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==Causes== | ==Causes== | ||
===Incel Women=== | ===Incel Women=== | ||
[[File:AgeAtFirstMarriage.png|thumb|400px|Boomers were an exception, but marriage is now particularly late for ''women''.]] | |||
It is generally accepted that genuine, [[involuntarily celibate]], heterosexual or bisexual women are scarce. Notable exceptions include: | It is generally accepted that genuine, [[involuntarily celibate]], heterosexual or bisexual women are scarce. This is explained and evidenced by various facts: | ||
* Women have a much lower [[sex drive]], meaning women likely experience celibacy as less of a burden compared to men. | |||
* Due to men's higher sex drive, they is always a surplus of sexually frustrated men who would date almost any woman (though some highly promiscuous men would admittedly only [[pump and dump]] them, as men are also very choosy when it comes to marriage). | |||
* In a free mate choice setting, women nearly entirely decide about when a relationship starts and when sex occurs, i.e. they act as [[sexual selector]]. For example, McCabe (1987) found that among 25-year-old fresh couples, 28% of men but only 2% of women were "reluctant virgins" who wanted to have sex, but were held back by their partner's waiting.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#The_attractiveness_gap_in_a_couple_predicts_how_long_they_wait_before_engaging_in_sex</ref> Cohen and Shotland (1996) computed correlations between when people thought sex should start and when they actually began having sex. For the men, the correlation was not significant (r = .19), which implies they had no say, whereas for women the correlation was very high (r = .88).<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#In_sexually_liberated_societies.2C_only_women_decide_when_sex_occurs</ref> Further, in a 1989 peer-reviewed study that took place at Florida State University, 75% of men accepted random sex-invitations from random real-life women, whereas 0% of women accepted such offers.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Men_like_61.9.25_of_female_profiles.2C_women_like_only_4.5.25_of_male_profiles</ref> | |||
Notable exceptions, where femceldom does likely exist, include: | |||
* Women with medical issues like [[vaginismus]], terminal illness, or extreme disfigurations. | * Women with medical issues like [[vaginismus]], terminal illness, or extreme disfigurations. | ||
* Women with mental disabilities that would make an adult relationship mostly impossible (e.g., Down syndrome) | * Women with mental disabilities that would make an adult relationship mostly impossible (e.g., Down syndrome), however women diagnosed with mental conditions are less likely to remain childless compared to men with the same diagnoses,<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Mental_disorders_significantly_reduce_male_fertility.2C_substantially_more_than_they_do_for_women</ref> and more autistic traits are associated with lower relationship satisfaction for husbands but not for wives.<ref>https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007%252Fs10803-009-0888-z</ref> | ||
* Women who live in a [[deadbedroomer|sexless relationships]] caused by the man that they cannot leave, though this is much rarer than the opposite due to women having an overall lower [[sex drive]] and the wives losing their sex drives much sooner than the husbands, especially when cohabiting closely.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_rapidly_lose_interest_in_sex_once_in_a_stable_relationship_or_living_with_a_man</ref> | * Women who live in a [[deadbedroomer|sexless relationships]] caused by the man that they cannot leave, though this is much rarer than the opposite due to women having an overall lower [[sex drive]] and the wives losing their sex drives much sooner than the husbands, especially when cohabiting closely.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_rapidly_lose_interest_in_sex_once_in_a_stable_relationship_or_living_with_a_man</ref> | ||
* Women getting college degrees.<ref>Haydon, A. A., Cheng, M. M., Herring, A. H., McRee, A.-L., & Halpern, C. T. (2013). Prevalence and Predictors of Sexual Inexperience in Adulthood. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 43(2), 221–230. doi:10.1007/s10508-013-0164-3</ref> | * Women getting college degrees.<ref>Haydon, A. A., Cheng, M. M., Herring, A. H., McRee, A.-L., & Halpern, C. T. (2013). Prevalence and Predictors of Sexual Inexperience in Adulthood. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 43(2), 221–230. doi:10.1007/s10508-013-0164-3</ref> | ||
* Women occupying high status positions and refusing or feeling inadequate [[hypergamy|dating down]] in status, facing an [[evolutionary mismatch]]. | * Women occupying high status positions and refusing or feeling inadequate [[hypergamy|dating down]] in status, facing an [[evolutionary mismatch]]. | ||
* Women who have been indoctrinated by [[environmentalism|environmentalist]] politicians more often refrain from reproducing,<ref>https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11111-021-00379-5</ref> and are presumably also less inclined to marry and have sex as a result (unless they get a sterilization). | * Women who have been indoctrinated by [[environmentalism|environmentalist]] politicians more often refrain from reproducing,<ref>https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11111-021-00379-5</ref> and are presumably also less inclined to marry and have sex as a result (unless they get a sterilization). | ||
* Women who have a fast [[life history]] predisposition but cannot have sex for whatever circumstances | * Women who have a fast [[life history]] predisposition, possibly concomitant with [[BPD]], but cannot have sex for whatever circumstances.<ref>https://twitter.com/chimericide/status/1381472617589268480</ref> | ||
* Men and women alike may be affected by various [[evolutionary mismatch]]es disturbing normal sexual functioning such as the absence of [[arranged marriage]]. Another evolutionary mismatch may be women's unusual high-status role, possibly due to relieving women of the need to trade [[resources for orgasms]]. | * Men and women alike may be affected by various [[evolutionary mismatch]]es disturbing normal sexual functioning such as the absence of [[arranged marriage]]. Another evolutionary mismatch may be women's unusual high-status role, possibly due to relieving women of the need to trade [[resources for orgasms]]. Women seem to be even more adversely affected than men by the overall slowing of [[life history|LH]] and deferral of marriage (see graph on the right), making it likely that femcels, to the extent they exist, they tend to be older, more educated, and with arranged marriage adaptations such as poor flirting skills and particularly high passivity. | ||
Of course, with [[incelbian]] women it's a different story since some lesbocels tend to live in conservative deep-red states who can't find any other lesbians anywhere within their vicinity. If they do, these lesbians are usually in the closet, so out of reach. Of course, women can be sexless, but this is largely self-inflicted. Men have a [[libido|higher sex drive]] meaning there will always be men around willing to satisfy any woman sexually. | Of course, with [[incelbian]] women it's a different story since some lesbocels tend to live in conservative deep-red states who can't find any other lesbians anywhere within their vicinity. If they do, these lesbians are usually in the closet, so out of reach. Of course, women can be sexless, but this is largely self-inflicted. Men have a [[libido|higher sex drive]] meaning there will always be men around willing to satisfy any woman sexually. | ||