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An '''asshole''' is a [[selfish replicator]], or bully. He scores high in [[dark triad|dark character traits]], in particular he has low empathy and tends to be a fast [[life history]] strategist. | An '''asshole''' is a [[selfish replicator]], or bully. He scores high in [[dark triad|dark character traits]], in particular he has low empathy and tends to be a fast [[life history]] strategist. His efforts to have sexual intimacy with women depend on him aggressively exploiting an evolutionary desire of women, while pushing other men less attractive than him down in the process. | ||
The opposite of the asshole is the [[nice guy]], who is more of a slow life history strategist. Assholedom has become acknowledged and accepted in [[dating]] through [[PUA]] becoming generally mainstream, accepted dating advice. A top goal of the asshole is status. He is often high status because he is good looking. | |||
Scientists have suggested the female equivalent of an asshole is a [[borderline personality disorder|borderline chick]].<ref>https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3323706/</ref> | Scientists have suggested the female equivalent of an asshole is a [[borderline personality disorder|borderline chick]].<ref>https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3323706/</ref> | ||
==Incels on Being a "Bad Boy"== | ==Incels on Being a "Bad Boy"== | ||
Incels don't argue with [[TRP]] and [[PUA|pick up artists]] so much that being a bad boy or '''asshole''' helps 'get' women. But incels argue that having the permission to act like an asshole around women requires that the person already have enough [[LMS|looks, money, and status]]. If one acts like a bad boy around women while ugly or low status, that person will often not have a good time... It is for this reason a lot of incels grow up with very 'sweet' or 'nice' personalities, so that they don't get negative attention from women who evaluate them as low [[LMS]]. | Incels don't argue with [[TRP]] and [[PUA|pick up artists]] so much that being a bad boy or '''asshole''' helps 'get' women. But incels argue that having the permission to act like an asshole around women requires that the person already have enough [[LMS|looks, money, and status]]. If one acts like a bad boy around women while ugly or low status, that person will often not have a good time... It is for this reason a lot of incels grow up with very 'sweet' or 'nice' personalities, so that they don't get negative attention from women who evaluate them as low [[LMS]]. | ||
==Women choose bullies disproportionately== | ==Women choose bullies disproportionately== | ||
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In school, a relatively small amount of men do most of the [[bullying]] and receive most of the sexual attention from women interested in sex. Women prefer [[bullying]] men to men who are bullied, sexually, and bullies have more sexual partners than the bullied.<ref>[https://archive.fo/ZGvcF http://archive.is/ZGvcF]</ref><ref>https://rd.springer.com/article/10.1007%2Fs40806-017-0126-4</ref><ref>https://www.deccanchronicle.com/lifestyle/sex-and-relationship/161217/dominance-may-make-bullies-more-attractive-leading-to-more-sex-study.html</ref><ref>https://scottbarrykaufman.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/The-Dark-Triad-Personality.pdf</ref><ref>[https://archive.fo/e6p19 http://archive.is/e6p19]</ref><ref>https://www.timesofisrael.com/women-really-dont-go-for-nice-guys-study-indicates/</ref> | |||
Researchers, led by Daniel Provenzano from the University of Windsor in Canada, found that [[bullying]] probably evolved as a behavior for men to show their strength and assert dominance, while signaling to women that they are good prospective mates who will provide for their needs and offspring. Professionals dealing with young adults need to recognize the role of sexual motivation in bullying, suggests Provenzano.<ref>https://www.springer.com/psychology/personality+&+social+psychology/journal/40806</ref> | |||
Researchers, led by Daniel Provenzano from the University of Windsor in Canada, found that [[bullying]] probably evolved as a behavior for men to show their strength and assert dominance, while signaling to women that they are good prospective mates who will provide for their needs and offspring. | |||
An article describing two studies conducted by Volk ''et al.'' (2015) concluded that "taken together, results from the present study offer mixed, but generally positive, support for our hypothesis that bullying is an evolutionarily adaptive behavior" and noted that "The links between bullying and dating/sexual outcomes are (for the most part) not simply a function of common variance with attractiveness and age or sex, although those variables do play a role in dating and sexual behavior" therefore bullying increased adolescent males mating success independent of other factors like looks, social desirability, etc. The authors advised that "In the meantime, bullying research and interventions should be increasingly cognizant of the fact that bullying may indeed be, at least in part, due to evolved mental adaptations that predispose some individuals to harm others to obtain personal goals. These goals may go beyond social dominance and extend specifically toward obtaining sexual partners."<ref>https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704915613909</ref> | An article describing two studies conducted by Volk ''et al.'' (2015) concluded that "taken together, results from the present study offer mixed, but generally positive, support for our hypothesis that bullying is an evolutionarily adaptive behavior" and noted that "The links between bullying and dating/sexual outcomes are (for the most part) not simply a function of common variance with attractiveness and age or sex, although those variables do play a role in dating and sexual behavior" therefore bullying increased adolescent males mating success independent of other factors like looks, social desirability, etc. The authors advised that "In the meantime, bullying research and interventions should be increasingly cognizant of the fact that bullying may indeed be, at least in part, due to evolved mental adaptations that predispose some individuals to harm others to obtain personal goals. These goals may go beyond social dominance and extend specifically toward obtaining sexual partners."<ref>https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704915613909</ref> | ||
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Thus it seems apparent that a tendency towards bullying is seen as an attractive trait by a significant number of women(at least adolescent girls), and this may even be independent of the traits such a tendency displays (i.e 'dark triad' traits, higher level of social dominance.) | Thus it seems apparent that a tendency towards bullying is seen as an attractive trait by a significant number of women(at least adolescent girls), and this may even be independent of the traits such a tendency displays (i.e 'dark triad' traits, higher level of social dominance.) | ||
==Women fantasize about criminals a lot== | ==Women fantasize about criminals a lot== | ||
Women have a greater preference for stories of true crime than men. To evaluate the degree of this preference, researchers analyzed gender proportions of reviews on Amazon for different genres including true crime and war. They found 70% of true crime reviewers were female, while 82% of war reviewers were male, despite an overall relatively even distribution of male and female reviewers on the site in general.<ref>https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1948550609355486</ref> | Women have a greater preference for stories of true crime than men. To evaluate the degree of this preference, researchers analyzed gender proportions of reviews on Amazon for different genres including true crime and war. They found 70% of true crime reviewers were female, while 82% of war reviewers were male, despite an overall relatively even distribution of male and female reviewers on the site in general.<ref>https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1948550609355486</ref> | ||
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* ''95% of the reviews in both the true crime and war categories were positive.'' | * ''95% of the reviews in both the true crime and war categories were positive.'' | ||
* ''When considering stories with violent content, women are drawn to true crime stories more so than are men.'' | * ''When considering stories with violent content, women are drawn to true crime stories more so than are men.'' | ||
==Women choose psychopaths disproportionately== | ==Women choose psychopaths disproportionately== | ||
<b>39% of hospitalized male psychopaths had consensual sex with female mental health staff</b> | <b>39% of hospitalized male psychopaths had consensual sex with female mental health staff</b> | ||
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'''Behavioural infractions committed by control group and malingerers 'severe psychopaths'.''' | '''Behavioural infractions committed by control group and malingerers 'severe psychopaths'.''' | ||
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* ''The malingerers were significantly more likely to have a history of murder or rape, carry a diagnosis of antisocial personality disorder or sexual sadism, and produce greater PCL-R factor 1, factor 2, and total scores than insanity acquittees who did not malinger. '' | * ''The malingerers were significantly more likely to have a history of murder or rape, carry a diagnosis of antisocial personality disorder or sexual sadism, and produce greater PCL-R factor 1, factor 2, and total scores than insanity acquittees who did not malinger. '' | ||
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==Women are particularly attracted to antisociability== | ==Women are particularly attracted to antisociability== | ||
A study conducted in the United Kingdom on behalf of the Society for Research in Child Development by Sara R. Jaffee ''et al.'' (2003) using 'data from an epidemiological sample of 1,116 5-year-old twin pairs and their parents', remarked the following: "Second, despite the fact that fathers who engage in high levels of antisocial behavior make up a small proportion of fathers overall, they are responsible for a disproportionate number of births. For example, Moffitt and colleagues (2002) found that '''although men who engaged in high levels of antisocial behavior constituted only 10% of a birth cohort, they accounted for 27% of the babies fathered by the time the men were age 26'''".<ref>https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12625439</ref><ref>https://www.nber.org/papers/w12019</ref> | A study conducted in the United Kingdom on behalf of the Society for Research in Child Development by Sara R. Jaffee ''et al.'' (2003) using 'data from an epidemiological sample of 1,116 5-year-old twin pairs and their parents', remarked the following: "Second, despite the fact that fathers who engage in high levels of antisocial behavior make up a small proportion of fathers overall, they are responsible for a disproportionate number of births. For example, Moffitt and colleagues (2002) found that '''although men who engaged in high levels of antisocial behavior constituted only 10% of a birth cohort, they accounted for 27% of the babies fathered by the time the men were age 26'''".<ref>https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12625439</ref><ref>https://www.nber.org/papers/w12019</ref> | ||
==Women are particularly attracted to gang members== | ==Women are particularly attracted to gang members== | ||
Another study by Palmer and Tilley (1995) for The Journal of Sex Research examining the possible evolutionary psychological motives prompting young men to join street gangs revealed that "shows that the gang members in the study reported a significantly greater average number of sex partners during the last 30 days than the non-gang members reported for the same period (M, of 1.67 to 1.22, respectively)" and that "the two greatest total numbers of partners reported in our study were by two gang leaders, who reported 11 and 10 partners, respectively." The studies authors concluded that compared to prior study conducted by Laumann et al.'s examing men in the United States sexual habits; | Another study by Palmer and Tilley (1995) for The Journal of Sex Research examining the possible evolutionary psychological motives prompting young men to join street gangs revealed that "shows that the gang members in the study reported a significantly greater average number of sex partners during the last 30 days than the non-gang members reported for the same period (M, of 1.67 to 1.22, respectively)" and that "the two greatest total numbers of partners reported in our study were by two gang leaders, who reported 11 and 10 partners, respectively." The studies authors concluded that compared to prior study conducted by Laumann et al.'s examing men in the United States sexual habits; '''"many gang members in our study had as many, or more, sex partners in one month than the average male in Laumann et al.'s study had in one year.'''"<ref>https://www.researchgate.net/publication/233368360_Sexual_access_to_females_as_a_motivation_for_joining_gangs_An_evolutionary_approach | ||
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'''Number of female partners during the last 30 days reported by males who were gang members and males who were not gang members''' | '''Number of female partners during the last 30 days reported by males who were gang members and males who were not gang members''' | ||
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* ''Gang members reported a significantly greater average number of sex partners during the last 30 days than the non-gang members reported for the same period (M of 1.67 to 1.22, respectively); one-tailed t-test, t = 2.16, df = 118, p < .025. […]'' | * ''Gang members reported a significantly greater average number of sex partners during the last 30 days than the non-gang members reported for the same period (M of 1.67 to 1.22, respectively); one-tailed t-test, t = 2.16, df = 118, p < .025. […]'' | ||
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* ''In contrast, no non-gang member in the study reported more than five partners within the last 90 days.'' | * ''In contrast, no non-gang member in the study reported more than five partners within the last 90 days.'' | ||
* ''We also predict that leaders of gangs, like leaders in many human societies, not only have sexual access to greater numbers of females, but also more exclusive sexual access to these females.'' | * ''We also predict that leaders of gangs, like leaders in many human societies, not only have sexual access to greater numbers of females, but also more exclusive sexual access to these females.'' | ||
==Women are particularly attracted to the Dark Triad== | ==Women are particularly attracted to the Dark Triad== | ||
{{main_article|[[Dark triad]]}} | {{main_article|[[Dark triad]]}} | ||
The [[dark triad]] is defined as: '''Narcissism''', '''Manipulativeness''', & '''Psychopathy'''. The "Dirty Dozen" is a scoring tool for quickly quantifying the Dark Triad: | The [[dark triad]] is defined as: '''Narcissism''', '''Manipulativeness''', & '''Psychopathy'''. The "Dirty Dozen" is a scoring tool for quickly quantifying the Dark Triad: | ||
# I tend to manipulate others to get my way. | # I tend to manipulate others to get my way. | ||
# I tend to lack remorse. | # I tend to lack remorse. | ||
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# I tend to expect special favors from others. | # I tend to expect special favors from others. | ||
# I want others to pay attention to me. | # I want others to pay attention to me. | ||
Women were presented with male characters of varying degrees of Dark Triad personality. Physicality was held constant. Men with Dark Triad traits were dramatically more attractive to women compared to control characters who lacked these traits (with 99.9% statistical certainty). Furthermore, the attractiveness of these Dark Traits was not explained by other characteristics like extroversion.<ref>Cartera GL, Campbell AC, Muncer S. The Dark Triad personality: Attractiveness to women. Personality and Individual Differences. Volume 56, January 2014, Pages 57-61. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0191886913012245</ref><ref>https://www.researchgate.net/publication/273809664_The_Dark_Triad_personality_Attractiveness_to_women</ref> | Women were presented with male characters of varying degrees of Dark Triad personality. Physicality was held constant. Men with Dark Triad traits were dramatically more attractive to women compared to control characters who lacked these traits (with 99.9% statistical certainty). Furthermore, the attractiveness of these Dark Traits was not explained by other characteristics like extroversion.<ref>Cartera GL, Campbell AC, Muncer S. The Dark Triad personality: Attractiveness to women. Personality and Individual Differences. Volume 56, January 2014, Pages 57-61. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0191886913012245</ref><ref>https://www.researchgate.net/publication/273809664_The_Dark_Triad_personality_Attractiveness_to_women</ref> | ||
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Several mainstream academic, peer-reviewed studies have confirmed that women are particularly sexually attracted to men who exhibit [[dark triad]] traits, likely because of women's [[hypergamy|hypergamous]] nature. | Several mainstream academic, peer-reviewed studies have confirmed that women are particularly sexually attracted to men who exhibit [[dark triad]] traits, likely because of women's [[hypergamy|hypergamous]] nature. | ||
<ref> | <ref> Jonason P. K., Li N. P., Webster G. W., Schmitt D. P. (2009). "The Dark Triad: Facilitating short-term mating in men". European Journal of Personality. 23: 5–18. doi:10.1002/per.698. </ref> | ||
<ref> | <ref> Jonason P. K., Valentine K. A., Li N. P., Harbeson C. L. (2011). "Mate-selection and the Dark Triad: Facilitating a short-term mating strategy and creating a volatile environment". Personality and Individual Differences. 51 (6): 759–63. doi:10.1016/j.paid.2011.06.025. </ref> | ||
<ref> | <ref> Jonason P. K., Li N. P., Buss D. M. (2010). "The costs and benefits of the Dark Triad: Implications for mate poaching and mate retention tactics". Personality and Individual Differences. 48 (4): 373–78. doi:10.1016/j.paid.2009.11.003. </ref> | ||
<ref> | <ref> Jonason P. K., Koenig B., Tost J. (2010). "Living a fast life: The Dark Triad and Life History Theory". Human Nature. 21 (4): 428–42. doi:10.1007/s12110-010-9102-4. </ref> | ||
<ref> | <ref> Carter, Gregory Louis, Anne C. Campbell, Steven Muncer, "The Dark Triad personality: Attractiveness to women", Elsevier/ScienceDirect, 12 June 2013 </ref> | ||
<ref> | <ref> Grewel, Daisy, "Psychology Uncovers Sex Appeal of Dark Personalities", Scientific American, 27 November 2012 </ref> | ||
<ref> | <ref> Holtzman, Nicholas, S., "People With Dark Personalities Tend to Create a Physically Attractive Veneer" Social Psychological and Personality Science, October 4, 2012, doi: 10.1177/1948550612461284 </ref> | ||
<ref> | <ref> "Are Narcissists Sexy? Zeroing in on the Effect of Narcissism on Short-Term Mate Appeal", Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, July 2013 vol. 39 no. 7 870-882, doi: 10.1177/0146167213483580 </ref> | ||
<ref> | <ref> Back, Schmuckle, and Egloff, "Why are narcissists so charming at first sight? Decoding the narcissism-popularity link at zero acquaintance.", Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2010 Jan;98(1):132-45. doi: 10.1037/a0016338 </ref> | ||
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==References== | ==References== | ||
<references /> | <references /> | ||
==See also== | ==See also== | ||
*[[Dark triad]] | *[[Dark triad]] | ||
* [[Hybristophilia]] | * [[Hybristophilia]] | ||