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Incels don't argue with TRP and [[PUA]] so much that being a bad boy helps 'get' women.  But incels argue that having the permission to act like an [[asshole]] around women requires that the person already have enough [[LMS|looks, money, and status]], with looks being the most important and interrelated factor.  The amount of looks you have is inherited and influences your status from the preschool on, and later the amount of money that you earn.  The amount of money one needs to correct inhereted looks is prohibitive for most incels, and [[statusmaxxing]] is extremely prohibitive without good looks.  If one acts like a bad boy around women while ugly or low status, that person will often not have a good time... It is for this reason a lot of incels grow up with overly 'sweet' or 'nice' personalities, so that they don't get negative attention from women (and also so they don't get bullied by other men).

Incels and [[MGTOW|MGTOWs]] argue that large amounts of [[confidence]] can't be built from trying to simply change your mentality or the way you approach women (unless you are a complete autist).  But instead incels argue that confidence is born from being picked by women.  And that if one is ugly or low in actual [[LMS]] (looks, money, and/or status), one will rarely receive the positive female attention necessary to be confident in onesself.  Incels argue everyone is confident, there is no such thing as a 'lack of confidence'.  Incels are confident for example.  They are confident that they will fail based on previous patterns, and they believe telling people to hack how their body naturally evaluates patterns is poor advice with a low success rate.