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== Causes of sexlessness and inceldom ==
== Causes of sexlessness and inceldom ==


* Social exclusion, [[rejection]], avoidance e.g. caused by [[neurodivergence]], being a misfit or physical disease, potentially caused by [[mutation]]s or pollutants/developmental disturbances. Social exclusion hinders access to members of the opposite sex, prevents socialization and marriage, and thus may cause inceldom.  
* Social/sexual exclusion and [[rejection]] hindering socialization, access to members of the opposite sex and [[marriage]]. Possibly caused by [[neurodivergence]] or physical anomalies due to [[mutation]]s or pollutants/developmental disturbances.
** [[mentalcel|Mental disease]], [[neurodivergence]], [[autism]], schizophrenia and anorexia nervosa are some of the strongest predictors of sexlessness.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#tocMental</ref> In one study, high functioning autistic men were 5 times more likely sexually inexperienced than their [[neurotypical]] counterparts.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#44.6.25_of_high_functioning_adult_autistic_men_remain_virgins.2C_despite_high_sex.2Frelationship_drive</ref>
** [[mentalcel|Mental disorders]], [[neurodivergence]], [[autism]], schizophrenia and anorexia nervosa are some of the strongest predictors of sexlessness, especially in males.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#tocMental</ref> In one study, high functioning autistic men were 5 times more likely sexually inexperienced than their [[neurotypical]] counterparts.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#44.6.25_of_high_functioning_adult_autistic_men_remain_virgins.2C_despite_high_sex.2Frelationship_drive</ref>
** Being bullied, ostracized and rejected by one's peers or being socially withdrawn during childhood.<ref>Boislard, M.A., Poulin, F. & Zimmer-Gembeck, M. J. (2011, March). Childhood predictors of adulthood virginity: A 10-year prospective study. Poster session presented at the Eastern & Midcontinent Joint Region Conference of the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality, Philadelphia, PA.</ref> The vast majority of users on [[incels.co]] said they were bullied at some point in their lifetime, whether it was during childhood, adolescence or adulthood, and many regard themselves as autistic (see [[demographics]]).
** Being bullied, ostracized and rejected by one's peers or being socially withdrawn during childhood are predictors of adulthood virginity.<ref>Boislard, M.A., Poulin, F. & Zimmer-Gembeck, M. J. (2011, March). Childhood predictors of adulthood virginity: A 10-year prospective study. Poster session presented at the Eastern & Midcontinent Joint Region Conference of the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality, Philadelphia, PA.</ref><ref>https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/sex-life-the-american-male/201104/involuntary-sexual-virgins-the-latest-research</ref> The vast majority of users on [[incels.co]] said they were bullied at some point in their lifetime, whether it was during childhood, adolescence or adulthood, and many regard themselves as autistic (see [[demographics]]).
** Being physically unattractive. In one study, people of either sex with below-average attractiveness had a 1.5-3x higher chance of remaining virgin during early adulthood compared to people of above-average attractiveness, however all 26 very unattractive guys in the study did have sex by the time they were around 28 years old,<ref name="haydon2013"></ref> and unattractive men do not more likely see prostitutes. However, it is unknown whether half of the adult virgins in this study having reported to have no interest in sex, and it is unknown whether attractive virgins were more likely volcels.
** Being physically unattractive. In one study, people of either sex with below-average attractiveness had a 1.5-3x higher chance of remaining virgin during early adulthood compared to people of above-average attractiveness, however all 26 very unattractive guys in the study did have sex by the time they were around 28 years old,<ref name="haydon2013"></ref> and unattractive men do not more likely see prostitutes. However, half of the adult virgins in this study having reported to have no interest in sex, and it is unknown whether attractive virgins were more likely volcels than unattractive virgins.
** High BMI or being overweight<ref name="haydon2013"></ref>
** High BMI or being overweight<ref name="haydon2013"></ref>
** Premature birth<ref>https://www.newsweek.com/babies-premature-romantic-partners-sex-parents-adults-1448938</ref>
** Premature birth<ref>https://www.newsweek.com/babies-premature-romantic-partners-sex-parents-adults-1448938</ref>
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** Low social status or peer status,<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Men.27s_social_status_accounts_for_62.25_of_the_variance_of_copulation_opportunities</ref> with the socially excluded having very low status.
** Low social status or peer status,<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Men.27s_social_status_accounts_for_62.25_of_the_variance_of_copulation_opportunities</ref> with the socially excluded having very low status.
** Physical disability. In a sample of physically disabled individuals, 47%  did  not  have  a  partner, while in a matching sample of non-disabled individuals, 30% did not have a partner.<ref>Taleporos, G., & McCabe, M. P. (2002). Sexuality and Disability, 20(3), 177–183. doi:10.1023/a:1021493615456</ref>
** Physical disability. In a sample of physically disabled individuals, 47%  did  not  have  a  partner, while in a matching sample of non-disabled individuals, 30% did not have a partner.<ref>Taleporos, G., & McCabe, M. P. (2002). Sexuality and Disability, 20(3), 177–183. doi:10.1023/a:1021493615456</ref>
* Slow [[life history]] strategy (slow LH) as per genetic makeup
** The link to [[IQ]] is curvilinear with very intelligent and very unintelligent men having lower sexual success.
** An inherited slow-life strategy means it also affects the parents causing potentially overall a sex-negativity and high achievement expectations. Slow LH types are often [[volcel|voluntary celibacy]]. Slow LH may be reslted to adaptations for (late) [[arranged marriage]] such that [[volceldom]] may eventually turn into [[inceldom]], if marriage never occurs.
* [[Life history|Slow-life strategy]] inherited from the parents thus potentially accompanied by an overall sex-negativity and high achievement expectations. Slow LH types are often [[volcel]]s. Slow LH may be related to adaptations for (late) [[arranged marriage]] as a stable bond of marriage enables investment in the offspring. Hence slow LH [[volceldom]] may eventually turn into [[inceldom]], if marriage never occurs.
** Asexuality/[[volcel]]dom is by far the strongest predictor of virginity around the age of 28, with about half of them stating they never felt attraction to the opposite sex while asexuals only make up 1% of the general population.<ref name="haydon2013"></ref> Could be [[mutation]] or slow-life trait.
** Asexuality/[[volcel]]dom is by far the strongest predictor of virginity around the age of 28, with about half of them stating they never felt attraction to the opposite sex while asexuals only make up 1% of the general population.<ref name="haydon2013"></ref> Could be [[mutation]] or slow-life trait.
** Starting puberty late as a male or being physically immature compared to your peers as a teenager,<ref>Tucker Halpern, C., Waller, M.W., Spriggs, A., & Hallfors, D.D. (2006). Adolescent predictors of emerging adult sexual patterns [Electronic version]. Journal of Adolescent Health, 39(6), 926.e1 - 926.e10.</ref> with slow sexual maturation being a primary marker of slow life history genetics.
** Starting puberty late as a male or being physically immature compared to your peers as a teenager,<ref>Tucker Halpern, C., Waller, M.W., Spriggs, A., & Hallfors, D.D. (2006). Adolescent predictors of emerging adult sexual patterns [Electronic version]. Journal of Adolescent Health, 39(6), 926.e1 - 926.e10.</ref> with slow sexual maturation being a primary marker of slow life history genetics.
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** High achievement standards,<ref name="boislard2016"></ref> with today's students rather working to make ends meet than engaging binge drinking and sex,<ref>https://archive.is/e7SM6</ref> however career-focused singles tend to report they focus on their career because they are single rather than they stay single in order to focus on their careers<ref>https://www.springer.com/de/book/9783658059231</ref>
** High achievement standards,<ref name="boislard2016"></ref> with today's students rather working to make ends meet than engaging binge drinking and sex,<ref>https://archive.is/e7SM6</ref> however career-focused singles tend to report they focus on their career because they are single rather than they stay single in order to focus on their careers<ref>https://www.springer.com/de/book/9783658059231</ref>
** Female race preferences (see [[ethnicel]]), with Asian-American males yielding the highest incel rates (see [[Demographics#Race|demographics]] and the [[Scientific Blackpill#tocRace|Scientific Blackpill]]), which could be partly explained by female [[hypergamy]] and by slow LH predisposition.
** Female race preferences (see [[ethnicel]]), with Asian-American males yielding the highest incel rates (see [[Demographics#Race|demographics]] and the [[Scientific Blackpill#tocRace|Scientific Blackpill]]), which could be partly explained by female [[hypergamy]] and by slow LH predisposition.
* Failed fast [[life history]] strategists
* Fast-life strategists have an overall higher [[sex drive]], hence may experience inceldom and dryspells as a greater psychological burden.
** Overall higher [[sex drive]], hence experiencing inceldom and dryspells as a greater psychological burden
** Any of the other impediments mentioned preventing access to sex (good looks might matter more in fast LH, short-term context) or just bad luck
** Any of the other impediments mentioned preventing access to sex (good looks might matter more in fast LH, short-term context) or just bad luck
** Fast life history races/immigrants living in slow LH host countries with increasingly strong norms against teen sexuality and casual sexuality (though also benefiting from laxer norms regarding out-of-wedlock births and sexuality).
** Fast life history races/immigrants living in slow LH host countries with increasingly strong norms against teen sexuality and casual sexuality (though also benefiting from laxer norms regarding out-of-wedlock births and sexuality).
** The psychological burden of inceldom is likely often amplified by [[sexual envy]] provoked by sexually successful fast LH types boasting about [[sex haver|having sex]] and fast LH women [[whore|self-sexualizing]] online and in public, which they appear to do more in areas with greater economic inequality.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_sexualize_themselves_online_to_attract_high_status_mates</ref>
* Ideology and religion can be either a positive or negative factor:
* Ideology and religion can be either a positive or negative factor:
** Religious or strict environment predicts remaining virgin during early adulthood (significantly only for women, but no sex difference)<ref name="haydon2013">Haydon, A. A., Cheng, M. M., Herring, A. H., McRee, A.-L., & Halpern, C. T. (2013). Prevalence and Predictors of Sexual Inexperience in Adulthood. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 43(2), 221–230. doi:10.1007/s10508-013-0164-3</ref>
** Religious or strict environment predicts remaining virgin during early adulthood (significantly only for women, but no sex difference)<ref name="haydon2013">Haydon, A. A., Cheng, M. M., Herring, A. H., McRee, A.-L., & Halpern, C. T. (2013). Prevalence and Predictors of Sexual Inexperience in Adulthood. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 43(2), 221–230. doi:10.1007/s10508-013-0164-3</ref>
**[[Sex-negativity]] within puritanical religions or ideologies like [[feminism]] or [[environmentalism]].<ref>https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11111-021-00379-5</ref>
**[[Sex-negativity]] within puritanical religions or ideologies like [[feminism]] or [[environmentalism]].<ref>https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11111-021-00379-5</ref>
** Parents who do not care about their children marrying/reproducing due to disinterest or ideology, [[evolutionary mismatch|mismatching]] the universal prevalence of [[marriage]] and [[arranged marriage]] across human societies.
** Parents who do not care about their children marrying/reproducing due to disinterest or ideology, [[evolutionary mismatch|mismatching]] the universal prevalence of [[marriage]] and [[arranged marriage]] across human societies.
** Weakly enforced monogamy and marriage likely causes instable relationships which in turn causes people to experience [[dry spell]]s.   
** Weakly enforced monogamy and marriage likely causes unstable relationships which in turn causes [[dry spell]]s.   
* Husbandcels in [[deadbedroomer|dead bedroom]] marriages, as women lose their sex drive much sooner than men, seemingly especially when cohabiting closely.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_rapidly_lose_interest_in_sex_once_in_a_stable_relationship_or_living_with_a_man</ref>
* Husbandcels in [[deadbedroomer|dead bedroom]] marriages, as women lose their sex drive much sooner than men, seemingly especially when cohabiting closely.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_rapidly_lose_interest_in_sex_once_in_a_stable_relationship_or_living_with_a_man</ref>
* The psychological burden of inceldom is likely often amplified by [[sexual envy]] provoked by sexually successful fast LH types boasting about [[sex haver|having sex]] and fast LH women [[whore|self-sexualizing]] online and in public, which they appear to do more in areas with greater economic inequality.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_sexualize_themselves_online_to_attract_high_status_mates</ref>
* A string of bad luck
* A string of bad luck
** Only met fast [[life history]] [[BPD|BPD chicks]] who crave being humiliated by [[Chad]]
** Only met fast [[life history]] [[BPD|BPD chicks]] who crave being humiliated by [[Chad]]
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