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Those [[autism|hyperfocusing]] on looks decided that a femcel is a "2" on the [[decile scale]], just below the [[femcelish]] woman; however, inceldom is not actually that much related to looks (see [[causes of inceldom]]). Nonetheless, she isn't at the bottom of the totem pole as femcels tend to [[mog]] (i.e. manage to one-up) the [[truefemcel]] woman in looks, [[social status]] and overall charm. Femcels are commonly seen as [[volcel]]s since they can easily get [[sex]], except in rare and unusual circumstances. | Those [[autism|hyperfocusing]] on looks decided that a femcel is a "2" on the [[decile scale]], just below the [[femcelish]] woman; however, inceldom is not actually that much related to looks (see [[causes of inceldom]]). Nonetheless, she isn't at the bottom of the totem pole as femcels tend to [[mog]] (i.e. manage to one-up) the [[truefemcel]] woman in looks, [[social status]] and overall charm. Femcels are commonly seen as [[volcel]]s since they can easily get [[sex]], except in rare and unusual circumstances. | ||
== Existence == | |||
Since the early days of the incelosphere, there has been a controversy between [[mancel]]s and femcels over inclusiveness in the [[incelosphere]]. This sometimes consisted of malecels having a proclivity for suggesting that femcels are [[standardcel]]s or [[nearcel]]s. This sentiment is especially the case for [[truecel]]s who tend to have an exclusive attitude with a tendency towards policing of the term "incel". However both male [[nearcel]]s and femcels have unanimously given credence to the inclusion of the following women as genuine [[incelibates]]: [[Christine Chubbuck]], [[Lizzie Velasquez]], [[Grace McDaniels]], [[Mary Ann Bevan]] and [[Eman Aty]]. | |||
Women have a somewhat lower [[sex drive]], hence they tend to be the "bottleneck" when it comes sex and reproduction, and it guarantees there to be always a surplus of sexually starved males (i.e. a male-skewed [[operational sex ratio]]). For this reason, it would appear, that women cannot be incels, but are mostly [[volcel]]s, since they have a lower need for sex, and when desperate they could simply overcome their coyness and attach themselves to the next best guy available, of which there is an infinite supply. However, there are lots of men [[Chad|who never commit]], but only [[pump and dump]]. Further, historically, there was a great concern about women giving sex away easily, which was particularly driven by female [[intrasexual competition]] (gossip),<ref>https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1037/1089-2680.6.2.166</ref> and thus women would likely face a real reputational risks when giving up their coyness, which may drive some of them into inceldom, even though they could get sex easily. Furthermore, both men and women may be adapted for [[arranged marriage]], perhaps combined with their coyness making it even more awkward and unnatural for women to simply 'date' someone, driving them into inceldom when they do not get married. | |||
==Causes== | ==Causes== | ||
===Incel Women=== | ===Incel Women=== | ||
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* Men and women alike may be affected by various [[evolutionary mismatch]]es disturbing normal sexual functioning such as the absence of [[arranged marriage]]. Another evolutionary mismatch may be women's unusual high-status role, possibly due to relieving women of the need to trade [[resources for orgasms]]. Women seem to be even more adversely affected than men by the overall slowing of [[life history|LH]] and deferral of marriage (see graph on the right), making it likely that femcels, to the extent they exist, they tend to be older, more educated, and with arranged marriage adaptations such as poor flirting skills and particularly high passivity. | * Men and women alike may be affected by various [[evolutionary mismatch]]es disturbing normal sexual functioning such as the absence of [[arranged marriage]]. Another evolutionary mismatch may be women's unusual high-status role, possibly due to relieving women of the need to trade [[resources for orgasms]]. Women seem to be even more adversely affected than men by the overall slowing of [[life history|LH]] and deferral of marriage (see graph on the right), making it likely that femcels, to the extent they exist, they tend to be older, more educated, and with arranged marriage adaptations such as poor flirting skills and particularly high passivity. | ||
Of course, with [[incelbian]] women it's a different story since some lesbocels tend to live in conservative deep-red states who can't find any other lesbians anywhere within their vicinity. If they do, these lesbians are usually in the closet, so out of reach. Of course, women can be sexless, but this is largely self-inflicted. Men have a [[libido|higher sex drive]] meaning there will always be men around willing to satisfy any woman sexually. | Of course, with [[incelbian]] women it's a different story since some lesbocels tend to live in conservative deep-red states who can't find any other lesbians anywhere within their vicinity. If they do, these lesbians are usually in the closet, so out of reach. Of course, women can be sexless, but this is largely self-inflicted. Men have a [[libido|higher sex drive]] meaning there will always be men around willing to satisfy any woman sexually. | ||
* Physical attractiveness may matter slightly more for women than it does for men,<ref>Haydon, A. A., Cheng, M. M., Herring, A. H., McRee, A.-L., & Halpern, C. T. (2013). Prevalence and Predictors of Sexual Inexperience in Adulthood. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 43(2), 221–230. doi:10.1007/s10508-013-0164-3</ref> but for both sexes looks are only a minor factor in determining sexual success (see [[causes of inceldom]]). | |||
===Volcel Women=== | ===Volcel Women=== | ||
[[Jim's Blog]] explains:<ref>[https://blog.jim.com/culture/who-gets-sex/ Who Gets Sex], Jim's Blog</ref> | [[Jim's Blog]] explains:<ref>[https://blog.jim.com/culture/who-gets-sex/ Who Gets Sex], Jim's Blog</ref> | ||
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In 1915 in his book [[The Great Unmarried]], British Journalist [[Walter M. Gallichan]] described femcels as "involuntarily celibate women doomed to a lonely, loveless existence and the negation of the right to motherhood." He portrayed the issue as being largely caused by (in his time) urbanization leading to masses of rural men to migrate to the cities to seek new industrial jobs, and what he claimed was a growing number of men unwilling or unable to bear the cost of marriage. He even briefly floats the idea of legalizing polygamy to ameliorate what he viewed as the serious social problem of involuntarily celibate women. | In 1915 in his book [[The Great Unmarried]], British Journalist [[Walter M. Gallichan]] described femcels as "involuntarily celibate women doomed to a lonely, loveless existence and the negation of the right to motherhood." He portrayed the issue as being largely caused by (in his time) urbanization leading to masses of rural men to migrate to the cities to seek new industrial jobs, and what he claimed was a growing number of men unwilling or unable to bear the cost of marriage. He even briefly floats the idea of legalizing polygamy to ameliorate what he viewed as the serious social problem of involuntarily celibate women. | ||
Many femcels unable to find partners have turned to a new form of marriage as a coping mechanism called sologamy, wherein one marries themselves. | Many femcels unable to find partners have turned to a new form of marriage as a coping mechanism called sologamy, wherein one marries themselves. | ||
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==Related video== | ==Related video== | ||
<youtube>dE8UHCDVYB8</youtube> | <youtube>dE8UHCDVYB8</youtube> | ||
==See also== | ==See also== | ||
*[[Emcel]] | *[[Emcel]] | ||
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*[[Female solipsism]] | *[[Female solipsism]] | ||
*[[Female standardscel]] | *[[Female standardscel]] | ||
==References== | |||
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==External links== | ==External links== | ||
*[https://www.reddit.com/r/Trufemcels/ Main femcel hangout] | *[https://www.reddit.com/r/Trufemcels/ Main femcel hangout] | ||