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[[File:Tallulah.jpg|thumb|right|Tallulah Bankhead, Hollywood actress, was infamous for her wildly promiscuous bisexual behavior.]]

Among the behavioral traits of sluts, it appears they tend to be disinterested in long-term bonding, with sluts typically seeking either rapid access to a man's resources or prioritizing their sexual pleasure.

This lack of a general disposition towards relational fidelity may be revealed by sluts behaving in such ways as being overly flirty with men and wearing sexually provocative clothing, things that provoke their man's [[mate guarding]] and [[female subordination and submission|restraint]], and being overall a brat.  

As such, men often engage in slut-shaming, partly to [[paternity assurance|ensure paternity]], whereas women engage in it as a means of [[intrasexual competition]] as men and others care about it. A tendency towards characterizing a more desirable female rival as a "slut" may also suit certain women's conceited nature.

In the case of mothers, impulses to restrict other women's promiscuity may be explicable due to these actions resulting in their sons running less risk of falling prey to cuckoldry, thus increasing the women's own [[reproductive success]] in the long term.<ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S109051381730363X</ref>

===Women inciting male competition===

{{quote|There is a good principle which created order, light, and man, and an evil principle which created chaos, darkness, and woman.|[[Timeless quotes on women|Pythagoras von Samos]]}}

Women benefit from the chaos of testing and selecting among many men by inciting competition among men for their affections to eventually get chosen by the strongest and most determined male possible.

Men, as a group, benefit from order, from reining in their women's whoredom, i.e., via [[mate guarding]] her from contending males she arouses interest from, and also to [[paternity assurance|ensure]] the offspring he invests in is his own.

The man also does not want to lose face owing to being [[cuckoldry|cucked]] or having his mate [[mate poaching|poached]] by some other man.

Thus, for men, the dissolution of a relationship more often means restarting from zero, amassing and investing his resources anew, perhaps explaining the higher suicide rate among young male widowers compared to widows.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Being_widowed_in_one.27s_20s_increases_suicide_risk_by_.7E17x_for_men.2C_but_only_.7E4x_for_women</ref>

===Female sexual reluctance===

Some have observed this sort of animalistic courtship behavior applies to humans, and indeed, it does seem that [[rape|sexual coercion]] is by no means an uncommon aspect of human mating behavior.<ref>Eibl-Eibesfeldt I. 1989. "Pair Formation, Courtship, Sexual Love." In: ''Human Ethology.'' Routledge. [[https://books.google.com/books?id=-CExDwAAQBAJ&lpg=PT6&ots=KctjD7Zprm&dq=Pair%20Formation%2C%20Courtship%2C%20Sexual%20Love&pg=PT335#v=onepage&q=Pair%20Formation,%20Courtship,%20Sexual%20Love&f=false Excerpt]]</ref><ref name="eibl1990">Eibl-Eibesfeldt I. 1990. "Dominance, Submission, and Love: Sexual Pathologies from the Perspective of Ethology." In: Feierman, J. R. (ed.): Pedophilia. Biosocial Dimensions. Springer-Verlag, New York, 1990 151-175. [[https://doi.org/10.1007/978-1-4613-9682-6_6 Abstract]]</ref>

It sexually rewards anti-social and non-altruistic males and directly disincentivizes the pursuit of more civilized courtship behaviors among men and creates highly perverse incentives. As such, it is common in the more [[evolutionary psychology|evo-psych]] aware quarters of the [[manosphere]] to assert that women may have been subject to [[reproductive success|less selection pressure]], essentially leaving their minds (as it pertains to mating), in the stone-age or even earlier periods of human development.

There is some evidence that more women may exhibit a stronger preference for overtly violent, anti-social, and insensitive men in the context of short-term relationships,<ref>https://bmcwomenshealth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12905-020-01131-1</ref> and such preferences would leave women that heavily pursue such relationships (sluts) at higher risk of being sexually assaulted if they were initialized.

===Slut hate===

{{main_article|[[Slut-shaming]]}}

Men often hate sluts as they tease them with what they cannot have, causing envy, resentment, [[hulseyism|unwanted erections]], distracting them, and so on.

Another likely predictor of slut hate, ironically, among men is a stronger behavioral disposition towards a casual dating strategy on behalf of the men, as the esteemed English playwright William Shakespeare noted and eloquently stated in his "King Lear":{{quote|"Thou rascal beadle, hold thy bloody hand!

Since men do not desire sluts as long-term partners, women can increase their sexual chances by insinuating and gossiping that other women, particularly sexual rivals, are sluts.<ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0022103117304195</ref><ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_write_45.0-61.3.25_of_all_.27misogynistic.27_tweets_on_Twitter_about_female_promiscuity</ref>

Men desire sluts for short-term encounters with zero investment to simply spread their seed but generally dislike marrying and investing in slutty women as they might prove to be particularly difficult to contain.

== Sluts are [[roastie|loose]] ==

Most women referred to as "sluts" reserve the bulk of their sexual favors for attractive men. These "common sluts" range from 4-7 in attractiveness and take turns getting fucked by multiple 8+/10 males. By doing this they boost [[hypergamy]], leaving their [[looksmatch|looksmatches]] [[incel]]. Once such a variety of penetration has loosened up a woman's vagina, she sometimes begins needing two partners at the same time to feel anything, thereby becoming a double-stuffer.

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==The theoretical slut==

Sex-positive [[feminism|feminists]], and even [[Alex Undersky|some incels]], argue that the [[sexual revolution]] and the resulting increased social acceptability of slutty behavior is generally good for men as women's [[promiscuity]] increased by social engineering will "trickle down" to the "lower strata" of men.

Even sluts are not entirely indiscriminate in the men they have chosen to have sex with, however this desirability is defined.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/File:Hypergamy12.jpg</ref>

== Slutpride ==

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In the mid-2010s, many [[women]] took it to the streets to make it well known they are promiscuous, seeking to "reclaim" the word and [[cope|disassociate it from any negative connotations]]. These confessed sluts asserted that the primary raison d'être for these demonstrations was to rebuke a "patriarchal [[rape]] culture," particularly as it pertains to so-called "rape myths" that associate greater female promiscuity with sexual victimization and society's greater acceptance of this when it is directed towards sluts.<ref>https://digitalcommons.uri.edu/jfs/vol4/iss4/3/</ref>

==Causes of sluttishness==

[[File:Changes in premarital sex partners.PNG||thumb|right|American women’s premarital sex partner count has greatly increased in the last 40 years]]

Arguably the leading cause of sluttishness is the slut's desire to arouse attention from high-status or otherwise desirable men. As women's mating strategy is primarily passive (at least in the initial stages of courtship), women often seek to arouse men or otherwise [[signaling theory|signal]] desirable characteristics openly to entice men to approach them and initiate the courtship process. This need to engage in displays of overt displays of sexual availability (tacit or implicit) may also explain women's seeming greater propensity to engage in attention-seeking behavior and the tremendous hedonic pleasure they seem to receive when their conspicuous sexual displays are rewarded by male attention.

As men are typically hornier than women, more drawn towards short-term mating in general,<ref>https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17975724/</ref> and are punished less for being promiscuous (cross-culturally, generally actually attaining greater peer-status in proportion to their level of promiscuity to a degree)<ref>https://digitalcommons.humboldt.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1008&context=senior_comm</ref> it would appear that the most effective (at least in the short-term) way for women to gain men's attention is to engage in slutty behavior, for example via wearing [[leggings|tight, revealing clothing]], engaging in various forms of body modification, adopting [[lordosis|sexually provocative poses]], and so forth.

Theoretically, the major restraints against the widespread adoption of this attention-whoring strategy would be the social opprobrium that sluts accrue (typically directed at sluts from other women), the societal maintenance of strong religious or cultural taboos (indeed, historically often aimed mainly, or even solely, in the direction of restricting female sexuality, apart from the exception of Christianity and Islam to a lesser degree), or the need to maintain one's chastity to be able to attract a particularly desirable and provident male partner.

As the [[sexual revolution]] was essentially a substantial reduction of the historically typical expectation of extra-marital sexual restraint on behalf of the mass of the fairer sex, it is likely that this removal swiftly caused or heightened a certain 'slut-envy' on behalf of less promiscuous women. With religious beliefs declining and men keen to maximize their sexual success, the only restraint on female sexual signaling was increasing "slut-shaming", mainly perpetrated by other women.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Promiscuous_women_are_more_incompetent.2C_cold.2C_and_unstable.2C_according_to_women</ref>

This heightened female intrasexual competition may have led to a cascade of slutty behavior forming from a feedback loop wherein women were/are increasingly competing with each other via dressing and behaving in sexually provocative ways to extract maximum attention from men.  

Where economical, biological, or social incentives gear women towards a [[life history|fast life history]] strategy, one would expect this process of sluttification to be even more pronounced, with less negative feedback in terms of social reinforcement of chastity norms being in place in such milieus to halt the remorseless progression of this slut signaling by women.

===Economic incentives===

Increasing female economic independence from men (at least in terms of being directly dependent on male provision) due to modern welfare states, modernity in general, technological advances, and the widespread inclusion of women in the workforce has also likely contributed to this behavior. When women do not have a strong need to maintain a reputation for virtue to be seen as a viable marriage prospect for men, they are therefore more free to behave in a promiscuous manner. Men's desire for chaste women thus effectively degrades, as it becomes increasingly absurd and unreasonable for them to demand completely chaste women in a society where premarital sex is normalized outside of strict religious subcultures.

Economic incentives can drive parents to sexualize their daughters to attract a well-earning man, especially in a climate of hyper-sexualized pop culture and in times of increasing economic uncertainty and inequality. Indeed, women, in general, are found to be more sexualized on social media under such conditions.<ref>Blake KR, Bastian B, Denson TF, Grosjean P and Brooks RC. 2018. "Income inequality not gender inequality positively covaries with female sexualization on social media." [[http://www.pnas.org/content/early/2018/08/20/1717959115 Abstract]]</ref>

===Other causes===

{{main_article|[[Life history]]}}

Increasing female promiscuity subsequent to the sexual revolution can be shown by there being a strong secular trend towards increasing female premarital promiscuity from the second half of the 20th century onwards in Western countries.

In more modern times, the deferred age of first marriage also likely contributes to promiscuity among certain women, as it is perhaps unreasonable to expect the majority of them to remain utterly chaste until their late 20s or even 30s (in many countries).

==Behavior of sluts==

Promiscuous women often exhibit [[borderline personality disorder]] and psychopathy,<ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886916311278</ref> and appear to be more impulsive and have shorter time horizons (less likely to plan for the future).<ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886917300697</ref>

Somewhat to the contrary of this association with slutdom and highly unpleasant female behavior, there is also some evidence that there is a curvilinear association with interpersonal warmth and sluttishness, i.e., sluts may be more likely to be both highly warm or highly cold and disagreeable.<ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0092656607000220</ref>

==Are all modern Western women sluts?==

Contrary to the general impression within the [[manosphere]], there is not much evidence of female promiscuity having sharply increased in recent decades, with female [[promiscuity]] seeming to have stabilized in the 1980s in most Western countries. In [[demographics#Germany|Germany]], [[demographics#France|France]], and the [[demographics|In the U.S.]], sexlessness has increased for women in the recent decades, likely due to weaker monogamy norms, later marriage, feminism shifting women's focus from reproduction to work, increasing social atomization, low birth rates and the resulting 'helicopter' parenting.

One could argue that the (historically unusual) large amount of young single women play a role in this, with these women not having a male partner to induce them to dress more modestly and with these women also being prone to dressing in a revealing manner to advertise themselves sexually to desirable male partners, also increasing intrasexual competition among both sexes.

So there do seem to be substantial country-level variations in female promiscuity and sluttiness, even among Western countries, and arguably also variation between different subcultures. (However, it should be noted that the survey by Durex has been criticized for undersampling, a criticism that reveals a lack of statistical nous as even relatively small surveys can be valid as long as the sample is representative of the general population).<ref>https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2017/05/12/methods-101-random-sampling/</ref>

== Aversion towards sluts==

=== Male aversion towards sluts===

[[File:Nicolas-francois-octave-tassaert-la-femme-damnee-1859.jpg|350px|thumb|right|Artistic depiction of a 'fallen woman' from 1859.]]

There is some evidence that a preference for chaste mates may be partially hardwired in men, owing to their evolutionary history. A promiscuous woman is a poor investment for a long-term relationship, due to the greater risk she may [[cuckold]] the man,<ref>https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00224498309551166</ref> or indeed may [[single mom|already have dependent offspring]] that compete with his potential offspring for resources.

This may be more due to simple [[virtue signaling |male resignation to the widespread mainstreaming of slutdom]] than indicative of any underlying male shift in attitudes on this issue.  

On the contrary to the male preference for chastity when it comes to long-term partners, there is evidence that female promiscuity is moderately desired by men in a female partner when they are seeking casual sexual encounters, due to perceptions of sluts being 'easier' and 'less clingy' (easier to [[pump and dump]]).<ref name=" Buss"/>

This shift in preference could be seen as evidence for the psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud's (in)famous assertion (stolen from [[Otto Weininger]]) of the existence of a "Madonna/whore" complex on behalf of men, at least in the sense of men exhibiting their dual-mating strategy where they group women into these categories readily and prefer each kind of woman for different mating contexts. This male complex can be contrasted with women's apparent similarly Manichean categorization of men into "dads and cads," i.e., emotionally distant and threatening, but attractive men that are desired primarily for short-term relationships and less attractive but more empathetic warm men who are preferred for longer-term relationships.

===Female aversion towards sluts===

Women, on the other hand, generally dislike promiscuous women, maybe even "more so" than men.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_write_45.0-61.3.25_of_all_.27misogynistic.27_tweets_on_Twitter_about_female_promiscuity</ref> One reason is that sluts present a risk of destabilizing their current relationship by seducing their male partner. Another, possibly more important reason, is that women being too generous with their sexual favors 'lowers' the [[sexual economics theory|price of sex]]. If women are overly promiscuous, it makes sex easier to obtain (at least for some men). This makes men less willing to invest in committed relationships and invest large amounts of resources in women. The theory of women colluding against sluts primarily owing to economic concerns is dubbed the [[pussy cartel]].

This lower male tendency to behave in a hostile manner towards sluts is likely because men are prone to signal investment in potential female romantic partners,<ref>https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/147470490800600302</ref>, so while they may feign disdain towards sluts (in line with social norms and biological impulses), in actuality, they may not punish them because they still desire them as mates and seek to impress them.

In line with this, another study found that women constrain each other's sexuality more than men constrain it.<ref>http://www.femininebeauty.info/suppression.pdf</ref>

=== Everyone's aversion towards sluts ===

Not just men and women have an aversion toward female sluttiness, but men's parents and their families that may invest their family wealth in the offspring are concerned about such behavior as well.<ref>https://quillette.com/2018/11/25/on-the-nature-of-patriarchy/</ref><ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S109051381730363X</ref> As [[arranged marriage]] was the dominant form of mating in human history, parents were usually heavily involved in partner choices.<ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886918305348</ref>

=== Selection for neatness in females ===

Women are neater and more conscientious with regards to bodily and overall hygiene than men. For example women spend more time on toilet,<ref>Baillie, M. A., Fraser, S., & Brown, M. J. (2009). Do Women Spend More Time in the Restroom than Men? Psychological Reports, 105(3), 789–790. doi:10.2466/pr0.105.3.789-790 </ref> are more likely to wash their hands even after petting an animal, handling food, coughing or sneezing.<ref>https://www.cleaninginstitute.org/sites/default/files/assets/1/AssetManager/2010%20Hand%20Washing%20Findings.pdf</ref>

Women more often agree that washing their hands after using the toilet is "very important" (91% vs 84%) and more likely wash their hands after use of public transport,<ref>https://www.ipsos.com/en-us/news-polls/Hygiene-and-Cleanliness</ref>

and they cross-culturally wash their hands more frequently than men.<ref>https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5074573/</ref>

Furthermore, flatulence and swearing are considered "unladylike" and is considered much more obscene in women, and women swear less than men,<ref>https://scholar.google.com/scholar?cluster=3599493400762882435</ref><ref>https://egrove.olemiss.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1050&context=umurjournal</ref><ref name="guvendir2015">https://www.researchgate.net/publication/320711460_Why_are_males_inclined_to_use_strong_swear_words_more_than_females_An_evolutionary_explanation_based_on_male_intergroup_aggressiveness</ref> with the gap regarding use of dirty language however closing as of recently.<ref>https://www.cambridge.org/elt/blog/2016/11/15/women-now-use-the-f-word-as-much-as-men/</ref>

which may be explained by menstrual blood, anatomically inferior aiming facilities, men's separate standing toilets, or women not being as "neat" as they claim to be when not directly observed.

This behavioral sex difference could partly be explained by stereotypes and social norms, however it may also be of genetic origin. Neatness is in line with women's greater social compliance, agreeableness and lower social status. Some of such behavioral adaptations plausibly arose from selection against sluttiness and related indecent and unpredictable behavior as a result of the reasons mentioned above (paternity assurance, higher STD proneness in women etc.). Other factors selecting for neatness in women may include that women were much more involved in food processing and cooking throughout human history,<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill_(Supplemental)#Women_were_historically_predominantly_involved_in_cooking_and_they_never_dominated_men</ref> and hence they were much more likely to introduce parasites due to handling the food much more than men. Being much more involved in parenting, women may also serve as role models for children regarding body hygiene. Further, women have to deal with their menstrual discharges, in fact menstruating women are not allowed to enter the kitchen during menstruation in India and Indonesia and a variety of other restrictions have been observed across different cultures.<ref>https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Culture_and_menstruation</ref> Women's lower swearing propensity may also rather stem from men using strong language in intrasexual and intergroup competition.<ref name="guvendir2015"></ref>

==References==

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==See also==

* [[Promiscuity]]

* [[Trad-con]]

* [[Sexual conflict]]

* [[Female subordination and submission]]

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