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[[File:John_William_Waterhouse_-_La_Belle_Dame_sans_Merci_(1893).jpg|thumb|right|300px|She's just testing him and is wanting his resources]] | [[File:John_William_Waterhouse_-_La_Belle_Dame_sans_Merci_(1893).jpg|thumb|right|300px|She's just testing him and is wanting his resources]] | ||
'''Romance''' is a kind of male [[courtship]] display that consists in the [[political correctness|politically correct]] and sophisticated [[beauty#Beautiful_behavior|art]] of concealing the mundane transactional, [[eugenics|eugenicist]] and [[dominance hierarchy|competitive]] nature of human sexual [[relationship]]s. As a courtship behavior, romance has the biological purpose of displaying the quality of the man's genes and acts as a [[costly signal]] of his ability and willingness to his [[hypergamy|invest resources]] in the woman and future offspring. | '''Romance''' is a kind of male [[courtship]] display that consists in the [[political correctness|politically correct]] and sophisticated [[beauty#Beautiful_behavior|art]] of concealing the mundane transactional, [[eugenics|eugenicist]] and [[dominance hierarchy|competitive]] nature of human sexual [[relationship]]s. As a courtship behavior, romance has the biological purpose of displaying the quality of the man's genes (especially looks) and acts as a [[costly signal]] of his ability and willingness to his [[hypergamy|invest resources]] in the woman and future offspring. | ||
The closest female behavior to male romance is pair bonding, a promise of sexual exclusivity driven by men's desire for [[paternity assurance|assured paternity]] and a fear the female will be abandoned or starve, having been incapable of survival in the ancestral human environment.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill_(Supplemental)#Women_were_historically_predominantly_involved_in_cooking_and_they_never_dominated_men</ref> | The closest female behavior to male romance is pair bonding, a promise of sexual exclusivity driven by men's desire for [[paternity assurance|assured paternity]] and a fear the female will be abandoned or starve, having been incapable of survival in the ancestral human environment.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill_(Supplemental)#Women_were_historically_predominantly_involved_in_cooking_and_they_never_dominated_men</ref> | ||
== Existence == | |||
Research on [[blind dating]] and semi-blind dating suggest during initial pair-bonding personality traits do not play any role,<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_speed_dating</ref><ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_video_dating</ref><ref name="walster">https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_blind_dating</ref> so what is called "romance" probably mostly boils down to the female passively accumulating information in terms of [[LMS|looks, money and status]] about the suitor (see [[Sex drive#Female_passivity|Sex drive § | |||
Female passivity]]), and any additional courtship efforts are mere costly signals of investment and [[virtue signaling]]/[[political correctness]] as mentioned above. | |||
== Overview == | == Overview == | ||