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* Social exclusion, [[rejection]], e.g. caused by being a misfit, [[neuroatypicality]] or physical disease potentially caused by [[mutation]]s or pollutants/developmental disturbances. | * Social exclusion, [[rejection]], e.g. caused by being a misfit, [[neuroatypicality]] or physical disease potentially caused by [[mutation]]s or pollutants/developmental disturbances. | ||
** Disability, [[medcel|disease]], [[mentalcel|mental disease]] or [[neuroatypicality]] | |||
** [[Autism]], schizophrenia and anorexia nervosa are some of the strongest predictors of inceldom.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#tocMental</ref> | ** [[Autism]], schizophrenia and anorexia nervosa are some of the strongest predictors of inceldom.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#tocMental</ref> | ||
** Being bullied, ostracized and rejected by one's peers or being socially withdrawn during childhood.<ref>Boislard, M.A., Poulin, F. & Zimmer-Gembeck, M. J. (2011, March). Childhood predictors of adulthood virginity: A 10-year prospective study. Poster session presented at the Eastern & Midcontinent Joint Region Conference of the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality, Philadelphia, PA.</ref> The vast majority of users on [[incels.co]] said they were bullied at some point in their lifetime, whether it was during childhood, adolescence or adulthood, and many regard themselves as autistic (see [[demographics]]). | ** Being bullied, ostracized and rejected by one's peers or being socially withdrawn during childhood.<ref>Boislard, M.A., Poulin, F. & Zimmer-Gembeck, M. J. (2011, March). Childhood predictors of adulthood virginity: A 10-year prospective study. Poster session presented at the Eastern & Midcontinent Joint Region Conference of the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality, Philadelphia, PA.</ref> The vast majority of users on [[incels.co]] said they were bullied at some point in their lifetime, whether it was during childhood, adolescence or adulthood, and many regard themselves as autistic (see [[demographics]]). | ||
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** High BMI or being overweight<ref name="haydon2013"></ref> | ** High BMI or being overweight<ref name="haydon2013"></ref> | ||
** Low social status or peer status,<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Men.27s_social_status_accounts_for_62.25_of_the_variance_of_copulation_opportunities</ref> with the socially excluded having very low status. | ** Low social status or peer status,<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Men.27s_social_status_accounts_for_62.25_of_the_variance_of_copulation_opportunities</ref> with the socially excluded having very low status. | ||
* Slow [[life history]] strategy as per genetic makeup, meaning it also affects the parents causing overall sex-negativity and high achievement expectations. Often [[volcel|voluntary celibacy]]. Possibly related to adaptations for (late) [[arranged marriage]] such that [[volceldom]] may eventually turn into [[inceldom]], if marriage never occurs. | * Slow [[life history]] strategy (slow LH) as per genetic makeup, meaning it also affects the parents causing overall sex-negativity and high achievement expectations. Often [[volcel|voluntary celibacy]]. Possibly related to adaptations for (late) [[arranged marriage]] such that [[volceldom]] may eventually turn into [[inceldom]], if marriage never occurs. | ||
** Asexuality/[[volcel]]dom: About half of late adult virgins state they never felt attraction to the opposite sex (but asexuals are rare in the general population, only 1%).<ref name="haydon2013"></ref> Could be a [[mutation]] or slow-life history trait. | ** Asexuality/[[volcel]]dom: About half of late adult virgins state they never felt attraction to the opposite sex (but asexuals are rare in the general population, only 1%).<ref name="haydon2013"></ref> Could be a [[mutation]] or slow-life history trait. | ||
** Starting puberty late as a male or being physically immature compared to your peers as a teenager.<ref>Tucker Halpern, C., Waller, M.W., Spriggs, A., & Hallfors, D.D. (2006). Adolescent predictors of emerging adult sexual patterns [Electronic version]. Journal of Adolescent Health, 39(6), 926.e1 - 926.e10.</ref> | ** Starting puberty late as a male or being physically immature compared to your peers as a teenager.<ref>Tucker Halpern, C., Waller, M.W., Spriggs, A., & Hallfors, D.D. (2006). Adolescent predictors of emerging adult sexual patterns [Electronic version]. Journal of Adolescent Health, 39(6), 926.e1 - 926.e10.</ref> | ||
** [[Shyness]] or social anxiety, no flirting skills, [[approach anxiety]].<ref name="apostolou2018"></ref> Could be [[mutation]] or slow [[life history]] trait. Possibly an adaptation for [[arranged marriage]].<ref name="apostolou2018"></ref> | ** [[Shyness]] or social anxiety, no flirting skills, [[approach anxiety]].<ref name="apostolou2018"></ref> Could be [[mutation]] or slow [[life history]] trait. Possibly an adaptation for [[arranged marriage]].<ref name="apostolou2018"></ref> | ||
** Long education was a significant predictor of early adult virginity only for women in one study.<ref name="haydon2013"></ref> | ** Long education was a significant predictor of early adult virginity only for women in one study (long-education [[femcel]]s).<ref name="haydon2013"></ref> | ||
** Lower use of alcohol and drugs<ref name="boislard2016"></ref><ref name="haydon2013"></ref> | ** Lower use of alcohol and drugs<ref name="boislard2016"></ref><ref name="haydon2013"></ref> | ||
** Living with both biological parents<ref name="boislard2016"></ref> | ** Living with both biological parents<ref name="boislard2016"></ref> | ||
** Having a highly educated mother<ref name="boislard2016"></ref> | ** Having a highly educated mother<ref name="boislard2016"></ref> | ||
** High achievement standards<ref name="boislard2016"></ref> | ** High achievement standards<ref name="boislard2016"></ref> | ||
** | ** Female race preferences (see [[ethnicel]]), with Asian-American males yielding the highest incel rates (see [[Demographics#Race|demographics]] and the [[Scientific Blackpill#tocRace|Scientific Blackpill]]), which could be partly explained by female [[hypergamy]] and by slow LH predisposition. | ||
* Ideology and religion can be either a positive or negative factor: | * Ideology and religion can be either a positive or negative factor: | ||
** Religious or strict environment predicts remaining virgin during early adulthood (significantly only for women, but no sex difference)<ref name="haydon2013">Haydon, A. A., Cheng, M. M., Herring, A. H., McRee, A.-L., & Halpern, C. T. (2013). Prevalence and Predictors of Sexual Inexperience in Adulthood. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 43(2), 221–230. doi:10.1007/s10508-013-0164-3</ref> | ** Religious or strict environment predicts remaining virgin during early adulthood (significantly only for women, but no sex difference)<ref name="haydon2013">Haydon, A. A., Cheng, M. M., Herring, A. H., McRee, A.-L., & Halpern, C. T. (2013). Prevalence and Predictors of Sexual Inexperience in Adulthood. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 43(2), 221–230. doi:10.1007/s10508-013-0164-3</ref> | ||
**[[Sex-negativity]] within puritanical religions or ideologies like [[feminism]] or [[environmentalism]]. Parents who do not care about their children marrying/reproducing | **[[Sex-negativity]] within puritanical religions or ideologies like [[feminism]] or [[environmentalism]]. | ||
** Parents who do not care about their children marrying/reproducing due to disinterest or ideology, [[evolutionary mismatch|mismatching]] the universal prevalence of [[marriage]] and [[arranged marriage]] across human societies. | |||
* Failed fast [[life history]] strategists (overall more thirsty, hence experiencing inceldom and dryspells as a greater psychological burden). High [[sex drive]], but high anxiety, autism, poor looks, bad health or other impediments. | * Failed fast [[life history]] strategists (overall more thirsty, hence experiencing inceldom and dryspells as a greater psychological burden). High [[sex drive]], but high anxiety, autism, poor looks, bad health or other impediments. | ||
** Fast life history races/immigrants living in slow LH host countries with increasingly strong norms against teen sexuality and casual sexuality. | |||
* A string of bad luck | * A string of bad luck | ||
** Only met fast [[life history]] [[BPD|BPD chicks]] who crave being humiliated by [[Chad]] | ** Only met fast [[life history]] [[BPD|BPD chicks]] who crave being humiliated by [[Chad]] | ||