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'''Game''' is [[courtship]] display by [[charisma|charismatic behavior]] and speaking with [[beauty#Beautiful_behavior|flow and elegance]], much like dance, music or poetry. | |||
This is not to be confused with [[negging]] or [[Bullying|acting aggressively]]. Just like the way a person [[Beauty|looks]], and [[Fashion|dresses]], speech and behavior can be beautiful as well. | |||
read | Most lookism theorists and [[blackpill|blackpillers]] believe game is mostly determined by one's looks, and can hardly be improved for most incels. I.e. they believe good looking people are allowed to express themselves more than ugly people, and hence develop a more compelling demeanor. Indeed, multiple studies indicate that out of diverse measures of physical and personality traits, including extroversion, gregariousness and intelligence, only physical attractiveness predicts initial romantic interest and strongly so, meaning game is probably largely ineffective in one-on-one dating settings like blind or online dating.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_blind_dating</ref> However, game may be useful in other mating settings as it amounts to criteria important for social status. Someone who is smooth, eloquent and witty will be more popular, i.e will achieve higher [[dominance hierarchy|social status]] and hence get access to reproductive opportunities.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Men.27s_social_status_accounts_for_62.25_of_the_variance_of_copulation_opportunities</ref> | ||
== Autists lack game == | |||
Individuals with [[Asperger's Syndrome|Asperger's syndrome]] talk and act in a awkward manner which is for the most part not beautiful. | |||
[[Asperger's Syndrome|Autists]], in particular, have an excessively hyper-masculine communication style, with no sense of flair or aesthetics. Autists often respond in a delayed fashion and have facial expressions that mismatch with their speech content. This is often perceived as rude, blunt and direct. Autists also excessively use the personal pronouns I, you, he, she, it, me, him, her.{{citation needed}} And scarcely use the pronouns we, they, us, them. So autists come off as selfish, self centered, and lacking in empathy, contributing to their lack of likability. | |||
This communication style makes them bearable in any area were status is determined by rank and competence, instead of likability, such as in the military, but they struggle with friendships, and maintaining useful connections and relationships. Due to [[Halo effect|halo effect]], [[beauty|beautiful people]] are often forgiven, if they have no game. | |||
== Conversation game == | |||
Since [[beauty]] is about simplicity, brevity is key. Autists often bore with their overly detailed ramblings. | |||
Phonaesthetics is the study of beauty of sounds of words or parts of words.<ref>https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phonaesthetics</ref> | |||
Elegant, fancy words like ''luminescence'' are more attractive than words like ''guttural''. A study done in 1995 by David Crystal, determined what type of words sound attractive. | |||
* Words with three or more syllables (e.g., goss·a·mer and mel·o·dy) | |||
* Stress on the first syllable e.g., góssamer (GO-ssamer) and mélody (ME-lody) | |||
* /l/ is the most common consonant phoneme, followed by /m, s, n, k, t, d/, then a huge drop-off before others consonants (e.g., luminous contains the first four) | |||
* Short vowels (e.g., the schwa, followed in order by the vowels in bid, bed, and bad) are favored over long vowels and diphthongs (e.g., as in bide, bode, bowed) | |||
Three or more manners of articulation (with approximant consonants the most common, followed by stop consonants, and so on) | |||
A perfect example word, according to these findings, is tremulous. Crystal also suggests the invented words ramelon /ˈræməlɒn/ and drematol /ˈdrɛmətɒl/, which he notes are similar to the types of names often employed in the marketing of pharmaceutical drugs.<ref>http://www.davidcrystal.com/?fileid=-4009</ref> | |||
A quick and easy way to improve ones attractiveness is to start using an attractively named alias. For example, the name Lucien Labellous is automatically perceived as attractive, high class, and royal of European descent. Same for a name of Middlle Eastern descent, such as Aramar Jadavra. Or a name of African descent like Zomar Kovaku. Or finally, a name of Asian descent like Minkkhanadori Sensisimoor. | |||
A survey done in 2019 showed the most sexually attractive real life accent in the world is the Kiwi accent of people living in Australia.<ref>https://bigseventravel.com/2019/04/worlds-sexiest-accent//</ref> | |||
Multiple studies done on the importance of humor and physical attractiveness for different types of relationships, showed only physically attractive men, expressing humor were rated as more desirable than non-humorous individuals for a serious relationship and marriage. Humorous individuals were perceived to be more cheerful but less intellectual than non-humorous individuals.<ref>https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1475-6811.1998.tb00174.x</ref><ref>https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704915608744</ref> A different study found, self-deprecating humor by high-status presenters (but not low-status presenters) increased long-term attractiveness for both sexes.<ref>https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/147470490800600303</ref> | |||
== Music == | |||
Multiple studies show that being a musician enhances perceived physical attractiveness. For example, Three hundred young women were solicited in the street for their phone number by a young male confederate who held either a guitar case or a sports bag in his hands or had no bag at all. Results showed that holding a guitar case was associated with greater compliance to the request.<ref>https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0305735613482025</ref><ref>https://lebs.hbesj.org/index.php/lebs/article/view/66</ref><ref>https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/BF00995420</ref><ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0747563213002641</ref> | |||
== Gait == | |||
{{main_article|[[Gait]]}} | |||
Confident gait is key, bro. | |||
== Smells == | |||
A study done in 20011 showed that armpit odor pleasantness was the single attribute that consistently predicted attractiveness of nonverbal behavior.<ref>https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-011-9803-8</ref> In laymen's terms the better smelling the mans armpits the more attractive, his gait, as well as any other nonverbal movement, and armpit smell is the most important factor of nonverbal attractiveness, probably by [[halo effect]]. One study found [[fashion|pine]] is an objectively, generally attractive smell.<ref>https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.2466/pms.100.1.135-141</ref> 3 studies found [[Pretty Boy|the smell of flowers]] to be sexually attractive to women.<ref>https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00224545.2012.683463</ref><ref>https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00224545.2012.683463</ref> | |||
A scientific study on smoking and attractiveness showed, smokers prefer smokers and nonsmokers prefer nonsmokers, although smokers in general were rated less attractive. Physical attractiveness ratings were not influenced by status.<ref>https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/014616727900500328</ref> | |||
Another study where, two hundred twenty-nine subjects watched videotapes of men and women smoking or not smoking as part of a study on first impressions. The results indicated that (a) smoking models were perceived as more sexually active than nonsmokers regardless of the subjects' smoking status; (b) smoking female models were seen as less likable, less attractive, and less healthy than nonsmoking female models, whereas no such differences emerged between smoking and nonsmoking male models; and (c) although women reported no differences in their preference to engage in intimate behavior (e.g., petting, kissing) as a function of the male model's smoking status, men preferred to engage in such intimate behaviors more with nonsmoking females than with smoking females.<ref>https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1207/s15324834basp1302_5</ref> | |||
== Fashion == | |||
{{main_article|[[Fashion]]}} | |||
== Status == | |||
Displays of luxury, manipulated through brand labels on clothes, elicited different kinds of preferential treatment, which even resulted in financial benefits to people who engaged in conspicuous consumption.<ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1090513810001455</ref> | |||
=== Social media === | |||
Positive wall postings yielded higher safety assessments than negative statements by friends. Qualification was similarly affected; | |||
participants exposed to positive wall postings rated the profile owners more qualified than their counterparts who read negative statements. Both task and social attractiveness were influenced by the wall postings made by friends with regard to the profile owners. Task attractiveness of the profile owner was significantly higher when the statements from friends were positive than when negative; and profile owners were rated significantly more socially attractive when friends’ wall posting statements were positive than when they were negative.<ref>https://www.researchgate.net/publication/227674008_The_Role_of_Friends'_Appearance_and_Behavior_on_Evaluations_of_Individuals_on_Facebook_Are_We_Known_by_the_Company_We_Keep</ref> | |||
In layman's terms the more social media clout, the higher physical attractiveness of the clout members, and the more positive things they have to say about the profile owner, the higher social status as well as perceived social and physical attractiveness of the profile owner. Interestingly the study also found women to be attracted to anti-social posts/behavior (sexual innuendos, excessive binge drinking at a bar) by the male profile owner (but men found this unattractive in the female profile owner).<ref>https://www.researchgate.net/publication/227674008_The_Role_of_Friends'_Appearance_and_Behavior_on_Evaluations_of_Individuals_on_Facebook_Are_We_Known_by_the_Company_We_Keep</ref> | |||
This study confirms the anecdotal, social status maxxing tip of thuggmaxxing. Quote from the study: | |||
''An unanticipated interaction effect involving the sex of the profile owner and the nature of the wall statements was obtained with respect to the effect of friends’ Facebook Friends and Individual Evaluations J. B. Walther et al. 44 Human Communication Research 34 (2008) 28–49 ª 2008 International Communication Association comments on perceptions of the targets’ physical attractiveness. The negative statements depicted normatively undesirable behavior, as they involved sexual innuendo and insinuated that the target person was drinking excessively the previous night. These statements raised the desirability of a man’s appearance among the subject population in this study, whereas the residues of such behavior rendered the target physically unattractive when she is female.''<ref>https://www.researchgate.net/publication/227674008_The_Role_of_Friends'_Appearance_and_Behavior_on_Evaluations_of_Individuals_on_Facebook_Are_We_Known_by_the_Company_We_Keep</ref> | |||
Based on the studies results, the best way to objectively, increase social status (no faking) is unfriend, as many objectively physically unattractive friends as possible, and then add as many objectively physically attractive friends as possible. Post-anti social pictures and content, and delete any negative comments people have to say, but keep the positive. Essentially psychopath maxxing. | |||
=== Money === | |||
A study on car ownership and attractiveness showed that the male target model was rated as significantly more attractive on a rating scale of 1–10 when presented to female participants in the Silver Bentley Continental GT vs. the (Red Ford Fiesta ST). The luxury car, vs small family man van basically. One could argue the luxury cars greater angularity and sleekness is attractive, not the brand. However both are attractive. For example, a racecar is brandless, although is still sleek, looks fast, etc. A Lamborghini from the 1980s would most likely be a more attractiveness boosting car than a 2019 family sedan, because A. the Lamborghini has a sleeker design, and B. Lamborghini is a high status brand.<ref>https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1348/000712609X417319</ref> | |||
We found that men’s financial resources are positively associated with compliance with men's dating requests.<ref>https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2012-16556-006</ref> | |||
Similar to the car study above, a study showed the male confederate to be rated as significantly more physically attractive standing in the luxury apartment vs the neutral apartment.<ref>https://akademiai.com/doi/abs/10.1556/JEP.12.2014.1.1</ref> The results of these studies show that an expensive, fast living, high income, high spending lifestyle is the most attractive. | |||
== Psychopathy == | |||
[[Psychopathy]] seems to be one of the few personality traits that actually predict men's sexual success. Presumably once contact to a female is established it largely comes down to simply take advantage of her, which psychopaths will naturally do. Women also have a desire to be overpowered and potentially be raped, so they also find such approaches oddly exciting, which are of course ancient adaptations for the female testing the man for physical strength and his ability to protec. | |||
Strictly speaking, psychopathy is not game though, because it is not [[beauty|beautiful]]. | |||
== Heroism and coolness == | |||
Related to psychopathy, heroism is attractive in males and it is related to [[coolness]]. In fact, risk-taking, heroic men may have been selected for in the human past.<ref>https://www.academia.edu/26235404/Cracking_the_superhero_s_moral_code</ref> | |||
== References == | |||
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== See also == | |||
<div style="columns: 3 120px;"> | |||
* [[Courtship]] | |||
* [[Fisherian runaway]] | |||
* [[Aging]] | |||
* [[Lookism]] | |||
* [[Looks theory]] | |||
* [[Aesthetics]] | |||
* [[Halo effect]] | |||
* [[Looksmaxxing]] | |||
* [[:Category:Aesthetics]] | |||
* [[Fashion]] | |||
* [[Coolness]] | |||
* [[Beauty]] | |||
* [[N.L.P.|N.L.P]] | |||
</div> | |||
{{Redpill}} | |||