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There is a host of evidence that women are much more choosy maters than men. For example, women receive on average 20 times as many matches as men on Tinder, which suggests men are more promiscuous.<ref>Gareth Tyson, Vasile C. Perta, Hamed Haddadi, Michael C. Seto, Queen Mary University of London, Sapienza University of Rome, Royal Ottawa Health Care Group A First Look at User Activity on Tinder</ref>
There is a host of evidence that women are much more choosy maters than men. For example, women receive on average 20 times as many matches as men on Tinder, which suggests men are more promiscuous.<ref>Gareth Tyson, Vasile C. Perta, Hamed Haddadi, Michael C. Seto, Queen Mary University of London, Sapienza University of Rome, Royal Ottawa Health Care Group A First Look at User Activity on Tinder</ref>
The top 10% of men get 58% of women's likes in online dating,<ref>https://hingeirl.com/hinge-reports/whats-the-biggest-challenge-men-face-on-dating-apps-a-qa-with-aviv-goldgeier-junior-growth-engineer</ref><ref>ttps://qz.com/1051462/these-statistics-show-why-its-so-hard-to-be-an-average-man-on-dating-apps/</ref>
The top 10% of men get 58% of women's likes in online dating,<ref>https://hingeirl.com/hinge-reports/whats-the-biggest-challenge-men-face-on-dating-apps-a-qa-with-aviv-goldgeier-junior-growth-engineer</ref><ref>ttps://qz.com/1051462/these-statistics-show-why-its-so-hard-to-be-an-average-man-on-dating-apps/</ref>
and even in online dating platforms with an even sex ratio, like OkCupid one finds women receive around 8 times as many messages. But lots of evidence can also be elsewhere, for example men would much more readily agree to unsolicited invitations to sex and they less likely regret casual sex. There are also very large sex differences in sexual disgust.
and even in online dating platforms with an even sex ratio, like OkCupid one finds women receive around 8 times as many messages. But lots of evidence can also be found elsewhere, for example men would much more readily agree to unsolicited invitations to sex<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Men_like_61.9.25_of_female_profiles.2C_women_like_only_4.5.25_of_male_profiles</ref> and they less likely regret casual sex. There are also very large sex differences in sexual disgust.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_feel_sexual_disgust_when_they_imagine_even_talking_to_an_unattractive_man</ref>


Women's [[hypergamy]] is their tendency or preference to ''date up'' and it is a particular expression of female choosiness. Namely, a woman tends to not only want a good partner, but one who is better than herself or better than other available partners or her current partner.  Men generally do not care about women's socioeconomic status, but women care a lot about men's status.<ref>ftp://repec.iza.org/RePEc/Discussionpaper/dp11933.pdf</ref>
Women's [[hypergamy]] is their tendency or preference to ''date up'' and it is a particular expression of their choosiness. Namely, a woman tends to not only want a good partner, but one who is better than herself or better than other available partners or her current partner.  Men do not care about women's socioeconomic status and achievements, but women care a lot about men's.<ref>ftp://repec.iza.org/RePEc/Discussionpaper/dp11933.pdf</ref><ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_feel_sexual_disgust_when_they_imagine_even_talking_to_an_unattractive_man</ref>
Women with higher income tend to have preference for a man with even higher income, while men have no such preferences.<ref>https://doi.org/10.1146/annurev-psych-010418-103408</ref>
Women with higher income tend to have preference for a man with even higher income, while men have no such preferences.<ref>https://doi.org/10.1146/annurev-psych-010418-103408</ref>
Women are also prone to instability when they are more attractive than their male partner.<ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S019188691500505X</ref>
Women are also prone to instability when they are more attractive than their male partner.<ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S019188691500505X</ref>
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And as women surpass more men in socioeconomic status, hypergamy implies that more men are becoming sexually unattractive.
And as women surpass more men in socioeconomic status, hypergamy implies that more men are becoming sexually unattractive.


Hypergamy naturally follows from sex differences in sex drive: Men have a [[Libido|higher sex drive]],<ref>https://www.semanticscholar.org/paper/Is-There-a-Gender-Difference-in-Strength-of-Sex-and-Baumeister-Catanese/5f8446340d4ed375007351539e7993fa44e2e31b</ref>
Hypergamy naturally follows from sex differences in sex drive and women's preference for high status men: Men have a [[Libido|higher sex drive]],<ref>https://www.semanticscholar.org/paper/Is-There-a-Gender-Difference-in-Strength-of-Sex-and-Baumeister-Catanese/5f8446340d4ed375007351539e7993fa44e2e31b</ref>
possibly because they have less [[Bateman's principle|parental investment]].
possibly because they have less [[Bateman's principle|parental investment]].
This results in women having much more options to choose from and in chronic sexual frustration for most men.<ref>Baumeister, R.F. and Tice, D.M., 2001. The social dimension of sex. Allyn & Bacon.</ref>
This results in women having much more options to choose from and in chronic sexual frustration for most men.<ref>Baumeister, R.F. and Tice, D.M., 2001. The social dimension of sex. Allyn & Bacon.</ref>
Since men have fewer alternative mating options available to them, they more readily make compromises and date down,<ref>https://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71503.pdf</ref>
Since men have fewer alternative mating options available to them, they more readily make compromises and date down,<ref>https://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71503.pdf</ref>
particularly if they experience frequent rejection.<ref>https://econtent.hogrefe.com/doi/abs/10.1027/1864-9335/a000392</ref>
particularly, if they experience frequent rejection.<ref>https://econtent.hogrefe.com/doi/abs/10.1027/1864-9335/a000392</ref>
The intrasexual competition between men over access to women is believed to have shaped men's psychology.<ref>http://doi.org/10.1002/9781119125563.evpsych113</ref>
The intrasexual competition between men over access to women is believed to have shaped men's psychology.<ref>http://doi.org/10.1002/9781119125563.evpsych113</ref>
These sex differences imply that social expectations for men are overall higher and that [[Femcel|femcels]] are rarer than male incels and more likely [[Volcel|volcels]].
These sex differences imply that social expectations for men are overall higher and that [[Femcel|femcels]] are rarer than male incels and more likely [[Volcel|volcels]].


If men provide for woman, they want more than just sex in return. They also want certainty that the offspring is theirs which is a problem that women do not face.<ref>https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12496732</ref> From the point of view of the genes, raising another man's child is equivalent to losing a child before it could reproduce.
One can regard sexual relationships as a deal and study them with the principles of economics.
But women also want something from men:
Women wan resources from men because women have been dependent on men's resources throughout history.<ref>https://doi.org/10.2307/3773347</ref>
Women have been dependent on men's resources throughout history, for example, in historical societies women were much more involved in cooking than in resource extraction.<ref>https://doi.org/10.2307/3773347</ref> One can thus model the sexual market as one in which men can sell the resources and women can sell exclusive access to sex.<ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S016748701630277X</ref><ref>https://d-nb.info/997448148/34</ref> This means, welfare and affirmative action for women, as well as decreasing economic growth and increasing economic inequality, tend to reduce the [[sexual market value]] of lots of men because provision of resources are men's main goods. Women's sexual market value is, on the other hand, rather determined by their looks and reputation manipulation.<ref>https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jesp.2018.03.011</ref> The economics in such kind of sexual market are believed to also give rise hypergamy.<ref>https://d-nb.info/997448148/34</ref>
Men want sex and also certainty that the offspring in which they invest their resources is theirs (a problem that women do not face).<ref>https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12496732</ref>
One can thus model the sexual market as one in which men can sell the resources and women can sell exclusive access to sex.<ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S016748701630277X</ref><ref>https://d-nb.info/997448148/34</ref>
This means, welfare and affirmative action for women, as well as decreasing economic growth and increasing economic inequality, tend to reduce the [[sexual market value]] of lots of men because provision of resources are men's main goods.
Women's sexual market value is, on the other hand, rather determined by their looks, reputation and gossip.<ref>https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jesp.2018.03.011</ref>
The economics in such kind of sexual market are believed to also give rise hypergamy.<ref>https://d-nb.info/997448148/34</ref>


There is evidence that hypergamy has intensified in the recent years. Namely, the top 5-20% of men (i.e. "[[Chad|Chads]]") are now having more sex than ever before.<ref>Harper CR, Dittus PJ, Leichliter JS, Aral, SO. Changes in the Distribution of Sex Partners in the United States: 2002 to 2011–2013. Sexually Transmitted Diseases: February 2017 - Volume 44 - Issue 2 - p 96–100. doi: 10.1097/OLQ.0000000000000554</ref><ref>https://journals.lww.com/stdjournal/Fulltext/2017/02000/Changes_in_the_Distribution_of_Sex_Partners_in_the.5.aspx</ref>  
There is evidence that hypergamy has intensified in the recent years. Namely, the top 5-20% of men (i.e. "[[Chad|Chads]]") are now having more sex than ever before.<ref>Harper CR, Dittus PJ, Leichliter JS, Aral, SO. Changes in the Distribution of Sex Partners in the United States: 2002 to 2011–2013. Sexually Transmitted Diseases: February 2017 - Volume 44 - Issue 2 - p 96–100. doi: 10.1097/OLQ.0000000000000554</ref><ref>https://journals.lww.com/stdjournal/Fulltext/2017/02000/Changes_in_the_Distribution_of_Sex_Partners_in_the.5.aspx</ref>  
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