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Monday has argued that his personality does not suit his looks. "''Due to this mismatch''" women were, according to him, generally intimidated and/or disgusted by his calm, rational and seemingly cold-hearted demeanor. | Monday has argued that his personality does not suit his looks. "''Due to this mismatch''" women were, according to him, generally intimidated and/or disgusted by his calm, rational and seemingly cold-hearted demeanor. | ||
== Beliefs about Inceldom == | ==Beliefs about Inceldom== | ||
Monday believed that "looks-personality mismatches" can be a common reason men can become incels/FAs, i.e., some men may have [[physiognomy|personalities that contradict stereotypical personality types people tend to associate with certain appearances.]] Such apparent contradictions may be off-putting to people. | Monday believed that "looks-personality mismatches" can be a common reason men can become incels/FAs, i.e., some men may have [[physiognomy|personalities that contradict stereotypical personality types people tend to associate with certain appearances.]] Such apparent contradictions may be off-putting to people. | ||
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Monday has talked about how people tend to be less forgiving of socially-inept people the older they are, and that this may be another reason men can become incels/FAs. Monday asserted that there is a crucial window of time, generally between the ages of 10 and 25, that young men must develop skills with women, and if something comes along and derails this process, then dating can be extremely difficult and confusing for young men. | Monday has talked about how people tend to be less forgiving of socially-inept people the older they are, and that this may be another reason men can become incels/FAs. Monday asserted that there is a crucial window of time, generally between the ages of 10 and 25, that young men must develop skills with women, and if something comes along and derails this process, then dating can be extremely difficult and confusing for young men. | ||
Monday felt that incels/FAs are often given a lot of unhelpful advice from people who do not understand the incel/FA problem. In particular, he has criticized the often-touted mantra of "self-improvement". Monday has asserted that no one is really on a 'perpetual treadmill of self-improvement', and that average | Monday felt that incels/FAs are often given a lot of unhelpful advice from people who do not understand the incel/FA problem. In particular, he has criticized the often-touted mantra of "self-improvement". Monday has asserted that no one is really on a 'perpetual treadmill of self-improvement', and that average and below-average men, and even NEETs can successfully get girlfriends/wives they are attracted to. Monday has asserted that the notion that one needs to "become the best version of themselves" in order to achieve sexual/romantic fulfillment is contradictory to Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. | ||
Monday has talked about how some incels/FAs may suffer from geographic issues: some men may simply live in sparsely-populated areas where there aren't many opportunities to meet women. Some men may live in areas where there simply aren't many young single women, or there aren't many objectively attractive people (such as areas with high obesity). | Monday has talked about how some incels/FAs may suffer from geographic issues: some men may simply live in sparsely-populated areas where there aren't many opportunities to meet women. Some men may live in areas where there simply aren't many young single women, or there aren't many objectively attractive people (such as areas with high obesity). | ||