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These insights are central to the [[red pill]], [[black pill]], and the countless clickbaity news articles about how "women love psycopaths", and they are related to [[hybristophilia]], i.e. women's sexual interest in criminal and violent males. | These insights are central to the [[red pill]], [[black pill]], and the countless clickbaity news articles about how "women love psycopaths", and they are related to [[hybristophilia]], i.e. women's sexual interest in criminal and violent males. | ||
The immense contradiction between the socially desired male niceness and goodness and their low sexual success as a result of female mate choice has motivated mass murderers [[Elliot Rodger]] and [[Alek Minassian]], claiming themselves to be "supreme gentlemen" and thus deserving female sexual attention. Minassian explicitly stated having been "too nice" to women | The immense contradiction between the socially desired male niceness and goodness and their low sexual success as a result of female mate choice has motivated mass murderers [[Elliot Rodger]] and [[Alek Minassian]], claiming themselves to be "supreme gentlemen" and thus deserving female sexual attention. Minassian explicitly stated having been "too nice" to women,<ref>https://youtube.com/watch?v=qhnd9J6dNSA?t=2418</ref><ref>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qhnd9J6dNSA&t=6882</ref> though later he confessed he was not primarily driven by retaliation against women and only used incel memes as a veneer to gain popularity.<ref>https://www.ontariocourts.ca/decisions/2021ONSC1258.pdf</ref> | ||
An explanation for women's preference for bullies may be the [[bodyguard hypothesis]]. A very nice man can't protect. Excessively warmhearted men are also often perceived as [[creepy]] and suspect and manipulative,<ref>https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2009/07/27/the-kindest-cut</ref> which they may as well be. | An explanation for women's preference for bullies may be the [[bodyguard hypothesis]]. A very nice man can't protect. Excessively warmhearted men are also often perceived as [[creepy]] and suspect and manipulative,<ref>https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2009/07/27/the-kindest-cut</ref> which they may as well be. | ||