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Individuals in committed relationships experienced fewer mental (not physical) health problems and were less likely to be overweight/obese (N = 1,621).<ref>https://www.researchgate.net/publication/227718658</ref> | Individuals in committed relationships experienced fewer mental (not physical) health problems and were less likely to be overweight/obese (N = 1,621).<ref>https://www.researchgate.net/publication/227718658</ref> | ||
In the UK, being married was the second most important factor in British men's happiness. Single men are the least happy, less than divorcees and even widows.<ref>https://workplaceinsight.net/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/HarrysMasculinityReport2018.pdf</ref> | In the UK, being married was the second most important factor in British men's happiness. Single men are the least happy, less than divorcees and even widows.<ref>https://workplaceinsight.net/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/HarrysMasculinityReport2018.pdf</ref> | ||
Controlling for various demographic factors, the odds of dying within the next year are 1.33 times greater for an unmarried man than for a married man, but are only 1.14 times greater for unmarried women. Marriage is protective for survival for both men and women, and that a survival premium accrues to men.<ref>https://doi.org/10.1007/s13524-011-0032-5</ref> | |||
There is a significant relationship between singlehood, somatic symptoms, anxiety and insomnia, severe depression, and romantic loneliness. Voluntary singles experience a lower level of romantic loneliness than involuntary singles.<ref>https://doi.org/10.1007/s12144-016-9478-3.pdf</ref> | There is a significant relationship between singlehood, somatic symptoms, anxiety and insomnia, severe depression, and romantic loneliness. Voluntary singles experience a lower level of romantic loneliness than involuntary singles.<ref>https://doi.org/10.1007/s12144-016-9478-3.pdf</ref> | ||
Less than 5% of singles preferred singlehood over being in a relationship, suggesting singlehood is an unpleasant state and that most are involuntarily single.<ref>https://doi.org/10.1016/j.ssresearch.2010.03.012</ref> | Less than 5% of singles preferred singlehood over being in a relationship, suggesting singlehood is an unpleasant state and that most are involuntarily single.<ref>https://doi.org/10.1016/j.ssresearch.2010.03.012</ref> | ||
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One study found having many sex partners is only weakly related to health.<ref>https://royalsocietypublishing.org/doi/full/10.1098/rsos.160603</ref> Also physical attractiveness is not very much related to health.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Attractive_people_are_perceived_much_more_positively_than_they_really_are</ref> This may serve as evidence that it is indeed sexual frustration causing illness and suffering than vice-versa. Out of various diseases, depression is the most related to ugliness,<ref>https://doi.org/10.1016/j.evolhumbehav.2014.06.004</ref>, with 20% of ugly people and 11% of attractive people suffering from depression. This pattern may though rather be caused by social exclusion due to ugliness than ugly people being inherently more prone to depression. | One study found having many sex partners is only weakly related to health.<ref>https://royalsocietypublishing.org/doi/full/10.1098/rsos.160603</ref> Also physical attractiveness is not very much related to health.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Attractive_people_are_perceived_much_more_positively_than_they_really_are</ref> This may serve as evidence that it is indeed sexual frustration causing illness and suffering than vice-versa. Out of various diseases, depression is the most related to ugliness,<ref>https://doi.org/10.1016/j.evolhumbehav.2014.06.004</ref>, with 20% of ugly people and 11% of attractive people suffering from depression. This pattern may though rather be caused by social exclusion due to ugliness than ugly people being inherently more prone to depression. | ||
The extend to which sexual frustration causes social exclusion seems to be unknown currently. | The extend to which sexual exclusion and frustration causes social exclusion seems to be unknown currently. | ||
Clearer results exist for the adverse effects of social exclusion. A survey study by | Clearer results exist for the adverse effects of social exclusion. A survey study by [[Roy Baumeister]] concluded belongingness is a fundamental need.<ref>https://doi.org/10.1037/0033-2909.117.3.497</ref> | ||
[[Roy Baumeister]] concluded belongingness is a fundamental need.<ref>https://doi.org/10.1037/0033-2909.117.3.497</ref> | |||
Baumeister concludes quality is more important that quantity. "Having two as opposed to no close relationships may make a world of difference to the person's health and happiness; having eight as opposed to six may have very little consequence. Also more that two hours of socializing per day appears to have diminishing returns.<ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0092656618300369</ref> | Baumeister concludes quality is more important that quantity. "Having two as opposed to no close relationships may make a world of difference to the person's health and happiness; having eight as opposed to six may have very little consequence. Also more that two hours of socializing per day appears to have diminishing returns.<ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0092656618300369</ref> | ||
Individuals with a melancholic disposition with close friends were indistinguishable from the controls without such disposition in terms of momentarily reported negative effect, social motivation and appraisal | Individuals with a melancholic disposition with close friends were indistinguishable from the controls without such disposition in terms of momentarily reported negative effect, social motivation and appraisal,<ref>https://europepmc.org/articles/PMC5726948/figure/F3/</ref> suggesting social status among friends and/or socializing protect from depression. | ||
== Benefits of sex == | == Benefits of sex == |