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== Benefits of belongingness == | == Benefits of belongingness == | ||
The extend to which sexual exclusion and frustration causes social exclusion seems to be unknown currently. | The extend to which sexual exclusion and frustration causes social exclusion seems to be unknown currently, but some research results suggest sexual status is quite important for men, e.g. women prefer men who have sex<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_are_more_attracted_to_men_who_are_already_in_relationships_than_single_men</ref> and sex may raise men's peer status.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Males_gained_peer_status_through_having_had_sex_and_females_lost_peer_status</ref> | ||
Clearer results exist for the adverse effects of social exclusion. A survey study by [[Roy Baumeister]] concluded belongingness is a fundamental need.<ref>https://doi.org/10.1037/0033-2909.117.3.497</ref> | Clearer results exist for the adverse effects of social exclusion. A survey study by [[Roy Baumeister]] concluded belongingness is a fundamental need.<ref>https://doi.org/10.1037/0033-2909.117.3.497</ref> | ||
Baumeister concludes quality is more important that quantity. "Having two as opposed to no close relationships may make a world of difference to the person's health and happiness; having eight as opposed to six may have very little consequence. Also more that two hours of socializing per day appears to have diminishing returns.<ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0092656618300369</ref> | Baumeister concludes quality is more important that quantity. "Having two as opposed to no close relationships may make a world of difference to the person's health and happiness; having eight as opposed to six may have very little consequence. Also more that two hours of socializing per day appears to have diminishing returns.<ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0092656618300369</ref> |