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A '''nice guy''' is a male who acts | A '''nice guy''' is a male who acts agreeable and pleasant towards either sex, often [[shy]], [[social awkwardness|socially awkward]] and bad at flirting. [[Blackpill]]ers and [[redpill]]ers accuse nice guys of being [[bluepill|bluepilled]] about women's mating preferences. Their niceness and tendency to smile is commonly explained by [[dominance hierarchy|low dominance status]], sometimes as a result of poor looks, physical weakness, religious and/or modern egalitarian domestication. Many nice guys are genetically slow [[life history]] strategists and they are doomed to be [[betabux]]xed to a post-[[wall]] woman, provided women are being outright encouraged to [[demographics|marry very late]]. | ||
== Women prefer bullies over nice men == | == Women prefer bullies over nice men == | ||
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The immense contradiction between the socially desired male niceness and goodness and their low sexual success as a result of female mate choice has motivated mass murderers [[Elliot Rodger]] and [[Alek Minassian]], claiming themselves to be "supreme gentlemen" and thus deserving female sexual attention. Minassian explicitly stated having been "too nice" to women,<ref>https://youtube.com/watch?v=qhnd9J6dNSA?t=2418</ref><ref>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qhnd9J6dNSA&t=6882</ref> though later he confessed he was not primarily driven by retaliation against women and only used incel memes as a veneer to gain popularity.<ref>https://www.ontariocourts.ca/decisions/2021ONSC1258.pdf</ref> | The immense contradiction between the socially desired male niceness and goodness and their low sexual success as a result of female mate choice has motivated mass murderers [[Elliot Rodger]] and [[Alek Minassian]], claiming themselves to be "supreme gentlemen" and thus deserving female sexual attention. Minassian explicitly stated having been "too nice" to women,<ref>https://youtube.com/watch?v=qhnd9J6dNSA?t=2418</ref><ref>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qhnd9J6dNSA&t=6882</ref> though later he confessed he was not primarily driven by retaliation against women and only used incel memes as a veneer to gain popularity.<ref>https://www.ontariocourts.ca/decisions/2021ONSC1258.pdf</ref> | ||
An explanation for women's preference for bullies may be the [[bodyguard hypothesis]]. A very nice man can't protect. Excessively warmhearted men are also often perceived as [[creepy]] and suspect and manipulative,<ref>https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2009/07/27/the-kindest-cut</ref> which they may as well be. | An explanation for women's preference for bullies may be the [[bodyguard hypothesis]]. A very nice man can't protect. Excessively warmhearted men are also often perceived as [[creepy]] and suspect and manipulative,<ref>https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2009/07/27/the-kindest-cut</ref> which they may as well be. Excessive niceness is also awkward [[signaling theory|signaling]] as it is perceived as desperate, which in turn points to prior failure and flaws. | ||
==Fake nice guys== | ==Fake nice guys== | ||