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<blockquote>Aspergers men are a nightmare. I accidentally married someone with AS. And I stress ACCIDENTALLY, as I have seen the devastation that is “being” with one of these people. They should come with a warning and anyone displaying these behaviors should be tested in school so that us normal people don’t get trapped in something that ruins our lives. Yeah they’re all different yeah yeah, I know, some are worse than others. No one can be happy with these people. NO ONE. WHATSOEVER. Seriously. My life is devastated from one of these un-empathetic, desolate wasteland-of-emotions people. Learn to think like them? F*** that. That’s impossible and would require losing most of the characteristics that make us human, that allow us to connect to others.</blockquote>. | <blockquote>Aspergers men are a nightmare. I accidentally married someone with AS. And I stress ACCIDENTALLY, as I have seen the devastation that is “being” with one of these people. They should come with a warning and anyone displaying these behaviors should be tested in school so that us normal people don’t get trapped in something that ruins our lives. Yeah they’re all different yeah yeah, I know, some are worse than others. No one can be happy with these people. NO ONE. WHATSOEVER. Seriously. My life is devastated from one of these un-empathetic, desolate wasteland-of-emotions people. Learn to think like them? F*** that. That’s impossible and would require losing most of the characteristics that make us human, that allow us to connect to others.</blockquote>. | ||
== Dating advice == | |||
There has been little research on what determines dating success among the few autists who have it. | |||
Two studies of autistic males’ online dating profiles led us to develop 3 key tips for autistic online daters:<ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0747563219301566</ref> | |||
*Be consistent in your online profile (attributes and interests). | |||
*Be explicit about your autism. | |||
*Frame your personality attributes and interests using positive wording | |||
There is some evidence that autists males may be compatible with autist females (at least in the near-term that is):<ref>https://escholarship.org/uc/item/6kw0v3mf</ref> | |||
* "Further, similar to speed-dating studies with typical adults, participants matched from speed-dating events led to electronic communication between couples, and dates for approximately one third of matches." | |||
* "the content of participants’ conversations felt formal to an outside observer" | |||
==References== | ==References== | ||
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