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** Only met fast [[life history]] [[BPD|BPD chicks]] who crave being humiliated by [[Chad]] | ** Only met fast [[life history]] [[BPD|BPD chicks]] who crave being humiliated by [[Chad]] | ||
** No access to opposite sex partners e.g. due to [[locationcel|location]], life situation, low prevalence of same-aged people, skewed [[sex ratio]]s, etc. | ** No access to opposite sex partners e.g. due to [[locationcel|location]], life situation, low prevalence of same-aged people, skewed [[sex ratio]]s, etc. | ||
==Incel and volcel categories== | ==Incel and volcel categories== | ||
One can broadly distinguish different demographic groups that experience mating difficulties or voluntarily abstain from sex: | One can broadly distinguish different demographic groups that experience mating difficulties or voluntarily abstain from sex: | ||
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'''[[Evolutionary mismatch]]''': Circumstances are so different from natural human nature that they adversely affect human sexuality, i.e. that our adaptation ''mismatch'' out environment. | '''[[Evolutionary mismatch]]''': Circumstances are so different from natural human nature that they adversely affect human sexuality, i.e. that our adaptation ''mismatch'' out environment. | ||
*'''Hyper-individualism''': Historically, marriages were predominantly arranged, so people may be confused with the entire notion of finding a partner without guidance by the parents etc. or community, especially since communities are increasingly deteriorating (possibly due to an aging population).<ref>https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704919887706</ref> This may e.g. express in a decline of enforced monogamy, causing people to be married every later, a trend that really started to gain traction with the rise of [[political correctness]] in the mid 1990s.<ref>https://www.jsmp.dk/posts/2019-04-31-sexlessness/</ref> People may have an expectation to be married rather than making their own choices as arranged marriage was a very common occurrence in human's past, affecting around 70% of marriages in a large sample of contemporary foraging societies<ref>https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704919887706</ref><ref>http://dieoff.com/_Biology/BeautyAndTheBeast.pdf 3.3.3. Does female choice drive male dominance competition?</ref> and arranged marriage were also prevalent in Medieval Europe.<ref>http://www.dfwx.com/medieval_cult.html</ref> As people less likely own land | *'''Hyper-individualism''': Historically, marriages were predominantly arranged, so people may be confused with the entire notion of finding a partner without guidance by the parents etc. or community, especially since communities are increasingly deteriorating (possibly due to an aging population).<ref>https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704919887706</ref> This may e.g. express in a decline of enforced monogamy, causing people to be married every later, a trend that really started to gain traction with the rise of [[political correctness]] in the mid 1990s.<ref>https://www.jsmp.dk/posts/2019-04-31-sexlessness/</ref> People may have an expectation to be married rather than making their own choices as arranged marriage was a very common occurrence in human's past, affecting around 70% of marriages in a large sample of contemporary foraging societies<ref>https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704919887706</ref><ref>http://dieoff.com/_Biology/BeautyAndTheBeast.pdf 3.3.3. Does female choice drive male dominance competition?</ref> and arranged marriage were also prevalent in Medieval Europe.<ref>http://www.dfwx.com/medieval_cult.html</ref> As people less likely own land, are more replaceable and have less responsibility, there is a decreased need for arranging marriages as concepts like lineage and inheritance lose their meaning (in addition to liberalism, an overemphasis on personal freedom, destroying such institutions). | ||
*'''Emancipation and affirmative action''': Women's status inflation and affirmative action driven by a push for greater female workplace participation together with the [[sexual revolution]], creating an evolutionary novel situation in which many women occupy higher status than men.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill_(Supplemental)#Women_were_historically_predominantly_involved_in_cooking_and_they_never_dominated_men</ref> This results in demotivation of men, but in combination with [[hypergamy]] and women's preference to be [[female subordination|dominated]], it also leads women to be unsatisfied with most men. | *'''Emancipation and affirmative action''': Women's status inflation and affirmative action driven by a push for greater female workplace participation together with the [[sexual revolution]], creating an evolutionary novel situation in which many women occupy higher status than men.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill_(Supplemental)#Women_were_historically_predominantly_involved_in_cooking_and_they_never_dominated_men</ref> This results in demotivation of men, but in combination with [[hypergamy]] and women's preference to be [[female subordination|dominated]], it also leads women to be unsatisfied with most men. | ||
*'''Women's economic independence''': As women decreasingly depend on men's resources, they have less incentives to pair up with them, especially with men of lower SMV, so they can afford to be more choosy about looks and other factors, exaggerating female [[hypergamy]] and choosiness. | *'''Women's economic independence''': As women decreasingly depend on men's resources, they have less incentives to pair up with them, especially with men of lower SMV, so they can afford to be more choosy about looks and other factors, exaggerating female [[hypergamy]] and choosiness. | ||
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'''Developmental insults, [[Mutation|mutants]] & social epistasis amplification''': Increased mutational load mainly due to milder living conditions and modern medicine drastically reducing infant mortality,<ref>https://doi.org/10.1007/s40806-017-0084-x</ref> as well as pollution (e.g. xenoestrogens), and/or changes in diet may have lead to a decline of masculine features, such as robust [[mandible]], [[compact midface]],<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Men_with_dominant.2C_aggressive_faces_.28high_fWHR.29_are_preferred_for_short_term_relationships</ref> and also reduced testosterone levels and hence reduced muscle mass, but also to a higher incident rate of all kinds of diseases (obesity, underweight) and mental conditions, e.g. autism. Likewise, sperm count has reduced as much as 50% in the past decades. Such changes should predict that more men now fall below what is objectively deemed as lowest bar for physical attractiveness by most women, and also more men fail to intimidate any other men in dominance contests, leading to increased incel rates. Others have proposed a feedback loop of mutants disrupting society and the thereby degraded society disrupting mutant's and other peoples' social lives, including sex lives (social epistasis amplification).<ref name="ref177"></ref><ref>https://www.amazon.com/Modernity-Cultural-Decline-Biobehavioral-Perspective/dp/3030329836</ref><ref>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mn7VCTexGiU The social-epistasis amplification model in mice and men</ref> Counter evidence to mutational load being a major cause of inceldom is e.g. extremely inbred regions in the world, where people continue to mate regardless. | '''Developmental insults, [[Mutation|mutants]] & social epistasis amplification''': Increased mutational load mainly due to milder living conditions and modern medicine drastically reducing infant mortality,<ref>https://doi.org/10.1007/s40806-017-0084-x</ref> as well as pollution (e.g. xenoestrogens), and/or changes in diet may have lead to a decline of masculine features, such as robust [[mandible]], [[compact midface]],<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Men_with_dominant.2C_aggressive_faces_.28high_fWHR.29_are_preferred_for_short_term_relationships</ref> and also reduced testosterone levels and hence reduced muscle mass, but also to a higher incident rate of all kinds of diseases (obesity, underweight) and mental conditions, e.g. autism. Likewise, sperm count has reduced as much as 50% in the past decades. Such changes should predict that more men now fall below what is objectively deemed as lowest bar for physical attractiveness by most women, and also more men fail to intimidate any other men in dominance contests, leading to increased incel rates. Others have proposed a feedback loop of mutants disrupting society and the thereby degraded society disrupting mutant's and other peoples' social lives, including sex lives (social epistasis amplification).<ref name="ref177"></ref><ref>https://www.amazon.com/Modernity-Cultural-Decline-Biobehavioral-Perspective/dp/3030329836</ref><ref>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mn7VCTexGiU The social-epistasis amplification model in mice and men</ref> Counter evidence to mutational load being a major cause of inceldom is e.g. extremely inbred regions in the world, where people continue to mate regardless. | ||
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==Evidence from LoveNotAnger== | ==Evidence from LoveNotAnger== | ||
In June 2019, as part of [[Alana]]'s LoveNotAnger project, a survey was conducted researching inceldom and singledom.<ref>https://www.lovenotanger.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/dating-difficulties-survey-results-2019-06-26.pdf</ref> Out of 713 respondents (64% male), only 8% had no dating experience. | In June 2019, as part of [[Alana]]'s LoveNotAnger project, a survey was conducted researching inceldom and singledom.<ref>https://www.lovenotanger.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/dating-difficulties-survey-results-2019-06-26.pdf</ref> Out of 713 respondents (64% male), only 8% had no dating experience. | ||