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'''Game''' is | '''Game''' is [[courtship]] display by smooth, [[charisma|charismatic behavior]] and speaking with [[beauty|flow and elegance]], much like dance, music or poetry. | ||
This is not to be confused with [[negging]] or [[Bullying|acting aggressively]], which are copes for people that don't have game. Just like the way a person [[Beauty|looks]], and [[Fashion|dresses]], speech and behavior can be beautiful as well. | This is not to be confused with [[negging]] or [[Bullying|acting aggressively]], which are copes for people that don't have game. Just like the way a person [[Beauty|looks]], and [[Fashion|dresses]], speech and behavior can be beautiful as well. | ||
Most lookism theorists and | Most lookism theorists and [[blackpill|blackpillers]] believe game is mostly determined by one's looks, and can hardly be improved for most incels. I.e. they believe good looking people are allowed to express themselves more than ugly people, and hence develop a more compelling demeanor. Multiple studies indicate that out of many measures of personality and physical traits, only physical attractiveness predicts initial romantic interest and strongly so, meaning game is probably largely ineffective in short-term dating settings like blind dating.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_blind_dating</ref> However, game may be critical in other settings but one-to-one dating contexts, as it amounts to criteria important for social status. Someone who is smooth, eloquent and witty will be more popular and hence get access to reproductive opportunities. | ||
Indeed ''all'' face to face game is a combination of physical attractiveness, vocal attractiveness, [[gait]] attractiveness, social status attractiveness, and | Indeed ''all'' face to face game is a combination of physical attractiveness, vocal attractiveness, [[gait]] attractiveness, social status attractiveness, and body odor. Attractive dancing, attractive singing, attractive hobbies, fashion, posing, posturing, as well as facial, vocal, and body ''expressions'', are all only ''icing on the cake'' so to speak. Ugly men that do attractive things tend to be called ''[[creep]]y''. Still, even [[Gigachad]] can improve on txting game, as txting attractiveness is determined by speech pattern and actual word usage, when he wants to outcompete other Chads. If there is a tie between two men in terms of looks, they need to stand out in other ways, which may be the only case in which game and personality actually matter. | ||
== Autists lack game == | == Autists lack game == | ||
Individuals with mental conditions, like [[Asperger's Syndrome|Asperger's syndrome]] talk and act in a awkward manner which is for the most part not beautiful. | Individuals with mental conditions, like [[Asperger's Syndrome|Asperger's syndrome]] talk and act in a awkward manner which is for the most part not beautiful. | ||
[[Asperger's Syndrome|Autists]], in particular, have an excessively hyper-masculine communication style, with no sense of flair or aesthetic. Autists often respond in a delayed fashion and have facial expressions that mismatch with their speech content. This is often perceived as rude, blunt and direct. Autists also excessively use the personal pronouns I, you, he, she, it, me, him, her. And scarcely use the pronouns we, they, us, them. So autists come off as selfish, self centered, and lacking in empathy, contributing to their lack of likability. | [[Asperger's Syndrome|Autists]], in particular, have an excessively hyper-masculine communication style, with no sense of flair or aesthetic. Autists often respond in a delayed fashion and have facial expressions that mismatch with their speech content. This is often perceived as rude, blunt and direct. Autists also excessively use the personal pronouns I, you, he, she, it, me, him, her.{{citation needed}} And scarcely use the pronouns we, they, us, them. So autists come off as selfish, self centered, and lacking in empathy, contributing to their lack of likability. | ||
This communication style makes them bearable in any area were status is determined by rank and competence, instead of likability, such as in the military, but they struggle with friendships, and maintaining useful connections and relationships. Due to [[Halo effect|halo effect]], [[beauty|beautiful people]] are often forgiven, if they have no game. | This communication style makes them bearable in any area were status is determined by rank and competence, instead of likability, such as in the military, but they struggle with friendships, and maintaining useful connections and relationships. Due to [[Halo effect|halo effect]], [[beauty|beautiful people]] are often forgiven, if they have no game. | ||