Trusted, Automoderated users
5,366
edits
Nice guy: Difference between revisions
Jump to navigation
Jump to search
→Women prefer bullies over nice men
| Line 2: | Line 2: | ||
A '''nice guy''' is a [[beta]] male who acts agreeable and pleasant towards either sex, often [[shy]], [[social awkwardness|socially awkward]] and bad at flirting. [[Blackpill]]ers and [[redpill]]ers accuse nice guys of being [[bluepill|bluepilled]] about women's mating preferences, and predict their best hope is to be [[betabux]]xed to a post-[[wall]] femoid, provided femoids are being encouraged to [[demographics|marry very late]]. Nice guy's niceness and tendency to smile is commonly explained by [[dominance hierarchy|low dominance status]], [[neuroatypicality]], physical weakness, religious or [[gynocentrism|gynocentric]] domestication, or a genetic disposition for [[shyness]]. Many nice guys may genetically be slow [[life history]] strategists, programmed to wait [[arranged marriage|to be married]] which never occurs in modern society. | A '''nice guy''' is a [[beta]] male who acts agreeable and pleasant towards either sex, often [[shy]], [[social awkwardness|socially awkward]] and bad at flirting. [[Blackpill]]ers and [[redpill]]ers accuse nice guys of being [[bluepill|bluepilled]] about women's mating preferences, and predict their best hope is to be [[betabux]]xed to a post-[[wall]] femoid, provided femoids are being encouraged to [[demographics|marry very late]]. Nice guy's niceness and tendency to smile is commonly explained by [[dominance hierarchy|low dominance status]], [[neuroatypicality]], physical weakness, religious or [[gynocentrism|gynocentric]] domestication, or a genetic disposition for [[shyness]]. Many nice guys may genetically be slow [[life history]] strategists, programmed to wait [[arranged marriage|to be married]] which never occurs in modern society. | ||
== Women prefer bullies over nice men == | == Women prefer bullies over nice men == | ||
[[File:Eee.jpg|330px|right|thumb]] | [[File:Eee.jpg|330px|right|thumb|The Chad is [[Jeremy Meeks]]; the looksmatch is [[St. Blackops2cel]].]] | ||
Contrary to men, women tend to prefer a disagreeable partner during the initial stages of [[dating]] once men have passed their [[LMS]] test.<ref>https://www.newsweek.com/study-finds-men-nice-women-not-other-way-around-261269</ref><ref>https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0146167214543879</ref> This results in [[bullies]] having substantially more sexual partners than the bullied.<ref>[https://archive.fo/ZGvcF http://archive.is/ZGvcF]</ref><ref>https://rd.springer.com/article/10.1007%2Fs40806-017-0126-4</ref><ref>https://www.deccanchronicle.com/lifestyle/sex-and-relationship/161217/dominance-may-make-bullies-more-attractive-leading-to-more-sex-study.html</ref><ref>https://scottbarrykaufman.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/The-Dark-Triad-Personality.pdf</ref><ref>[https://archive.fo/e6p19 http://archive.is/e6p19]</ref><ref>https://www.timesofisrael.com/women-really-dont-go-for-nice-guys-study-indicates/</ref> This gives men an incentive to act like jerks to avoid being [[ghosting|ghosted]]. Women consequently tend to complain that there are no genuinely nice guys, which is thought to be a [[shit test]], [[virtue signaling]], or self-delusion. | Contrary to men, women tend to prefer a disagreeable partner during the initial stages of [[dating]] once men have passed their [[LMS]] test.<ref>https://www.newsweek.com/study-finds-men-nice-women-not-other-way-around-261269</ref><ref>https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0146167214543879</ref> This results in [[bullies]] having substantially more sexual partners than the bullied.<ref>[https://archive.fo/ZGvcF http://archive.is/ZGvcF]</ref><ref>https://rd.springer.com/article/10.1007%2Fs40806-017-0126-4</ref><ref>https://www.deccanchronicle.com/lifestyle/sex-and-relationship/161217/dominance-may-make-bullies-more-attractive-leading-to-more-sex-study.html</ref><ref>https://scottbarrykaufman.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/The-Dark-Triad-Personality.pdf</ref><ref>[https://archive.fo/e6p19 http://archive.is/e6p19]</ref><ref>https://www.timesofisrael.com/women-really-dont-go-for-nice-guys-study-indicates/</ref> This gives men an incentive to act like jerks to avoid being [[ghosting|ghosted]]. Women consequently tend to complain that there are no genuinely nice guys, which is thought to be a [[shit test]], [[virtue signaling]], or self-delusion. | ||
| Line 10: | Line 10: | ||
An explanation for women's preference for bullies may be the [[bodyguard hypothesis]]. A very nice man can't protect. Excessively warmhearted men are also often perceived as [[creepy]] and suspect and manipulative,<ref>https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2009/07/27/the-kindest-cut</ref> which they may as well be. Excessive niceness is also awkward [[signaling theory|signaling]] as it is perceived as desperate, which in turn points to prior failure and flaws. | An explanation for women's preference for bullies may be the [[bodyguard hypothesis]]. A very nice man can't protect. Excessively warmhearted men are also often perceived as [[creepy]] and suspect and manipulative,<ref>https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2009/07/27/the-kindest-cut</ref> which they may as well be. Excessive niceness is also awkward [[signaling theory|signaling]] as it is perceived as desperate, which in turn points to prior failure and flaws. | ||
==Fake nice guys== | ==Fake nice guys== | ||
Both [[womanosphere|womanospherians]] and [[manosphere|manospherians]] accuse many men of being "fake nice", but in different ways. | Both [[womanosphere|womanospherians]] and [[manosphere|manospherians]] accuse many men of being "fake nice", but in different ways. | ||