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==The IOI deficiency problem==
==The IOI deficiency problem==
A number of [[Love-shy dot com|love-shy.com]] commentators believe that most love-shys and incels suffer from a defiency of IOIs, and so when it an opportunity finally arises, they are unable to act correctly and thus botch the opportunity due to a lack of prior practice. This is an example of a vicious circle that keeps people incel and love-shy.
A number of [[Love-shy dot com|love-shy.com]] commentators believe that most love-shys and incels suffer from a defiency of IOIs, and so when an opportunity finally arises, they are unable to act correctly and thus botch the opportunity due to a lack of prior practice. This is an example of a vicious circle that keeps people incel and love-shy.


==Love-shys and IOIs==
==Love-shys and IOIs==
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==Imagining IOIs==
==Imagining IOIs==
{{quote|if you don't want to [[cold approach]] then approach women who give you IOI's. but from my experiance with this around 80% of the women i thought were giving me ioi's or checking me out [[rejection|rejected]] me or token [[flirt]]ed me. only 20% were actually receptive ...which leads me to beleive that we as men imagine most of our IOI's.  
{{quote|If you don't want to [[cold approach]] then approach women who give you IOI's. But from my experience with this around 80% of the women I thought were giving me IOI's or checking me out [[rejection|rejected]] me or token [[flirt]]ed me. Only 20% were actually receptive ...which leads me to believe that we as men imagine most of our IOI's.  


make sure you have adequote [[cope|COPING]] mechanisms if you are approaching girls who you think are giving you IOI's, because you'll need them when most reject you and the [[red pill|redpill]] finally hits you that most of your IOI's are in your head. I've had to come up with new ways of COPING myself as so few of the girls i think are giving me IOI's are actually interested in me when i go talk to them.}}
Make sure you have adequate [[cope|COPING]] mechanisms if you are approaching girls who you think are giving you IOI's, because you'll need them when most reject you and the [[red pill|redpill]] finally hits you that most of your IOI's are in your head. I've had to come up with new ways of COPING myself as so few of the girls I think are giving me IOI's are actually interested in me when I go talk to them.}}


==See also==
==See also==
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