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Women's hypergamous instinct consists in constantly evaluating whether the gains from a new [[relationship]] will offset the losses of leaving an old one, and constantly analyzing the value of their partners relative to the available pool of men and in context of social expectations. This instinct fundamentally appears to be an anxiety about resources and fear about being stuck with a man who isn't the best one available.<ref>https://therationalmale.com/2019/03/11/womens-existential-fear/</ref> Hypergamy can be seen as a particular expression of female choosiness and a natural outcome of higher male sex drive. Men have fewer alternative mating options available to them, so they more readily make compromises and date down.<ref>https://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71503.pdf</ref> In terms of evolutionary biology, this can be explained by [[Bateman's principle]] which also explains greater sexual choosiness in non-human females. | Women's hypergamous instinct consists in constantly evaluating whether the gains from a new [[relationship]] will offset the losses of leaving an old one, and constantly analyzing the value of their partners relative to the available pool of men and in context of social expectations. This instinct fundamentally appears to be an anxiety about resources and fear about being stuck with a man who isn't the best one available.<ref>https://therationalmale.com/2019/03/11/womens-existential-fear/</ref> Hypergamy can be seen as a particular expression of female choosiness and a natural outcome of higher male sex drive. Men have fewer alternative mating options available to them, so they more readily make compromises and date down.<ref>https://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71503.pdf</ref> In terms of evolutionary biology, this can be explained by [[Bateman's principle]] which also explains greater sexual choosiness in non-human females. | ||
[[Gynocentrism|Affirmative action]] and women's [[liberalism|liberated sexuality]] created a situation in which women surpass men in many ways, rendering more men unattractive to women (due to their hypergamous preference to date up), and also liberating women from having to settle for a partner of equal [[SMV]]. Modern societies have ceased to ostracize promiscuity and [[divorce]] laws greatly benefit women, so women are more likely to [[Marriage#Move Toward Polyamory with Rise in Divorce|jump ship when ready]] which can be seen in women initiating divorces more often than men. Sexually frustrated men aim down more, giving women even more mating choices together with online dating and social media, so they become more choosy and strengthened in their natural role as [[Sexual selector|sexual selectors]].<ref>https://www.technologyreview.com/s/601909/how-tinder-feedback-loop-forces-men-and-women-into-extreme-strategies/</ref> Growing economic inequality and decreasing economic growth have the same effect as fewer men can attain reliable high status, which is what women go for.<ref>https://journals.openedition.org/chs/737</ref> The result is more [[inceldom]] and sexlessness overall, with women rather remaining sexless than dating down.<ref>https://www.edge.org/response-detail/26747</ref><ref>https://doi.org/10.1093/qje/qjv001</ref><ref>https://fee.org/articles/why-single-women-are-way-more-likely-to-own-a-home-than-single-men/</ref><ref>https://newsroom.wiley.com/press-release/journal-marriage-and-family/do-unmarried-women-face-shortages-partners-us-marriage-mar</ref> [[Marriage]], monogamy, and other forms of arranged partnerships were possibly, in part, culturally evolved [[Egalitarianism|egalitarian]] adaptations for counteracting hypergamy. In fact, the best antidote to hypergamy is [[monogamy]] because it forces women to settle down with a partner of similar [[SMV]]. | [[Gynocentrism|Affirmative action]] and women's [[liberalism|liberated sexuality]] created a situation in which women surpass men in many ways, rendering more men unattractive to women (due to their hypergamous preference to date up), and also liberating women from having to settle for a partner of equal [[SMV]]. Modern societies have ceased to ostracize promiscuity and [[divorce]] laws greatly benefit women, so women are more likely to [[Marriage#Move Toward Polyamory with Rise in Divorce|jump ship when ready]] which can be seen in women initiating divorces more often than men. Sexually frustrated men aim down more, giving women even more mating choices together with online dating and social media, so they become more choosy and strengthened in their natural role as [[Sexual selector|sexual selectors]].<ref>https://www.technologyreview.com/s/601909/how-tinder-feedback-loop-forces-men-and-women-into-extreme-strategies/</ref> | ||
Growing economic inequality and decreasing economic growth have the same effect as fewer men can attain reliable high status, which is what women go for.<ref>https://journals.openedition.org/chs/737</ref> | |||
The result is more [[inceldom]] and sexlessness overall, with women rather remaining sexless than dating down.<ref>https://www.edge.org/response-detail/26747</ref><ref>https://doi.org/10.1093/qje/qjv001</ref><ref>https://fee.org/articles/why-single-women-are-way-more-likely-to-own-a-home-than-single-men/</ref><ref>https://newsroom.wiley.com/press-release/journal-marriage-and-family/do-unmarried-women-face-shortages-partners-us-marriage-mar</ref> | |||
[[Marriage]], monogamy, and other forms of arranged partnerships were possibly, in part, culturally evolved [[Egalitarianism|egalitarian]] adaptations for counteracting hypergamy. In fact, the best antidote to hypergamy is [[monogamy]] because it forces women to settle down with a partner of similar [[SMV]]. | |||
== 80/20 rule == | == 80/20 rule == | ||
[[File:413.jpg|thumb|left|<center>OkCupid deleting their internal dating studies shortly after the [[Alek Minassian]] attack</center>]] | [[File:413.jpg|thumb|left|<center>OkCupid deleting their internal dating studies shortly after the [[Alek Minassian]] attack</center>]] | ||