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<blockquote>Aspergers men are a nightmare. I accidentally married someone with AS. And I stress ACCIDENTALLY, as I have seen the devastation that is “being” with one of these people. They should come with a warning and anyone displaying these behaviors should be tested in school so that us normal people don’t get trapped in something that ruins our lives. Yeah they’re all different yeah yeah, I know, some are worse than others. No one can be happy with these people. NO ONE. WHATSOEVER. Seriously. My life is devastated from one of these un-empathetic, desolate wasteland-of-emotions people. Learn to think like them? F*** that. That’s impossible and would require losing most of the characteristics that make us human, that allow us to connect to others.</blockquote> | <blockquote>Aspergers men are a nightmare. I accidentally married someone with AS. And I stress ACCIDENTALLY, as I have seen the devastation that is “being” with one of these people. They should come with a warning and anyone displaying these behaviors should be tested in school so that us normal people don’t get trapped in something that ruins our lives. Yeah they’re all different yeah yeah, I know, some are worse than others. No one can be happy with these people. NO ONE. WHATSOEVER. Seriously. My life is devastated from one of these un-empathetic, desolate wasteland-of-emotions people. Learn to think like them? F*** that. That’s impossible and would require losing most of the characteristics that make us human, that allow us to connect to others.</blockquote> | ||
=== Fake nice guy syndrome === | |||
When women as well as people in general talk about "fake nice guys" they are in fact referring to some autistic males, whom apologize after every single rude comment, and remark accidental or otherwise, thus advertising themselves to be nice all the time, and not showing the full range of human emotions. Which is unsettling to neurotypicals, since the behavior comes off as fake, robotic, creepy, psychopathic, crazy, confusing, etc. Autists whom communicate in such a fashion, naturally over estimate, the optimal amount of pro-social communication/behavior most people generally prefer. People generally tend to prefer those that are not too nice, not too mean as per the goldie locks principle.<ref>https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Goldilocks_principle</ref> However sexually women do in fact prefer the opposite of the fake nice guy. Ie. The real [[asshole]]. This may be hard for some autists to understand due to polarized thinking patterns (black and white thinking).<ref>https://www.psychedconsult.com/blog/no-room-for-gray-here<ref></ref>https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Splitting_(psychology)</ref> A fairly common trait among autists whom tend to be stressed by ambiguous information/stimuli, and thus ignore said stimuli. | |||
== Dating advice == | == Dating advice == | ||