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==Life as an incel== | ==Life as an incel== | ||
[[File:Securityquestions.jpg|thumb|Awkwardness of inceldom]] | [[File:Securityquestions.jpg|thumb|Awkwardness of inceldom]] | ||
Life as an incel is miserable, especially | Life as an incel is miserable, especially for socially isolated incels. Isolation and sexlessness are associated with various [[Scientific Blackpill#tocHealth|health risks]]. One study found losing ones virginity late, e.g. after the mid 20s is associated with [[erectile dysfunction]] and [[anorgasmia]] later in life.<ref>http://web.archive.org/web/20170622044005/https://abcnews.go.com/Health/Sex/story?id=3932047</ref> | ||
Another study found that delayed sexual activity, "creates health risks by impeding development of the emotional, cognitive, and interpersonal skills that are crucial to satisfactory sexual functioning and general well-being."<ref>https://www.vice.com/en_ca/article/78bmza/the-cost-of-losing-your-virginity-late</ref> | Another study found that delayed sexual activity, "creates health risks by impeding development of the emotional, cognitive, and interpersonal skills that are crucial to satisfactory sexual functioning and general well-being."<ref>https://www.vice.com/en_ca/article/78bmza/the-cost-of-losing-your-virginity-late</ref> | ||
Of course, the causality is not clear in most of these studies, meaning it is not clear whether isolation creates health problems or unhealthy people are more likely socially isolated. But | Of course, the causality is not clear in most of these studies, meaning it is not clear whether isolation creates health problems or unhealthy people are more likely socially isolated. But some studies do show causal link. | ||
The public is strongly in favor of incels remaining asexual beings, which is likely driven by latent [[eugenic]] or [[racism|racist]] concerns, but increasingly also by environmentalist concerns (overpopulation). | The public is strongly in favor of incels remaining asexual beings, which is likely driven by latent [[eugenic]] or [[racism|racist]] concerns, but increasingly also by environmentalist concerns (overpopulation). | ||
The state has an interest to prevent people from reproducing who are unfit for raising children, yet it is amazingly ineffective at prohibiting those who are unfit from doing so, e.g. the most anti-social males that have a disproportionately greater amount of children<ref>https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12625439</ref><ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1090513814000774</ref> and sexual partners<ref>https://web.archive.org/web/20120513221622/http://abacon.com/ellis/tables/ch8.pdf</ref>. | |||
At the same time peaceful and motivated men have no chance, likely because women's standards have been spoiled by feminism and dating apps, because men are not raised to assert dominance and because people marry late or not at all, giving way to polygamous and open relationships which only benefits the most attractive men due to female [[hypergamy]]. | At the same time peaceful and motivated men have no chance, likely because women's standards have been spoiled by feminism and dating apps, because men are not raised to assert dominance and because people marry late or not at all, giving way to polygamous and open relationships which only benefits the most attractive men due to female [[hypergamy]]. | ||
Male incels are often met by disgust | Male incels are often met by disgust by women. Men have a lot less sexual disgust,<ref>https://psycnet.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037/emo0000389</ref> so this likely occurs more rarely for female incels. | ||
Life as an incel is particularly awkward whenever the topic of sex or relationships comes up. There is an overwhelming social expectation to be in a sexual relationship that is likely biological. Spending time with other males tends to be awkward because the lack of sexual activity otherwise may suggest that one is homosexual ([[homohysteria]]). People generally agree that one's sexual life is essential for feeling good about oneself and for one's social status and acceptance. Especially women find men who do not have sex less appealing. | Life as an incel is particularly awkward whenever the topic of sex or relationships comes up. There is an overwhelming social expectation to be in a sexual relationship that is likely biological. Spending time with other males tends to be awkward because the lack of sexual activity otherwise may suggest that one is homosexual ([[homohysteria]]). People generally agree that one's sexual life is essential for feeling good about oneself and for one's social status and acceptance. Especially women find men who do not have sex less appealing. | ||