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A '''nice guy''' is a [[beta]] male who acts agreeable and pleasant towards either sex, often [[shy]], [[social awkwardness|socially awkward]] and bad at flirting. [[Blackpill]]ers and [[redpill]]ers accuse nice guys of being [[bluepill|bluepilled]] about women's mating preferences, and predict their best hope is to be [[betabux]]xed to a post-[[wall]] | A '''nice guy''' is a [[beta]] [[Men|male]] who acts agreeable and pleasant towards either [[Copulation|sex]], often [[shy]], [[social awkwardness|socially awkward]] and bad at [[flirting]]. [[Blackpill]]ers and [[redpill]]ers accuse nice guys of being [[bluepill|bluepilled]] about [[Femoid|women]]'s mating preferences, and predict their best hope is to be [[betabux]]xed to a post-[[wall]] foid, provided foids are being encouraged to [[demographics|marry very late]]. Nice guy's niceness and tendency to smile is commonly explained by [[dominance hierarchy|low dominance status]], [[neuroatypicality]], physical weakness, religious or [[gynocentrism|gynocentric]] domestication, or a genetic disposition for [[shyness]]. Many nice guys may genetically be slow [[life history]] strategists, programmed to wait [[arranged marriage|to be married]] which never occurs in modern society. | ||
== Women prefer bullies over nice men == | == Women prefer bullies over nice men == | ||
[[File:Eee.jpg|330px|right|thumb|The Chad is [[Jeremy Meeks]]; the looksmatch is [[St. Blackops2cel]].]] | [[File:Eee.jpg|330px|right|thumb|The Chad is [[Jeremy Meeks]]; the looksmatch is [[St. Blackops2cel]].]] | ||
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These insights are central to the [[red pill]], [[black pill]], and the countless clickbaity news articles about how "[[Asshole#Women_choose_psychopaths_disproportionately|women love psychopaths]]", and they are related to [[hybristophilia]], i.e. women's sexual interest in criminal and violent males. | These insights are central to the [[red pill]], [[black pill]], and the countless clickbaity news articles about how "[[Asshole#Women_choose_psychopaths_disproportionately|women love psychopaths]]", and they are related to [[hybristophilia]], i.e. women's sexual interest in criminal and violent males. | ||
The immense contradiction between the socially desired male niceness and goodness and their low sexual success as a result of female mate choice has motivated mass murderers [[Elliot Rodger]] and [[Alek Minassian]], claiming themselves to be "supreme gentlemen" and thus deserving female sexual attention. Minassian explicitly stated having been "too nice" to women,<ref>https://youtube.com/watch?v=qhnd9J6dNSA?t=2418</ref><ref>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qhnd9J6dNSA&t=6882</ref> though later he confessed he was not primarily driven by retaliation against women and only used incel memes as a veneer to gain popularity.<ref>https://www.ontariocourts.ca/decisions/2021ONSC1258.pdf</ref> | The immense contradiction between the socially desired male niceness and goodness and their low sexual success as a result of female mate choice has motivated mass murderers [[Elliot Rodger]] and [[Alek Minassian]], claiming themselves to be "supreme gentlemen" and thus deserving female sexual attention. Minassian explicitly stated having been "too nice" to women,<ref>https://youtube.com/watch?v=qhnd9J6dNSA?t=2418</ref><ref>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qhnd9J6dNSA&t=6882</ref> though later he confessed he was not primarily driven by retaliation against women and only used incel [[Meme|memes]] as a veneer to gain popularity.<ref>https://www.ontariocourts.ca/decisions/2021ONSC1258.pdf</ref> | ||
An explanation for women's preference for bullies may be the [[bodyguard hypothesis]]. A very nice man can't protect. Excessively warmhearted men are also often perceived as [[creepy]] and suspect and manipulative,<ref>https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2009/07/27/the-kindest-cut</ref> which they may as well be. Excessive niceness is also awkward [[signaling theory|signaling]] as it is perceived as desperate, which in turn points to prior failure and flaws. | An explanation for women's preference for bullies may be the [[bodyguard hypothesis]]. A very nice man can't protect. Excessively warmhearted men are also often perceived as [[creepy]] and suspect and manipulative,<ref>https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2009/07/27/the-kindest-cut</ref> which they may as well be. Excessive niceness is also awkward [[signaling theory|signaling]] as it is perceived as desperate, which in turn points to prior failure and flaws. | ||
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Both [[womanosphere|womanospherians]] and [[manosphere|manospherians]] accuse many men of being "fake nice", but in different ways. | Both [[womanosphere|womanospherians]] and [[manosphere|manospherians]] accuse many men of being "fake nice", but in different ways. | ||
Womanospherians seem to have a problem with virtually all genuinely nice guys, but will label them as Nice Guys™ nonetheless (see [https://old.reddit.com/r/niceguys /r/niceguys]). They deem all actual nice guys as fake nice guys, distracting from the fact that women reward | [[Womanosphere|Womanospherians]] seem to have a problem with virtually all genuinely nice guys, but will label them as Nice Guys™ nonetheless (see [https://old.reddit.com/r/niceguys /r/niceguys]). They deem all actual nice guys as fake nice guys, distracting from the fact that women reward anti-social behaviour. They see it as hypocritical when nice guys get angry at the fact that most women in the Western world do not find nice guys sexually attractive. Because anger is often not nice when directed outwardly. | ||
Womanospherians also have a problem with actual fake nice guys, but so does everyone else. | Womanospherians also have a problem with actual fake nice guys, but so does everyone else. | ||