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== Possible benefits over non-marriage partnerships == | == Possible benefits over non-marriage partnerships == | ||
Marriage has some benefit to men over non-institutionalized [[long-term relationship|long-term]] sexual bribery as men lose interest in a partner much slower than women and cannot find sex outside of long term [[relationship]]s as | Marriage has some benefit to men over non-institutionalized [[long-term relationship|long-term]] sexual bribery as men lose interest in a partner much slower than women and cannot find sex outside of long term [[relationship]]s as easily as women. | ||
== Divorce == | == Divorce == | ||
Women initiate over 75% of the divorces explicitly, and | Women initiate over 75% of the divorces explicitly, and maybe even more implicitly. Your tax dollars then go toward subsidies for single motherhood, and often the state makes the dad pay the woman after she divorces him. The process of women marrying men, and then divorcing him for no good reason and collecting child support/alimony is also known as [[divorce rape]]. [[Femoids|Women]] often say this is justified as [[boomer]] men cheat about 5% more than [[boomer]] women, but with the rise of female [[hypergamy]], [[Tinder]], other online dating, and social media, younger married women of the millennial generation are cheating more than men<ref>https://tonic.vice.com/en_us/article/a38dwj/monogamy-may-be-even-more-difficult-for-women-than-it-is-for-men?Utm_source=tonictwitterus</ref>. Feminist magazine [[babe.net]], celebrated that younger women are now cheating more than men with their article, "Women hate monogamy even more than men do, vindicating empowered [[thot|hoes]] everywhere."<ref>https://babe.net/2018/09/20/women-hate-monogamy-even-more-than-men-do-vindicating-empowered-hoes-everywhere-79623</ref> | ||
== Trend toward polyamory with rise in divorce == | == Trend toward polyamory with rise in divorce == | ||
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The only problem is that short-term, high-friction polyamory in a free [[sexual market]] makes incels inevitable unless there is a specific social or government program to address inceldom. The growing pool of [[incels]] during a rise of polyamory always ends ultimately in societal [[polygyny]], no matter how many women believe their individual [[polyandry]] results in societal polyandry. Many people are concerned about the rise of short-term polyamory with the disintegration of marriage, and propose [[enforced monogamy]] as a solution including [[NKL]] and [[Jordan Peterson]]. | The only problem is that short-term, high-friction polyamory in a free [[sexual market]] makes incels inevitable unless there is a specific social or government program to address inceldom. The growing pool of [[incels]] during a rise of polyamory always ends ultimately in societal [[polygyny]], no matter how many women believe their individual [[polyandry]] results in societal polyandry. Many people are concerned about the rise of short-term polyamory with the disintegration of marriage, and propose [[enforced monogamy]] as a solution including [[NKL]] and [[Jordan Peterson]]. | ||
== Marriage and human nature == | |||
Marriage is extremely common in humans and can be found in nearly all cultures, even in primitive hunter-gatherers. A certain degree of dependence of women on men, is also universal, with men producing significantly more calories of food even in the most egalitarian hunter-gatheres such as the Hadza,<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill_(Supplemental)#In_hunter-gatherers.2C_men_use_meat_to_obtain_mating_opportunities_and_to_invest_in_mates_and_offspring</ref> and men being significantly stronger.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill_(Supplemental)#Almost_all_men_are_stronger_than_almost_all_women</ref> What is more, [[arranged marriage]] is even more common than free mate choice with 70% of hunter-gatherer societies primarily practicing this kind of marriage (especially in the first marriage).<ref>https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704919887706</ref> This raises the question whether humans have evolved to desire to be coupled by their parents, which in turn could also explain the rise of modern [[mismatchcel|inceldom in an extremely free mating context]]. However, such adaptations are difficult to prove scientifically and may fall victim of the [[wikipedia:Naturalistic fallacy|naturalistic fallacy]]. | |||
What is, however, unnatural in modern marriage is the degree of institutionalization within large nation states. E.g. alimony, the requirement for the ex-husband to provide for the ex-wife after divorce, is such an institution. It derives from the necessity of the state to make sure everyone is taken care of. [[Free rider]]s like men that like to [[pump and dump]] careless [[foid]]s create an undesirable incidence of [[single mothers]] with neglected children which incur a substantial cost on communities. Alimony solved this problem, but [[feminism|feminist]] policy pushed things so far that we are seeing an increase in single mothers, due to emphasizing personal freedom and mate choice (resulting in an overall decline in marriage) and due to no-fault divorce making it very easy for women (and men) to divorce. Unnatural is also the indefinite length of modern marriage contracts (which used to be less formal), however no-fault divorce has already largely resolved that. | |||
== Comics == | == Comics == | ||