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Monday has talked about how people tend to be less forgiving of socially-inept people the older they are, and that this may be another reason men can become incels/FAs. Monday asserted that there is a crucial window of time, generally between the ages of 10 and 25, that young men must develop skills with women, and if something comes along and derails this process, then dating can be extremely difficult and confusing for young men. | Monday has talked about how people tend to be less forgiving of socially-inept people the older they are, and that this may be another reason men can become incels/FAs. Monday asserted that there is a crucial window of time, generally between the ages of 10 and 25, that young men must develop skills with women, and if something comes along and derails this process, then dating can be extremely difficult and confusing for young men. | ||
Monday felt that incels/FAs are often given a lot of unhelpful advice from people who do not understand the incel/FA problem. In particular, he has criticized the often-touted mantra of "self-improvement". Monday has asserted that no one is really on a 'perpetual treadmill of self-improvement', and that average and below-average men, and even NEETs can successfully get girlfriends/wives they are attracted to. Monday has asserted that the notion that one needs to "become the best version of themselves" in order to achieve sexual/romantic fulfillment is contradictory to Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. | Monday felt that incels/FAs are often given a lot of unhelpful advice from people who do not understand the incel/FA problem. In particular, he has criticized the often-touted mantra of "self-improvement". Monday has asserted that no one is really on a 'perpetual treadmill of self-improvement', and that average and below-average men, and even NEETs can successfully get girlfriends/wives they are attracted to. Monday has asserted that the notion that one needs to "become the best version of themselves" in order to achieve sexual/romantic fulfillment is contradictory to Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. Monday also talked about how self-improvement efforts may ultimately be futile because there may be no decent, attractive single people in a person’s age-range left by the time a person has significantly improved themself, i.e., the women a man wanted to date are all married/in long-term relationships, have kids, or are no longer attractive due to aging. | ||
Monday has talked about how some incels/FAs may suffer from geographic issues: some men may simply live in sparsely-populated areas where there aren't many opportunities to meet women. Some men may live in areas where there simply aren't many young single women, or there aren't many objectively attractive people (such as areas with high obesity). | Monday has talked about how some incels/FAs may suffer from geographic issues: some men may simply live in sparsely-populated areas where there aren't many opportunities to meet women. Some men may live in areas where there simply aren't many young single women, or there aren't many objectively attractive people (such as areas with high obesity). | ||
== "Dark-skinned Black Man" Meme == | =="Dark-skinned Black Man" Meme== | ||
In one video, Monday was reading off insane comments he had gotten from viewers. One commenter seriously referred to Monday as a "dark-skinned black man" among other outrageous assertions as to why he was scaring off women. The absurd description became a running meme on his channel. | In one video, Monday was reading off insane comments he had gotten from viewers. One commenter seriously referred to Monday as a "dark-skinned black man" among other outrageous assertions as to why he was scaring off women. The absurd description became a running meme on his channel. | ||