who overtly claim to be straight, are shown to be otherwise, which may be related to their history as having lived in harems engaging in sexual activity with other women. This might mean women will spend their 'sexual energy' more often on either men and women, whereas men more exclusively spend theirs on women, meaning men receive less.
Grooling vs erections[edit | edit source]
The most reliable indication of female sexual arousal is whether she's grooling. The male counterpart for most reliable indicator of arousal is the erection. This is the case even though an erection is harder to hide. The frequency per day of the latter is higher than that of the former.
Happily single[edit | edit source]
Statistics show that married or coupled people on average have more sex than singletons. Despite this fact, research has shown that female singletons are happier that their female counterparts who have spouses. Since women prefer a romantc status that renders them into a less sexually active state, the necessary deduction from this research is that sex isn't that important for women - or at the very least, not as important as it is for men. Moreover, men more often report having sex is essential to feeling good about oneself by a difference of around 10% points.
Gay males[edit | edit source]
According to Baumeister (2001), gay men have more sex than their lesbian counterparts at all stages of relationships, whether the beginning, middle or end. Gay males more likely than lesbians are unfaithful (G 82% vs L 28%). In fact, many homosexuals have tons of sex partners. An Australian national phone survey project found even higher numbers, 10-15% reported >1000 sexual partners. Accordingly, the mean number of sex partners is also very high for male homosexuals compared to male heterosexuals (16.7 vs 56.9). Eibl-Eibesfeld (1990) suggested such male dominance/female surrender patterns may be rooted in ancient brain regions that humans share with lizards. He suggested the type of excessive, promiscuous and anonymous adult-male/adult-male homosexual behavior that is common among many homosexuals (see statistics) may have originated from the archaic vertebrate dominance-and-submission sexuality. For more statistics on male homosexuals see the homosexuality article.
Lesbians[edit | edit source]
Lesbians, which constitute an all-female pairing, have no pregnancy to fear. Regardless, they were "inclined toward even less promiscuous lives than heterosexual women". Completely 'dead bedrooms' are anecdotally particularly frequent in lesbian relationships.
Lesbian bed death[edit | edit source]
Lesbian bed death, also abbreviated to LBD, refers to the lack of sexual intimacy between lesbian couples in long-term relationships. It is a commonly reported phenomenon which adds credence to the notion that women have a lower libido than men on average.
Initiation and female passivity[edit | edit source]
Women are overall much more passive maters. They will rarely initiate relationships or sex within a relationship. They are also reluctant to giving random men complements or positive evaluation in fear it could be interpreted as sexual interest. On Tinder, male subjects (super)liked 61.9% of the female evaluated profiles, while female subjects (super)liked only 4.5% of the male evaluated profiles. (d ≈ 2.0). Similarly women rate men much more rarely as attractive, both in online and offline dating.
Most women (93%) prefer being asked out vs doing the asking. Conversely, 83% of men preferred to do the asking vs being asked out on a date (d ≈ 2.5), proving women are much more passive maters suggesting they desire their mate to overcome they reluctance in line their high incidence rate of rape fantasies (~60%, but perhaps more accounting for bias). Only few of the most dominant and most good looking men are allowed to skip this testing stage.
In two small surveys, men have also reported rape fantasies (10-20%),, however there is an important distinction to be made: Nearly all men are stronger than all women, which suggests men's fantasies are not really about being physically overwhelmed, but rather a desire not having to be as active, which is pretty much impossible to fulfill.
Women need confirmation that the male is acceptable first, which they gather from social signals or information. It is very important that the man can actually provide for the offspring. 60% of women said they hoped a recent hookup would lead to a romantic relationship compared to only 13% of men, which on the one hand points to a more promiscuous sexuality for men, but also to women's desire that the man puts forth costly signals of investment thus corroborating his future investment.
In a speed dating setting, men inferred more sexual interest from their conversation partners than women did (M 0.78±1.36, W −0.97±1.58, t(196) = 8.32, p < .001, N = 196, d ≈ 1.2), which may be related to a greater wishful thinking to get sex out of any opportunity.
In another speed dating study, women chose only half as many partners as men (M 5.0, W 2.6). 36 percent of men and 11 percent of women did not get any proposal.
An informal survey of readers of the blog "Slate Star Codex" found of people who expressed a preference for BDSM, 71% of heterosexual men preferred the dominant role, compared to only 16% of heterosexual women (d = 1.5).
In the OKCupid questions dataset (N > 11,000, qX is the question ID, heterosexuals only), the vast majority of women prefer their partner taking control during sex (F 86.0%, M 32.3%, d ≈ 1.54, q463). Women also prefer a dominant partner in a non-sexual sense 4.7x as often as men (F 36.5%, M 7.7%, d ≈ 1.08). Fewer women than men prefer a balanced relationship (F 61.2%, M 79.9%). Only 2.3% of women prefer a submissive partner (vs M 12.4%, q9668). Most women prefer being tied up during sex (F 61.4%, M 22.2%) vs doing the tying (F 18.1%, M 54.0%, d ≈ 1.05). F 20.5% an M 23.8% avoid bondage all together (q29). Preference for masculinity as broad gender description (F 65.1%, M 8.3%) vs feminininty (F 6.6%, M 74.7%). F 17.2% and M 11.6% have no preference (q82778). Caveats here may however be that the dataset does not contain "skipped" answers, so this may be biased. The dataset is also limited in other ways, e.g. people sometimes do not answer truthfully, but strategically to attract certain potential partners).
Internet forums[edit | edit source]
The various love-shy groups were threads on the website Yahoo wherein men and women lamented either sexlessness or romancelessness. Although currently inactive, the male equivalent had 2905 members, in contrast with the female equivalent which had only 48 members.
Masturbation[edit | edit source]
A study on Swedish high school seniors report (Driemeyer et al., 2017) found that boys masturbated at a rate of roughly 98.9% whilst girls did at a rate of 85.5%. This is a sex difference of about d = 1.2. There are similar sex differences among adults with males doing it more frequently than women, in all age ranges. A study by Niklas Langstrom in 2006 found that 65% of men had masturbated in the past month compared with 39% of women (d = .66). Even in steady heterosexual relationships, men masturbate 4 times as often as women, mainly due to differences in sex drive (masturbation frequency M 2.02±5.37 vs W 0.51±0.92). In the past 45 years, the sex difference in masturbation frequency has also not changed despite women's masturbation having become socially acceptable, arguably even more acceptable than men's (M 5.1, F 1.4, N = 237 boys, N = 76 girls). The onset of masturbation also shows a difference with male onset of masturbation occurring more than a year earlier, (age 12.5) vs (13.7). Males were more likely to fantasize whilst masturbating and orgasming. In a survey from the Netherlands in 2017, 25% of men, but only 8% of women masturbated multiple times a week.
Male line-up[edit | edit source]
We know about what gets women grooling from research on the distribution of female ratings on various apps. One such app, OKCupid, produced startling results. Instead of a normal distribution curve, women rated the vast majority of men as unattractive, at a rate of 80%. In laymen's terms, the average woman looks at the average man at the median position of male attractiveness and thinks thats kind of unfuckable. This may be related to an intuition to avoid giving a complement in a dating context. Because if the female initiates she cannot metoo the guy as easily compared to when he initiates.
Porn consumption[edit | edit source]
At the largest porn site in the world, Pornhub, as of 2018, an average of 29% of its visitors were female, while 71% were male. This agrees with a survey from Australia where 35% of women are viewing it occasionally or regularly, but 70% of men watching porn occasionally or regularly. 45% of women vs 10% of men never watched it.
Porn conventions[edit | edit source]
Most visitors to porn conventions are male.
Prostitution[edit | edit source]
The clients of female sex workers are overwhelmingly male. Even the clients of male prostitutes are usually male.
In the US one finds 13.8% of men, but only 1.9% of women have ever paid for sex.
Susceptibility to seduction[edit | edit source]
In both studies, men succumbed to the sexual temptations more than women, and this sex difference emerged because men experienced stronger impulses, not because they exerted less intentional control.
—Sex Differences in Succumbing to Sexual Temptations: A Function of Impulse or Control? Natasha D. Tidwell, 2013
Sexbots[edit | edit source]
Sexbots have been described by some analysts as a development stemming from a sex deficit. According to Catherine Hakim, a greater proportion of males experience a sex deficit in their lives in comparison to women. A survey in Germany found that men were more than twice as likely as women to be interested in having sex with a sexbot, which as the aforementioned anaysis suggests, insinuates that the sex deficit is experienced in greater numbers by male Germans than female Germans.
Sexual disgust[edit | edit source]
Women have a much higher sexual disgust, which can apart from shielding against rape by ugly men, be seen as an adaptation in response to their higher susceptibility to STDs due to the pocket shape of their external sex organs.
Sexual regret[edit | edit source]
Men are eight times as likely to regret passing up casual sex (28.9% M, 3.6% W). Even in the most gender egalitarian countries, women are 1.68 times as likely to regret having engaged in casual sex (20.4% M, 34.2% W).
Sexual fantasies, thoughts and cognitions[edit | edit source]
According to a trial by Fisher (2012), published in the Journal of Sex Research, men think about sex on average 34 times a day, whilst women thought about it 19 times a day, i.e. men on average think 1.8 times as often about sex. A Kinsey Institute study found that 54% of men think about sex daily (or several times daily), while only 19% of women did the same, though the result by Fisher is more reliable because it was counted with a tally counter.
Provided that men have a much more active love style, and men rather approach women than vice-versa, it can be assumed that men think more about how to get sex, whereas women think about whom to choose as a partner and how to avoid unwanted partners.
The following were self-reported levels of libido from an ethnically varied sample of 676 women and men.
... men reported experiencing a higher overall level of sexual desire than did women. Sex differences also were found with respect to frequency of sexual desire. Men reported experiencing sexual desire more often than did women and, when asked to estimate the actual frequency with which they experienced desire, men's estimated frequency (37 times per week) was significantly higher than women's (9 times per week).
—Sex Differences and Similarities in Frequency and Intensity of Sexual Desire, Authors: Regan, Pamela C.; Atkins, Leah 2006
Smartphone apps[edit | edit source]
Borderline sexually suggestive content on smartphone apps have usages at up to 73% male.
Social experiment[edit | edit source]
Experimental vlogs[edit | edit source]
There were street social experiments made by the Youtube channel "whatever". Here a reasonably attractive man and woman each asked members of the opposite sex for a hook-up under similar conditions. The woman received 30 yays, 70 nays, while the guy got 0 yays and 100 nays.
See also chadfishing.
Controlled environment[edit | edit source]
One study on a college campus by conventionally attractive people asked students the following question "I've been noticing you around campus and I think you're attractive. Would you like to go to bed with me tonight?" Among the male respondents, more than three quarters said yes, whilst none of the female respondents said yes.
Status drive and risk taking[edit | edit source]
Men are more status driven, e.g. men are more likely to help if helping is considered a heroic act (d = .75) and enjoy competition more (d = .8).  Boys and young men have a higher mortality rate than girls due to fatal accidents, risk taking etc. Since sex is somewhat risky and access to sex is negotiated via social dominance, this should imply a higher and more active (rather than passive) sexual motivation in men.
Tantric[edit | edit source]
As of 2019, in the capitalist free-market city of Berlin, sometimes reputed as the birthplace of tantric massages, the venues for availability of the male version (20), lingam massages, outnumbers the venues for the female version, yoni massages (6), by 14 places. The level of availability of a particular service is a hint at demand, especially so in a capitalist society; in this case, male demand is far higher than female demand.
Transgender[edit | edit source]
The administration of androgens to females was clearly associated with an increase in aggression proneness, sexual arousability and spatial ability performance. In contrast, it had a deteriorating effect on verbal fluency tasks. The effects of cross-sex hormones were just as pronounced in the male-to-female group upon androgen deprivation: anger and aggression proneness, sexual arousability and spatial ability decreased, whereas verbal fluency improved.
—Gender differences in behaviour: activating effects of cross-sex hormones. Van Goozen SH, 1995
Transmen[edit | edit source]
Women who have transitioned to men (transwomen) have reported a higher libido in comparison to their sex drives when they were women.
Transwomen[edit | edit source]
The reverse is the case for transwomen. For transwomen, their libido decreases as they transition to becoming a woman.
Testosterone[edit | edit source]
The primary sex hormone for both men and women is testosterone. The reference range for testosterone levels among men is between 300 to 900 ng/dl and for women, the range is much lower at 12 to 60 ng/dl.
Virginity[edit | edit source]
For women, virginity is generally a good thing as men invest their resources in the woman and hence prefer pristine partners who are unlikely to have a pregnancy from another man (also low chance of STDs). Conversely, both women and men engage in virgin-shaming of men. Hence, women have a greater motivation to not have sex and men have a higher motivation to have sex.
Violent snapping[edit | edit source]
Contribution of libido to male violence[edit | edit source]
There are far more known cases of violently lashing out at sexlessness in men than in women through methods such as suicide. There are rare female exceptions such as Christine Chubbuck in 1974. Men on the other hand regularly kill themselves as a by-product of not being able to get laid; such as Wilkes McDermid.
Eastern world[edit | edit source]
All you need to do to see how insane the male libido can be is looking at the 72 virgin stereotype, of Muslim men who engage in a suicidal military mission for the purpose of eventually making it to heaven in order to get sex with attractive women from another dimension. History books and even show aggrandized versions of this killing-one-self-for-celestial-pleasures, where at times entire army units enter the fray.
In more modern times, a particularly pertinent example of such incentives being particularly salient to young men who join terrorist organizations is the case of the Palestinian terrorist group Black September (most well known for slaughtering members of the Israeli Olympics teams at the 1972 Munich Olympic games, after a horrendously botched hostage rescue operation by the West German police.)
When this organizations violent deeds started to become a liability to their overlords, the Palestinian political party Fatah, it was decided that the group had to be liquidated. Due to the organizations (Black September's) bloodthirsty nature and the suicidal courage of its footsoldiers, it was decided that instead of killing them, a better plan to disband the group was needed. 
Specifically, the members (the group was all male) were given semi-arranged (Fatah basically played match-maker) marriages with 'attractive young women', and a (fairly modest) stipend of money, with further incentives;including a larger sum of money and an apartment if they agreed to marrying the women, to buy them off and allow them to provide for their new brides.
Given that with these marriages in place, the members now had 'something to lose' by continuing with their terrorist activities, this plan was remarkably effective at dissolving the organization.
Thus, demonstrating that one of the strongest motivations for men to join such groups is the state of inceldom or at least strong sexual frustration, at least subconsciously (possibly being rooted in evolutionary biology.)
This does not of course mean that that inceldom makes its sufferers inherently violent, but perhaps those prone to violence will see such proclivities enhanced by sexually frustration, and it is clear that the male libido is so strong it will make some men go to extreme lengths in an attempt to satiate its demands.
Video chats[edit | edit source]
Webcamming[edit | edit source]
Most visitors to webcamming sites dedicated to stripteasing and dirty talk are male.
Willingness to face jail[edit | edit source]
There is a sentencing disparity in western legal systems whereby men face stiffer legal penalties for sex crimes. Sentences are longer and male prisons are more dangerous, especially for sex offenders who need protective custody, at times facing guards who “turn a blind eye”. Despite this measure of amplified male ruin for committing crimes, male sex offenders outnumber female sex offenders in every underage category, from pedophilic, hebephilic and ephebophilic offenses. Male offenders also outnumber female offenders in forced acts of intercourse with an adult who refused, with the US Bureau of Justice Statistics claiming that 99% of rapists are male. Other crimes such as incest show similar disparities, with 90 to 97% of convicted incestuals in the USA being male.
Workload[edit | edit source]
Its common knowledge that one of the biggest killers of the libido is a large workload. Occupations that involve physically strenuous tasks (such as construction work) are largely an emblem of male-dominated professions. This indicates that there may be a large untapped reserves of libido that remains masked due to the fact that this energy and testosterone is being diverted to jettison onto wagecuck endeavours.
Memes and art[edit | edit source]
References[edit | edit source]
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