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By contrast, women showed affection by enacting fewer negative or antagonistic behaviors (e.g nagging less and being less annoying). Wives were actually less likely to initiate sex the more they loved their husbands. | By contrast, women showed affection by enacting fewer negative or antagonistic behaviors (e.g nagging less and being less annoying). Wives were actually less likely to initiate sex the more they loved their husbands. | ||
Perhaps this study best explains many [[MGTOW|MGTOWs]] frustration from their experiences with marriages. It seems this study would suggest sex to a woman is a goal-directed activity to establish a loving relationship, and once that loving relationship is strong, she feels little further need for it. | |||
Perhaps this study best explains many [[MGTOW|MGTOWs]] frustration from their experiences with marriages. It seems sex to a woman is a goal-directed activity to establish a loving relationship, and once that loving relationship is strong, she feels little further need for it. | |||
<span style="font-size:125%>'''Quotes:'''</span> | <span style="font-size:125%>'''Quotes:'''</span> | ||
* '' | * ''Using data collected at four time points over 13 years of marriage, the authors examined whether love is associated with different behaviors for husbands and wives.'' | ||
* ''Multilevel analyses revealed that, counter to theoretical expectations, both genders were equally likely to show love through affection. But whereas wives expressed love by enacting fewer negative or antagonistic behaviors, husbands showed love by initiating sex, sharing leisure activities, and doing household work together with their wives. '' | |||
* ''While the more husbands loved their wives, they more likely they were to initiate sex, wives were actually less likely to make the first move the more they loved their husbands.'' | |||
<span style="font-size:125%>'''References:'''</span> | <span style="font-size:125%>'''References:'''</span> | ||
* https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0146167212450739 | * https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0146167212450739 | ||
* https://www.medicaldaily.com/psychologists-reveal-men-and-women-do-love-differently-are-equally-affectionate-241662 | * https://www.medicaldaily.com/psychologists-reveal-men-and-women-do-love-differently-are-equally-affectionate-241662 | ||
* https://www.researchgate.net/publication/247161055_Sperm_Competition_and_female_procurement_of_male_resources_as_explanations_for_a_gender-specific_time_dependent_course_in_the_sexual_motivation_of_couples | |||
===<span style="font-family:'Linux Libertine, Georgia, Times, serif'; font-size:24px; font-weight: normal;">Women initiate 69% of divorces</span>=== | ===<span style="font-family:'Linux Libertine, Georgia, Times, serif'; font-size:24px; font-weight: normal;">Women initiate 69% of divorces</span>=== | ||