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* Bruch EE, Newman ME. 2018. ''Aspirational pursuit of mates in online dating markets.'' Science Advances. 4(8):eaap9815. [[https://advances.sciencemag.org/content/advances/4/8/eaap9815.full.pdf FullText]] | * Bruch EE, Newman ME. 2018. ''Aspirational pursuit of mates in online dating markets.'' Science Advances. 4(8):eaap9815. [[https://advances.sciencemag.org/content/advances/4/8/eaap9815.full.pdf FullText]] | ||
* Eibl-Eibesfeldt. 2017. ''Pair Formation, Courtship, Sexual Love.'' In: ''Human ethology.'' Routledge. [[https://books.google.com/books?id=-CExDwAAQBAJ&lpg=PT6&ots=KctjD7Zprm&dq=Pair%20Formation%2C%20Courtship%2C%20Sexual%20Love&pg=PT335#v=onepage&q=Pair%20Formation,%20Courtship,%20Sexual%20Love&f=false GoogleBooks]] | * Eibl-Eibesfeldt. 2017. ''Pair Formation, Courtship, Sexual Love.'' In: ''Human ethology.'' Routledge. [[https://books.google.com/books?id=-CExDwAAQBAJ&lpg=PT6&ots=KctjD7Zprm&dq=Pair%20Formation%2C%20Courtship%2C%20Sexual%20Love&pg=PT335#v=onepage&q=Pair%20Formation,%20Courtship,%20Sexual%20Love&f=false GoogleBooks]] | ||
=== In sexually liberated societies, only women decide when sex occurs === | |||
Cohen and Shotland (1996) computed correlations between when people thought sex should start and when they actually began having sex. For the men, the correlation was not significant (r = .19), which implies they had no say, whereas for women the correlation was very high (r = .88). Moreover, women rarely initiate, and hence get to choose. Hence it is likely that women cause this pattern somewhat more than men. | |||
<span style="font-size:125%">'''Discussion:'''</span> | |||
The fact that women get to choose result from the ''principle of least interest''. The party with the least interest gets to decide on nearly all conditions of a contract as the party with more interest has fewer alternative options that are as valuable to them and hence more likely makes compromises. This is also a cause of [[hypergamy]] as making compromises means dating down, which in turn implies that women date up. | |||
<span style="font-size:125%">'''References:'''</span> | |||
* Cohen LL, Shotland RL. 1996. ''Timing of first sexual intercourse in a relationship: Expectations, experiences, and perceptions of others.'' Journal of Sex Research. 33(4):291-9. [[https://doi.org/10.1080/00224499609551846 Abstract]] | |||
===<span style="font-family:'Linux Libertine, Georgia, Times, serif'; font-size: 24px; line-height: 1.2; font-weight: normal;" id="Women_prefer_men_with_high_income_and_high_educational_status">Women prefer men with high income and high educational status</span>=== | ===<span style="font-family:'Linux Libertine, Georgia, Times, serif'; font-size: 24px; line-height: 1.2; font-weight: normal;" id="Women_prefer_men_with_high_income_and_high_educational_status">Women prefer men with high income and high educational status</span>=== |