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Obviously, a common [[normie]] counterargument would be that women aren’t as visual in real life as on apps, and that you can display a bit of personality when approaching a woman. Other studies, however, stress on the notion called the “[[halo effect]],” in which your perceived personality could be in correlation to how you look<ref>https://deepblue.lib.umich.edu/bitstream/handle/2027.42/92158/TheHaloEffect.pdf?sequence=1&isAllowed=y</ref>. | Obviously, a common [[normie]] counterargument would be that women aren’t as visual in real life as on apps, and that you can display a bit of personality when approaching a woman. Other studies, however, stress on the notion called the “[[halo effect]],” in which your perceived personality could be in correlation to how you look<ref>https://deepblue.lib.umich.edu/bitstream/handle/2027.42/92158/TheHaloEffect.pdf?sequence=1&isAllowed=y</ref>. | ||
For example men are commonly told to be funny to attract women, but in reality being attractive makes you appear funnier in everything you say<ref>https://www.theguardian.com/science/brain-flapping/2016/may/19/are-funny-people-sexy-or-are-sexy-people-funny</ref> and judged less harshly/not seen as creepy in weird situations<ref>https://splinternews.com/homely-men-judged-more-harshly-than-hot-men-instantly-1793848040</ref>. | For example, men are commonly told to be funny to attract women, but in reality being attractive makes you appear funnier in everything you say<ref>https://www.theguardian.com/science/brain-flapping/2016/may/19/are-funny-people-sexy-or-are-sexy-people-funny</ref> and judged less harshly/not seen as creepy in weird situations<ref>https://splinternews.com/homely-men-judged-more-harshly-than-hot-men-instantly-1793848040</ref>. | ||
Even in real life, you have to surpass a certain looks level for a woman to even desire you intimately. There has to be physical attraction at first for a relationship to be initiated. While women say that personality matters more than looks, their decision indicates that they value looks first<ref>https://youtube.com/watch?v=iOHdZKDldIg</ref>. | Even in real life, you have to surpass a certain looks level for a woman to even desire you intimately. There has to be physical attraction at first for a relationship to be initiated. While women say that personality matters more than looks, their decision indicates that they value looks first<ref>https://youtube.com/watch?v=iOHdZKDldIg</ref>. | ||