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According to a study in ''The Journal of Sex Research'', people are judgmental towards virgins in real life, not just in movies or television shows. In the first part of the study, researchers asked 560 heterosexual adults ages 18 to 71, about a quarter of whom were virgins, to rate their agreement with statements like "I feel that I am odd or abnormal because of my level of sexual experience" and "People treat me differently because of my level of sexual experience." Researchers discovered that virgins—but not those who were very sexually experienced—perceived a lot of stigma and exclusion around their sex lives. | According to a study in ''The Journal of Sex Research'', people are judgmental towards virgins in real life, not just in movies or television shows. In the first part of the study, researchers asked 560 heterosexual adults ages 18 to 71, about a quarter of whom were virgins, to rate their agreement with statements like "I feel that I am odd or abnormal because of my level of sexual experience" and "People treat me differently because of my level of sexual experience." Researchers discovered that virgins—but not those who were very sexually experienced—perceived a lot of stigma and exclusion around their sex lives. | ||
In the second study, the researchers asked a group of 4,934 single, heterosexual adults (2,600 women, 2,334 men) ages 21 to 76+ (M=47.0, SD=15.5): "How likely are you to consider getting into a committed relationship with someone who is a virgin?". Participants were given a 4-point likelihood scale of entering a romantic relationship with a virgin with a midpoint of 2.5. The mean likelihood they gave on the likelihood scale was 2.41 (SD=1.02). | |||
{| class="wikitable" | |||
! rowspan="2" | Type of person | |||
! colspan="2" | Likelihood of entering a relationship with virgins | |||
|- | |||
! Mean | |||
! SD | |||
|- | |||
| Men | |||
| 2.20 | |||
| 0.97 | |||
|- | |||
| Women | |||
| 2.60 | |||
| 1.03 | |||
|- | |||
| Virgins | |||
| 1.97 | |||
| 1.00 | |||
|- | |||
| Non-virgins | |||
| 2.50 | |||
| 1.01 | |||
|- | |||
| Younger adults | |||
| 1.95 | |||
| 0.87 | |||
|- | |||
| Older adults | |||
| 2.92 | |||
| 0.99 | |||
|- | |||
| colspan="3" | ''SD = Standard deviation'' | |||
|} | |||
Although men were less willing to date a virgin than women, this was only true when it came to men and women of all age groups. The study found that younger adults were significantly less likely to date a virgin than older adults (older adults had a somewhat high likelihood of dating a virgin) and that this difference between younger adults and older adults' likelihood was more pronounced among women than men. This means younger women had an extremely low likelihood of dating a virgin. Overall, men were less likely to consider dating virgins than were women, but this difference was stronger among nonvirgins (b = −0.41, t4926 = −13.94, p < .001, rp = −.20 [−.17, −.22]) than among virgins (b = −0.25, t4926 = −3.62, p < .001, rp = −.05 [−.02, −.08]). Moreover, virgin participants were less likely to consider dating a virgin than were non-virgin participants. This difference was bigger for women (b = −0.50, t4926 = −10.00, p < .001, rp = −.14 [−.11, −.17]) than for men (b = −0.34, t4926 = −6.10, p < .001, rp = −.09 [−.06, −.11]). Non-virgin men and virgin women had a low likelihood of dating a virgin (especially virgin women because they had a very low likelihood of dating a virgin). Younger women had a very low likelihood of dating a virgin. It is possible the younger virgin women had the lowest likelihood of dating a virgin. | |||
Nonetheless, mysteriously, another study shows that virgins are more willing than non-virgins to date other virgins. In the third part of the study, 353 heterosexual participants ranked dating profiles of virgins and non-virgins, and the latter were again considered by virgins to be more desirable dates. In this study, virgins were more willing than the rest of the population to dating another virgin. However, the age group was 18 to 26 with a mean age of 18.6 and standard deviation of 1.0. People in their late teens/early 20s in general are more willing to date a virgin because this is the last age group where virginity is considered almost "acceptable". | |||
In a survey conducted by Match.com among single men and women who are non-members of Match.com (i.e.: ''not'' members of Match.com), 42% of respondents said they refuse to date a virgin (51% of women, compared to only 33% of men). Younger single adults were less willing to date a virgin than older single adults. The Match survey didn't reveal results distinguishing between young men and women and older men and women. Due to the fact that in aforementioned studies, younger women had a low likelihood of dating a virgin, it could be for young women in the Match survey, it was 61% or even higher rather than 51%. The Match study looked at 5,481 American single adults and 1,095 married adults ages 21 to 65+. | |||
In a survey of OkCupid users, users were asked their likelihood of dating a specific type of person, whether it was a virgin, someone who never finished high school, someone who is obese, someone who still lives with their parents, etc. The answers include "definitely not", "probably not", "indifferent", "probably", and "definitely". Only about 29% of men on OkCupid said they would probably not or definitely not date a virgin while about 61% of women on OkCupid said they would probably not or definitely not date a virgin. | |||
In a YouTube video by KamaTV, they asked women on the street if they like virgin men or if they would date a virgin man. Although they were a fair amount who were willing to date one, many said they don't like virgin men or that they wouldn't date one. The noteworthy aspect of this video is that many of these women appeared to be in their early 20s. One of the women said she doesn't like virgin men and said: "I can't think of anything worse." This woman appeared to be in her early 20s. | |||
<span style="font-size:125%">'''Discussion:'''</span> | <span style="font-size:125%">'''Discussion:'''</span> | ||
Although this means that 49% of single women are willing to date a virgin, there are still many women who refuse to. This means that if an adult male virgin tries to start relationships with women, he will face a lot of rejections half the time. Although one study shows that virgins are more willing than non-virgins to date other virgins, another shows that virgins are less willing than non-virgins to date another virgin, and even if virgins are willing to date a virgin, virgins are very rare by young adulthood, making it difficult for a virgin to find another virgin. Additionally, almost everyone has premarital sex, so virgins who want to wait until marriage will also struggle to find someone who will wait until marriage. | Although this means that 49% of single women are willing to date a virgin, there are still many women who refuse to. This means that if an adult male virgin tries to start relationships with women, he will face a lot of rejections half the time. It could be a higher likelihood of being rejected when it comes to young women. Although one study shows that virgins are more willing than non-virgins to date other virgins, another shows that virgins are less willing than non-virgins to date another virgin, and even if virgins are willing to date a virgin, virgins are very rare by young adulthood, making it difficult for a virgin to find another virgin. Also, the study where virgins were willing to date virgins focused on college-age adults primarily while the study where virgins refused to date virgins had a much larger sample size with various age groups. Additionally, almost everyone has premarital sex, so virgins who want to wait until marriage will also struggle to find someone who will wait until marriage. This all means that being a late bloomer can make it more difficult to find a relationship. At 18 or 19, being a virgin won't be a dealbreaker. Women maybe won't even consider it a dealbreaker at age 20. Nonetheless, when you get to 21 or 22, it becomes a dealbreaker, and in your mid-20s, it becomes a red flag to many women if you are still a virgin. This causes consequences for late bloomers including interpersonal consequences and social consequences. | ||
<span style="font-size:125%">'''Quotes:'''</span> | |||
*''Across three studies, we examined an underrepresented demographic—sexually inexperienced adults—to observe the social stigma and discrimination associated with being off-time in sexual debut. Our results suggested that sexually inexperienced adults may perceive themselves as stigma- tized and that they may not be desired as romantic partners, even by those who themselves are sexually inexperienced. These findings support a new social sexual script that has largely abandoned virginity as a virtue and instead indicates that people should have some sexual experience to be pre- ferred partners. While previous research has suggested it is possible for one to have too much sexual experience, we have shown that having no sexual experience may also be associated with negative evaluations. Because intimate rela- tionships are essential to well-being, especially across the adult life course, it seems that being a late bloomer with sexual debut could be associated with negative social and interpersonal consequences.'' | |||
<span style="font-size:125%">'''References:'''</span> | <span style="font-size:125%">'''References:'''</span> | ||
* 2013. ''Singles in America: Match.com Releases Third Annual Comprehensive Study on the Single Population.'' Match.com. [[https://match.mediaroom.com/2013-02-05-Singles-in-America-Match-com-Releases-Third-Annual-Comprehensive-Study-on-the-Single-Population Article]] | * February 5, 2013. ''Singles in America: Match.com Releases Third Annual Comprehensive Study on the Single Population.'' Match.com. [[https://match.mediaroom.com/2013-02-05-Singles-in-America-Match-com-Releases-Third-Annual-Comprehensive-Study-on-the-Single-Population Article]] | ||
* Weiss S. 2016. ''The Stigma Against Virgins Is Real, Study Says.'' Glamour. [[https://www.glamour.com/story/stigma-against-virgins Article]] | * Weiss S. 2016. ''The Stigma Against Virgins Is Real, Study Says.'' Glamour. [[https://www.glamour.com/story/stigma-against-virgins Article]] | ||
* [https://i.imgur.com/cjbFsOZ.png Survey of OkCupid users] | |||
* [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tEuCa01iKZg Do girls like virgin men?]. KamaTV. | |||
* Gesselman, A. N., Webster, G. D., & Garcia, J. R. (2016). Has Virginity Lost Its Virtue? Relationship Stigma Associated With Being a Sexually Inexperienced Adult. The Journal of Sex Research, 54(2), 202–213. doi:10.1080/00224499.2016.1144042 | |||
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