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In a study of Reddit users answering why they are single (not necessarily incels) on AskReddit, most answered they were physically unattractive, with about half as many mentioning obesity (see [[causes of inceldom]]).<ref>https://doi.org/10.1007/s40806-018-0163-7</ref> Looks were also after shyness (i.e. [[dominance hierarchy|low status]]), mentioned as the second common barrier in the [[Donnelly study]] with 47% of virgins and 56% of singles mentioning this factor, compared to only 9% of partnered people.
In a study of Reddit users answering why they are single (not necessarily incels) on AskReddit, most answered they were physically unattractive, with about half as many mentioning obesity (see [[causes of inceldom]]).<ref>https://doi.org/10.1007/s40806-018-0163-7</ref> Looks were also after shyness (i.e. [[dominance hierarchy|low status]]), mentioned as the second common barrier in the [[Donnelly study]] with 47% of virgins and 56% of singles mentioning this factor, compared to only 9% of partnered people.


However, sexually unsuccessful men's poor estimation of their physical attractiveness may be partly driven by lower-self esteem caused by their travails related to relationship formation, as some research has indicated that men's own estimates of their looks generally only correlate weakly with their attractiveness as rated with others, in contrast to women's self appraisals, which correlate highly with other's evaluations of their looks.{{Citation needed}}
Men seem to be much worse at accurately judging their own looks,<ref>http://doi.org/10.2307/3033724</ref> which may be a result of women competing much more in terms of looks and gossiping about one another's looks. [[Feminism|Feminists]] may construe this behavior as imposed by the patriarchy as a result of men strongly caring about looks, when in truth both men and women care about looks<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_rate_80.25_of_men_as_.22below_average.22.2C_while_men_rate_women_on_a_bell_curve</ref>, but women have extra incentive to conspicuously advertise themselves to attract a high status man, having a more [[sex drive#Female_passivity|passive sexuality]] all around. This may also explain women's harsher ratings resulting from an intuition to avoid initiating romance and giving men complements. Initiation would make it more difficult to reject a male as the initiator bears more responsibility.
 
Women do not seem to care more about looks as men (but roughly equally), so women's harsher ratings possibly result from an intuition to avoid initiating romance and giving men complements, having a more coy and [[sex drive#Female_passivity|passive sexuality]] all around. Initiation would make it more difficult to reject a male as the initiator bears more responsibility.


== Matching hypothesis ==
== Matching hypothesis ==
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