Rebecca (full name disclosed for privacy's sake), was once an admin on the IncelSupport forum and she had the idea that incels should be considered as their own gender. So rather than, for lack of a better phrasing, trying to put them through "conversion therapy" and become like everyone else who isn't incel, she would rather incels accept their incelibacy and go on living their life free from sexual frustration.
That attitude didn't go well with the community and she was ran out.
She currently uses her full name, acting as sort of a representative of incels on Quora, claiming the word was hijacked, rather than her being driven out of her community and then the community giving up after it's server crash in 2013 (which is what actually happened).
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