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<div>[[File:Pill-Overview.png|thumb|An overview of the pill universe by [[SergeantIncel]].]]<br />
The '''Whitepill''' is a worldview based on the maximization of happiness of an individual, by [[acceptance]] of his situation, in lieu of denial or anger. It is a stoic and ascetic extension of the [[blackpill]]. Put more concisely, the whitepill extends the blackpill by prescribing behavior, not by just describing reality as the blackpill does. The basis of the Whitepill is optimistic nihilism, so it doesn’t look down upon people for their nature but is accepting and moving with it anyways.<br />
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While the whitepill doesn't strictly follow Buddhist, stoic, or ascetic ideals, much of the suggested worldview intersects these philosophies, since the aim of lessening the burdensome nature of inceldom can be achieved this way. It is important to note that while the whitepill is used mainly in the area of relationships, it can in itself be applied to any area of life; from work and studying, to long-term goals and self-improvement.<br />
==History==<br />
The term whitepill can be found in public discourse as far back as 2017, although always in a sparse, ambiguous, and shifting manner.<ref>https://incels.is/threads/job-interview-tomorrow-how-to-forget-about-your-own-subhumanity-for-an-hour.6372/#post-86490</ref><ref>https://incels.is/threads/whitepill-killing-yourself-lowers-chads-smv.7879</ref><ref>https://incels.is/threads/some-people-are-chads-by-personality.9538/#post-133199</ref><ref>https://incels.is/threads/elliot-rodger-has-a-stacy-fangirl.10488/#post-149728</ref><ref>https://incels.is/threads/made-a-basic-writeup-explaining-the-incel-mentality.10117/#post-144589</ref> A formal foundation for the meaning and usage of the term, as well as its contrast and relationship to the other pills, was first posted in three public threads by [[SergeantIncel]], which came into existence from private conversations on the matter from earlier in 2017:<br />
*Sep. 10: https://incels.is/threads/the-pills-as-sets-blue-red-black-white.73696<br />
*Sep. 14: https://incels.is/threads/the-whitepill.74439<br />
*Dec. 10: https://incels.is/threads/the-whitepill-practical-guide.93906<br />
[[Whitepill.org]] (https://whitepill.org) was created afterwards by Serge as a blog exploring the concept in depth. He has stated that his idea behind the whitepill has evolved since then, and is working on improving the concept.[[File:Whitepill.jpg|thumb|right]]<br />
==Core Points==<br />
*Understanding and acceptance of the social dynamics of the society in the 21st century.<br />
*Acceptance and minimization of sexual and romantic desires.<br />
*Seeking of a restructure of oneself through the rediscovery of purpose (knowledge, looksmaxxing, hobbies, etc).<br />
It is at times misunderstood that the whitepill is simple [[coping]] or [[Denialcel|denial]]; on the contrary, its ideals emphasize moving past desires and needs in order to avoid pain and suffering. Whereas the [[blackpill]] leaves the individual's fate to themselves after learning of the reality of society (often leading to depression, [[anxiety]], hopelessness or nihilism), the whitepill attempts to be pragmatic and work with the tools that are available.<br />
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<youtube>https://youtu.be/MBRqu0YOH14</youtube><br />
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==Analysis==<br />
Although society is often content when a depressed demographic becomes interested in the whitepill, the situation which pushes people to become interested in the whitepill in the first place is often indicative of a maladaptive nature of the given society.<br />
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If an involuntary celibate applies their whitepill ideals to their [[dating]] life, they might realize that they would be more befitting of a "voluntary celibate, or ''[[volcel]]''. ''Regardless, there is much of a grey area where individuals may not fit in any particular category.''<br />
== See also ==<br />
*[[SergeantIncel]]<br />
*[[Blackpill]]<br />
*[[Redpill]]<br />
*[[Pill jargon]]<br />
*[[MGTOW]]<br />
*[[FAImprovement]]<br />
==References==<br />
<references /><br />
[[Category:Huepills]]</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Whitepill&diff=68838Whitepill2021-09-19T20:17:42Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
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<div>[[File:Pill-Overview.png|thumb|An overview of the pill universe by [[SergeantIncel]].]]<br />
The '''Whitepill''' is a worldview based on the maximization of happiness of an individual, by [[acceptance]] of his situation, in lieu of denial or anger. It is a stoic and ascetic extension of the [[blackpill]]. Put more concisely, the whitepill extends the blackpill by prescribing behavior, not by just describing reality as the blackpill does. The basis of the Whitepill is optimistic nihilism, so it doesn’t look down upon people for their nature but is accepting and moving with it anyways.<br />
<br />
While the whitepill doesn't strictly follow Buddhist, stoic, or ascetic ideals, much of the suggested worldview intersects these philosophies, since the aim of lessening the burdensome nature of inceldom can be achieved this way. It is important to note that while the whitepill is used mainly in the area of relationships, it can in itself be applied to any area of life; from work and studying, to long-term goals and self-improvement.<br />
==History==<br />
The term whitepill can be found in public discourse as far back as 2017, although always in a sparse, ambiguous, and shifting manner.<ref>https://incels.is/threads/job-interview-tomorrow-how-to-forget-about-your-own-subhumanity-for-an-hour.6372/#post-86490</ref><ref>https://incels.is/threads/whitepill-killing-yourself-lowers-chads-smv.7879</ref><ref>https://incels.is/threads/some-people-are-chads-by-personality.9538/#post-133199</ref><ref>https://incels.is/threads/elliot-rodger-has-a-stacy-fangirl.10488/#post-149728</ref><ref>https://incels.is/threads/made-a-basic-writeup-explaining-the-incel-mentality.10117/#post-144589</ref> A formal foundation for the meaning and usage of the term, as well as its contrast and relationship to the other pills, was first posted in three public threads by [[SergeantIncel]], which came into existence from private conversations on the matter from earlier in 2017:<br />
*Sep. 10: https://incels.is/threads/the-pills-as-sets-blue-red-black-white.73696<br />
*Sep. 14: https://incels.is/threads/the-whitepill.74439<br />
*Dec. 10: https://incels.is/threads/the-whitepill-practical-guide.93906<br />
[[Whitepill.org]] (https://whitepill.org) was created afterwards by Serge as a blog exploring the concept in depth. He has stated that his idea behind the whitepill has evolved since then, and is working on improving the concept.[[File:Whitepill.jpg|thumb|right]]<br />
==Core Points==<br />
*Understanding and acceptance of the social dynamics of the society in the 21st century.<br />
*Acceptance and minimization of sexual and romantic desires.<br />
*Seeking of a restructure of oneself through the rediscovery of purpose (knowledge, looksmaxxing, hobbies, etc).<br />
It is at times misunderstood that the whitepill is simple [[coping]] or [[Denialcel|denial]]; on the contrary, its ideals emphasize moving past desires and needs in order to avoid pain and suffering. Whereas the [[blackpill]] leaves the individual's fate to themselves after learning of the reality of society (often leading to depression, [[anxiety]], hopelessness or nihilism), the whitepill attempts to be pragmatic and work with the tools that are available.<br />
==Analysis==<br />
Although society is often content when a depressed demographic becomes interested in the whitepill, the situation which pushes people to become interested in the whitepill in the first place is often indicative of a maladaptive nature of the given society.<br />
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If an involuntary celibate applies their whitepill ideals to their [[dating]] life, they might realize that they would be more befitting of a "voluntary celibate, or ''[[volcel]]''. ''Regardless, there is much of a grey area where individuals may not fit in any particular category.''<br />
== See also ==<br />
*[[SergeantIncel]]<br />
*[[Blackpill]]<br />
*[[Redpill]]<br />
*[[Pill jargon]]<br />
*[[MGTOW]]<br />
*[[FAImprovement]]<br />
==References==<br />
<references /><br />
[[Category:Huepills]]</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Whitepill&diff=68837Whitepill2021-09-19T20:15:58Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
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<div>[[File:Pill-Overview.png|thumb|An overview of the pill universe by [[SergeantIncel]].]]<br />
The '''Whitepill''' is a worldview based on the maximization of happiness of an individual, by [[acceptance]] of his situation, in lieu of denial or anger. It is a stoic and ascetic extension of the [[blackpill]]. Put more concisely, the whitepill extends the blackpill by prescribing behavior, not by just describing reality as the blackpill does. The basis of the Whitepill is optmistic nihilism, so it doesn’t look down upon people for their nature but is accepting and moving with it anyways.<br />
<br />
While the whitepill doesn't strictly follow Buddhist, stoic, or ascetic ideals, much of the suggested worldview intersects these philosophies, since the aim of lessening the burdensome nature of inceldom can be achieved this way. It is important to note that while the whitepill is used mainly in the area of relationships, it can in itself be applied to any area of life; from work and studying, to long-term goals and self-improvement.<br />
==History==<br />
The term whitepill can be found in public discourse as far back as 2017, although always in a sparse, ambiguous, and shifting manner.<ref>https://incels.is/threads/job-interview-tomorrow-how-to-forget-about-your-own-subhumanity-for-an-hour.6372/#post-86490</ref><ref>https://incels.is/threads/whitepill-killing-yourself-lowers-chads-smv.7879</ref><ref>https://incels.is/threads/some-people-are-chads-by-personality.9538/#post-133199</ref><ref>https://incels.is/threads/elliot-rodger-has-a-stacy-fangirl.10488/#post-149728</ref><ref>https://incels.is/threads/made-a-basic-writeup-explaining-the-incel-mentality.10117/#post-144589</ref> A formal foundation for the meaning and usage of the term, as well as its contrast and relationship to the other pills, was first posted in three public threads by [[SergeantIncel]], which came into existence from private conversations on the matter from earlier in 2017:<br />
*Sep. 10: https://incels.is/threads/the-pills-as-sets-blue-red-black-white.73696<br />
*Sep. 14: https://incels.is/threads/the-whitepill.74439<br />
*Dec. 10: https://incels.is/threads/the-whitepill-practical-guide.93906<br />
[[Whitepill.org]] (https://whitepill.org) was created afterwards by Serge as a blog exploring the concept in depth. He has stated that his idea behind the whitepill has evolved since then, and is working on improving the concept.[[File:Whitepill.jpg|thumb|right]]<br />
==Core Points==<br />
*Understanding and acceptance of the social dynamics of the society in the 21st century.<br />
*Acceptance and minimization of sexual and romantic desires.<br />
*Seeking of a restructure of oneself through the rediscovery of purpose (knowledge, looksmaxxing, hobbies, etc).<br />
It is at times misunderstood that the whitepill is simple [[coping]] or [[Denialcel|denial]]; on the contrary, its ideals emphasize moving past desires and needs in order to avoid pain and suffering. Whereas the [[blackpill]] leaves the individual's fate to themselves after learning of the reality of society (often leading to depression, [[anxiety]], hopelessness or nihilism), the whitepill attempts to be pragmatic and work with the tools that are available.<br />
==Analysis==<br />
Although society is often content when a depressed demographic becomes interested in the whitepill, the situation which pushes people to become interested in the whitepill in the first place is often indicative of a maladaptive nature of the given society.<br />
<br />
If an involuntary celibate applies their whitepill ideals to their [[dating]] life, they might realize that they would be more befitting of a "voluntary celibate, or ''[[volcel]]''. ''Regardless, there is much of a grey area where individuals may not fit in any particular category.''<br />
== See also ==<br />
*[[SergeantIncel]]<br />
*[[Blackpill]]<br />
*[[Redpill]]<br />
*[[Pill jargon]]<br />
*[[MGTOW]]<br />
*[[FAImprovement]]<br />
==References==<br />
<references /><br />
[[Category:Huepills]]</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Brazilian_girls&diff=68486Brazilian girls2021-09-05T05:23:05Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
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<div>'''Brazilian girls''' are considered especially [[Beauty|attractive]] [[women]]. This may be due to the large population and genetic mix between European, indigenous native, Asian and African ancestries, which can result in attractive females with hot bodies, and exotic beauties. Because Brazil is the most populous country in Latin America, Brazilian women are pretty much everywhere.<br />
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Brazilian women come in a number of different flavours, some are as blonde and pale as any from Europe (you can find those on the Southern part of the country), whilst you also get a mix of darker skin with blonde or brunette and dark with dark hair.<br />
It has been noted that Breast enhancement surgery is obviously very affordable in Brazil as it appears to be extremely widespread, D cups being the order of the day.<br />
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Brazilian women are known for valuing [[Neurotypical|neurotypicality]] a lot, so be wary about behaving nerdy or autistic around them, otherwise you would need a high [[SMV]] to make up for it.<br />
==Escorts==<br />
Brazil is one of the best places in the world for [[escortcelling]]. São Paulo also offers some of the best value high quality prostitution in the Western World, particularly in light of the recent fall in value of the Real.<br />
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Some escort outlets have women walk around a bar like they are on a fucking sushi train.<br />
If in Brazil and needing to chase women, be aware English is rarely spoken outside Rio, and that includes taxi drivers.<br />
==Customs==<br />
Brazilian women are reasonably open about sex, HJ's are expected however anal sex is not as common.<br />
==See also==<br />
*[[femoid]]<br />
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{{s}}</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Brazilian_girls&diff=68485Brazilian girls2021-09-05T05:22:39Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
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<div>'''Brazilian girls''' are considered especially [[Beauty|attractive]] [[women]]. This may be due to the large population and genetic mix between European, indigenous native, Asian and African ancestries, which can result in attractive females with hot bodies, and exotic beauties. Because Brazil is the most populous country in Latin America, Brazilian women are pretty much everywhere.<br />
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Brazilian women come in a number of different flavours, some are as blonde and pale as any from Europe (you can find those on the Southern part of the country), whilst you also get a mix of darker skin with blonde or brunette and dark with dark hair.<br />
It has been noted that Breast enhancement surgery is obviously very affordable in Brazil as it appears to be extremely widespread, D cups being the order of the day.<br />
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Brazilian women are known for valuing [[Neurotypical|neurotypicality]] a lot, so be wary about behaving nerdy or autistic around them, otherwise you would need a high [[SMV]] to make up for it around them.<br />
==Escorts==<br />
Brazil is one of the best places in the world for [[escortcelling]]. São Paulo also offers some of the best value high quality prostitution in the Western World, particularly in light of the recent fall in value of the Real.<br />
<br />
Some escort outlets have women walk around a bar like they are on a fucking sushi train.<br />
If in Brazil and needing to chase women, be aware English is rarely spoken outside Rio, and that includes taxi drivers.<br />
==Customs==<br />
Brazilian women are reasonably open about sex, HJ's are expected however anal sex is not as common.<br />
==See also==<br />
*[[femoid]]<br />
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{{s}}</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=User:Samaritan/Fallacies_against_Inceldom&diff=66652User:Samaritan/Fallacies against Inceldom2021-08-23T14:49:38Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
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<div>This page is under construction<br />
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=="It's not possible to be Incel / There's someone for everyone"==<br />
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While it's possible that some men are celibate over purely [[mentalcel|psychological conditions]], it is strongly believed that many men are involuntary celibate over conditions beyond their control, such as [[ugly|physical unattractiveness]], [[autism]], or [[disabledcel|disabilities]].<br />
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While factual evidence and studies showed that women can get dates and long term relationships despite living in critical conditions that poses hardships for them (such as disabilities, birth genetic defects, third degree burns, or acid victims), the same isn't true for men, as proportionally men facing the same critical conditions have higher chances of remaining single and celibate.<br />
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The following video shows a man who failed to get a date, despite paying a date arrangement company for it, possibly being socially ostracized over his genetic condition:<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dALbAg4TX6o<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5eomCyoUSoM<br />
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=="Just flirt or approach random women a lot"==<br />
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In the current times where feminism and cancel culture are rampant, it isn't a good idea to make [[pickup artist|pickup artistry]] styled approaches, as there have been multiple reports of men facing jail over randomly approaching women. <ref>https://www.kentlive.news/news/kent-news/man-30-arrested-over-youtube-4344422</ref> <ref>http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/almost-went-to-jail-banned-from-campus-for-doing-daygame-vt145519.html</ref> <ref>https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-scotland-glasgow-west-46839531</ref><br />
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=="Just socialize and get lots of friends first!"==<br />
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While socialization and bonding used to be the most common way of establishing relationships, this isn't the case anymore, as between 1995 to 2017, meeting people through friends saw the largest decline, with 40% fewer people meeting this way, and meeting people online is now the primary way were relationships are formed <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Meeting_online_is_now_the_primary_way_relationships_are_formed</ref>.<br />
Since in most online social network environments people get to know each other through imagery, such as profile pictures, rather than skillset, knowledge or personality, relationships are considerably more superficial. Most incels are known for being unattractive, and it is a known fact that a man's looks are significantly correlated with his popularity and peer status<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#A_man.27s_looks_are_significantly_correlated_with_his_popularity_and_peer_status</ref>; Significant factors correlated with social status are extroversion and physical attractiveness, with no significant correlation found between agreeableness and status, and it is speculated that physical attractiveness may have been more linked to popularity and status among men because of gender norms rewarding men for sexual success. There is also credence to the idea that humans in part decide social status by looks. <br />
It is also known that people accurately perceive a man's mental health from facial appearance alone <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#People_accurately_perceive_a_man.27s_mental_health_from_facial_appearance_alone</ref>, so unattractive men can be perceived as needy and/or neurotic which can be an obstacle in building friendships and bonds, and it is a documented fact that [[autism|autistic]] men are judged as awkward, less physically attractive and less approachable within seconds <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Autists_are_judged_as_awkward.2C_less_physically_attractive_and_less_approachable_within_seconds</ref>, which can be impactful as physically attractive people convey personality traits better during first impressions <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Physically_attractive_people_convey_personality_traits_better_during_first_impressions</ref>.<br />
Attractiveness is a major social magnet, as good looking people are perceived to have a higher intellect and a better personality <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill_(Supplemental)#Good_looking_people_are_perceived_to_have_a_higher_intellect_and_a_better_personality</ref><br />
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Particularly, a considerable amount of members of the millennial generation are often or always lonely and friendless, not just sexually and romantically, but in all respects; This reflects that loneliness and social isolation is on the rise for younger generations <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#30.25_of_millennials_are_often_or_always_lonely_and_22.25_have_no_friends</ref>, which might be related to the change of paradigms of how human relations are established, and how superficiality has been on the rise.<br />
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=="Just hit the gym"==<br />
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There are studies suggesting that facial attractiveness contributes more to overall attractiveness than body, particularly in men <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Facial_attractiveness_contributes_more_to_overall_attractiveness_than_body.2C_particularly_in_men</ref>; It is regarded that facial structure better provides cues of genetic fitness, sexual dimorphism, and health, because while a body may be changed easily with diet and exercise modification, a face cannot so easily be changed. This provides the paradox of "self improvement" whereby the things that matter most are the things one can "self improve" the least. <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Facial_attractiveness_is_more_important_than_body_because_a_face_can.27t_easily_be_changed</ref><br />
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=="Just get rich or famous"==<br />
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Both women and men are known for virtue signalling and lying about the importance of looks over financial prospects and personality <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#It_is_Looks_.3E_Personality_.3E_Money_for_both_genders.2C_but_women_lie_more_about_it</ref>. While it may be true that possessing money and status improves the person's mating prospects, it diverges from true sexual attractiveness, and provides fewer incentives to bond into long term relationships than when possessing proper appeal to sexual selection. It is a similar situation where a man seeks [[escortcelling|paid sex]] and [[sugar daddy|paid relationships]].<br />
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=="I know a guy who is very ugly and short but has a pretty girlfriend/slays"==<br />
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This is a common [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anecdotal_evidence anecdotal fallacy]; Isolated examples relying of personal testimony in an attempt to refute a claim. <br />
It's a mix of cherrypicking and survivorship bias ('I know an ugly guy who made it, let's forget about the majority of other ugly guys who didn't', etc).<br />
Overwhelming scientific evidence about sexual selection based on looks and empirical experiences from an incel interlocutor should be more than enough to debunk this kind of argument; An exception is hardly a rule. Also, perception of physical unattractiveness can sometimes be subjective, so while for some a particular man who is in a relationship/who has an easy time getting hookups is physically unattractive, this perception might not be shared by the women that were attracted to him.<br />
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=="Sex and opposite-sex relationships aren't that important"==<br />
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Sexlessness, singledom and loneliness likely have a number of adverse effects, and some studies point that sex is regarded as the most pleasurable activity of all. Lonely people are 50% more likely to die prematurely than those with healthy social relationships. Being in a relationship may increase men's social status, sexual activity was related to greater well-being the next day and warm partner contact lowers cardiovascular stress <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill_(Summary)#Inceldom_is_harmful</ref><br />
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=="Looks aren't everything"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#People_broadly_agree_on_who_is_good_looking_or_not.2C_and_it_affects_every_aspect_of_life<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Beauty_is_objective_and_measurable_in_the_brain<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#It_takes_less_than_one_second_for_people_to_accurately_judge_beauty<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill_(Summary)#Looks_are_not_everything<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Attractive_people_are_perceived_much_more_positively_than_they_really_are<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Attractive_men_are_perceived_as_.27funnier.27.2C_even_when_they_are_actually_not<br />
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=="Men care more about looks than women"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill_(Summary)#Why_women_are_seen_as_less_shallow<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#70.25_of_women_would_openly_avoid_a_man_solely_because_of_his_looks<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_sexualize_themselves_online_to_attract_high_status_mates<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Being_unattractive_reduces_men.27s_chances_of_finding_partners.2C_but_not_women.27s<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#In_short-term_dating_and_when_women_have_many_dating_options_they_are_more_choosy_about_looks_than_men<br />
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=="Just use a dating app"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Your_looks_define_perception_of_your_personality_in_online_dating<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#The_top_10.25_of_men_get_58.25_of_women.27s_likes_in_online_dating<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#The_.231_most_important_thing_to_women_in_a_man.27s_online_dating_bio_is_if_he_says_he_is_6.27_tall<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Most_online_dating_sites_are_dominated_by_men.2C_only_21.25-34.25_of_users_are_female<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_are_more_racist_in_online_dating.2C_and_92-95.25_with_a_.22preference.22_exclude_any_ethnic_men<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_reply_most_online_to_white_men_and_least_to_Indian_men<br />
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=="Just solicit services from prostitutes"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Younger_female_prostitutes_are_in_higher_demand_and_charge_more.2C_across_numerous_cultures<br />
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=="The Blackpill philosophy is bad, just take the Redpill and do the following bro: *cope advices that has nothing to do with improving looks*"==<br />
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Common beliefs among the [[Redpill|Redpilled]] manosphere are the Spinning plates theory, holding frame, and hypermasculinity.<br />
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As seen in the [[Scientific Blackpill]], for spinning plates, the effects of mate-choice copying are consistent, but small, maybe due to academic bias and/or wrong/unrealistic conditions. Female mate-choice copying agrees with humans being moderately polygamous.<br />
About holding frame, most women do seem to be drawn to leadership, confidence as well as manipulativeness and other [[dark triad]] traits (to the extent they get to choose), but displaying these traits toward the female likely requires no attainable skill (links between IQ and short-term dating interest are 0) and may be a waste of time. It's rather about male competition and social context, as well as persistence (nearly everyone needs to wait for their hardwired coyness program to switch from no to yes) and risk-proneness (don't be scared of [[metoo]], babies, STDs and embarrassment).<br />
Women want tingles, drama, holding frame is being stoic, they don't like 'strong silent types' anymore. Such men are 'boring' unless they bring other things to the table in terms of [[SMV]]. It's likely only true in that women have contempt for men that are whiny and share their feelings with women and expect sympathy, not really in terms of being low in neuroticism. Many young women would be quite attracted to some beta males who are constantly engaging in histrionics and shows of weakness, as long as he meets their other requirements.<br />
Redpillers are also adept of hypermasculinity, where attractiveness of masculinity is curvilinear with the peak being possibly slightly above average masculinity. Humans are very self-domesticated and neotenous, so some amount of neoteny is also attractive/present/normal in men, but it does not seem to matter anyhow, as most is down to competition, persistence and coercion or parental mate choice (depending on mating context). {{Citation needed}}<br />
This study seems to oppose the redpill theory that the majority of women are very attracted to conventionally masculine behavior:<br />
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* ''In general, correlations show that higher masculinity in heterosexual women and higher femininity in both heterosexual and homosexual men are related to higher sociosexuality. Higher sociosexuality in masculine women can be explained by prenatal or actual androgen effects on sexual libido and can reflect a fast life history strategy. <br />
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886919305070''<br />
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Much of the redpill type advice probably does work for confident, fast LH men who feel comfortable in the more ancient free mate-choice context, and this is likely strongly genetically determined<br />
and it's arguably a minority of guys given that free-mate choice was only normal in ~30% of societies, and those were presumable also more r-selected than european and ne-asian societies.<br />
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Female behavior is actually linked to promiscuity (sociosexuality, measures promiscuity related intentions, attitudes and behaviors) in men. This partially measures actual sexual behavior, so we can assume they are more sexually successful on average.<br />
Probably the main masculine trait that matters in terms of sexual success is being sexually aggressive and pursuing the woman, due to most women having a completely passive courtship style (at least when they are interacting with most men).Some Dark Triad traits that are correlated with masculinity are also correlated with sexual success, but it's not clear whether women's attraction to masculine behavior is the casual factor here. It likely isn't. As for physically masculine traits, the only one that is consistently linked to higher levels of sexual success is bodily masculinity (muscularity). <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Across_91_studies.2C_bodily_masculinity_was_predictive_of_men.27s_mating_and_reproductive_success</ref><br />
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Besides looks, there is a weaker evidence for vocal depth being linked to both sexual and reproductive success. This is pretty much immutable post puberty for most men. Height as well, but redpillers don't emphasize this much.<br />
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=="You are probably not confident enough, or you have a weak/bad personality"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#On_average.2C_women_are_attracted_to_the_Dark_Triad.E2.80.94narcissism.2C_manipulativeness.2C_.26_psychopathy<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_are_more_attracted_to_psychopathic_men<br />
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There are researches that shows that social awkwardness in itself isn't directly linked to sexual success, actually the more socially maladjusted in some regards have more partners.<br />
Women hate [[autists]] mainly because they are robotic, boring, nerdy, and rule abiding (you need to break rules to be exciting and romantic). They likely even hate sub clinically autistic men, it's a pure k selected beta provider arranged marriage adaption (sub clinical autistic traits, full blown autism is obviously maladaptive).<br />
Also because of their demeanor, lack of normal facial expressiveness etc. This isn't just limited to the opposite sex though, everyone instinctively hates autists.<br />
They are also typically low status and very shy.<br />
Plus it's also likely linked to being less PA on average, due to higher mutational load, but this effect is expected to be fairly weak in most cases.<br />
The study in the [[SB|Scientific Blackpill]] had autists lower PA rating as being fairly weak, we don't know if this is mediated by their lack of correct grooming, awkward body postures, demeanor, lack of facial expressivity, or any innate differences in facial morphology like asymmetries though. Likely a mix of all of the above.<br />
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=="You are just being picky! Stop chasing model-looking women"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Men_are_attracted_to_.22nice.22_women.2C_but_women_are_not_attracted_to_.22nice.22_men<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#70.25_of_women_would_openly_avoid_a_man_solely_because_of_his_looks<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#.27Very_unattractive.27_women_are_more_likely_to_be_married_than_other_women<br />
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=="Just aim for very ugly women"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#.27Very_unattractive.27_women_are_more_likely_to_be_married_than_other_women<br />
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=="Incels are a group of people that hate women / Incels are terrorists or shooter worshippers"==<br />
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=="Have you considered suicide?"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Incel_forums_are_disproportionately_populated_by_suicidal.2C_disabled.2C_autistic.2C_and_ethnic_men<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Men_are_more_likely_than_women_to_commit_suicide<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Autistic_men_have_10_times_as_many_suicidal_thoughts_as_normal_men<br />
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=="NAWALT / Not All Women Are Like That"==<br />
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There is some evidence that women are more comformist and less variable in pretty much every way than men. It is assumed this also holds for general mate preferences.<br />
Women largely agree on ratings of men's looks:<br />
https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#People_broadly_agree_on_who_is_good_looking_or_not.2C_and_it_affects_every_aspect_of_life<br />
There is also evidence that [[SMV]] is real, and a measurable concept and there is a general factor of smv like there is with intelligence.<br />
It's dubious that exists evidence that shows individual women don't care about looks completely, these cases are outliers so it's hard to examine them in a systematic, scientifically rigorous fashion. And of course we don't know if they are actually 'unicorns' or there are actually very pragmatic reasons they are with these men.<br />
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=="You just need to find the right girl"==<br />
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=="You're probably not trying hard enough"==<br />
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=="Just take a shower, haircut and lift bro!"==<br />
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https://incels.co/threads/lonely-people-shower-more-while-80-of-women-dont-shower-daily-and-1-in-8-dont-brush-their-teeth-before-bed.265607/<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Bald_men_and_men_with_thinning_hair_are_perceived_as_less_attractive<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Facial_attractiveness_contributes_more_to_overall_attractiveness_than_body.2C_particularly_in_men<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Facial_attractiveness_is_more_important_than_body_because_a_face_can.27t_easily_be_changed<br />
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=="You don't understand women"==<br />
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=="Natural selection is the reason you are not getting laid. Most men that have ever existed didn't leave descendants, that's just how life is"==<br />
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=="You just need game"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Winners_in_a_rigged_game_will_consider_the_game_fair_as_long_as_they_keep_winning<br />
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Game only works in the sense that you need to follow conventional courtship rituals to get laid in most cases, except if you're really attractive/high status/get lucky, and you need to lead the woman, escalate to sex etc. So it prevents you missing opportunities. As for the behavioral traits women are attracted to, they are all very hard to change, easily as hard to change (I would argue much harder for most people) as one's looks, so the redpill argument that 'learning game' is all you need to be a slayer is silly. Some of their insights into female nature are very good and stuff like 'spinning plates' and 'dread game' has some merit to it if all you care about is maximizing copulations and you aren't incel in the first place.<br />
Women appear adapted to lose their sex drive when they think they have a man locked down, unless they perceive the man as being 'better' than then in some way. Then they will put in effort to maintain the relationship by giving the man what he wants, typically sex.<br />
A german psychologist called Klausmann did a research on this, women's sex drive steadily declined in long term relationships except when the man was more educated than her. So we would expect similar effects if the man was more attractive, higher status, wealthier, had clear options in terms of other women etc.<br />
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=="Who hurt you?"==<br />
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=="Are you gay?"==<br />
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=="Weirdo!"==<br />
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=="You misogynist creep!"==<br />
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=="Man up, you pussy!"==<br />
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=="You're just bitter because you can't get laid"==<br />
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=="Fucking incel/loser !!!"==<br />
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=="You have issues"==<br />
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=="Stop whining"==<br />
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=="You need therapy"==<br />
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0092656616302410<br />
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=="You must have a small dick"==<br />
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* [[Dick shaming]]<br />
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== ([[MGTOW]]s) "Just start disregarding women completely" ==</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=User:Samaritan/Ascension&diff=66651User:Samaritan/Ascension2021-08-23T14:47:13Z<p>Samaritan: /* Neurotypicalmaxing */</p>
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<div>This guide aims to summarize the process of [[ascending]] from a [[blackpilled]] perspective. It is structured on the principles of '''LMS''', which means '''L'''ooks, '''M'''oney and '''S'''tatus, the generally accepted theory of how female sexuality operates on the [[blackpilled]] [[incelosphere]], especially incel forums that are relatives of [[4chan|4chan's]] [[r9k]] board or [[PSL|PUAhate.com]]. It is a concept developed by a member of the former [[PSL|anti-pickup-artist community]], [[Chinpoko]], and further popularized by YouTuber '[[FaceandLMS]]', where it is suggested that what matters in attracting women are mainly [[looks]], money and [[status]]. LMS denies [[confidence]], [[personality]] and [[PUA|game]] to be the most significant factors.<br />
=[[Looks]]=<br />
Multiple studies on face-to-face, [[online dating|online]] and [[Blind dating|blind]] dating concluded that among a variety of physical and [[personality]] traits, including extroversion, ''only physical attractiveness'' predicted initial romantic interest and strongly so.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_speed_dating</ref><ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_video_dating</ref><ref name="walster">https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_blind_dating</ref> One of these studies dates back to 1966,<ref name="walster" /> so superficiality in face-to-face [[dating]] is unlikely a novel phenomenon.<br />
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Similarly, when OkCupid asked users to rate looks and personality separately, users did not distinguish between the two.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Your_looks_define_perception_of_your_personality_in_online_dating</ref> To confirm their hypothesis that pictures were what people were rating as good personality, OkCupid followed up with another internal study which showed that online bio text accounts for less than 10% of what users think of the profiles.<ref>https://archive.li/QNCbf</ref> This means ''game'' in terms of witty and confident textual self-descriptions is also largely ineffective.<br />
Meeting online is notably now the primary way people meet for relationships,<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Meeting_online_is_now_the_primary_way_relationships_are_formed</ref> however, this includes meeting up through social networks and chats, where personality may play a larger role than in the blind and semi-blind dating.<br />
==Benefits of being attractive==<br />
By being attractive, you'll have an easier time getting:<br />
*Dates/a girlfriend/partner<br />
*Sex<br />
*A job where looks are relevant (modelling, acting or being a digital influencer, having youtube channels or instagram) (provide sources)<br />
*People socializing, starting and carrying conversations with you (provide sources)<br />
*People gravitating towards you, as well as having people rationalize anything you say or do as positive (provide sources)<br />
*A penalty reduction for being old/past your prime, especially if you still have sex appeal. (provide sources)<br />
*Forgiveness from people. (provide sources)<br />
*Less jail time in case you are arrested. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive feedback and a better overall life and opportunities. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive outlook about life and better chances at being neurotypical (provide sources)<br />
*Less likely to get bullied (provide sources)<br />
*Positively biased grading on some activities that require scored evaluation (provide sources)<br />
==Face==<br />
Face is arguably the most important factor in looks {{Citation needed}} , as it is the body part used on profile pictures, be it important ones (resume, Linkedin) or on general social media (Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, dating apps), and alongside height is the biggest social opener. <br />
===Measuring attractiveness, getting ratings and feedback===<br />
In order to take action, you must first attempt to measure your current level of facial attractiveness, from an unbiased perspective with honest opinions, take notes of it, and later enumerate your strengths and flaws. You can do the following:<br />
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1- Create a thread on [[Looksmax.me]]'s Ratings board (https://looksmax.me/forums/ratings.7/) with your pictures, front, profile, and full body.<br />
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2- https://www.photofeeler.com/<br />
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3- Create a Tinder profile on an area with many users, a city with a huge population (provide a sample population size). Preferably use four pictures (pictures containing face, full body, at least one picture on casual environment). Then use this widget to calculate your attractiveness level based on match percentage (per 100 swipes): https://www.wolframalpha.com/widgets/gallery/view.jsp?id=1f51953255f63027635d602d42b96718<br />
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4 - Use Omegle https://www.omegle.com/ . If women skip you too often, it's a bad sign.<br />
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5- Don't ask women in real life for opinions, and don't ask on Reddit for ratings. They are known for virtue signalling and sugarcoating, and not providing honest opinions, thus leaving some people in the dark.<br />
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After that, take notes on what made you be considered unattractive.<br />
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- Post a list of surgeries accordingly to each body part and their average prices around the world, also mentioning the cheapest place in average pricing to get the surgery (and refer to the money guide of the article)<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
====Upper third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
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|Bad hair density/ receding hairline||Finasteride / minoxidil||Hair transplant<br />
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|Bad hair color||hair dye||<br />
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|Natural high hairline/ oversized forehead|| ||hairline lowering / forehead reduction<br />
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|Overly sloped forehead|| ||forehead implants/ bone cement<br />
|-<br />
|Forehead wrinkles||Botox||facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Sunken temples||fillers||fat transfer<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eyebrows||castor oil/ latisse/ minox/ microblading||eyebrow transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eyebrow shape||styling/ Botox / browlift||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak brow bones|| ||supraorbital implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow skull/ ugly cranium / subhuman occiput||haircut/ covering up||<br />
|}<br />
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====Middle third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye area||Fillers||Blepharoplasty / fat graft / Lower eyelid retraction<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye shape|| ||Almond eye surgery / Canthoplasty / Orbital decompression<br />
|-<br />
|Poor PFL|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Poor IPD|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eye lashes||Castor oil/ Latisse||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad eye color||Contacts||<br />
|-<br />
|Hollow undereye area||Fillers||Fat transfer / implants<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly nose|| ||Rhinoplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Flat cheekbones||Fillers||Implants / ZSO<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed maxilla|| ||LeFort 1 osteotomy<br />
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|Nasolabial folds||Fillers||Fat graft<br />
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|Overall bad midface|| ||Lefort 1-2, 3.. Midface lift, high cut lf1<br />
|}<br />
====Lower third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed jaw|| ||Implants/ Bimaxillary orthognathic surgery / BSSO / Chin wing (Genioplasty)<br />
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|Narrow jaw||Fillers||Chin wing (Genioplasty) / Implants<br />
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|Narrow palate/maxilla||Face pulling||Maxillary Skeletal Expansion (MSE)<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed chin||Fillers||Implants / Genioplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Round jaw / chin||Fillers||Implants<br />
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|Pencil neck||Neck training||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Neck wrinkles|| ||Neck lift<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate||Palate expander||<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly teeth||Teeth whitening||Orthodontist treatments<br />
|-<br />
|Small lips||Fillers||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Bloated mouth area|| ||Buccal fat removal<br />
|-<br />
|Long philtrum|| ||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly facial hair|| ||Beard transplant<br />
|}<br />
====Overall====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Acne||Accutane||<br />
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|Big pores||Chemical peel||Laser<br />
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|Skin aging||Retin-A gel||Facelift<br />
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|Bad skin coloring||Tan (Darken) / Skin bleaching (Whiten)||<br />
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|Small skull size|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Fat face||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Low [[SMV]] race / phenotype|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad facial harmony in general|| ||<br />
|}<br />
===Voice===<br />
==Body==<br />
===Ideal bodytypes===<br />
- Mention what are the most desirable and physically attractive bodytypes<br />
===Dieting===<br />
- Provide dieting tips, mention that crash dieting is shit<br />
===[[Gymmaxing]]===<br />
- Provide tips on ideal bodyweight, how to calculate BMI and bodyfat etc<br />
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- Provide the average training routine to achieve ideal bodytypes that gives results as fast as possible with the least effort as possible<br />
====Lifting====<br />
====Calisthenics====<br />
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1a8tlZ-zbF695HA3Lmm20OIYeYYxo1lmUOczUXKLoL4s/<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Short height (manletism)||Platform shoes / Height insoles||Limb lenthening<br />
|-<br />
|High body fat||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow shoulders||[[Gymmaxing]] (back and shoulder muscle development)||Shoulder lengthening<br />
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|Bad body proportions|| ||<br />
|}<br />
===Clothing===<br />
==[[Photomaxxing]]==<br />
Most incels and autistic men are known for not being photogenic. This section needs to provide tips on how to improve their photos, and where to look for professional photographers / how to obtain professional photography and even inputs from modelling agencies. This step is needed in order to aid the user to improve the profile reach for the CV/Linkedin or dating services.<br />
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=Money=<br />
==Carreermaxing==<br />
===Recommended fields===<br />
- Mention which fields are the easiest to get decent jobs, and which ones are the easiest to get higher salaries<br />
===Where to look for jobs===<br />
===Building your CV===<br />
===Studymaxing===<br />
For studying, it's recommended to use the STIC technique. The STIC technique stands for: (S)pacing, (T)esting, (I)nterleaving and (C)ategorizing.<br />
Much of this concept has scientific backing, with nearly 100 years of academic papers covering it. For reference, it is recommended to watch the following videos from Ali Abdaal:<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ukLnPbIffxE<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-zNHHpXoMM<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fBXnxlLR0PY<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fDbxPVn02VU<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k5A26Sc63F0<br />
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The key to this concept is using active recall and spaced repetition techniques. Under active recall, you must first understand the topic, then practice it, either by writing questions or by using something like Anki.<br />
In the videos above, you can see evidence that rereading, text highlighting and summarizing are ineffective. To actually learn you must read once, then write questions, then answer them (without looking for the answers), and then correcting these questions by revisiting the study material / book.<br />
The next step is interleaving,where when you are studying several topics for a single subject in a day, instead of going through topic1>topic2>topic3>topic4(...) , you should do topic1>topic2>topic1(again)>topic3>topic2(again) (...)<br />
Lastly,comes spaced repetition,where you set a spreadsheet where you should assign where you should go over these topics again, after X days, then after X weeks, after X months (...)<br />
Then you do the categorizing , where you need to draw a graph/flowchart to make a quick synthesis about all the topics from the subject you studied.<br />
==Managing money==<br />
- Provide basic finance management tips<br />
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- F.I.R.E.<br />
==Trading==<br />
- Provide the basics on trading<br />
==Getting money online quickly and legally==<br />
- Provide (LEGAL) tips on how to get money quickly on online jobs<br />
=Status=<br />
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- Provide tips on how to build a good reputation (also, a partial NTmaxing guide)<br />
==Building a good reputation==<br />
==Arranged marriage==<br />
https://www.jstor.org/stable/23644606?seq=1<br />
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/2217232/arranged-marriages-lead-to-happier-relationships-because-couples-put-more-effort-in-to-make-them-work/<br />
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704919887706<br />
==[[Neurotypical|Neurotypicalmaxing]]==<br />
Recommended readings if one is [[autistic]] and has to live among NTs:<br />
* ''How To Make Friends And Influence Peopl''e, Dale Carnegie (extremly basic rules; [https://www.forbes.com/sites/francesbridges/2018/02/07/10-ways-to-make-people-like-you-from-how-to-make-friends-and-influence-people/?sh=33ceef4d4bb4 summary here])<br />
* ''What Every Body Is Saying'', Joe Navarro<br />
* ''Games People Play: The Psychology of Human Relationships''<br />
General advice: do not try to do social schemes, as they would require you to have anough empathy to understand NTs which you do not have if you are autistic.<br />
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Therapy has been proven to not be very effective: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0092656616302410<br />
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==[[Inhibition|Lowinhibitionmaxing]]==<br />
==[[Online dating]]==<br />
==Talent / Skill maxing==<br />
===Art/Design===<br />
===Playing musical instruments===<br />
===Cooking===<br />
Cooking is simply components reacting with one anothers.<br />
* The number one rule in cooking meat if you are not professionaly trained or very experienced is: buy a good digital meat thermometer. Most chefs have some pseudo-techniques they claim let them know when a piece of meat is perfectly cooked, but those techniques are not reliable. Moreoever, "[c]ooks who say they don't need thermometers are either seasoned old-timers who learned at the foot of a master and have doing it for years, or they's [[macho]] knuckle draggers." Besides, "[a]lmost all chefs carry a meat thermometer in their chef's coat."<ref>''Meathead: The Science of Great Barbecue and Grilling'', chapters "The quest for blue smoke" and "You need three thermometers".</ref> Buy a good digital meat thermometer for your meat cooking, there is no way around it.<br />
Learning the basics:<br />
* [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDq5v10l4wkV5-ZBIJJFbzQ Ethan Chlebowski's Youtube channel] is also a very good channel to learn how to cook.<br />
Recommended readings for advanced cooking techniques and information (not for recipes):<br />
* ''Meathead: The Science of Great Barbecue and Grilling'' (also helps for meat in general)<br />
* ''On Food And Cooking: The Science And Lore Of The Kitchen'', Harold McGee<br />
* ''The Food Lab: Better Home Cooking Through Science'', J. Kenji Lopez-Alt<br />
===Sports===<br />
==[[Successful personality types]]==<br />
- Mention which personality type can land better opportunities at life and how can specific personality traits improve socialization endeavors<br />
== References ==<br />
<references />{{Blackpill}}<br />
{{Looks}}</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=User:Samaritan/Ascension&diff=66650User:Samaritan/Ascension2021-08-23T14:44:38Z<p>Samaritan: /* Photomaxxing */</p>
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<div>This guide aims to summarize the process of [[ascending]] from a [[blackpilled]] perspective. It is structured on the principles of '''LMS''', which means '''L'''ooks, '''M'''oney and '''S'''tatus, the generally accepted theory of how female sexuality operates on the [[blackpilled]] [[incelosphere]], especially incel forums that are relatives of [[4chan|4chan's]] [[r9k]] board or [[PSL|PUAhate.com]]. It is a concept developed by a member of the former [[PSL|anti-pickup-artist community]], [[Chinpoko]], and further popularized by YouTuber '[[FaceandLMS]]', where it is suggested that what matters in attracting women are mainly [[looks]], money and [[status]]. LMS denies [[confidence]], [[personality]] and [[PUA|game]] to be the most significant factors.<br />
=[[Looks]]=<br />
Multiple studies on face-to-face, [[online dating|online]] and [[Blind dating|blind]] dating concluded that among a variety of physical and [[personality]] traits, including extroversion, ''only physical attractiveness'' predicted initial romantic interest and strongly so.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_speed_dating</ref><ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_video_dating</ref><ref name="walster">https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_blind_dating</ref> One of these studies dates back to 1966,<ref name="walster" /> so superficiality in face-to-face [[dating]] is unlikely a novel phenomenon.<br />
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Similarly, when OkCupid asked users to rate looks and personality separately, users did not distinguish between the two.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Your_looks_define_perception_of_your_personality_in_online_dating</ref> To confirm their hypothesis that pictures were what people were rating as good personality, OkCupid followed up with another internal study which showed that online bio text accounts for less than 10% of what users think of the profiles.<ref>https://archive.li/QNCbf</ref> This means ''game'' in terms of witty and confident textual self-descriptions is also largely ineffective.<br />
Meeting online is notably now the primary way people meet for relationships,<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Meeting_online_is_now_the_primary_way_relationships_are_formed</ref> however, this includes meeting up through social networks and chats, where personality may play a larger role than in the blind and semi-blind dating.<br />
==Benefits of being attractive==<br />
By being attractive, you'll have an easier time getting:<br />
*Dates/a girlfriend/partner<br />
*Sex<br />
*A job where looks are relevant (modelling, acting or being a digital influencer, having youtube channels or instagram) (provide sources)<br />
*People socializing, starting and carrying conversations with you (provide sources)<br />
*People gravitating towards you, as well as having people rationalize anything you say or do as positive (provide sources)<br />
*A penalty reduction for being old/past your prime, especially if you still have sex appeal. (provide sources)<br />
*Forgiveness from people. (provide sources)<br />
*Less jail time in case you are arrested. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive feedback and a better overall life and opportunities. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive outlook about life and better chances at being neurotypical (provide sources)<br />
*Less likely to get bullied (provide sources)<br />
*Positively biased grading on some activities that require scored evaluation (provide sources)<br />
==Face==<br />
Face is arguably the most important factor in looks {{Citation needed}} , as it is the body part used on profile pictures, be it important ones (resume, Linkedin) or on general social media (Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, dating apps), and alongside height is the biggest social opener. <br />
===Measuring attractiveness, getting ratings and feedback===<br />
In order to take action, you must first attempt to measure your current level of facial attractiveness, from an unbiased perspective with honest opinions, take notes of it, and later enumerate your strengths and flaws. You can do the following:<br />
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1- Create a thread on [[Looksmax.me]]'s Ratings board (https://looksmax.me/forums/ratings.7/) with your pictures, front, profile, and full body.<br />
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2- https://www.photofeeler.com/<br />
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3- Create a Tinder profile on an area with many users, a city with a huge population (provide a sample population size). Preferably use four pictures (pictures containing face, full body, at least one picture on casual environment). Then use this widget to calculate your attractiveness level based on match percentage (per 100 swipes): https://www.wolframalpha.com/widgets/gallery/view.jsp?id=1f51953255f63027635d602d42b96718<br />
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4 - Use Omegle https://www.omegle.com/ . If women skip you too often, it's a bad sign.<br />
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5- Don't ask women in real life for opinions, and don't ask on Reddit for ratings. They are known for virtue signalling and sugarcoating, and not providing honest opinions, thus leaving some people in the dark.<br />
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After that, take notes on what made you be considered unattractive.<br />
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- Post a list of surgeries accordingly to each body part and their average prices around the world, also mentioning the cheapest place in average pricing to get the surgery (and refer to the money guide of the article)<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
====Upper third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
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|Bad hair density/ receding hairline||Finasteride / minoxidil||Hair transplant<br />
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|Bad hair color||hair dye||<br />
|-<br />
|Natural high hairline/ oversized forehead|| ||hairline lowering / forehead reduction<br />
|-<br />
|Overly sloped forehead|| ||forehead implants/ bone cement<br />
|-<br />
|Forehead wrinkles||Botox||facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Sunken temples||fillers||fat transfer<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eyebrows||castor oil/ latisse/ minox/ microblading||eyebrow transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eyebrow shape||styling/ Botox / browlift||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak brow bones|| ||supraorbital implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow skull/ ugly cranium / subhuman occiput||haircut/ covering up||<br />
|}<br />
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====Middle third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye area||Fillers||Blepharoplasty / fat graft / Lower eyelid retraction<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye shape|| ||Almond eye surgery / Canthoplasty / Orbital decompression<br />
|-<br />
|Poor PFL|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Poor IPD|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eye lashes||Castor oil/ Latisse||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad eye color||Contacts||<br />
|-<br />
|Hollow undereye area||Fillers||Fat transfer / implants<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly nose|| ||Rhinoplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Flat cheekbones||Fillers||Implants / ZSO<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed maxilla|| ||LeFort 1 osteotomy<br />
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|Nasolabial folds||Fillers||Fat graft<br />
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|Overall bad midface|| ||Lefort 1-2, 3.. Midface lift, high cut lf1<br />
|}<br />
====Lower third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed jaw|| ||Implants/ Bimaxillary orthognathic surgery / BSSO / Chin wing (Genioplasty)<br />
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|Narrow jaw||Fillers||Chin wing (Genioplasty) / Implants<br />
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|Narrow palate/maxilla||Face pulling||Maxillary Skeletal Expansion (MSE)<br />
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|Recessed chin||Fillers||Implants / Genioplasty<br />
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|Round jaw / chin||Fillers||Implants<br />
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|Pencil neck||Neck training||Implants<br />
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|Neck wrinkles|| ||Neck lift<br />
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|Narrow palate||Palate expander||<br />
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|Ugly teeth||Teeth whitening||Orthodontist treatments<br />
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|Small lips||Fillers||Lip lift<br />
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|Bloated mouth area|| ||Buccal fat removal<br />
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|Long philtrum|| ||Lip lift<br />
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|Ugly facial hair|| ||Beard transplant<br />
|}<br />
====Overall====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
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|Acne||Accutane||<br />
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|Big pores||Chemical peel||Laser<br />
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|Skin aging||Retin-A gel||Facelift<br />
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|Bad skin coloring||Tan (Darken) / Skin bleaching (Whiten)||<br />
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|Small skull size|| ||<br />
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|Fat face||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
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|Low [[SMV]] race / phenotype|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad facial harmony in general|| ||<br />
|}<br />
===Voice===<br />
==Body==<br />
===Ideal bodytypes===<br />
- Mention what are the most desirable and physically attractive bodytypes<br />
===Dieting===<br />
- Provide dieting tips, mention that crash dieting is shit<br />
===[[Gymmaxing]]===<br />
- Provide tips on ideal bodyweight, how to calculate BMI and bodyfat etc<br />
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- Provide the average training routine to achieve ideal bodytypes that gives results as fast as possible with the least effort as possible<br />
====Lifting====<br />
====Calisthenics====<br />
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1a8tlZ-zbF695HA3Lmm20OIYeYYxo1lmUOczUXKLoL4s/<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
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|Short height (manletism)||Platform shoes / Height insoles||Limb lenthening<br />
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|High body fat||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
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|Narrow shoulders||[[Gymmaxing]] (back and shoulder muscle development)||Shoulder lengthening<br />
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|Bad body proportions|| ||<br />
|}<br />
===Clothing===<br />
==[[Photomaxxing]]==<br />
Most incels and autistic men are known for not being photogenic. This section needs to provide tips on how to improve their photos, and where to look for professional photographers / how to obtain professional photography and even inputs from modelling agencies. This step is needed in order to aid the user to improve the profile reach for the CV/Linkedin or dating services.<br />
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=Money=<br />
==Carreermaxing==<br />
===Recommended fields===<br />
- Mention which fields are the easiest to get decent jobs, and which ones are the easiest to get higher salaries<br />
===Where to look for jobs===<br />
===Building your CV===<br />
===Studymaxing===<br />
For studying, it's recommended to use the STIC technique. The STIC technique stands for: (S)pacing, (T)esting, (I)nterleaving and (C)ategorizing.<br />
Much of this concept has scientific backing, with nearly 100 years of academic papers covering it. For reference, it is recommended to watch the following videos from Ali Abdaal:<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ukLnPbIffxE<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-zNHHpXoMM<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fBXnxlLR0PY<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fDbxPVn02VU<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k5A26Sc63F0<br />
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The key to this concept is using active recall and spaced repetition techniques. Under active recall, you must first understand the topic, then practice it, either by writing questions or by using something like Anki.<br />
In the videos above, you can see evidence that rereading, text highlighting and summarizing are ineffective. To actually learn you must read once, then write questions, then answer them (without looking for the answers), and then correcting these questions by revisiting the study material / book.<br />
The next step is interleaving,where when you are studying several topics for a single subject in a day, instead of going through topic1>topic2>topic3>topic4(...) , you should do topic1>topic2>topic1(again)>topic3>topic2(again) (...)<br />
Lastly,comes spaced repetition,where you set a spreadsheet where you should assign where you should go over these topics again, after X days, then after X weeks, after X months (...)<br />
Then you do the categorizing , where you need to draw a graph/flowchart to make a quick synthesis about all the topics from the subject you studied.<br />
==Managing money==<br />
- Provide basic finance management tips<br />
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- F.I.R.E.<br />
==Trading==<br />
- Provide the basics on trading<br />
==Getting money online quickly and legally==<br />
- Provide (LEGAL) tips on how to get money quickly on online jobs<br />
=Status=<br />
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- Provide tips on how to build a good reputation (also, a partial NTmaxing guide)<br />
==Building a good reputation==<br />
==Arranged marriage==<br />
https://www.jstor.org/stable/23644606?seq=1<br />
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/2217232/arranged-marriages-lead-to-happier-relationships-because-couples-put-more-effort-in-to-make-them-work/<br />
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704919887706<br />
==[[Neurotypical|Neurotypicalmaxing]]==<br />
Recommended readings if one is [[autistic]] and has to live among NTs:<br />
* ''How To Make Friends And Influence Peopl''e, Dale Carnegie (extremly basic rules; [https://www.forbes.com/sites/francesbridges/2018/02/07/10-ways-to-make-people-like-you-from-how-to-make-friends-and-influence-people/?sh=33ceef4d4bb4 summary here])<br />
* ''What Every Body Is Saying'', Joe Navarro<br />
* ''Games People Play: The Psychology of Human Relationships''<br />
General advice: do not try to do social schemes, as they would require you to have anough empathy to understand NTs which you do not have if you are autistic.<br />
==[[Inhibition|Lowinhibitionmaxing]]==<br />
==[[Online dating]]==<br />
==Talent / Skill maxing==<br />
===Art/Design===<br />
===Playing musical instruments===<br />
===Cooking===<br />
Cooking is simply components reacting with one anothers.<br />
* The number one rule in cooking meat if you are not professionaly trained or very experienced is: buy a good digital meat thermometer. Most chefs have some pseudo-techniques they claim let them know when a piece of meat is perfectly cooked, but those techniques are not reliable. Moreoever, "[c]ooks who say they don't need thermometers are either seasoned old-timers who learned at the foot of a master and have doing it for years, or they's [[macho]] knuckle draggers." Besides, "[a]lmost all chefs carry a meat thermometer in their chef's coat."<ref>''Meathead: The Science of Great Barbecue and Grilling'', chapters "The quest for blue smoke" and "You need three thermometers".</ref> Buy a good digital meat thermometer for your meat cooking, there is no way around it.<br />
Learning the basics:<br />
* [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDq5v10l4wkV5-ZBIJJFbzQ Ethan Chlebowski's Youtube channel] is also a very good channel to learn how to cook.<br />
Recommended readings for advanced cooking techniques and information (not for recipes):<br />
* ''Meathead: The Science of Great Barbecue and Grilling'' (also helps for meat in general)<br />
* ''On Food And Cooking: The Science And Lore Of The Kitchen'', Harold McGee<br />
* ''The Food Lab: Better Home Cooking Through Science'', J. Kenji Lopez-Alt<br />
===Sports===<br />
==[[Successful personality types]]==<br />
- Mention which personality type can land better opportunities at life and how can specific personality traits improve socialization endeavors<br />
== References ==<br />
<references />{{Blackpill}}<br />
{{Looks}}</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=User:Samaritan/Fallacies_against_Inceldom&diff=66649User:Samaritan/Fallacies against Inceldom2021-08-23T14:42:56Z<p>Samaritan: /* "You need therapy" */</p>
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=="It's not possible to be Incel / There's someone for everyone"==<br />
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While it's possible that some men are celibate over purely [[mentalcel|psychological conditions]], it is strongly believed that many men are involuntary celibate over conditions beyond their control, such as [[ugly|physical unattractiveness]], [[autism]], or [[disabledcel|disabilities]].<br />
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While factual evidence and studies showed that women can get dates and long term relationships despite living in critical conditions that poses hardships for them (such as disabilities, birth genetic defects, third degree burns, or acid victims), the same isn't true for men, as proportionally men facing the same critical conditions have higher chances of remaining single and celibate.<br />
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The following video shows a man who failed to get a date, despite paying a date arrangement company for it, possibly being socially ostracized over his genetic condition:<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dALbAg4TX6o<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5eomCyoUSoM<br />
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=="Just flirt or approach random women a lot"==<br />
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In the current times where feminism and cancel culture are rampant, it isn't a good idea to make [[pickup artist|pickup artistry]] styled approaches, as there have been multiple reports of men facing jail over randomly approaching women. <ref>https://www.kentlive.news/news/kent-news/man-30-arrested-over-youtube-4344422</ref> <ref>http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/almost-went-to-jail-banned-from-campus-for-doing-daygame-vt145519.html</ref> <ref>https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-scotland-glasgow-west-46839531</ref><br />
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=="Just socialize and get lots of friends first!"==<br />
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While socialization and bonding used to be the most common way of establishing relationships, this isn't the case anymore, as between 1995 to 2017, meeting people through friends saw the largest decline, with 40% fewer people meeting this way, and meeting people online is now the primary way were relationships are formed <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Meeting_online_is_now_the_primary_way_relationships_are_formed</ref>.<br />
Since in most online social network environments people get to know each other through imagery, such as profile pictures, rather than skillset, knowledge or personality, relationships are considerably more superficial. Most incels are known for being unattractive, and it is a known fact that a man's looks are significantly correlated with his popularity and peer status<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#A_man.27s_looks_are_significantly_correlated_with_his_popularity_and_peer_status</ref>; Significant factors correlated with social status are extroversion and physical attractiveness, with no significant correlation found between agreeableness and status, and it is speculated that physical attractiveness may have been more linked to popularity and status among men because of gender norms rewarding men for sexual success. There is also credence to the idea that humans in part decide social status by looks. <br />
It is also known that people accurately perceive a man's mental health from facial appearance alone <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#People_accurately_perceive_a_man.27s_mental_health_from_facial_appearance_alone</ref>, so unattractive men can be perceived as needy and/or neurotic which can be an obstacle in building friendships and bonds, and it is a documented fact that [[autism|autistic]] men are judged as awkward, less physically attractive and less approachable within seconds <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Autists_are_judged_as_awkward.2C_less_physically_attractive_and_less_approachable_within_seconds</ref>, which can be impactful as physically attractive people convey personality traits better during first impressions <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Physically_attractive_people_convey_personality_traits_better_during_first_impressions</ref>.<br />
Attractiveness is a major social magnet, as good looking people are perceived to have a higher intellect and a better personality <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill_(Supplemental)#Good_looking_people_are_perceived_to_have_a_higher_intellect_and_a_better_personality</ref><br />
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Particularly, a considerable amount of members of the millennial generation are often or always lonely and friendless, not just sexually and romantically, but in all respects; This reflects that loneliness and social isolation is on the rise for younger generations <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#30.25_of_millennials_are_often_or_always_lonely_and_22.25_have_no_friends</ref>, which might be related to the change of paradigms of how human relations are established, and how superficiality has been on the rise.<br />
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=="Just hit the gym"==<br />
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There are studies suggesting that facial attractiveness contributes more to overall attractiveness than body, particularly in men <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Facial_attractiveness_contributes_more_to_overall_attractiveness_than_body.2C_particularly_in_men</ref>; It is regarded that facial structure better provides cues of genetic fitness, sexual dimorphism, and health, because while a body may be changed easily with diet and exercise modification, a face cannot so easily be changed. This provides the paradox of "self improvement" whereby the things that matter most are the things one can "self improve" the least. <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Facial_attractiveness_is_more_important_than_body_because_a_face_can.27t_easily_be_changed</ref><br />
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=="Just get rich or famous"==<br />
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Both women and men are known for virtue signalling and lying about the importance of looks over financial prospects and personality <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#It_is_Looks_.3E_Personality_.3E_Money_for_both_genders.2C_but_women_lie_more_about_it</ref>. While it may be true that possessing money and status improves the person's mating prospects, it diverges from true sexual attractiveness, and provides fewer incentives to bond into long term relationships than when possessing proper appeal to sexual selection. It is a similar situation where a man seeks [[escortcelling|paid sex]] and [[sugar daddy|paid relationships]].<br />
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=="I know a guy who is very ugly and short but has a pretty girlfriend/slays"==<br />
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This is a common [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anecdotal_evidence anecdotal fallacy]; Isolated examples relying of personal testimony in an attempt to refute a claim. <br />
It's a mix of cherrypicking and survivorship bias ('I know an ugly guy who made it, let's forget about the majority of other ugly guys who didn't', etc).<br />
Overwhelming scientific evidence about sexual selection based on looks and empirical experiences from an incel interlocutor should be more than enough to debunk this kind of argument; An exception is hardly a rule. Also, perception of physical unattractiveness can sometimes be subjective, so while for some a particular man who is in a relationship/who has an easy time getting hookups is physically unattractive, this perception might not be shared by the women that were attracted to him.<br />
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=="Sex and opposite-sex relationships aren't that important"==<br />
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Sexlessness, singledom and loneliness likely have a number of adverse effects, and some studies point that sex is regarded as the most pleasurable activity of all. Lonely people are 50% more likely to die prematurely than those with healthy social relationships. Being in a relationship may increase men's social status, sexual activity was related to greater well-being the next day and warm partner contact lowers cardiovascular stress <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill_(Summary)#Inceldom_is_harmful</ref><br />
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=="Looks aren't everything"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#People_broadly_agree_on_who_is_good_looking_or_not.2C_and_it_affects_every_aspect_of_life<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Beauty_is_objective_and_measurable_in_the_brain<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#It_takes_less_than_one_second_for_people_to_accurately_judge_beauty<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill_(Summary)#Looks_are_not_everything<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Attractive_people_are_perceived_much_more_positively_than_they_really_are<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Attractive_men_are_perceived_as_.27funnier.27.2C_even_when_they_are_actually_not<br />
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=="Men care more about looks than women"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill_(Summary)#Why_women_are_seen_as_less_shallow<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#70.25_of_women_would_openly_avoid_a_man_solely_because_of_his_looks<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_sexualize_themselves_online_to_attract_high_status_mates<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Being_unattractive_reduces_men.27s_chances_of_finding_partners.2C_but_not_women.27s<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#In_short-term_dating_and_when_women_have_many_dating_options_they_are_more_choosy_about_looks_than_men<br />
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=="Just use a dating app"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Your_looks_define_perception_of_your_personality_in_online_dating<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#The_top_10.25_of_men_get_58.25_of_women.27s_likes_in_online_dating<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#The_.231_most_important_thing_to_women_in_a_man.27s_online_dating_bio_is_if_he_says_he_is_6.27_tall<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Most_online_dating_sites_are_dominated_by_men.2C_only_21.25-34.25_of_users_are_female<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_are_more_racist_in_online_dating.2C_and_92-95.25_with_a_.22preference.22_exclude_any_ethnic_men<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_reply_most_online_to_white_men_and_least_to_Indian_men<br />
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=="Just solicit services from prostitutes"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Younger_female_prostitutes_are_in_higher_demand_and_charge_more.2C_across_numerous_cultures<br />
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=="The Blackpill philosophy is bad, just take the Redpill and do the following bro: *cope advices that has nothing to do with improving looks*"==<br />
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Common beliefs among the [[Redpill|Redpilled]] manosphere are the Spinning plates theory, holding frame, and hypermasculinity.<br />
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As seen in the [[Scientific Blackpill]], for spinning plates, the effects of mate-choice copying are consistent, but small, maybe due to academic bias and/or wrong/unrealistic conditions. Female mate-choice copying agrees with humans being moderately polygamous.<br />
About holding frame, most women do seem to be drawn to leadership, confidence as well as manipulativeness and other [[dark triad]] traits (to the extent they get to choose), but displaying these traits toward the female likely requires no attainable skill (links between IQ and short-term dating interest are 0) and may be a waste of time. It's rather about male competition and social context, as well as persistence (nearly everyone needs to wait for their hardwired coyness program to switch from no to yes) and risk-proneness (don't be scared of [[metoo]], babies, STDs and embarrassment).<br />
Women want tingles, drama, holding frame is being stoic, they don't like 'strong silent types' anymore. Such men are 'boring' unless they bring other things to the table in terms of [[SMV]]. It's likely only true in that women have contempt for men that are whiny and share their feelings with women and expect sympathy, not really in terms of being low in neuroticism. Many young women would be quite attracted to some beta males who are constantly engaging in histrionics and shows of weakness, as long as he meets their other requirements.<br />
Redpillers are also adept of hypermasculinity, where attractiveness of masculinity is curvilinear with the peak being possibly slightly above average masculinity. Humans are very self-domesticated and neotenous, so some amount of neoteny is also attractive/present/normal in men, but it does not seem to matter anyhow, as most is down to competition, persistence and coercion or parental mate choice (depending on mating context). {{Citation needed}}<br />
This study seems to oppose the redpill theory that the majority of women are very attracted to conventionally masculine behavior:<br />
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* ''In general, correlations show that higher masculinity in heterosexual women and higher femininity in both heterosexual and homosexual men are related to higher sociosexuality. Higher sociosexuality in masculine women can be explained by prenatal or actual androgen effects on sexual libido and can reflect a fast life history strategy. <br />
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886919305070''<br />
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Much of the redpill type advice probably does work for confident, fast LH men who feel comfortable in the more ancient free mate-choice context, and this is likely strongly genetically determined<br />
and it's arguably a minority of guys given that free-mate choice was only normal in ~30% of societies, and those were presumable also more r-selected than european and ne-asian societies.<br />
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Female behavior is actually linked to promiscuity (sociosexuality, measures promiscuity related intentions, attitudes and behaviors) in men. This partially measures actual sexual behavior, so we can assume they are more sexually successful on average.<br />
Probably the main masculine trait that matters in terms of sexual success is being sexually aggressive and pursuing the woman, due to most women having a completely passive courtship style (at least when they are interacting with most men).Some Dark Triad traits that are correlated with masculinity are also correlated with sexual success, but it's not clear whether women's attraction to masculine behavior is the casual factor here. It likely isn't. As for physically masculine traits, the only one that is consistently linked to higher levels of sexual success is bodily masculinity (muscularity). <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Across_91_studies.2C_bodily_masculinity_was_predictive_of_men.27s_mating_and_reproductive_success</ref><br />
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Besides looks, there is a weaker evidence for vocal depth being linked to both sexual and reproductive success. This is pretty much immutable post puberty for most men. Height as well, but redpillers don't emphasize this much.<br />
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=="You are probably not confident enough, or you have a weak/bad personality"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#On_average.2C_women_are_attracted_to_the_Dark_Triad.E2.80.94narcissism.2C_manipulativeness.2C_.26_psychopathy<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_are_more_attracted_to_psychopathic_men<br />
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There are researches that shows that social awkwardness in itself isn't directly linked to sexual success, actually the more socially maladjusted in some regards have more partners.<br />
Women hate [[autists]] mainly because they are robotic, boring, nerdy, and rule abiding (you need to break rules to be exciting and romantic). They likely even hate sub clinically autistic men, it's a pure k selected beta provider arranged marriage adaption (sub clinical autistic traits, full blown autism is obviously maladaptive).<br />
Also because of their demeanor, lack of normal facial expressiveness etc. This isn't just limited to the opposite sex though, everyone instinctively hates autists.<br />
They are also typically low status and very shy.<br />
Plus it's also likely linked to being less PA on average, due to higher mutational load, but this effect is expected to be fairly weak in most cases.<br />
The study in the [[SB|Scientific Blackpill]] had autists lower PA rating as being fairly weak, we don't know if this is mediated by their lack of correct grooming, awkward body postures, demeanor, lack of facial expressivity, or any innate differences in facial morphology like asymmetries though. Likely a mix of all of the above.<br />
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=="You are just being picky! Stop chasing model-looking women"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Men_are_attracted_to_.22nice.22_women.2C_but_women_are_not_attracted_to_.22nice.22_men<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#70.25_of_women_would_openly_avoid_a_man_solely_because_of_his_looks<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#.27Very_unattractive.27_women_are_more_likely_to_be_married_than_other_women<br />
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=="Just aim for very ugly women"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#.27Very_unattractive.27_women_are_more_likely_to_be_married_than_other_women<br />
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=="Incels are a group of people that hate women / Incels are terrorists or shooter worshippers"==<br />
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=="Have you considered suicide?"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Incel_forums_are_disproportionately_populated_by_suicidal.2C_disabled.2C_autistic.2C_and_ethnic_men<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Men_are_more_likely_than_women_to_commit_suicide<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Autistic_men_have_10_times_as_many_suicidal_thoughts_as_normal_men<br />
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=="NAWALT / Not All Women Are Like That"==<br />
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There is some evidence that women are more comformist and less variable in pretty much every way than men. It is assumed this also holds for general mate preferences.<br />
Women largely agree on ratings of men's looks:<br />
https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#People_broadly_agree_on_who_is_good_looking_or_not.2C_and_it_affects_every_aspect_of_life<br />
There is also evidence that [[SMV]] is real, and a measurable concept and there is a general factor of smv like there is with intelligence.<br />
It's dubious that exists evidence that shows individual women don't care about looks completely, these cases are outliers so it's hard to examine them in a systematic, scientifically rigorous fashion. And of course we don't know if they are actually 'unicorns' or there are actually very pragmatic reasons they are with these men.<br />
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=="You just need to find the right girl"==<br />
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=="You're probably not trying hard enough"==<br />
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=="Just take a shower, haircut and lift bro!"==<br />
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https://incels.co/threads/lonely-people-shower-more-while-80-of-women-dont-shower-daily-and-1-in-8-dont-brush-their-teeth-before-bed.265607/<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Bald_men_and_men_with_thinning_hair_are_perceived_as_less_attractive<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Facial_attractiveness_contributes_more_to_overall_attractiveness_than_body.2C_particularly_in_men<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Facial_attractiveness_is_more_important_than_body_because_a_face_can.27t_easily_be_changed<br />
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=="You don't understand women"==<br />
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=="Natural selection is the reason you are not getting laid. Most men that have ever existed didn't leave descendants, that's just how life is"==<br />
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=="You just need game"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Winners_in_a_rigged_game_will_consider_the_game_fair_as_long_as_they_keep_winning<br />
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Game only works in the sense that you need to follow conventional courtship rituals to get laid in most cases, except if you're really attractive/high status/get lucky, and you need to lead the woman, escalate to sex etc. So it prevents you missing opportunities. As for the behavioral traits women are attracted to, they are all very hard to change, easily as hard to change (I would argue much harder for most people) as one's looks, so the redpill argument that 'learning game' is all you need to be a slayer is silly. Some of their insights into female nature are very good and stuff like 'spinning plates' and 'dread game' has some merit to it if all you care about is maximizing copulations and you aren't incel in the first place.<br />
Women appear adapted to lose their sex drive when they think they have a man locked down, unless they perceive the man as being 'better' than then in some way. Then they will put in effort to maintain the relationship by giving the man what he wants, typically sex.<br />
A german psychologist called Klausmann did a research on this, women's sex drive steadily declined in long term relationships except when the man was more educated than her. So we would expect similar effects if the man was more attractive, higher status, wealthier, had clear options in terms of other women etc.<br />
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=="Who hurt you?"==<br />
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=="Are you gay?"==<br />
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=="Weirdo!"==<br />
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=="You misogynist creep!"==<br />
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=="Man up, you pussy!"==<br />
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=="You're just bitter because you can't get laid"==<br />
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=="Fucking incel/loser !!!"==<br />
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=="You have issues"==<br />
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=="Stop whining"==<br />
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=="You need therapy"==<br />
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0092656616302410<br />
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=="You must have a small dick"==<br />
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* [[Dick shaming]]</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=User:Samaritan/Ascension&diff=64328User:Samaritan/Ascension2021-08-10T08:18:35Z<p>Samaritan: /* Managing money */</p>
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<div>This guide aims to summarize the process of [[ascending]] from a [[blackpilled]] perspective. It is structured on the principles of '''LMS''', which means '''L'''ooks, '''M'''oney and '''S'''tatus, the generally accepted theory of how female sexuality operates on the [[blackpilled]] [[incelosphere]], especially incel forums that are relatives of [[4chan|4chan's]] [[r9k]] board or [[PSL|PUAhate.com]]. It is a concept developed by a member of the former [[PSL|anti-pickup-artist community]], [[Chinpoko]], and further popularized by YouTuber '[[FaceandLMS]]', where it is suggested that what matters in attracting women are mainly [[looks]], money and [[status]].<br />
LMS denies [[confidence]], [[personality]] and [[PUA|game]] to be the most significant factors.<br />
=[[Looks]]=<br />
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Multiple studies on face-to-face, [[online dating|online]] and [[blind dating]] concluded that among a variety of physical and personality traits, including extroversion, ''only physical attractiveness'' predicted initial romantic interest and strongly so.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_speed_dating</ref><ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_video_dating</ref><ref name="walster">https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_blind_dating</ref> One of these studies dates back to 1966,<ref name="walster" /> so superficiality in face-to-face dating is unlikely a novel phenomenon.<br />
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Similarly, when OkCupid asked users to rate looks and personality separately, users did not distinguish between the two.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Your_looks_define_perception_of_your_personality_in_online_dating</ref> To confirm their hypothesis that pictures were what people were rating as good personality, OkCupid followed up with another internal study which showed that online bio text accounts for less than 10% of what users think of the profiles.<ref>https://archive.li/QNCbf</ref> This means ''game'' in terms of witty and confident textual self-descriptions is also largely ineffective.<br />
Meeting online is notably now the primary way people meet for relationships,<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Meeting_online_is_now_the_primary_way_relationships_are_formed</ref> however, this includes meeting up through social networks and chats, where personality may play a larger role than in the blind and semi-blind dating.<br />
==Benefits of being attractive==<br />
By being attractive, you'll have an easier time getting:<br />
*Dates/a girlfriend/partner<br />
*Sex<br />
*A job where looks are relevant (modelling, acting or being a digital influencer, having youtube channels or instagram) (provide sources)<br />
*People socializing, starting and carrying conversations with you (provide sources)<br />
*People gravitating towards you, as well as having people rationalize anything you say or do as positive (provide sources)<br />
*A penalty reduction for being old/past your prime, especially if you still have sex appeal. (provide sources)<br />
*Forgiveness from people. (provide sources)<br />
*Less jail time in case you are arrested. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive feedback and a better overall life and opportunities. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive outlook about life and better chances at being neurotypical (provide sources)<br />
*Less likely to get bullied (provide sources)<br />
*Positively biased grading on some activities that require scored evaluation (provide sources)<br />
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==Face==<br />
Face is arguably the most important factor in looks {{Citation needed}} , as it is the body part used on profile pictures, be it important ones (resume, Linkedin) or on general social media (Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, dating apps), and alongside height is the biggest social opener. <br />
===Measuring attractiveness, getting ratings and feedback===<br />
In order to take action, you must first attempt to measure your current level of facial attractiveness, from an unbiased perspective with honest opinions, take notes of it, and later enumerate your strengths and flaws. You can do the following:<br />
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1- Create a thread on [[Looksmax.me]]'s Ratings board (https://looksmax.me/forums/ratings.7/) with your pictures, front, profile, and full body.<br />
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2- https://www.photofeeler.com/<br />
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3- Create a Tinder profile on an area with many users, a city with a huge population (provide a sample population size). Preferably use four pictures (pictures containing face, full body, at least one picture on casual environment). Then use this widget to calculate your attractiveness level based on match percentage (per 100 swipes): https://www.wolframalpha.com/widgets/gallery/view.jsp?id=1f51953255f63027635d602d42b96718<br />
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4 - Use Omegle https://www.omegle.com/ . If women skip you too often, it's a bad sign.<br />
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5- Don't ask women in real life for opinions, and don't ask on Reddit for ratings. They are known for virtue signalling and sugarcoating, and not providing honest opinions, thus leaving some people in the dark.<br />
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After that, take notes on what made you be considered unattractive.<br />
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- Post a list of surgeries accordingly to each body part and their average prices around the world, also mentioning the cheapest place in average pricing to get the surgery (and refer to the money guide of the article)<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
====Upper third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair density/ receding hairline||Finasteride / minoxidil||Hair transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair color||hair dye||<br />
|-<br />
|Natural high hairline/ oversized forehead|| ||hairline lowering / forehead reduction<br />
|-<br />
|Overly sloped forehead|| ||forehead implants/ bone cement<br />
|-<br />
|Forehead wrinkles||Botox||facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Sunken temples||fillers||fat transfer<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eyebrows||castor oil/ latisse/ minox/ microblading||eyebrow transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eyebrow shape||styling/ Botox / browlift||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak brow bones|| ||supraorbital implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow skull/ ugly cranium / subhuman occiput||haircut/ covering up||<br />
|}<br />
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====Middle third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye area||Fillers||Blepharoplasty / fat graft / Lower eyelid retraction<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye shape|| ||Almond eye surgery / Canthoplasty / Orbital decompression<br />
|-<br />
|Poor PFL|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Poor IPD|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eye lashes||Castor oil/ Latisse||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad eye color||Contacts||<br />
|-<br />
|Hollow undereye area||Fillers||Fat transfer / implants<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly nose|| ||Rhinoplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Flat cheekbones||Fillers||Implants / ZSO<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed maxilla|| ||LeFort 1 osteotomy<br />
|-<br />
|Nasolabial folds||Fillers||Fat graft<br />
|-<br />
|Overall bad midface|| ||Lefort 1-2, 3.. Midface lift, high cut lf1<br />
|}<br />
====Lower third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed jaw|| ||Implants/ Bimaxillary orthognathic surgery / BSSO / Chin wing (Genioplasty)<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow jaw||Fillers||Chin wing (Genioplasty) / Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate/maxilla||Face pulling||Maxillary Skeletal Expansion (MSE)<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed chin||Fillers||Implants / Genioplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Round jaw / chin||Fillers||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Pencil neck||Neck training||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Neck wrinkles|| ||Neck lift<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate||Palate expander||<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly teeth||Teeth whitening||Orthodontist treatments<br />
|-<br />
|Small lips||Fillers||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Bloated mouth area|| ||Buccal fat removal<br />
|-<br />
|Long philtrum|| ||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly facial hair|| ||Beard transplant<br />
|}<br />
====Overall====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Acne||Accutane||<br />
|-<br />
|Big pores||Chemical peel||Laser<br />
|-<br />
|Skin aging||Retin-A gel||Facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Bad skin coloring||Tan (Darken) / Skin bleaching (Whiten)||<br />
|-<br />
|Small skull size|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Fat face||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Low [[SMV]] race / phenotype|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad facial harmony in general|| ||<br />
|}<br />
===Voice===<br />
==Body==<br />
===Ideal bodytypes===<br />
- Mention what are the most desirable and physically attractive bodytypes<br />
===Dieting===<br />
- Provide dieting tips, mention that crash dieting is shit<br />
===[[Gymmaxing]]===<br />
- Provide tips on ideal bodyweight, how to calculate BMI and bodyfat etc<br />
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- Provide the average training routine to achieve ideal bodytypes that gives results as fast as possible with the least effort as possible<br />
====Lifting====<br />
====Calisthenics====<br />
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1a8tlZ-zbF695HA3Lmm20OIYeYYxo1lmUOczUXKLoL4s/<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Short height (manletism)||Platform shoes / Height insoles||Limb lenthening<br />
|-<br />
|High body fat||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow shoulders||[[Gymmaxing]] (back and shoulder muscle development)||Shoulder lengthening<br />
|-<br />
|Bad body proportions|| ||<br />
|}<br />
===Clothing===<br />
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===[[Photomaxxing]]===<br />
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Most incels and autistic men are known for not being photogenic. This section needs to provide tips on how to improve their photos, and where to look for professional photographers / how to obtain professional photography and even inputs from modelling agencies. This step is needed in order to aid the user to improve the profile reach for the CV/Linkedin or dating services.<br />
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=Money=<br />
==Carreermaxing==<br />
===Recommended fields===<br />
- Mention which fields are the easiest to get decent jobs, and which ones are the easiest to get higher salaries<br />
===Where to look for jobs===<br />
===Building your CV===<br />
===Studymaxing===<br />
For studying, it's recommended to use the STIC technique. The STIC technique stands for: (S)pacing, (T)esting, (I)nterleaving and (C)ategorizing.<br />
Much of this concept has scientific backing, with nearly 100 years of academic papers covering it. For reference, it is recommended to watch the following videos from Ali Abdaal:<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ukLnPbIffxE<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-zNHHpXoMM<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fBXnxlLR0PY<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fDbxPVn02VU<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k5A26Sc63F0<br />
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The key to this concept is using active recall and spaced repetition techniques. Under active recall, you must first understand the topic, then practice it, either by writing questions or by using something like Anki.<br />
In the videos above, you can see evidence that rereading, text highlighting and summarizing are ineffective. To actually learn you must read once, then write questions, then answer them (without looking for the answers), and then correcting these questions by revisiting the study material / book.<br />
The next step is interleaving,where when you are studying several topics for a single subject in a day, instead of going through topic1>topic2>topic3>topic4(...) , you should do topic1>topic2>topic1(again)>topic3>topic2(again) (...)<br />
Lastly,comes spaced repetition,where you set a spreadsheet where you should assign where you should go over these topics again, after X days, then after X weeks, after X months (...)<br />
Then you do the categorizing , where you need to draw a graph/flowchart to make a quick synthesis about all the topics from the subject you studied.<br />
==Managing money==<br />
- Provide basic finance management tips<br />
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- F.I.R.E.<br />
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==Trading==<br />
- Provide the basics on trading<br />
==Getting money online quickly and legally==<br />
- Provide (LEGAL) tips on how to get money quickly on online jobs<br />
=Status=<br />
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- Provide tips on how to build a good reputation (also, a partial NTmaxing guide)<br />
==Building a good reputation==<br />
==Arranged marriage==<br />
https://www.jstor.org/stable/23644606?seq=1<br />
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/2217232/arranged-marriages-lead-to-happier-relationships-because-couples-put-more-effort-in-to-make-them-work/<br />
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704919887706<br />
==[[Neurotypical|Neurotypicalmaxing]]==<br />
Recommended readings if one is [[autistic]] and has to live among NTs:<br />
* ''How To Make Friends And Influence Peopl''e, Dale Carnegie (extremly basic rules; [https://www.forbes.com/sites/francesbridges/2018/02/07/10-ways-to-make-people-like-you-from-how-to-make-friends-and-influence-people/?sh=33ceef4d4bb4 summary here])<br />
* ''What Every Body Is Saying'', Joe Navarro<br />
* ''Games People Play: The Psychology of Human Relationships''<br />
General advice: do not try to do social schemes, as they would require you to have anough empathy to understand NTs which you do not have if you are autistic.<br />
==[[Inhibition|Lowinhibitionmaxing]]==<br />
==[[Online dating]]==<br />
==Talent / Skill maxing==<br />
===Art/Design===<br />
===Playing musical instruments===<br />
===Cooking===<br />
Cooking is simply components reacting with one anothers.<br />
* The number one rule in cooking meat if you are not professionaly trained or very experienced is: buy a good digital meat thermometer. Most chefs have some pseudo-techniques they claim let them know when a piece of meat is perfectly cooked; however, "[c]ooks who say they don't need thermometers are either seasoned old-timers who learned at the foot of a master and have doing it for years, or they's macho knuckle draggers." Moreover, "[a]lmost all chefs carry a meat thermometer in their chef's coat."<ref>''Meathead: The Science of Great Barbecue and Grilling'', chapters "The quest for blue smoke" and "You need three thermometers".</ref> Buy a digital meat thermometer, there is no way around it.<br />
Recommended readings:<br />
* ''Meathead: The Science of Great Barbecue and Grilling'' (also works for meat in general)<br />
* ''On Food And Cooking: The Science And Lore Of The Kitchen'', Harold McGee<br />
* ''The Food Lab: Better Home Cooking Through Science'', J. Kenji Lopez-Alt<br />
[https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDq5v10l4wkV5-ZBIJJFbzQ Ethan Chlebowski's Youtube channel] is also a very good channel to learn how to cook.<br />
===Sports===<br />
==[[Successful personality types]]==<br />
- Mention which personality type can land better opportunities at life and how can specific personality traits improve socialization endeavors<br />
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{{Blackpill}}<br />
{{Looks}}<br />
<references /></div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=User:Samaritan/Ascension&diff=64327User:Samaritan/Ascension2021-08-10T08:18:24Z<p>Samaritan: /* Managing money */</p>
<hr />
<div>This guide aims to summarize the process of [[ascending]] from a [[blackpilled]] perspective. It is structured on the principles of '''LMS''', which means '''L'''ooks, '''M'''oney and '''S'''tatus, the generally accepted theory of how female sexuality operates on the [[blackpilled]] [[incelosphere]], especially incel forums that are relatives of [[4chan|4chan's]] [[r9k]] board or [[PSL|PUAhate.com]]. It is a concept developed by a member of the former [[PSL|anti-pickup-artist community]], [[Chinpoko]], and further popularized by YouTuber '[[FaceandLMS]]', where it is suggested that what matters in attracting women are mainly [[looks]], money and [[status]].<br />
LMS denies [[confidence]], [[personality]] and [[PUA|game]] to be the most significant factors.<br />
=[[Looks]]=<br />
<br />
<br />
Multiple studies on face-to-face, [[online dating|online]] and [[blind dating]] concluded that among a variety of physical and personality traits, including extroversion, ''only physical attractiveness'' predicted initial romantic interest and strongly so.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_speed_dating</ref><ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_video_dating</ref><ref name="walster">https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_blind_dating</ref> One of these studies dates back to 1966,<ref name="walster" /> so superficiality in face-to-face dating is unlikely a novel phenomenon.<br />
<br />
Similarly, when OkCupid asked users to rate looks and personality separately, users did not distinguish between the two.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Your_looks_define_perception_of_your_personality_in_online_dating</ref> To confirm their hypothesis that pictures were what people were rating as good personality, OkCupid followed up with another internal study which showed that online bio text accounts for less than 10% of what users think of the profiles.<ref>https://archive.li/QNCbf</ref> This means ''game'' in terms of witty and confident textual self-descriptions is also largely ineffective.<br />
Meeting online is notably now the primary way people meet for relationships,<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Meeting_online_is_now_the_primary_way_relationships_are_formed</ref> however, this includes meeting up through social networks and chats, where personality may play a larger role than in the blind and semi-blind dating.<br />
==Benefits of being attractive==<br />
By being attractive, you'll have an easier time getting:<br />
*Dates/a girlfriend/partner<br />
*Sex<br />
*A job where looks are relevant (modelling, acting or being a digital influencer, having youtube channels or instagram) (provide sources)<br />
*People socializing, starting and carrying conversations with you (provide sources)<br />
*People gravitating towards you, as well as having people rationalize anything you say or do as positive (provide sources)<br />
*A penalty reduction for being old/past your prime, especially if you still have sex appeal. (provide sources)<br />
*Forgiveness from people. (provide sources)<br />
*Less jail time in case you are arrested. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive feedback and a better overall life and opportunities. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive outlook about life and better chances at being neurotypical (provide sources)<br />
*Less likely to get bullied (provide sources)<br />
*Positively biased grading on some activities that require scored evaluation (provide sources)<br />
<br />
==Face==<br />
Face is arguably the most important factor in looks {{Citation needed}} , as it is the body part used on profile pictures, be it important ones (resume, Linkedin) or on general social media (Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, dating apps), and alongside height is the biggest social opener. <br />
===Measuring attractiveness, getting ratings and feedback===<br />
In order to take action, you must first attempt to measure your current level of facial attractiveness, from an unbiased perspective with honest opinions, take notes of it, and later enumerate your strengths and flaws. You can do the following:<br />
<br />
1- Create a thread on [[Looksmax.me]]'s Ratings board (https://looksmax.me/forums/ratings.7/) with your pictures, front, profile, and full body.<br />
<br />
2- https://www.photofeeler.com/<br />
<br />
3- Create a Tinder profile on an area with many users, a city with a huge population (provide a sample population size). Preferably use four pictures (pictures containing face, full body, at least one picture on casual environment). Then use this widget to calculate your attractiveness level based on match percentage (per 100 swipes): https://www.wolframalpha.com/widgets/gallery/view.jsp?id=1f51953255f63027635d602d42b96718<br />
<br />
4 - Use Omegle https://www.omegle.com/ . If women skip you too often, it's a bad sign.<br />
<br />
5- Don't ask women in real life for opinions, and don't ask on Reddit for ratings. They are known for virtue signalling and sugarcoating, and not providing honest opinions, thus leaving some people in the dark.<br />
<br />
After that, take notes on what made you be considered unattractive.<br />
<br />
- Post a list of surgeries accordingly to each body part and their average prices around the world, also mentioning the cheapest place in average pricing to get the surgery (and refer to the money guide of the article)<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
====Upper third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair density/ receding hairline||Finasteride / minoxidil||Hair transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair color||hair dye||<br />
|-<br />
|Natural high hairline/ oversized forehead|| ||hairline lowering / forehead reduction<br />
|-<br />
|Overly sloped forehead|| ||forehead implants/ bone cement<br />
|-<br />
|Forehead wrinkles||Botox||facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Sunken temples||fillers||fat transfer<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eyebrows||castor oil/ latisse/ minox/ microblading||eyebrow transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eyebrow shape||styling/ Botox / browlift||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak brow bones|| ||supraorbital implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow skull/ ugly cranium / subhuman occiput||haircut/ covering up||<br />
|}<br />
<br />
<br />
====Middle third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye area||Fillers||Blepharoplasty / fat graft / Lower eyelid retraction<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye shape|| ||Almond eye surgery / Canthoplasty / Orbital decompression<br />
|-<br />
|Poor PFL|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Poor IPD|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eye lashes||Castor oil/ Latisse||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad eye color||Contacts||<br />
|-<br />
|Hollow undereye area||Fillers||Fat transfer / implants<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly nose|| ||Rhinoplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Flat cheekbones||Fillers||Implants / ZSO<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed maxilla|| ||LeFort 1 osteotomy<br />
|-<br />
|Nasolabial folds||Fillers||Fat graft<br />
|-<br />
|Overall bad midface|| ||Lefort 1-2, 3.. Midface lift, high cut lf1<br />
|}<br />
====Lower third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed jaw|| ||Implants/ Bimaxillary orthognathic surgery / BSSO / Chin wing (Genioplasty)<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow jaw||Fillers||Chin wing (Genioplasty) / Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate/maxilla||Face pulling||Maxillary Skeletal Expansion (MSE)<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed chin||Fillers||Implants / Genioplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Round jaw / chin||Fillers||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Pencil neck||Neck training||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Neck wrinkles|| ||Neck lift<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate||Palate expander||<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly teeth||Teeth whitening||Orthodontist treatments<br />
|-<br />
|Small lips||Fillers||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Bloated mouth area|| ||Buccal fat removal<br />
|-<br />
|Long philtrum|| ||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly facial hair|| ||Beard transplant<br />
|}<br />
====Overall====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Acne||Accutane||<br />
|-<br />
|Big pores||Chemical peel||Laser<br />
|-<br />
|Skin aging||Retin-A gel||Facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Bad skin coloring||Tan (Darken) / Skin bleaching (Whiten)||<br />
|-<br />
|Small skull size|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Fat face||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Low [[SMV]] race / phenotype|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad facial harmony in general|| ||<br />
|}<br />
===Voice===<br />
==Body==<br />
===Ideal bodytypes===<br />
- Mention what are the most desirable and physically attractive bodytypes<br />
===Dieting===<br />
- Provide dieting tips, mention that crash dieting is shit<br />
===[[Gymmaxing]]===<br />
- Provide tips on ideal bodyweight, how to calculate BMI and bodyfat etc<br />
<br />
- Provide the average training routine to achieve ideal bodytypes that gives results as fast as possible with the least effort as possible<br />
====Lifting====<br />
====Calisthenics====<br />
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1a8tlZ-zbF695HA3Lmm20OIYeYYxo1lmUOczUXKLoL4s/<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Short height (manletism)||Platform shoes / Height insoles||Limb lenthening<br />
|-<br />
|High body fat||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow shoulders||[[Gymmaxing]] (back and shoulder muscle development)||Shoulder lengthening<br />
|-<br />
|Bad body proportions|| ||<br />
|}<br />
===Clothing===<br />
<br />
===[[Photomaxxing]]===<br />
<br />
Most incels and autistic men are known for not being photogenic. This section needs to provide tips on how to improve their photos, and where to look for professional photographers / how to obtain professional photography and even inputs from modelling agencies. This step is needed in order to aid the user to improve the profile reach for the CV/Linkedin or dating services.<br />
<br />
=Money=<br />
==Carreermaxing==<br />
===Recommended fields===<br />
- Mention which fields are the easiest to get decent jobs, and which ones are the easiest to get higher salaries<br />
===Where to look for jobs===<br />
===Building your CV===<br />
===Studymaxing===<br />
For studying, it's recommended to use the STIC technique. The STIC technique stands for: (S)pacing, (T)esting, (I)nterleaving and (C)ategorizing.<br />
Much of this concept has scientific backing, with nearly 100 years of academic papers covering it. For reference, it is recommended to watch the following videos from Ali Abdaal:<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ukLnPbIffxE<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-zNHHpXoMM<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fBXnxlLR0PY<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fDbxPVn02VU<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k5A26Sc63F0<br />
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The key to this concept is using active recall and spaced repetition techniques. Under active recall, you must first understand the topic, then practice it, either by writing questions or by using something like Anki.<br />
In the videos above, you can see evidence that rereading, text highlighting and summarizing are ineffective. To actually learn you must read once, then write questions, then answer them (without looking for the answers), and then correcting these questions by revisiting the study material / book.<br />
The next step is interleaving,where when you are studying several topics for a single subject in a day, instead of going through topic1>topic2>topic3>topic4(...) , you should do topic1>topic2>topic1(again)>topic3>topic2(again) (...)<br />
Lastly,comes spaced repetition,where you set a spreadsheet where you should assign where you should go over these topics again, after X days, then after X weeks, after X months (...)<br />
Then you do the categorizing , where you need to draw a graph/flowchart to make a quick synthesis about all the topics from the subject you studied.<br />
==Managing money==<br />
- Provide basic finance management tips<br />
- F.I.R.E.<br />
<br />
==Trading==<br />
- Provide the basics on trading<br />
==Getting money online quickly and legally==<br />
- Provide (LEGAL) tips on how to get money quickly on online jobs<br />
=Status=<br />
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- Provide tips on how to build a good reputation (also, a partial NTmaxing guide)<br />
==Building a good reputation==<br />
==Arranged marriage==<br />
https://www.jstor.org/stable/23644606?seq=1<br />
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/2217232/arranged-marriages-lead-to-happier-relationships-because-couples-put-more-effort-in-to-make-them-work/<br />
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704919887706<br />
==[[Neurotypical|Neurotypicalmaxing]]==<br />
Recommended readings if one is [[autistic]] and has to live among NTs:<br />
* ''How To Make Friends And Influence Peopl''e, Dale Carnegie (extremly basic rules; [https://www.forbes.com/sites/francesbridges/2018/02/07/10-ways-to-make-people-like-you-from-how-to-make-friends-and-influence-people/?sh=33ceef4d4bb4 summary here])<br />
* ''What Every Body Is Saying'', Joe Navarro<br />
* ''Games People Play: The Psychology of Human Relationships''<br />
General advice: do not try to do social schemes, as they would require you to have anough empathy to understand NTs which you do not have if you are autistic.<br />
==[[Inhibition|Lowinhibitionmaxing]]==<br />
==[[Online dating]]==<br />
==Talent / Skill maxing==<br />
===Art/Design===<br />
===Playing musical instruments===<br />
===Cooking===<br />
Cooking is simply components reacting with one anothers.<br />
* The number one rule in cooking meat if you are not professionaly trained or very experienced is: buy a good digital meat thermometer. Most chefs have some pseudo-techniques they claim let them know when a piece of meat is perfectly cooked; however, "[c]ooks who say they don't need thermometers are either seasoned old-timers who learned at the foot of a master and have doing it for years, or they's macho knuckle draggers." Moreover, "[a]lmost all chefs carry a meat thermometer in their chef's coat."<ref>''Meathead: The Science of Great Barbecue and Grilling'', chapters "The quest for blue smoke" and "You need three thermometers".</ref> Buy a digital meat thermometer, there is no way around it.<br />
Recommended readings:<br />
* ''Meathead: The Science of Great Barbecue and Grilling'' (also works for meat in general)<br />
* ''On Food And Cooking: The Science And Lore Of The Kitchen'', Harold McGee<br />
* ''The Food Lab: Better Home Cooking Through Science'', J. Kenji Lopez-Alt<br />
[https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDq5v10l4wkV5-ZBIJJFbzQ Ethan Chlebowski's Youtube channel] is also a very good channel to learn how to cook.<br />
===Sports===<br />
==[[Successful personality types]]==<br />
- Mention which personality type can land better opportunities at life and how can specific personality traits improve socialization endeavors<br />
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{{Blackpill}}<br />
{{Looks}}<br />
<references /></div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=User:Samaritan/Ascension&diff=64257User:Samaritan/Ascension2021-08-09T10:43:02Z<p>Samaritan: /* Photomaxxing */</p>
<hr />
<div>This guide aims to summarize the process of [[ascending]] from a [[blackpilled]] perspective. It is structured on the principles of '''LMS''', which means '''L'''ooks, '''M'''oney and '''S'''tatus, the generally accepted theory of how female sexuality operates on the [[blackpilled]] [[incelosphere]], especially incel forums that are relatives of [[4chan|4chan's]] [[r9k]] board or [[PSL|PUAhate.com]]. It is a concept developed by a member of the former [[PSL|anti-pickup-artist community]], [[Chinpoko]], and further popularized by YouTuber '[[FaceandLMS]]', where it is suggested that what matters in attracting women are mainly [[looks]], money and [[status]].<br />
LMS denies [[confidence]], [[personality]] and [[PUA|game]] to be the most significant factors.<br />
=[[Looks]]=<br />
<br />
<br />
Multiple studies on face-to-face, [[online dating|online]] and [[blind dating]] concluded that among a variety of physical and personality traits, including extroversion, ''only physical attractiveness'' predicted initial romantic interest and strongly so.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_speed_dating</ref><ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_video_dating</ref><ref name="walster">https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_blind_dating</ref> One of these studies dates back to 1966,<ref name="walster" /> so superficiality in face-to-face dating is unlikely a novel phenomenon.<br />
<br />
Similarly, when OkCupid asked users to rate looks and personality separately, users did not distinguish between the two.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Your_looks_define_perception_of_your_personality_in_online_dating</ref> To confirm their hypothesis that pictures were what people were rating as good personality, OkCupid followed up with another internal study which showed that online bio text accounts for less than 10% of what users think of the profiles.<ref>https://archive.li/QNCbf</ref> This means ''game'' in terms of witty and confident textual self-descriptions is also largely ineffective.<br />
Meeting online is notably now the primary way people meet for relationships,<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Meeting_online_is_now_the_primary_way_relationships_are_formed</ref> however, this includes meeting up through social networks and chats, where personality may play a larger role than in the blind and semi-blind dating.<br />
==Benefits of being attractive==<br />
By being attractive, you'll have an easier time getting:<br />
*Dates/a girlfriend/partner<br />
*Sex<br />
*A job where looks are relevant (modelling, acting or being a digital influencer, having youtube channels or instagram) (provide sources)<br />
*People socializing, starting and carrying conversations with you (provide sources)<br />
*People gravitating towards you, as well as having people rationalize anything you say or do as positive (provide sources)<br />
*A penalty reduction for being old/past your prime, especially if you still have sex appeal. (provide sources)<br />
*Forgiveness from people. (provide sources)<br />
*Less jail time in case you are arrested. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive feedback and a better overall life and opportunities. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive outlook about life and better chances at being neurotypical (provide sources)<br />
*Less likely to get bullied (provide sources)<br />
*Positively biased grading on some activities that require scored evaluation (provide sources)<br />
<br />
==Face==<br />
Face is arguably the most important factor in looks {{Citation needed}} , as it is the body part used on profile pictures, be it important ones (resume, Linkedin) or on general social media (Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, dating apps), and alongside height is the biggest social opener. <br />
===Measuring attractiveness, getting ratings and feedback===<br />
In order to take action, you must first attempt to measure your current level of facial attractiveness, from an unbiased perspective with honest opinions, take notes of it, and later enumerate your strengths and flaws. You can do the following:<br />
<br />
1- Create a thread on [[Looksmax.me]]'s Ratings board (https://looksmax.me/forums/ratings.7/) with your pictures, front, profile, and full body.<br />
<br />
2- https://www.photofeeler.com/<br />
<br />
3- Create a Tinder profile on an area with many users, a city with a huge population (provide a sample population size). Preferably use four pictures (pictures containing face, full body, at least one picture on casual environment). Then use this widget to calculate your attractiveness level based on match percentage (per 100 swipes): https://www.wolframalpha.com/widgets/gallery/view.jsp?id=1f51953255f63027635d602d42b96718<br />
<br />
4 - Use Omegle https://www.omegle.com/ . If women skip you too often, it's a bad sign.<br />
<br />
5- Don't ask women in real life for opinions, and don't ask on Reddit for ratings. They are known for virtue signalling and sugarcoating, and not providing honest opinions, thus leaving some people in the dark.<br />
<br />
After that, take notes on what made you be considered unattractive.<br />
<br />
- Post a list of surgeries accordingly to each body part and their average prices around the world, also mentioning the cheapest place in average pricing to get the surgery (and refer to the money guide of the article)<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
====Upper third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair density/ receding hairline||Finasteride / minoxidil||Hair transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair color||hair dye||<br />
|-<br />
|Natural high hairline/ oversized forehead|| ||hairline lowering / forehead reduction<br />
|-<br />
|Overly sloped forehead|| ||forehead implants/ bone cement<br />
|-<br />
|Forehead wrinkles||Botox||facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Sunken temples||fillers||fat transfer<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eyebrows||castor oil/ latisse/ minox/ microblading||eyebrow transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eyebrow shape||styling/ Botox / browlift||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak brow bones|| ||supraorbital implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow skull/ ugly cranium / subhuman occiput||haircut/ covering up||<br />
|}<br />
<br />
<br />
====Middle third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye area||Fillers||Blepharoplasty / fat graft / Lower eyelid retraction<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye shape|| ||Almond eye surgery / Canthoplasty / Orbital decompression<br />
|-<br />
|Poor PFL|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Poor IPD|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eye lashes||Castor oil/ Latisse||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad eye color||Contacts||<br />
|-<br />
|Hollow undereye area||Fillers||Fat transfer / implants<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly nose|| ||Rhinoplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Flat cheekbones||Fillers||Implants / ZSO<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed maxilla|| ||LeFort 1 osteotomy<br />
|-<br />
|Nasolabial folds||Fillers||Fat graft<br />
|-<br />
|Overall bad midface|| ||Lefort 1-2, 3.. Midface lift, high cut lf1<br />
|}<br />
====Lower third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed jaw|| ||Implants/ Bimaxillary orthognathic surgery / BSSO / Chin wing (Genioplasty)<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow jaw||Fillers||Chin wing (Genioplasty) / Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate/maxilla||Face pulling||Maxillary Skeletal Expansion (MSE)<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed chin||Fillers||Implants / Genioplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Round jaw / chin||Fillers||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Pencil neck||Neck training||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Neck wrinkles|| ||Neck lift<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate||Palate expander||<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly teeth||Teeth whitening||Orthodontist treatments<br />
|-<br />
|Small lips||Fillers||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Bloated mouth area|| ||Buccal fat removal<br />
|-<br />
|Long philtrum|| ||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly facial hair|| ||Beard transplant<br />
|}<br />
====Overall====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Acne||Accutane||<br />
|-<br />
|Big pores||Chemical peel||Laser<br />
|-<br />
|Skin aging||Retin-A gel||Facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Bad skin coloring||Tan (Darken) / Skin bleaching (Whiten)||<br />
|-<br />
|Small skull size|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Fat face||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Low [[SMV]] race / phenotype|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad facial harmony in general|| ||<br />
|}<br />
===Voice===<br />
==Body==<br />
===Ideal bodytypes===<br />
- Mention what are the most desirable and physically attractive bodytypes<br />
===Dieting===<br />
- Provide dieting tips, mention that crash dieting is shit<br />
===[[Gymmaxing]]===<br />
- Provide tips on ideal bodyweight, how to calculate BMI and bodyfat etc<br />
<br />
- Provide the average training routine to achieve ideal bodytypes that gives results as fast as possible with the least effort as possible<br />
====Lifting====<br />
====Calisthenics====<br />
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1a8tlZ-zbF695HA3Lmm20OIYeYYxo1lmUOczUXKLoL4s/<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Short height (manletism)||Platform shoes / Height insoles||Limb lenthening<br />
|-<br />
|High body fat||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow shoulders||[[Gymmaxing]] (back and shoulder muscle development)||Shoulder lengthening<br />
|-<br />
|Bad body proportions|| ||<br />
|}<br />
===Clothing===<br />
<br />
===[[Photomaxxing]]===<br />
<br />
Most incels and autistic men are known for not being photogenic. This section needs to provide tips on how to improve their photos, and where to look for professional photographers / how to obtain professional photography and even inputs from modelling agencies. This step is needed in order to aid the user to improve the profile reach for the CV/Linkedin or dating services.<br />
<br />
=Money=<br />
==Carreermaxing==<br />
===Recommended fields===<br />
- Mention which fields are the easiest to get decent jobs, and which ones are the easiest to get higher salaries<br />
===Where to look for jobs===<br />
===Building your CV===<br />
===Studymaxing===<br />
For studying, it's recommended to use the STIC technique. The STIC technique stands for: (S)pacing, (T)esting, (I)nterleaving and (C)ategorizing.<br />
Much of this concept has scientific backing, with nearly 100 years of academic papers covering it. For reference, it is recommended to watch the following videos from Ali Abdaal:<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ukLnPbIffxE<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-zNHHpXoMM<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fBXnxlLR0PY<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fDbxPVn02VU<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k5A26Sc63F0<br />
<br />
<br />
The key to this concept is using active recall and spaced repetition techniques. Under active recall, you must first understand the topic, then practice it, either by writing questions or by using something like Anki.<br />
In the videos above, you can see evidence that rereading, text highlighting and summarizing are ineffective. To actually learn you must read once, then write questions, then answer them (without looking for the answers), and then correcting these questions by revisiting the study material / book.<br />
The next step is interleaving,where when you are studying several topics for a single subject in a day, instead of going through topic1>topic2>topic3>topic4(...) , you should do topic1>topic2>topic1(again)>topic3>topic2(again) (...)<br />
Lastly,comes spaced repetition,where you set a spreadsheet where you should assign where you should go over these topics again, after X days, then after X weeks, after X months (...)<br />
Then you do the categorizing , where you need to draw a graph/flowchart to make a quick synthesis about all the topics from the subject you studied.<br />
==Managing money==<br />
- Provide basic finance management tips<br />
==Trading==<br />
- Provide the basics on trading<br />
==Getting money online quickly and legally==<br />
- Provide (LEGAL) tips on how to get money quickly on online jobs<br />
=Status=<br />
<br />
<br />
- Provide tips on how to build a good reputation (also, a partial NTmaxing guide)<br />
==Building a good reputation==<br />
==Arranged marriage==<br />
https://www.jstor.org/stable/23644606?seq=1<br />
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/2217232/arranged-marriages-lead-to-happier-relationships-because-couples-put-more-effort-in-to-make-them-work/<br />
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704919887706<br />
==[[Neurotypical|Neurotypicalmaxing]]==<br />
Recommended readings if one is [[autistic]] and has to live among NTs:<br />
* ''How To Make Friends And Influence Peopl''e, Dale Carnegie (extremly basic rules; [https://www.forbes.com/sites/francesbridges/2018/02/07/10-ways-to-make-people-like-you-from-how-to-make-friends-and-influence-people/?sh=33ceef4d4bb4 summary here])<br />
* ''What Every Body Is Saying'', Joe Navarro<br />
* ''Games People Play: The Psychology of Human Relationships''<br />
General advice: do not try to do social schemes, as they would require you to have anough empathy to understand NTs which you do not have if you are autistic.<br />
==[[Inhibition|Lowinhibitionmaxing]]==<br />
==[[Online dating]]==<br />
==Talent / Skill maxing==<br />
===Art/Design===<br />
===Playing musical instruments===<br />
===Cooking===<br />
Cooking is simply components reacting with one anothers.<br />
* The number one rule in cooking meat if you are not professionaly trained or very experienced is: buy a good digital meat thermometer. Most chefs have some pseudo-techniques they claim let them know when a piece of meat is perfectly cooked; however, "[c]ooks who say they don't need thermometers are either seasoned old-timers who learned at the foot of a master and have doing it for years, or they's macho knuckle draggers." Moreover, "[a]lmost all chefs carry a meat thermometer in their chef's coat."<ref>''Meathead: The Science of Great Barbecue and Grilling'', chapters "The quest for blue smoke" and "You need three thermometers".</ref> Buy a digital meat thermometer, there is no way around it.<br />
Recommended readings:<br />
* ''Meathead: The Science of Great Barbecue and Grilling'' (also works for meat in general)<br />
* ''On Food And Cooking: The Science And Lore Of The Kitchen'', Harold McGee<br />
* ''The Food Lab: Better Home Cooking Through Science'', J. Kenji Lopez-Alt<br />
[https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDq5v10l4wkV5-ZBIJJFbzQ Ethan Chlebowski's Youtube channel] is also a very good channel to learn how to cook.<br />
===Sports===<br />
==[[Successful personality types]]==<br />
- Mention which personality type can land better opportunities at life and how can specific personality traits improve socialization endeavors<br />
<br />
<br />
{{Blackpill}}<br />
{{Looks}}<br />
<references /></div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=User:Samaritan/Ascension&diff=64256User:Samaritan/Ascension2021-08-09T10:42:15Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
<hr />
<div>This guide aims to summarize the process of [[ascending]] from a [[blackpilled]] perspective. It is structured on the principles of '''LMS''', which means '''L'''ooks, '''M'''oney and '''S'''tatus, the generally accepted theory of how female sexuality operates on the [[blackpilled]] [[incelosphere]], especially incel forums that are relatives of [[4chan|4chan's]] [[r9k]] board or [[PSL|PUAhate.com]]. It is a concept developed by a member of the former [[PSL|anti-pickup-artist community]], [[Chinpoko]], and further popularized by YouTuber '[[FaceandLMS]]', where it is suggested that what matters in attracting women are mainly [[looks]], money and [[status]].<br />
LMS denies [[confidence]], [[personality]] and [[PUA|game]] to be the most significant factors.<br />
=[[Looks]]=<br />
<br />
<br />
Multiple studies on face-to-face, [[online dating|online]] and [[blind dating]] concluded that among a variety of physical and personality traits, including extroversion, ''only physical attractiveness'' predicted initial romantic interest and strongly so.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_speed_dating</ref><ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_video_dating</ref><ref name="walster">https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_blind_dating</ref> One of these studies dates back to 1966,<ref name="walster" /> so superficiality in face-to-face dating is unlikely a novel phenomenon.<br />
<br />
Similarly, when OkCupid asked users to rate looks and personality separately, users did not distinguish between the two.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Your_looks_define_perception_of_your_personality_in_online_dating</ref> To confirm their hypothesis that pictures were what people were rating as good personality, OkCupid followed up with another internal study which showed that online bio text accounts for less than 10% of what users think of the profiles.<ref>https://archive.li/QNCbf</ref> This means ''game'' in terms of witty and confident textual self-descriptions is also largely ineffective.<br />
Meeting online is notably now the primary way people meet for relationships,<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Meeting_online_is_now_the_primary_way_relationships_are_formed</ref> however, this includes meeting up through social networks and chats, where personality may play a larger role than in the blind and semi-blind dating.<br />
==Benefits of being attractive==<br />
By being attractive, you'll have an easier time getting:<br />
*Dates/a girlfriend/partner<br />
*Sex<br />
*A job where looks are relevant (modelling, acting or being a digital influencer, having youtube channels or instagram) (provide sources)<br />
*People socializing, starting and carrying conversations with you (provide sources)<br />
*People gravitating towards you, as well as having people rationalize anything you say or do as positive (provide sources)<br />
*A penalty reduction for being old/past your prime, especially if you still have sex appeal. (provide sources)<br />
*Forgiveness from people. (provide sources)<br />
*Less jail time in case you are arrested. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive feedback and a better overall life and opportunities. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive outlook about life and better chances at being neurotypical (provide sources)<br />
*Less likely to get bullied (provide sources)<br />
*Positively biased grading on some activities that require scored evaluation (provide sources)<br />
<br />
==Face==<br />
Face is arguably the most important factor in looks {{Citation needed}} , as it is the body part used on profile pictures, be it important ones (resume, Linkedin) or on general social media (Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, dating apps), and alongside height is the biggest social opener. <br />
===Measuring attractiveness, getting ratings and feedback===<br />
In order to take action, you must first attempt to measure your current level of facial attractiveness, from an unbiased perspective with honest opinions, take notes of it, and later enumerate your strengths and flaws. You can do the following:<br />
<br />
1- Create a thread on [[Looksmax.me]]'s Ratings board (https://looksmax.me/forums/ratings.7/) with your pictures, front, profile, and full body.<br />
<br />
2- https://www.photofeeler.com/<br />
<br />
3- Create a Tinder profile on an area with many users, a city with a huge population (provide a sample population size). Preferably use four pictures (pictures containing face, full body, at least one picture on casual environment). Then use this widget to calculate your attractiveness level based on match percentage (per 100 swipes): https://www.wolframalpha.com/widgets/gallery/view.jsp?id=1f51953255f63027635d602d42b96718<br />
<br />
4 - Use Omegle https://www.omegle.com/ . If women skip you too often, it's a bad sign.<br />
<br />
5- Don't ask women in real life for opinions, and don't ask on Reddit for ratings. They are known for virtue signalling and sugarcoating, and not providing honest opinions, thus leaving some people in the dark.<br />
<br />
After that, take notes on what made you be considered unattractive.<br />
<br />
- Post a list of surgeries accordingly to each body part and their average prices around the world, also mentioning the cheapest place in average pricing to get the surgery (and refer to the money guide of the article)<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
====Upper third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair density/ receding hairline||Finasteride / minoxidil||Hair transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair color||hair dye||<br />
|-<br />
|Natural high hairline/ oversized forehead|| ||hairline lowering / forehead reduction<br />
|-<br />
|Overly sloped forehead|| ||forehead implants/ bone cement<br />
|-<br />
|Forehead wrinkles||Botox||facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Sunken temples||fillers||fat transfer<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eyebrows||castor oil/ latisse/ minox/ microblading||eyebrow transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eyebrow shape||styling/ Botox / browlift||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak brow bones|| ||supraorbital implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow skull/ ugly cranium / subhuman occiput||haircut/ covering up||<br />
|}<br />
<br />
<br />
====Middle third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye area||Fillers||Blepharoplasty / fat graft / Lower eyelid retraction<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye shape|| ||Almond eye surgery / Canthoplasty / Orbital decompression<br />
|-<br />
|Poor PFL|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Poor IPD|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eye lashes||Castor oil/ Latisse||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad eye color||Contacts||<br />
|-<br />
|Hollow undereye area||Fillers||Fat transfer / implants<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly nose|| ||Rhinoplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Flat cheekbones||Fillers||Implants / ZSO<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed maxilla|| ||LeFort 1 osteotomy<br />
|-<br />
|Nasolabial folds||Fillers||Fat graft<br />
|-<br />
|Overall bad midface|| ||Lefort 1-2, 3.. Midface lift, high cut lf1<br />
|}<br />
====Lower third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed jaw|| ||Implants/ Bimaxillary orthognathic surgery / BSSO / Chin wing (Genioplasty)<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow jaw||Fillers||Chin wing (Genioplasty) / Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate/maxilla||Face pulling||Maxillary Skeletal Expansion (MSE)<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed chin||Fillers||Implants / Genioplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Round jaw / chin||Fillers||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Pencil neck||Neck training||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Neck wrinkles|| ||Neck lift<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate||Palate expander||<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly teeth||Teeth whitening||Orthodontist treatments<br />
|-<br />
|Small lips||Fillers||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Bloated mouth area|| ||Buccal fat removal<br />
|-<br />
|Long philtrum|| ||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly facial hair|| ||Beard transplant<br />
|}<br />
====Overall====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Acne||Accutane||<br />
|-<br />
|Big pores||Chemical peel||Laser<br />
|-<br />
|Skin aging||Retin-A gel||Facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Bad skin coloring||Tan (Darken) / Skin bleaching (Whiten)||<br />
|-<br />
|Small skull size|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Fat face||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Low [[SMV]] race / phenotype|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad facial harmony in general|| ||<br />
|}<br />
===Voice===<br />
==Body==<br />
===Ideal bodytypes===<br />
- Mention what are the most desirable and physically attractive bodytypes<br />
===Dieting===<br />
- Provide dieting tips, mention that crash dieting is shit<br />
===[[Gymmaxing]]===<br />
- Provide tips on ideal bodyweight, how to calculate BMI and bodyfat etc<br />
<br />
- Provide the average training routine to achieve ideal bodytypes that gives results as fast as possible with the least effort as possible<br />
====Lifting====<br />
====Calisthenics====<br />
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1a8tlZ-zbF695HA3Lmm20OIYeYYxo1lmUOczUXKLoL4s/<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Short height (manletism)||Platform shoes / Height insoles||Limb lenthening<br />
|-<br />
|High body fat||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow shoulders||[[Gymmaxing]] (back and shoulder muscle development)||Shoulder lengthening<br />
|-<br />
|Bad body proportions|| ||<br />
|}<br />
===Clothing===<br />
<br />
===[[Photomaxxing]]===<br />
<br />
Most incels and autistic men are known for not being photogenic. This section needs to provide tips on how to improve their photos, and where to look for professional photographers / how to obtain professional photography and even inputs from modelling agencies. This step is needed in order to aid the user to improve the profile reach for the CV/Linkedin or even dating services.<br />
<br />
=Money=<br />
==Carreermaxing==<br />
===Recommended fields===<br />
- Mention which fields are the easiest to get decent jobs, and which ones are the easiest to get higher salaries<br />
===Where to look for jobs===<br />
===Building your CV===<br />
===Studymaxing===<br />
For studying, it's recommended to use the STIC technique. The STIC technique stands for: (S)pacing, (T)esting, (I)nterleaving and (C)ategorizing.<br />
Much of this concept has scientific backing, with nearly 100 years of academic papers covering it. For reference, it is recommended to watch the following videos from Ali Abdaal:<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ukLnPbIffxE<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-zNHHpXoMM<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fBXnxlLR0PY<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fDbxPVn02VU<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k5A26Sc63F0<br />
<br />
<br />
The key to this concept is using active recall and spaced repetition techniques. Under active recall, you must first understand the topic, then practice it, either by writing questions or by using something like Anki.<br />
In the videos above, you can see evidence that rereading, text highlighting and summarizing are ineffective. To actually learn you must read once, then write questions, then answer them (without looking for the answers), and then correcting these questions by revisiting the study material / book.<br />
The next step is interleaving,where when you are studying several topics for a single subject in a day, instead of going through topic1>topic2>topic3>topic4(...) , you should do topic1>topic2>topic1(again)>topic3>topic2(again) (...)<br />
Lastly,comes spaced repetition,where you set a spreadsheet where you should assign where you should go over these topics again, after X days, then after X weeks, after X months (...)<br />
Then you do the categorizing , where you need to draw a graph/flowchart to make a quick synthesis about all the topics from the subject you studied.<br />
==Managing money==<br />
- Provide basic finance management tips<br />
==Trading==<br />
- Provide the basics on trading<br />
==Getting money online quickly and legally==<br />
- Provide (LEGAL) tips on how to get money quickly on online jobs<br />
=Status=<br />
<br />
<br />
- Provide tips on how to build a good reputation (also, a partial NTmaxing guide)<br />
==Building a good reputation==<br />
==Arranged marriage==<br />
https://www.jstor.org/stable/23644606?seq=1<br />
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/2217232/arranged-marriages-lead-to-happier-relationships-because-couples-put-more-effort-in-to-make-them-work/<br />
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704919887706<br />
==[[Neurotypical|Neurotypicalmaxing]]==<br />
Recommended readings if one is [[autistic]] and has to live among NTs:<br />
* ''How To Make Friends And Influence Peopl''e, Dale Carnegie (extremly basic rules; [https://www.forbes.com/sites/francesbridges/2018/02/07/10-ways-to-make-people-like-you-from-how-to-make-friends-and-influence-people/?sh=33ceef4d4bb4 summary here])<br />
* ''What Every Body Is Saying'', Joe Navarro<br />
* ''Games People Play: The Psychology of Human Relationships''<br />
General advice: do not try to do social schemes, as they would require you to have anough empathy to understand NTs which you do not have if you are autistic.<br />
==[[Inhibition|Lowinhibitionmaxing]]==<br />
==[[Online dating]]==<br />
==Talent / Skill maxing==<br />
===Art/Design===<br />
===Playing musical instruments===<br />
===Cooking===<br />
Cooking is simply components reacting with one anothers.<br />
* The number one rule in cooking meat if you are not professionaly trained or very experienced is: buy a good digital meat thermometer. Most chefs have some pseudo-techniques they claim let them know when a piece of meat is perfectly cooked; however, "[c]ooks who say they don't need thermometers are either seasoned old-timers who learned at the foot of a master and have doing it for years, or they's macho knuckle draggers." Moreover, "[a]lmost all chefs carry a meat thermometer in their chef's coat."<ref>''Meathead: The Science of Great Barbecue and Grilling'', chapters "The quest for blue smoke" and "You need three thermometers".</ref> Buy a digital meat thermometer, there is no way around it.<br />
Recommended readings:<br />
* ''Meathead: The Science of Great Barbecue and Grilling'' (also works for meat in general)<br />
* ''On Food And Cooking: The Science And Lore Of The Kitchen'', Harold McGee<br />
* ''The Food Lab: Better Home Cooking Through Science'', J. Kenji Lopez-Alt<br />
[https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDq5v10l4wkV5-ZBIJJFbzQ Ethan Chlebowski's Youtube channel] is also a very good channel to learn how to cook.<br />
===Sports===<br />
==[[Successful personality types]]==<br />
- Mention which personality type can land better opportunities at life and how can specific personality traits improve socialization endeavors<br />
<br />
<br />
{{Blackpill}}<br />
{{Looks}}<br />
<references /></div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=User:Samaritan/Ascension&diff=64255User:Samaritan/Ascension2021-08-09T10:41:55Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
<hr />
<div>This guide aims to summarize the process of [[ascending]] from a [[blackpilled]] perspective. It is structured on the principles of '''LMS''', which means '''L'''ooks, '''M'''oney and '''S'''tatus, the generally accepted theory of how female sexuality operates on the [[blackpilled]] [[incelosphere]], especially incel forums that are relatives of [[4chan|4chan's]] [[r9k]] board or [[PSL|PUAhate.com]]. It is a concept developed by a member of the former [[PSL|anti-pickup-artist community]], [[Chinpoko]], and further popularized by YouTuber '[[FaceandLMS]]', where it is suggested that what matters in attracting women are mainly [[looks]], money and [[status]].<br />
LMS denies [[confidence]], [[personality]] and [[PUA|game]] to be the most significant factors.<br />
=[[Looks]]=<br />
<br />
<br />
Multiple studies on face-to-face, [[online dating|online]] and [[blind dating]] concluded that among a variety of physical and personality traits, including extroversion, ''only physical attractiveness'' predicted initial romantic interest and strongly so.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_speed_dating</ref><ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_video_dating</ref><ref name="walster">https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_blind_dating</ref> One of these studies dates back to 1966,<ref name="walster" /> so superficiality in face-to-face dating is unlikely a novel phenomenon.<br />
<br />
Similarly, when OkCupid asked users to rate looks and personality separately, users did not distinguish between the two.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Your_looks_define_perception_of_your_personality_in_online_dating</ref> To confirm their hypothesis that pictures were what people were rating as good personality, OkCupid followed up with another internal study which showed that online bio text accounts for less than 10% of what users think of the profiles.<ref>https://archive.li/QNCbf</ref> This means ''game'' in terms of witty and confident textual self-descriptions is also largely ineffective.<br />
Meeting online is notably now the primary way people meet for relationships,<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Meeting_online_is_now_the_primary_way_relationships_are_formed</ref> however, this includes meeting up through social networks and chats, where personality may play a larger role than in the blind and semi-blind dating.<br />
==Benefits of being attractive==<br />
By being attractive, you'll have an easier time getting:<br />
*Dates/a girlfriend/partner<br />
*Sex<br />
*A job where looks are relevant (modelling, acting or being a digital influencer, having youtube channels or instagram) (provide sources)<br />
*People socializing, starting and carrying conversations with you (provide sources)<br />
*People gravitating towards you, as well as having people rationalize anything you say or do as positive (provide sources)<br />
*A penalty reduction for being old/past your prime, especially if you still have sex appeal. (provide sources)<br />
*Forgiveness from people. (provide sources)<br />
*Less jail time in case you are arrested. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive feedback and a better overall life and opportunities. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive outlook about life and better chances at being neurotypical (provide sources)<br />
*Less likely to get bullied (provide sources)<br />
*Positively biased grading on some activities that require scored evaluation (provide sources)<br />
<br />
==Face==<br />
Face is arguably the most important factor in looks {{Citation needed}} , as it is the body part used on profile pictures, be it important ones (resume, Linkedin) or on general social media (Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, dating apps), and alongside height is the biggest social opener. <br />
===Measuring attractiveness, getting ratings and feedback===<br />
In order to take action, you must first attempt to measure your current level of facial attractiveness, from an unbiased perspective with honest opinions, take notes of it, and later enumerate your strengths and flaws. You can do the following:<br />
<br />
1- Create a thread on [[Looksmax.me]]'s Ratings board (https://looksmax.me/forums/ratings.7/) with your pictures, front, profile, and full body.<br />
<br />
2- https://www.photofeeler.com/<br />
<br />
3- Create a Tinder profile on an area with many users, a city with a huge population (provide a sample population size). Preferably use four pictures (pictures containing face, full body, at least one picture on casual environment). Then use this widget to calculate your attractiveness level based on match percentage (per 100 swipes): https://www.wolframalpha.com/widgets/gallery/view.jsp?id=1f51953255f63027635d602d42b96718<br />
<br />
4 - Use Omegle https://www.omegle.com/ . If women skip you too often, it's a bad sign.<br />
<br />
5- Don't ask women in real life for opinions, and don't ask on Reddit for ratings. They are known for virtue signalling and sugarcoating, and not providing honest opinions, thus leaving some people in the dark.<br />
<br />
After that, take notes on what made you be considered unattractive.<br />
<br />
- Post a list of surgeries accordingly to each body part and their average prices around the world, also mentioning the cheapest place in average pricing to get the surgery (and refer to the money guide of the article)<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
====Upper third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair density/ receding hairline||Finasteride / minoxidil||Hair transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair color||hair dye||<br />
|-<br />
|Natural high hairline/ oversized forehead|| ||hairline lowering / forehead reduction<br />
|-<br />
|Overly sloped forehead|| ||forehead implants/ bone cement<br />
|-<br />
|Forehead wrinkles||Botox||facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Sunken temples||fillers||fat transfer<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eyebrows||castor oil/ latisse/ minox/ microblading||eyebrow transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eyebrow shape||styling/ Botox / browlift||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak brow bones|| ||supraorbital implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow skull/ ugly cranium / subhuman occiput||haircut/ covering up||<br />
|}<br />
<br />
<br />
====Middle third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye area||Fillers||Blepharoplasty / fat graft / Lower eyelid retraction<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye shape|| ||Almond eye surgery / Canthoplasty / Orbital decompression<br />
|-<br />
|Poor PFL|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Poor IPD|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eye lashes||Castor oil/ Latisse||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad eye color||Contacts||<br />
|-<br />
|Hollow undereye area||Fillers||Fat transfer / implants<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly nose|| ||Rhinoplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Flat cheekbones||Fillers||Implants / ZSO<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed maxilla|| ||LeFort 1 osteotomy<br />
|-<br />
|Nasolabial folds||Fillers||Fat graft<br />
|-<br />
|Overall bad midface|| ||Lefort 1-2, 3.. Midface lift, high cut lf1<br />
|}<br />
====Lower third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed jaw|| ||Implants/ Bimaxillary orthognathic surgery / BSSO / Chin wing (Genioplasty)<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow jaw||Fillers||Chin wing (Genioplasty) / Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate/maxilla||Face pulling||Maxillary Skeletal Expansion (MSE)<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed chin||Fillers||Implants / Genioplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Round jaw / chin||Fillers||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Pencil neck||Neck training||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Neck wrinkles|| ||Neck lift<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate||Palate expander||<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly teeth||Teeth whitening||Orthodontist treatments<br />
|-<br />
|Small lips||Fillers||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Bloated mouth area|| ||Buccal fat removal<br />
|-<br />
|Long philtrum|| ||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly facial hair|| ||Beard transplant<br />
|}<br />
====Overall====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Acne||Accutane||<br />
|-<br />
|Big pores||Chemical peel||Laser<br />
|-<br />
|Skin aging||Retin-A gel||Facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Bad skin coloring||Tan (Darken) / Skin bleaching (Whiten)||<br />
|-<br />
|Small skull size|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Fat face||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Low [[SMV]] race / phenotype|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad facial harmony in general|| ||<br />
|}<br />
===Voice===<br />
==Body==<br />
===Ideal bodytypes===<br />
- Mention what are the most desirable and physically attractive bodytypes<br />
===Dieting===<br />
- Provide dieting tips, mention that crash dieting is shit<br />
===[[Gymmaxing]]===<br />
- Provide tips on ideal bodyweight, how to calculate BMI and bodyfat etc<br />
<br />
- Provide the average training routine to achieve ideal bodytypes that gives results as fast as possible with the least effort as possible<br />
====Lifting====<br />
====Calisthenics====<br />
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1a8tlZ-zbF695HA3Lmm20OIYeYYxo1lmUOczUXKLoL4s/<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Short height (manletism)||Platform shoes / Height insoles||Limb lenthening<br />
|-<br />
|High body fat||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow shoulders||[[Gymmaxing]] (back and shoulder muscle development)||Shoulder lengthening<br />
|-<br />
|Bad body proportions|| ||<br />
|}<br />
===Clothing===<br />
<br />
===[[Photomaxxing]]==<br />
<br />
Most incels and autistic men are known for not being photogenic. This section needs to provide tips on how to improve their photos, and where to look for professional photographers / how to obtain professional photography and even inputs from modelling agencies. This step is needed in order to aid the user to improve the profile reach for the CV/Linkedin or even dating services.<br />
<br />
=Money=<br />
==Carreermaxing==<br />
===Recommended fields===<br />
- Mention which fields are the easiest to get decent jobs, and which ones are the easiest to get higher salaries<br />
===Where to look for jobs===<br />
===Building your CV===<br />
===Studymaxing===<br />
For studying, it's recommended to use the STIC technique. The STIC technique stands for: (S)pacing, (T)esting, (I)nterleaving and (C)ategorizing.<br />
Much of this concept has scientific backing, with nearly 100 years of academic papers covering it. For reference, it is recommended to watch the following videos from Ali Abdaal:<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ukLnPbIffxE<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-zNHHpXoMM<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fBXnxlLR0PY<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fDbxPVn02VU<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k5A26Sc63F0<br />
<br />
<br />
The key to this concept is using active recall and spaced repetition techniques. Under active recall, you must first understand the topic, then practice it, either by writing questions or by using something like Anki.<br />
In the videos above, you can see evidence that rereading, text highlighting and summarizing are ineffective. To actually learn you must read once, then write questions, then answer them (without looking for the answers), and then correcting these questions by revisiting the study material / book.<br />
The next step is interleaving,where when you are studying several topics for a single subject in a day, instead of going through topic1>topic2>topic3>topic4(...) , you should do topic1>topic2>topic1(again)>topic3>topic2(again) (...)<br />
Lastly,comes spaced repetition,where you set a spreadsheet where you should assign where you should go over these topics again, after X days, then after X weeks, after X months (...)<br />
Then you do the categorizing , where you need to draw a graph/flowchart to make a quick synthesis about all the topics from the subject you studied.<br />
==Managing money==<br />
- Provide basic finance management tips<br />
==Trading==<br />
- Provide the basics on trading<br />
==Getting money online quickly and legally==<br />
- Provide (LEGAL) tips on how to get money quickly on online jobs<br />
=Status=<br />
<br />
<br />
- Provide tips on how to build a good reputation (also, a partial NTmaxing guide)<br />
==Building a good reputation==<br />
==Arranged marriage==<br />
https://www.jstor.org/stable/23644606?seq=1<br />
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/2217232/arranged-marriages-lead-to-happier-relationships-because-couples-put-more-effort-in-to-make-them-work/<br />
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704919887706<br />
==[[Neurotypical|Neurotypicalmaxing]]==<br />
Recommended readings if one is [[autistic]] and has to live among NTs:<br />
* ''How To Make Friends And Influence Peopl''e, Dale Carnegie (extremly basic rules; [https://www.forbes.com/sites/francesbridges/2018/02/07/10-ways-to-make-people-like-you-from-how-to-make-friends-and-influence-people/?sh=33ceef4d4bb4 summary here])<br />
* ''What Every Body Is Saying'', Joe Navarro<br />
* ''Games People Play: The Psychology of Human Relationships''<br />
General advice: do not try to do social schemes, as they would require you to have anough empathy to understand NTs which you do not have if you are autistic.<br />
==[[Inhibition|Lowinhibitionmaxing]]==<br />
==[[Online dating]]==<br />
==Talent / Skill maxing==<br />
===Art/Design===<br />
===Playing musical instruments===<br />
===Cooking===<br />
Cooking is simply components reacting with one anothers.<br />
* The number one rule in cooking meat if you are not professionaly trained or very experienced is: buy a good digital meat thermometer. Most chefs have some pseudo-techniques they claim let them know when a piece of meat is perfectly cooked; however, "[c]ooks who say they don't need thermometers are either seasoned old-timers who learned at the foot of a master and have doing it for years, or they's macho knuckle draggers." Moreover, "[a]lmost all chefs carry a meat thermometer in their chef's coat."<ref>''Meathead: The Science of Great Barbecue and Grilling'', chapters "The quest for blue smoke" and "You need three thermometers".</ref> Buy a digital meat thermometer, there is no way around it.<br />
Recommended readings:<br />
* ''Meathead: The Science of Great Barbecue and Grilling'' (also works for meat in general)<br />
* ''On Food And Cooking: The Science And Lore Of The Kitchen'', Harold McGee<br />
* ''The Food Lab: Better Home Cooking Through Science'', J. Kenji Lopez-Alt<br />
[https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDq5v10l4wkV5-ZBIJJFbzQ Ethan Chlebowski's Youtube channel] is also a very good channel to learn how to cook.<br />
===Sports===<br />
==[[Successful personality types]]==<br />
- Mention which personality type can land better opportunities at life and how can specific personality traits improve socialization endeavors<br />
<br />
<br />
{{Blackpill}}<br />
{{Looks}}<br />
<references /></div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=User:Samaritan/Ascension&diff=64254User:Samaritan/Ascension2021-08-09T10:35:00Z<p>Samaritan: /* Benefits of being attractive */</p>
<hr />
<div>This guide aims to summarize the process of [[ascending]] from a [[blackpilled]] perspective. It is structured on the principles of '''LMS''', which means '''L'''ooks, '''M'''oney and '''S'''tatus, the generally accepted theory of how female sexuality operates on the [[blackpilled]] [[incelosphere]], especially incel forums that are relatives of [[4chan|4chan's]] [[r9k]] board or [[PSL|PUAhate.com]]. It is a concept developed by a member of the former [[PSL|anti-pickup-artist community]], [[Chinpoko]], and further popularized by YouTuber '[[FaceandLMS]]', where it is suggested that what matters in attracting women are mainly [[looks]], money and [[status]].<br />
LMS denies [[confidence]], [[personality]] and [[PUA|game]] to be the most significant factors.<br />
=[[Looks]]=<br />
<br />
<br />
Multiple studies on face-to-face, [[online dating|online]] and [[blind dating]] concluded that among a variety of physical and personality traits, including extroversion, ''only physical attractiveness'' predicted initial romantic interest and strongly so.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_speed_dating</ref><ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_video_dating</ref><ref name="walster">https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_blind_dating</ref> One of these studies dates back to 1966,<ref name="walster" /> so superficiality in face-to-face dating is unlikely a novel phenomenon.<br />
<br />
Similarly, when OkCupid asked users to rate looks and personality separately, users did not distinguish between the two.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Your_looks_define_perception_of_your_personality_in_online_dating</ref> To confirm their hypothesis that pictures were what people were rating as good personality, OkCupid followed up with another internal study which showed that online bio text accounts for less than 10% of what users think of the profiles.<ref>https://archive.li/QNCbf</ref> This means ''game'' in terms of witty and confident textual self-descriptions is also largely ineffective.<br />
Meeting online is notably now the primary way people meet for relationships,<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Meeting_online_is_now_the_primary_way_relationships_are_formed</ref> however, this includes meeting up through social networks and chats, where personality may play a larger role than in the blind and semi-blind dating.<br />
==Benefits of being attractive==<br />
By being attractive, you'll have an easier time getting:<br />
*Dates/a girlfriend/partner<br />
*Sex<br />
*A job where looks are relevant (modelling, acting or being a digital influencer, having youtube channels or instagram) (provide sources)<br />
*People socializing, starting and carrying conversations with you (provide sources)<br />
*People gravitating towards you, as well as having people rationalize anything you say or do as positive (provide sources)<br />
*A penalty reduction for being old/past your prime, especially if you still have sex appeal. (provide sources)<br />
*Forgiveness from people. (provide sources)<br />
*Less jail time in case you are arrested. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive feedback and a better overall life and opportunities. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive outlook about life and better chances at being neurotypical (provide sources)<br />
*Less likely to get bullied (provide sources)<br />
*Positively biased grading on some activities that require scored evaluation (provide sources)<br />
<br />
==Face==<br />
Face is arguably the most important factor in looks {{Citation needed}} , as it is the body part used on profile pictures, be it important ones (resume, Linkedin) or on general social media (Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, dating apps), and alongside height is the biggest social opener. <br />
===Measuring attractiveness, getting ratings and feedback===<br />
In order to take action, you must first attempt to measure your current level of facial attractiveness, from an unbiased perspective with honest opinions, take notes of it, and later enumerate your strengths and flaws. You can do the following:<br />
<br />
1- Create a thread on [[Looksmax.me]]'s Ratings board (https://looksmax.me/forums/ratings.7/) with your pictures, front, profile, and full body.<br />
<br />
2- https://www.photofeeler.com/<br />
<br />
3- Create a Tinder profile on an area with many users, a city with a huge population (provide a sample population size). Preferably use four pictures (pictures containing face, full body, at least one picture on casual environment). Then use this widget to calculate your attractiveness level based on match percentage (per 100 swipes): https://www.wolframalpha.com/widgets/gallery/view.jsp?id=1f51953255f63027635d602d42b96718<br />
<br />
4 - Use Omegle https://www.omegle.com/ . If women skip you too often, it's a bad sign.<br />
<br />
5- Don't ask women in real life for opinions, and don't ask on Reddit for ratings. They are known for virtue signalling and sugarcoating, and not providing honest opinions, thus leaving some people in the dark.<br />
<br />
After that, take notes on what made you be considered unattractive.<br />
<br />
- Post a list of surgeries accordingly to each body part and their average prices around the world, also mentioning the cheapest place in average pricing to get the surgery (and refer to the money guide of the article)<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
====Upper third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair density/ receding hairline||Finasteride / minoxidil||Hair transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair color||hair dye||<br />
|-<br />
|Natural high hairline/ oversized forehead|| ||hairline lowering / forehead reduction<br />
|-<br />
|Overly sloped forehead|| ||forehead implants/ bone cement<br />
|-<br />
|Forehead wrinkles||Botox||facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Sunken temples||fillers||fat transfer<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eyebrows||castor oil/ latisse/ minox/ microblading||eyebrow transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eyebrow shape||styling/ Botox / browlift||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak brow bones|| ||supraorbital implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow skull/ ugly cranium / subhuman occiput||haircut/ covering up||<br />
|}<br />
<br />
<br />
====Middle third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye area||Fillers||Blepharoplasty / fat graft / Lower eyelid retraction<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye shape|| ||Almond eye surgery / Canthoplasty / Orbital decompression<br />
|-<br />
|Poor PFL|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Poor IPD|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eye lashes||Castor oil/ Latisse||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad eye color||Contacts||<br />
|-<br />
|Hollow undereye area||Fillers||Fat transfer / implants<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly nose|| ||Rhinoplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Flat cheekbones||Fillers||Implants / ZSO<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed maxilla|| ||LeFort 1 osteotomy<br />
|-<br />
|Nasolabial folds||Fillers||Fat graft<br />
|-<br />
|Overall bad midface|| ||Lefort 1-2, 3.. Midface lift, high cut lf1<br />
|}<br />
====Lower third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed jaw|| ||Implants/ Bimaxillary orthognathic surgery / BSSO / Chin wing (Genioplasty)<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow jaw||Fillers||Chin wing (Genioplasty) / Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate/maxilla||Face pulling||Maxillary Skeletal Expansion (MSE)<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed chin||Fillers||Implants / Genioplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Round jaw / chin||Fillers||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Pencil neck||Neck training||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Neck wrinkles|| ||Neck lift<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate||Palate expander||<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly teeth||Teeth whitening||Orthodontist treatments<br />
|-<br />
|Small lips||Fillers||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Bloated mouth area|| ||Buccal fat removal<br />
|-<br />
|Long philtrum|| ||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly facial hair|| ||Beard transplant<br />
|}<br />
====Overall====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Acne||Accutane||<br />
|-<br />
|Big pores||Chemical peel||Laser<br />
|-<br />
|Skin aging||Retin-A gel||Facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Bad skin coloring||Tan (Darken) / Skin bleaching (Whiten)||<br />
|-<br />
|Small skull size|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Fat face||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Low [[SMV]] race / phenotype|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad facial harmony in general|| ||<br />
|}<br />
===Voice===<br />
==Body==<br />
===Ideal bodytypes===<br />
- Mention what are the most desirable and physically attractive bodytypes<br />
===Dieting===<br />
- Provide dieting tips, mention that crash dieting is shit<br />
===[[Gymmaxing]]===<br />
- Provide tips on ideal bodyweight, how to calculate BMI and bodyfat etc<br />
<br />
- Provide the average training routine to achieve ideal bodytypes that gives results as fast as possible with the least effort as possible<br />
====Lifting====<br />
====Calisthenics====<br />
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1a8tlZ-zbF695HA3Lmm20OIYeYYxo1lmUOczUXKLoL4s/<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Short height (manletism)||Platform shoes / Height insoles||Limb lenthening<br />
|-<br />
|High body fat||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow shoulders||[[Gymmaxing]] (back and shoulder muscle development)||Shoulder lengthening<br />
|-<br />
|Bad body proportions|| ||<br />
|}<br />
===Clothing===<br />
=Money=<br />
==Carreermaxing==<br />
===Recommended fields===<br />
- Mention which fields are the easiest to get decent jobs, and which ones are the easiest to get higher salaries<br />
===Where to look for jobs===<br />
===Building your CV===<br />
===Studymaxing===<br />
For studying, it's recommended to use the STIC technique. The STIC technique stands for: (S)pacing, (T)esting, (I)nterleaving and (C)ategorizing.<br />
Much of this concept has scientific backing, with nearly 100 years of academic papers covering it. For reference, it is recommended to watch the following videos from Ali Abdaal:<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ukLnPbIffxE<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-zNHHpXoMM<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fBXnxlLR0PY<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fDbxPVn02VU<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k5A26Sc63F0<br />
<br />
<br />
The key to this concept is using active recall and spaced repetition techniques. Under active recall, you must first understand the topic, then practice it, either by writing questions or by using something like Anki.<br />
In the videos above, you can see evidence that rereading, text highlighting and summarizing are ineffective. To actually learn you must read once, then write questions, then answer them (without looking for the answers), and then correcting these questions by revisiting the study material / book.<br />
The next step is interleaving,where when you are studying several topics for a single subject in a day, instead of going through topic1>topic2>topic3>topic4(...) , you should do topic1>topic2>topic1(again)>topic3>topic2(again) (...)<br />
Lastly,comes spaced repetition,where you set a spreadsheet where you should assign where you should go over these topics again, after X days, then after X weeks, after X months (...)<br />
Then you do the categorizing , where you need to draw a graph/flowchart to make a quick synthesis about all the topics from the subject you studied.<br />
==Managing money==<br />
- Provide basic finance management tips<br />
==Trading==<br />
- Provide the basics on trading<br />
==Getting money online quickly and legally==<br />
- Provide (LEGAL) tips on how to get money quickly on online jobs<br />
=Status=<br />
<br />
<br />
- Provide tips on how to build a good reputation (also, a partial NTmaxing guide)<br />
==Building a good reputation==<br />
==Arranged marriage==<br />
https://www.jstor.org/stable/23644606?seq=1<br />
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/2217232/arranged-marriages-lead-to-happier-relationships-because-couples-put-more-effort-in-to-make-them-work/<br />
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704919887706<br />
==[[Neurotypical|Neurotypicalmaxing]]==<br />
Recommended readings if one is [[autistic]] and has to live among NTs:<br />
* ''How To Make Friends And Influence Peopl''e, Dale Carnegie (extremly basic rules; [https://www.forbes.com/sites/francesbridges/2018/02/07/10-ways-to-make-people-like-you-from-how-to-make-friends-and-influence-people/?sh=33ceef4d4bb4 summary here])<br />
* ''What Every Body Is Saying'', Joe Navarro<br />
* ''Games People Play: The Psychology of Human Relationships''<br />
General advice: do not try to do social schemes, as they would require you to have anough empathy to understand NTs which you do not have if you are autistic.<br />
==[[Inhibition|Lowinhibitionmaxing]]==<br />
==[[Online dating]]==<br />
==Talent / Skill maxing==<br />
===Art/Design===<br />
===Playing musical instruments===<br />
===Cooking===<br />
Cooking is simply components reacting with one anothers.<br />
* The number one rule in cooking meat if you are not professionaly trained or very experienced is: buy a good digital meat thermometer. Most chefs have some pseudo-techniques they claim let them know when a piece of meat is perfectly cooked; however, "[c]ooks who say they don't need thermometers are either seasoned old-timers who learned at the foot of a master and have doing it for years, or they's macho knuckle draggers." Moreover, "[a]lmost all chefs carry a meat thermometer in their chef's coat."<ref>''Meathead: The Science of Great Barbecue and Grilling'', chapters "The quest for blue smoke" and "You need three thermometers".</ref> Buy a digital meat thermometer, there is no way around it.<br />
Recommended readings:<br />
* ''Meathead: The Science of Great Barbecue and Grilling'' (also works for meat in general)<br />
* ''On Food And Cooking: The Science And Lore Of The Kitchen'', Harold McGee<br />
* ''The Food Lab: Better Home Cooking Through Science'', J. Kenji Lopez-Alt<br />
[https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDq5v10l4wkV5-ZBIJJFbzQ Ethan Chlebowski's Youtube channel] is also a very good channel to learn how to cook.<br />
===Sports===<br />
==[[Successful personality types]]==<br />
- Mention which personality type can land better opportunities at life and how can specific personality traits improve socialization endeavors<br />
<br />
<br />
{{Blackpill}}<br />
{{Looks}}<br />
<references /></div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=User:Samaritan/Ascension&diff=64227User:Samaritan/Ascension2021-08-09T09:41:23Z<p>Samaritan: /* Calisthenics */</p>
<hr />
<div>This guide aims to summarize the process of [[ascending]] from a [[blackpilled]] perspective. It is structured on the principles of '''LMS''', which means '''L'''ooks, '''M'''oney and '''S'''tatus, the generally accepted theory of how female sexuality operates on the [[blackpilled]] [[incelosphere]], especially incel forums that are relatives of [[4chan|4chan's]] [[r9k]] board or [[PSL|PUAhate.com]]. It is a concept developed by a member of the former [[PSL|anti-pickup-artist community]], [[Chinpoko]], and further popularized by YouTuber '[[FaceandLMS]]', where it is suggested that what matters in attracting women are mainly [[looks]], money and [[status]].<br />
LMS denies [[confidence]], [[personality]] and [[PUA|game]] to be the most significant factors.<br />
<br />
=[[Looks]]=<br />
<br />
<br />
Multiple studies on face-to-face, [[online dating|online]] and [[blind dating]] concluded that among a variety of physical and personality traits, including extroversion, ''only physical attractiveness'' predicted initial romantic interest and strongly so.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_speed_dating</ref><ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_video_dating</ref><ref name="walster">https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_blind_dating</ref> One of these studies dates back to 1966,<ref name="walster" /> so superficiality in face-to-face dating is unlikely a novel phenomenon.<br />
<br />
Similarly, when OkCupid asked users to rate looks and personality separately, users did not distinguish between the two.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Your_looks_define_perception_of_your_personality_in_online_dating</ref> To confirm their hypothesis that pictures were what people were rating as good personality, OkCupid followed up with another internal study which showed that online bio text accounts for less than 10% of what users think of the profiles.<ref>https://archive.li/QNCbf</ref> This means ''game'' in terms of witty and confident textual self-descriptions is also largely ineffective.<br />
Meeting online is notably now the primary way people meet for relationships,<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Meeting_online_is_now_the_primary_way_relationships_are_formed</ref> however, this includes meeting up through social networks and chats, where personality may play a larger role than in the blind and semi-blind dating.<br />
==Benefits of being attractive==<br />
<br />
By being attractive, you'll have an easier time getting:<br />
<br />
*Dates/getting laid (provide sources)<br />
*A job where looks are relevant (modelling, acting or being a digital influencer, having youtube channels or instagram) (provide sources)<br />
*People socializing, starting and carrying conversations with you (provide sources)<br />
*People gravitating towards you, as well as having people rationalize anything you say or do as positive (provide sources)<br />
*A penalty reduction for being old/past your prime, especially if you still have sex appeal. (provide sources)<br />
*Forgiveness from people. (provide sources)<br />
*Less jail time in case you are arrested. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive feedback and a better overall life and opportunities. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive outlook about life and better chances at being neurotypical (provide sources)<br />
*Less likely to get bullied (provide sources)<br />
*Positively biased grading on some activities that require scored evaluation (provide sources)<br />
<br />
==Face==<br />
<br />
Face is arguably the most important factor in looks {{Citation needed}} , as it is the body part used on profile pictures, be it important ones (resume, Linkedin) or on general social media (Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, dating apps), and alongside height is the biggest social opener. <br />
===Measuring attractiveness, getting ratings and feedback===<br />
<br />
In order to take action, you must first attempt to measure your current level of facial attractiveness, from an unbiased perspective with honest opinions, take notes of it, and later enumerate your strengths and flaws. You can do the following:<br />
<br />
1- Create a thread on [[Looksmax.me]]'s Ratings board (https://looksmax.me/forums/ratings.7/) with your pictures, front, profile, and full body.<br />
<br />
2- https://www.photofeeler.com/<br />
<br />
3- Create a Tinder profile on an area with many users, a city with a huge population (provide a sample population size). Preferably use four pictures (pictures containing face, full body, at least one picture on casual environment). Then use this widget to calculate your attractiveness level based on match percentage (per 100 swipes): https://www.wolframalpha.com/widgets/gallery/view.jsp?id=1f51953255f63027635d602d42b96718<br />
<br />
4 - Use Omegle https://www.omegle.com/ . If women skip you too often, it's a bad sign.<br />
<br />
5- Don't ask women in real life for opinions, and don't ask on Reddit for ratings. They are known for virtue signalling and sugarcoating, and not providing honest opinions, thus leaving some people in the dark.<br />
<br />
After that, take notes on what made you be considered unattractive.<br />
<br />
- Post a list of surgeries accordingly to each body part and their average prices around the world, also mentioning the cheapest place in average pricing to get the surgery (and refer to the money guide of the article)<br />
<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
<br />
====Upper third====<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair density/ receding hairline||Finasteride / minoxidil||Hair transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair color||hair dye||<br />
|-<br />
|Natural high hairline/ oversized forehead|| ||hairline lowering / forehead reduction<br />
|-<br />
|Overly sloped forehead|| ||forehead implants/ bone cement<br />
|-<br />
|Forehead wrinkles||Botox||facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Sunken temples||fillers||fat transfer<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eyebrows||castor oil/ latisse/ minox/ microblading||eyebrow transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eyebrow shape||styling/ Botox / browlift||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak brow bones|| ||supraorbital implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow skull/ ugly cranium / subhuman occiput||haircut/ covering up||<br />
|}<br />
<br />
<br />
====Middle third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye area||Fillers||Blepharoplasty / fat graft / Lower eyelid retraction<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye shape|| ||Almond eye surgery / Canthoplasty / Orbital decompression<br />
|-<br />
|Poor PFL|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Poor IPD|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eye lashes||Castor oil/ Latisse||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad eye color||Contacts||<br />
|-<br />
|Hollow undereye area||Fillers||Fat transfer / implants<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly nose|| ||Rhinoplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Flat cheekbones||Fillers||Implants / ZSO<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed maxilla|| ||LeFort 1 osteotomy<br />
|-<br />
|Nasolabial folds||Fillers||Fat graft<br />
|-<br />
|Overall bad midface|| ||Lefort 1-2, 3.. Midface lift, high cut lf1<br />
|}<br />
<br />
====Lower third====<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed jaw|| ||Implants/ Bimaxillary orthognathic surgery / BSSO / Chin wing (Genioplasty)<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow jaw||Fillers||Chin wing (Genioplasty) / Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate/maxilla||Face pulling||Maxillary Skeletal Expansion (MSE)<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed chin||Fillers||Implants / Genioplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Round jaw / chin||Fillers||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Pencil neck||Neck training||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Neck wrinkles|| ||Neck lift<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate||Palate expander||<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly teeth||Teeth whitening||Orthodontist treatments<br />
|-<br />
|Small lips||Fillers||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Bloated mouth area|| ||Buccal fat removal<br />
|-<br />
|Long philtrum|| ||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly facial hair|| ||Beard transplant<br />
|}<br />
<br />
====Overall====<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Acne||Accutane||<br />
|-<br />
|Big pores||Chemical peel||Laser<br />
|-<br />
|Skin aging||Retin-A gel||Facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Bad skin coloring||Tan (Darken) / Skin bleaching (Whiten)||<br />
|-<br />
|Small skull size|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Fat face||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Low [[SMV]] race / phenotype|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad facial harmony in general|| ||<br />
|}<br />
<br />
===Voice===<br />
<br />
==Body==<br />
<br />
===Ideal bodytypes===<br />
<br />
- Mention what are the most desirable and physically attractive bodytypes<br />
<br />
===Dieting===<br />
<br />
- Provide dieting tips, mention that crash dieting is shit<br />
<br />
===[[Gymmaxing]]===<br />
<br />
- Provide tips on ideal bodyweight, how to calculate BMI and bodyfat etc<br />
<br />
- Provide the average training routine to achieve ideal bodytypes that gives results as fast as possible with the least effort as possible<br />
<br />
====Lifting====<br />
<br />
====Calisthenics====<br />
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1a8tlZ-zbF695HA3Lmm20OIYeYYxo1lmUOczUXKLoL4s/<br />
<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Short height (manletism)||Platform shoes / Height insoles||Limb lenthening<br />
|-<br />
|High body fat||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow shoulders||[[Gymmaxing]] (back and shoulder muscle development)||Shoulder lengthening<br />
|-<br />
|Bad body proportions|| ||<br />
|}<br />
<br />
===Clothing===<br />
<br />
=Money=<br />
<br />
==Carreermaxing==<br />
<br />
===Recommended fields===<br />
<br />
- Mention which fields are the easiest to get decent jobs, and which ones are the easiest to get higher salaries<br />
<br />
===Where to look for jobs===<br />
<br />
===Building your CV===<br />
<br />
===Studymaxing===<br />
<br />
For studying, it's recommended to use the STIC technique. The STIC technique stands for: (S)pacing, (T)esting, (I)nterleaving and (C)ategorizing.<br />
Much of this concept has scientific backing, with nearly 100 years of academic papers covering it. For reference, it is recommended to watch the following videos from Ali Abdaal:<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ukLnPbIffxE<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-zNHHpXoMM<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fBXnxlLR0PY<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fDbxPVn02VU<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k5A26Sc63F0<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
The key to this concept is using active recall and spaced repetition techniques. Under active recall, you must first understand the topic, then practice it, either by writing questions or by using something like Anki.<br />
In the videos above, you can see evidence that rereading, text highlighting and summarizing are ineffective. To actually learn you must read once, then write questions, then answer them (without looking for the answers), and then correcting these questions by revisiting the study material / book.<br />
The next step is interleaving,where when you are studying several topics for a single subject in a day, instead of going through topic1>topic2>topic3>topic4(...) , you should do topic1>topic2>topic1(again)>topic3>topic2(again) (...)<br />
Lastly,comes spaced repetition,where you set a spreadsheet where you should assign where you should go over these topics again, after X days, then after X weeks, after X months (...)<br />
Then you do the categorizing , where you need to draw a graph/flowchart to make a quick synthesis about all the topics from the subject you studied.<br />
<br />
==Managing money==<br />
<br />
- Provide basic finance management tips<br />
<br />
==Trading==<br />
<br />
- Provide the basics on trading<br />
<br />
==Getting money online quickly and legally==<br />
<br />
- Provide (LEGAL) tips on how to get money quickly on online jobs<br />
<br />
=Status=<br />
<br />
<br />
- Provide tips on how to build a good reputation (also, a partial NTmaxing guide)<br />
<br />
==Building a good reputation==<br />
<br />
==Arranged marriage==<br />
<br />
https://www.jstor.org/stable/23644606?seq=1<br />
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/2217232/arranged-marriages-lead-to-happier-relationships-because-couples-put-more-effort-in-to-make-them-work/<br />
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704919887706<br />
<br />
==[[Neurotypical|Neurotypicalmaxing]]==<br />
<br />
==[[Inhibition|Lowinhibitionmaxing]]==<br />
<br />
==[[Online dating]]==<br />
<br />
==Talent / Skill maxing==<br />
<br />
===Art/Design===<br />
<br />
===Playing musical instruments===<br />
<br />
===Cooking===<br />
<br />
===Sports===<br />
<br />
==[[Successful personality types]]==<br />
<br />
- Mention which personality type can land better opportunities at life and how can specific personality traits improve socialization endeavors<br />
<br />
<br />
{{Blackpill}}<br />
{{Looks}}<br />
<references /></div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=User:Samaritan/Ascension&diff=64223User:Samaritan/Ascension2021-08-09T08:47:36Z<p>Samaritan: /* Studymaxing */</p>
<hr />
<div>This guide aims to summarize the process of [[ascending]] from a [[blackpilled]] perspective. It is structured on the principles of '''LMS''', which means '''L'''ooks, '''M'''oney and '''S'''tatus, the generally accepted theory of how female sexuality operates on the [[blackpilled]] [[incelosphere]], especially incel forums that are relatives of [[4chan|4chan's]] [[r9k]] board or [[PSL|PUAhate.com]]. It is a concept developed by a member of the former [[PSL|anti-pickup-artist community]], [[Chinpoko]], and further popularized by YouTuber '[[FaceandLMS]]', where it is suggested that what matters in attracting women are mainly [[looks]], money and [[status]].<br />
LMS denies [[confidence]], [[personality]] and [[PUA|game]] to be the most significant factors.<br />
<br />
=[[Looks]]=<br />
<br />
<br />
Multiple studies on face-to-face, [[online dating|online]] and [[blind dating]] concluded that among a variety of physical and personality traits, including extroversion, ''only physical attractiveness'' predicted initial romantic interest and strongly so.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_speed_dating</ref><ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_video_dating</ref><ref name="walster">https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_blind_dating</ref> One of these studies dates back to 1966,<ref name="walster" /> so superficiality in face-to-face dating is unlikely a novel phenomenon.<br />
<br />
Similarly, when OkCupid asked users to rate looks and personality separately, users did not distinguish between the two.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Your_looks_define_perception_of_your_personality_in_online_dating</ref> To confirm their hypothesis that pictures were what people were rating as good personality, OkCupid followed up with another internal study which showed that online bio text accounts for less than 10% of what users think of the profiles.<ref>https://archive.li/QNCbf</ref> This means ''game'' in terms of witty and confident textual self-descriptions is also largely ineffective.<br />
Meeting online is notably now the primary way people meet for relationships,<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Meeting_online_is_now_the_primary_way_relationships_are_formed</ref> however, this includes meeting up through social networks and chats, where personality may play a larger role than in the blind and semi-blind dating.<br />
==Benefits of being attractive==<br />
<br />
By being attractive, you'll have an easier time getting:<br />
<br />
*Dates/getting laid (provide sources)<br />
*A job where looks are relevant (modelling, acting or being a digital influencer, having youtube channels or instagram) (provide sources)<br />
*People socializing, starting and carrying conversations with you (provide sources)<br />
*People gravitating towards you, as well as having people rationalize anything you say or do as positive (provide sources)<br />
*A penalty reduction for being old/past your prime, especially if you still have sex appeal. (provide sources)<br />
*Forgiveness from people. (provide sources)<br />
*Less jail time in case you are arrested. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive feedback and a better overall life and opportunities. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive outlook about life and better chances at being neurotypical (provide sources)<br />
*Less likely to get bullied (provide sources)<br />
*Positively biased grading on some activities that require scored evaluation (provide sources)<br />
<br />
==Face==<br />
<br />
Face is arguably the most important factor in looks {{Citation needed}} , as it is the body part used on profile pictures, be it important ones (resume, Linkedin) or on general social media (Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, dating apps), and alongside height is the biggest social opener. <br />
===Measuring attractiveness, getting ratings and feedback===<br />
<br />
In order to take action, you must first attempt to measure your current level of facial attractiveness, from an unbiased perspective with honest opinions, take notes of it, and later enumerate your strengths and flaws. You can do the following:<br />
<br />
1- Create a thread on [[Looksmax.me]]'s Ratings board (https://looksmax.me/forums/ratings.7/) with your pictures, front, profile, and full body.<br />
<br />
2- https://www.photofeeler.com/<br />
<br />
3- Create a Tinder profile on an area with many users, a city with a huge population (provide a sample population size). Preferably use four pictures (pictures containing face, full body, at least one picture on casual environment). Then use this widget to calculate your attractiveness level based on match percentage (per 100 swipes): https://www.wolframalpha.com/widgets/gallery/view.jsp?id=1f51953255f63027635d602d42b96718<br />
<br />
4 - Use Omegle https://www.omegle.com/ . If women skip you too often, it's a bad sign.<br />
<br />
5- Don't ask women in real life for opinions, and don't ask on Reddit for ratings. They are known for virtue signalling and sugarcoating, and not providing honest opinions, thus leaving some people in the dark.<br />
<br />
After that, take notes on what made you be considered unattractive.<br />
<br />
- Post a list of surgeries accordingly to each body part and their average prices around the world, also mentioning the cheapest place in average pricing to get the surgery (and refer to the money guide of the article)<br />
<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
<br />
====Upper third====<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair density/ receding hairline||Finasteride / minoxidil||Hair transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair color||hair dye||<br />
|-<br />
|Natural high hairline/ oversized forehead|| ||hairline lowering / forehead reduction<br />
|-<br />
|Overly sloped forehead|| ||forehead implants/ bone cement<br />
|-<br />
|Forehead wrinkles||Botox||facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Sunken temples||fillers||fat transfer<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eyebrows||castor oil/ latisse/ minox/ microblading||eyebrow transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eyebrow shape||styling/ Botox / browlift||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak brow bones|| ||supraorbital implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow skull/ ugly cranium / subhuman occiput||haircut/ covering up||<br />
|}<br />
<br />
<br />
====Middle third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye area||Fillers||Blepharoplasty / fat graft / Lower eyelid retraction<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye shape|| ||Almond eye surgery / Canthoplasty / Orbital decompression<br />
|-<br />
|Poor PFL|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Poor IPD|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eye lashes||Castor oil/ Latisse||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad eye color||Contacts||<br />
|-<br />
|Hollow undereye area||Fillers||Fat transfer / implants<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly nose|| ||Rhinoplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Flat cheekbones||Fillers||Implants / ZSO<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed maxilla|| ||LeFort 1 osteotomy<br />
|-<br />
|Nasolabial folds||Fillers||Fat graft<br />
|-<br />
|Overall bad midface|| ||Lefort 1-2, 3.. Midface lift, high cut lf1<br />
|}<br />
<br />
====Lower third====<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed jaw|| ||Implants/ Bimaxillary orthognathic surgery / BSSO / Chin wing (Genioplasty)<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow jaw||Fillers||Chin wing (Genioplasty) / Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate/maxilla||Face pulling||Maxillary Skeletal Expansion (MSE)<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed chin||Fillers||Implants / Genioplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Round jaw / chin||Fillers||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Pencil neck||Neck training||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Neck wrinkles|| ||Neck lift<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate||Palate expander||<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly teeth||Teeth whitening||Orthodontist treatments<br />
|-<br />
|Small lips||Fillers||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Bloated mouth area|| ||Buccal fat removal<br />
|-<br />
|Long philtrum|| ||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly facial hair|| ||Beard transplant<br />
|}<br />
<br />
====Overall====<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Acne||Accutane||<br />
|-<br />
|Big pores||Chemical peel||Laser<br />
|-<br />
|Skin aging||Retin-A gel||Facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Bad skin coloring||Tan (Darken) / Skin bleaching (Whiten)||<br />
|-<br />
|Small skull size|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Fat face||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Low [[SMV]] race / phenotype|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad facial harmony in general|| ||<br />
|}<br />
<br />
===Voice===<br />
<br />
==Body==<br />
<br />
===Ideal bodytypes===<br />
<br />
- Mention what are the most desirable and physically attractive bodytypes<br />
<br />
===Dieting===<br />
<br />
- Provide dieting tips, mention that crash dieting is shit<br />
<br />
===[[Gymmaxing]]===<br />
<br />
- Provide tips on ideal bodyweight, how to calculate BMI and bodyfat etc<br />
<br />
- Provide the average training routine to achieve ideal bodytypes that gives results as fast as possible with the least effort as possible<br />
<br />
====Lifting====<br />
<br />
====Calisthenics====<br />
<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Short height (manletism)||Platform shoes / Height insoles||Limb lenthening<br />
|-<br />
|High body fat||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow shoulders||[[Gymmaxing]] (back and shoulder muscle development)||Shoulder lengthening<br />
|-<br />
|Bad body proportions|| ||<br />
|}<br />
<br />
===Clothing===<br />
<br />
=Money=<br />
<br />
==Carreermaxing==<br />
<br />
===Recommended fields===<br />
<br />
- Mention which fields are the easiest to get decent jobs, and which ones are the easiest to get higher salaries<br />
<br />
===Where to look for jobs===<br />
<br />
===Building your CV===<br />
<br />
===Studymaxing===<br />
<br />
For studying, it's recommended to use the STIC technique. The STIC technique stands for: (S)pacing, (T)esting, (I)nterleaving and (C)ategorizing.<br />
Much of this concept has scientific backing, with nearly 100 years of academic papers covering it. For reference, it is recommended to watch the following videos from Ali Abdaal:<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ukLnPbIffxE<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-zNHHpXoMM<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fBXnxlLR0PY<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fDbxPVn02VU<br />
<br />
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k5A26Sc63F0<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
The key to this concept is using active recall and spaced repetition techniques. Under active recall, you must first understand the topic, then practice it, either by writing questions or by using something like Anki.<br />
In the videos above, you can see evidence that rereading, text highlighting and summarizing are ineffective. To actually learn you must read once, then write questions, then answer them (without looking for the answers), and then correcting these questions by revisiting the study material / book.<br />
The next step is interleaving,where when you are studying several topics for a single subject in a day, instead of going through topic1>topic2>topic3>topic4(...) , you should do topic1>topic2>topic1(again)>topic3>topic2(again) (...)<br />
Lastly,comes spaced repetition,where you set a spreadsheet where you should assign where you should go over these topics again, after X days, then after X weeks, after X months (...)<br />
Then you do the categorizing , where you need to draw a graph/flowchart to make a quick synthesis about all the topics from the subject you studied.<br />
<br />
==Managing money==<br />
<br />
- Provide basic finance management tips<br />
<br />
==Trading==<br />
<br />
- Provide the basics on trading<br />
<br />
==Getting money online quickly and legally==<br />
<br />
- Provide (LEGAL) tips on how to get money quickly on online jobs<br />
<br />
=Status=<br />
<br />
<br />
- Provide tips on how to build a good reputation (also, a partial NTmaxing guide)<br />
<br />
==Building a good reputation==<br />
<br />
==Arranged marriage==<br />
<br />
https://www.jstor.org/stable/23644606?seq=1<br />
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/2217232/arranged-marriages-lead-to-happier-relationships-because-couples-put-more-effort-in-to-make-them-work/<br />
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704919887706<br />
<br />
==[[Neurotypical|Neurotypicalmaxing]]==<br />
<br />
==[[Inhibition|Lowinhibitionmaxing]]==<br />
<br />
==[[Online dating]]==<br />
<br />
==Talent / Skill maxing==<br />
<br />
===Art/Design===<br />
<br />
===Playing musical instruments===<br />
<br />
===Cooking===<br />
<br />
===Sports===<br />
<br />
==[[Successful personality types]]==<br />
<br />
- Mention which personality type can land better opportunities at life and how can specific personality traits improve socialization endeavors<br />
<br />
<br />
{{Blackpill}}<br />
{{Looks}}<br />
<references /></div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=User:Samaritan/Ascension&diff=64222User:Samaritan/Ascension2021-08-09T08:40:40Z<p>Samaritan: /* Measuring attractiveness, getting ratings and feedback */</p>
<hr />
<div>This guide aims to summarize the process of [[ascending]] from a [[blackpilled]] perspective. It is structured on the principles of '''LMS''', which means '''L'''ooks, '''M'''oney and '''S'''tatus, the generally accepted theory of how female sexuality operates on the [[blackpilled]] [[incelosphere]], especially incel forums that are relatives of [[4chan|4chan's]] [[r9k]] board or [[PSL|PUAhate.com]]. It is a concept developed by a member of the former [[PSL|anti-pickup-artist community]], [[Chinpoko]], and further popularized by YouTuber '[[FaceandLMS]]', where it is suggested that what matters in attracting women are mainly [[looks]], money and [[status]].<br />
LMS denies [[confidence]], [[personality]] and [[PUA|game]] to be the most significant factors.<br />
<br />
=[[Looks]]=<br />
<br />
<br />
Multiple studies on face-to-face, [[online dating|online]] and [[blind dating]] concluded that among a variety of physical and personality traits, including extroversion, ''only physical attractiveness'' predicted initial romantic interest and strongly so.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_speed_dating</ref><ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_video_dating</ref><ref name="walster">https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_blind_dating</ref> One of these studies dates back to 1966,<ref name="walster" /> so superficiality in face-to-face dating is unlikely a novel phenomenon.<br />
<br />
Similarly, when OkCupid asked users to rate looks and personality separately, users did not distinguish between the two.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Your_looks_define_perception_of_your_personality_in_online_dating</ref> To confirm their hypothesis that pictures were what people were rating as good personality, OkCupid followed up with another internal study which showed that online bio text accounts for less than 10% of what users think of the profiles.<ref>https://archive.li/QNCbf</ref> This means ''game'' in terms of witty and confident textual self-descriptions is also largely ineffective.<br />
Meeting online is notably now the primary way people meet for relationships,<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Meeting_online_is_now_the_primary_way_relationships_are_formed</ref> however, this includes meeting up through social networks and chats, where personality may play a larger role than in the blind and semi-blind dating.<br />
==Benefits of being attractive==<br />
<br />
By being attractive, you'll have an easier time getting:<br />
<br />
*Dates/getting laid (provide sources)<br />
*A job where looks are relevant (modelling, acting or being a digital influencer, having youtube channels or instagram) (provide sources)<br />
*People socializing, starting and carrying conversations with you (provide sources)<br />
*People gravitating towards you, as well as having people rationalize anything you say or do as positive (provide sources)<br />
*A penalty reduction for being old/past your prime, especially if you still have sex appeal. (provide sources)<br />
*Forgiveness from people. (provide sources)<br />
*Less jail time in case you are arrested. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive feedback and a better overall life and opportunities. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive outlook about life and better chances at being neurotypical (provide sources)<br />
*Less likely to get bullied (provide sources)<br />
*Positively biased grading on some activities that require scored evaluation (provide sources)<br />
<br />
==Face==<br />
<br />
Face is arguably the most important factor in looks {{Citation needed}} , as it is the body part used on profile pictures, be it important ones (resume, Linkedin) or on general social media (Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, dating apps), and alongside height is the biggest social opener. <br />
===Measuring attractiveness, getting ratings and feedback===<br />
<br />
In order to take action, you must first attempt to measure your current level of facial attractiveness, from an unbiased perspective with honest opinions, take notes of it, and later enumerate your strengths and flaws. You can do the following:<br />
<br />
1- Create a thread on [[Looksmax.me]]'s Ratings board (https://looksmax.me/forums/ratings.7/) with your pictures, front, profile, and full body.<br />
<br />
2- https://www.photofeeler.com/<br />
<br />
3- Create a Tinder profile on an area with many users, a city with a huge population (provide a sample population size). Preferably use four pictures (pictures containing face, full body, at least one picture on casual environment). Then use this widget to calculate your attractiveness level based on match percentage (per 100 swipes): https://www.wolframalpha.com/widgets/gallery/view.jsp?id=1f51953255f63027635d602d42b96718<br />
<br />
4 - Use Omegle https://www.omegle.com/ . If women skip you too often, it's a bad sign.<br />
<br />
5- Don't ask women in real life for opinions, and don't ask on Reddit for ratings. They are known for virtue signalling and sugarcoating, and not providing honest opinions, thus leaving some people in the dark.<br />
<br />
After that, take notes on what made you be considered unattractive.<br />
<br />
- Post a list of surgeries accordingly to each body part and their average prices around the world, also mentioning the cheapest place in average pricing to get the surgery (and refer to the money guide of the article)<br />
<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
<br />
====Upper third====<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair density/ receding hairline||Finasteride / minoxidil||Hair transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair color||hair dye||<br />
|-<br />
|Natural high hairline/ oversized forehead|| ||hairline lowering / forehead reduction<br />
|-<br />
|Overly sloped forehead|| ||forehead implants/ bone cement<br />
|-<br />
|Forehead wrinkles||Botox||facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Sunken temples||fillers||fat transfer<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eyebrows||castor oil/ latisse/ minox/ microblading||eyebrow transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eyebrow shape||styling/ Botox / browlift||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak brow bones|| ||supraorbital implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow skull/ ugly cranium / subhuman occiput||haircut/ covering up||<br />
|}<br />
<br />
<br />
====Middle third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye area||Fillers||Blepharoplasty / fat graft / Lower eyelid retraction<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye shape|| ||Almond eye surgery / Canthoplasty / Orbital decompression<br />
|-<br />
|Poor PFL|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Poor IPD|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eye lashes||Castor oil/ Latisse||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad eye color||Contacts||<br />
|-<br />
|Hollow undereye area||Fillers||Fat transfer / implants<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly nose|| ||Rhinoplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Flat cheekbones||Fillers||Implants / ZSO<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed maxilla|| ||LeFort 1 osteotomy<br />
|-<br />
|Nasolabial folds||Fillers||Fat graft<br />
|-<br />
|Overall bad midface|| ||Lefort 1-2, 3.. Midface lift, high cut lf1<br />
|}<br />
<br />
====Lower third====<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed jaw|| ||Implants/ Bimaxillary orthognathic surgery / BSSO / Chin wing (Genioplasty)<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow jaw||Fillers||Chin wing (Genioplasty) / Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate/maxilla||Face pulling||Maxillary Skeletal Expansion (MSE)<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed chin||Fillers||Implants / Genioplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Round jaw / chin||Fillers||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Pencil neck||Neck training||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Neck wrinkles|| ||Neck lift<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate||Palate expander||<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly teeth||Teeth whitening||Orthodontist treatments<br />
|-<br />
|Small lips||Fillers||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Bloated mouth area|| ||Buccal fat removal<br />
|-<br />
|Long philtrum|| ||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly facial hair|| ||Beard transplant<br />
|}<br />
<br />
====Overall====<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Acne||Accutane||<br />
|-<br />
|Big pores||Chemical peel||Laser<br />
|-<br />
|Skin aging||Retin-A gel||Facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Bad skin coloring||Tan (Darken) / Skin bleaching (Whiten)||<br />
|-<br />
|Small skull size|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Fat face||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Low [[SMV]] race / phenotype|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad facial harmony in general|| ||<br />
|}<br />
<br />
===Voice===<br />
<br />
==Body==<br />
<br />
===Ideal bodytypes===<br />
<br />
- Mention what are the most desirable and physically attractive bodytypes<br />
<br />
===Dieting===<br />
<br />
- Provide dieting tips, mention that crash dieting is shit<br />
<br />
===[[Gymmaxing]]===<br />
<br />
- Provide tips on ideal bodyweight, how to calculate BMI and bodyfat etc<br />
<br />
- Provide the average training routine to achieve ideal bodytypes that gives results as fast as possible with the least effort as possible<br />
<br />
====Lifting====<br />
<br />
====Calisthenics====<br />
<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Short height (manletism)||Platform shoes / Height insoles||Limb lenthening<br />
|-<br />
|High body fat||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow shoulders||[[Gymmaxing]] (back and shoulder muscle development)||Shoulder lengthening<br />
|-<br />
|Bad body proportions|| ||<br />
|}<br />
<br />
===Clothing===<br />
<br />
=Money=<br />
<br />
==Carreermaxing==<br />
<br />
===Recommended fields===<br />
<br />
- Mention which fields are the easiest to get decent jobs, and which ones are the easiest to get higher salaries<br />
<br />
===Where to look for jobs===<br />
<br />
===Building your CV===<br />
<br />
===Studymaxing===<br />
<br />
==Managing money==<br />
<br />
- Provide basic finance management tips<br />
<br />
==Trading==<br />
<br />
- Provide the basics on trading<br />
<br />
==Getting money online quickly and legally==<br />
<br />
- Provide (LEGAL) tips on how to get money quickly on online jobs<br />
<br />
=Status=<br />
<br />
<br />
- Provide tips on how to build a good reputation (also, a partial NTmaxing guide)<br />
<br />
==Building a good reputation==<br />
<br />
==Arranged marriage==<br />
<br />
https://www.jstor.org/stable/23644606?seq=1<br />
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/2217232/arranged-marriages-lead-to-happier-relationships-because-couples-put-more-effort-in-to-make-them-work/<br />
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704919887706<br />
<br />
==[[Neurotypical|Neurotypicalmaxing]]==<br />
<br />
==[[Inhibition|Lowinhibitionmaxing]]==<br />
<br />
==[[Online dating]]==<br />
<br />
==Talent / Skill maxing==<br />
<br />
===Art/Design===<br />
<br />
===Playing musical instruments===<br />
<br />
===Cooking===<br />
<br />
===Sports===<br />
<br />
==[[Successful personality types]]==<br />
<br />
- Mention which personality type can land better opportunities at life and how can specific personality traits improve socialization endeavors<br />
<br />
<br />
{{Blackpill}}<br />
{{Looks}}<br />
<references /></div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=User:Samaritan/Ascension&diff=64221User:Samaritan/Ascension2021-08-09T08:34:10Z<p>Samaritan: /* Measuring attractiveness, getting ratings and feedback */</p>
<hr />
<div>This guide aims to summarize the process of [[ascending]] from a [[blackpilled]] perspective. It is structured on the principles of '''LMS''', which means '''L'''ooks, '''M'''oney and '''S'''tatus, the generally accepted theory of how female sexuality operates on the [[blackpilled]] [[incelosphere]], especially incel forums that are relatives of [[4chan|4chan's]] [[r9k]] board or [[PSL|PUAhate.com]]. It is a concept developed by a member of the former [[PSL|anti-pickup-artist community]], [[Chinpoko]], and further popularized by YouTuber '[[FaceandLMS]]', where it is suggested that what matters in attracting women are mainly [[looks]], money and [[status]].<br />
LMS denies [[confidence]], [[personality]] and [[PUA|game]] to be the most significant factors.<br />
<br />
=[[Looks]]=<br />
<br />
<br />
Multiple studies on face-to-face, [[online dating|online]] and [[blind dating]] concluded that among a variety of physical and personality traits, including extroversion, ''only physical attractiveness'' predicted initial romantic interest and strongly so.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_speed_dating</ref><ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_video_dating</ref><ref name="walster">https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_blind_dating</ref> One of these studies dates back to 1966,<ref name="walster" /> so superficiality in face-to-face dating is unlikely a novel phenomenon.<br />
<br />
Similarly, when OkCupid asked users to rate looks and personality separately, users did not distinguish between the two.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Your_looks_define_perception_of_your_personality_in_online_dating</ref> To confirm their hypothesis that pictures were what people were rating as good personality, OkCupid followed up with another internal study which showed that online bio text accounts for less than 10% of what users think of the profiles.<ref>https://archive.li/QNCbf</ref> This means ''game'' in terms of witty and confident textual self-descriptions is also largely ineffective.<br />
Meeting online is notably now the primary way people meet for relationships,<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Meeting_online_is_now_the_primary_way_relationships_are_formed</ref> however, this includes meeting up through social networks and chats, where personality may play a larger role than in the blind and semi-blind dating.<br />
==Benefits of being attractive==<br />
<br />
By being attractive, you'll have an easier time getting:<br />
<br />
*Dates/getting laid (provide sources)<br />
*A job where looks are relevant (modelling, acting or being a digital influencer, having youtube channels or instagram) (provide sources)<br />
*People socializing, starting and carrying conversations with you (provide sources)<br />
*People gravitating towards you, as well as having people rationalize anything you say or do as positive (provide sources)<br />
*A penalty reduction for being old/past your prime, especially if you still have sex appeal. (provide sources)<br />
*Forgiveness from people. (provide sources)<br />
*Less jail time in case you are arrested. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive feedback and a better overall life and opportunities. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive outlook about life and better chances at being neurotypical (provide sources)<br />
*Less likely to get bullied (provide sources)<br />
*Positively biased grading on some activities that require scored evaluation (provide sources)<br />
<br />
==Face==<br />
<br />
Face is arguably the most important factor in looks {{Citation needed}} , as it is the body part used on profile pictures, be it important ones (resume, Linkedin) or on general social media (Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, dating apps), and alongside height is the biggest social opener. <br />
===Measuring attractiveness, getting ratings and feedback===<br />
<br />
In order to take action, you must first attempt to measure your current level of facial attractiveness, from an unbiased perspective with honest opinions, take notes of it, and later enumerate your strengths and flaws. You can do the following:<br />
<br />
1- Create a thread on [[Looksmax.me]]'s Ratings board (https://looksmax.me/forums/ratings.7/) with your pictures, front, profile, and full body.<br />
<br />
2- https://www.photofeeler.com/<br />
<br />
3- Create a Tinder profile on an area with many users, a city with a huge population (provide a sample population size). Preferably use four pictures (pictures containing face, full body, at least one picture on casual environment). Then use this widget to calculate your attractiveness level based on match percentage (per 100 swipes): https://www.wolframalpha.com/widgets/gallery/view.jsp?id=1f51953255f63027635d602d42b96718<br />
<br />
4 - Use Omegle https://www.omegle.com/<br />
<br />
5- Don't ask women in real life for opinions, and don't ask on Reddit for ratings. They are known for virtue signalling and sugarcoating, and not providing honest opinions, thus leaving some people in the dark.<br />
<br />
After that, take notes on what made you be considered unattractive.<br />
<br />
- Post a list of surgeries accordingly to each body part and their average prices around the world, also mentioning the cheapest place in average pricing to get the surgery (and refer to the money guide of the article)<br />
<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
<br />
====Upper third====<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair density/ receding hairline||Finasteride / minoxidil||Hair transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair color||hair dye||<br />
|-<br />
|Natural high hairline/ oversized forehead|| ||hairline lowering / forehead reduction<br />
|-<br />
|Overly sloped forehead|| ||forehead implants/ bone cement<br />
|-<br />
|Forehead wrinkles||Botox||facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Sunken temples||fillers||fat transfer<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eyebrows||castor oil/ latisse/ minox/ microblading||eyebrow transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eyebrow shape||styling/ Botox / browlift||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak brow bones|| ||supraorbital implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow skull/ ugly cranium / subhuman occiput||haircut/ covering up||<br />
|}<br />
<br />
<br />
====Middle third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye area||Fillers||Blepharoplasty / fat graft / Lower eyelid retraction<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye shape|| ||Almond eye surgery / Canthoplasty / Orbital decompression<br />
|-<br />
|Poor PFL|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Poor IPD|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eye lashes||Castor oil/ Latisse||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad eye color||Contacts||<br />
|-<br />
|Hollow undereye area||Fillers||Fat transfer / implants<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly nose|| ||Rhinoplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Flat cheekbones||Fillers||Implants / ZSO<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed maxilla|| ||LeFort 1 osteotomy<br />
|-<br />
|Nasolabial folds||Fillers||Fat graft<br />
|-<br />
|Overall bad midface|| ||Lefort 1-2, 3.. Midface lift, high cut lf1<br />
|}<br />
<br />
====Lower third====<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed jaw|| ||Implants/ Bimaxillary orthognathic surgery / BSSO / Chin wing (Genioplasty)<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow jaw||Fillers||Chin wing (Genioplasty) / Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate/maxilla||Face pulling||Maxillary Skeletal Expansion (MSE)<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed chin||Fillers||Implants / Genioplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Round jaw / chin||Fillers||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Pencil neck||Neck training||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Neck wrinkles|| ||Neck lift<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate||Palate expander||<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly teeth||Teeth whitening||Orthodontist treatments<br />
|-<br />
|Small lips||Fillers||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Bloated mouth area|| ||Buccal fat removal<br />
|-<br />
|Long philtrum|| ||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly facial hair|| ||Beard transplant<br />
|}<br />
<br />
====Overall====<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Acne||Accutane||<br />
|-<br />
|Big pores||Chemical peel||Laser<br />
|-<br />
|Skin aging||Retin-A gel||Facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Bad skin coloring||Tan (Darken) / Skin bleaching (Whiten)||<br />
|-<br />
|Small skull size|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Fat face||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Low [[SMV]] race / phenotype|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad facial harmony in general|| ||<br />
|}<br />
<br />
===Voice===<br />
<br />
==Body==<br />
<br />
===Ideal bodytypes===<br />
<br />
- Mention what are the most desirable and physically attractive bodytypes<br />
<br />
===Dieting===<br />
<br />
- Provide dieting tips, mention that crash dieting is shit<br />
<br />
===[[Gymmaxing]]===<br />
<br />
- Provide tips on ideal bodyweight, how to calculate BMI and bodyfat etc<br />
<br />
- Provide the average training routine to achieve ideal bodytypes that gives results as fast as possible with the least effort as possible<br />
<br />
====Lifting====<br />
<br />
====Calisthenics====<br />
<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Short height (manletism)||Platform shoes / Height insoles||Limb lenthening<br />
|-<br />
|High body fat||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow shoulders||[[Gymmaxing]] (back and shoulder muscle development)||Shoulder lengthening<br />
|-<br />
|Bad body proportions|| ||<br />
|}<br />
<br />
===Clothing===<br />
<br />
=Money=<br />
<br />
==Carreermaxing==<br />
<br />
===Recommended fields===<br />
<br />
- Mention which fields are the easiest to get decent jobs, and which ones are the easiest to get higher salaries<br />
<br />
===Where to look for jobs===<br />
<br />
===Building your CV===<br />
<br />
===Studymaxing===<br />
<br />
==Managing money==<br />
<br />
- Provide basic finance management tips<br />
<br />
==Trading==<br />
<br />
- Provide the basics on trading<br />
<br />
==Getting money online quickly and legally==<br />
<br />
- Provide (LEGAL) tips on how to get money quickly on online jobs<br />
<br />
=Status=<br />
<br />
<br />
- Provide tips on how to build a good reputation (also, a partial NTmaxing guide)<br />
<br />
==Building a good reputation==<br />
<br />
==Arranged marriage==<br />
<br />
https://www.jstor.org/stable/23644606?seq=1<br />
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/2217232/arranged-marriages-lead-to-happier-relationships-because-couples-put-more-effort-in-to-make-them-work/<br />
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704919887706<br />
<br />
==[[Neurotypical|Neurotypicalmaxing]]==<br />
<br />
==[[Inhibition|Lowinhibitionmaxing]]==<br />
<br />
==[[Online dating]]==<br />
<br />
==Talent / Skill maxing==<br />
<br />
===Art/Design===<br />
<br />
===Playing musical instruments===<br />
<br />
===Cooking===<br />
<br />
===Sports===<br />
<br />
==[[Successful personality types]]==<br />
<br />
- Mention which personality type can land better opportunities at life and how can specific personality traits improve socialization endeavors<br />
<br />
<br />
{{Blackpill}}<br />
{{Looks}}<br />
<references /></div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=User:Samaritan/Ascension&diff=64220User:Samaritan/Ascension2021-08-09T08:33:14Z<p>Samaritan: /* Face */</p>
<hr />
<div>This guide aims to summarize the process of [[ascending]] from a [[blackpilled]] perspective. It is structured on the principles of '''LMS''', which means '''L'''ooks, '''M'''oney and '''S'''tatus, the generally accepted theory of how female sexuality operates on the [[blackpilled]] [[incelosphere]], especially incel forums that are relatives of [[4chan|4chan's]] [[r9k]] board or [[PSL|PUAhate.com]]. It is a concept developed by a member of the former [[PSL|anti-pickup-artist community]], [[Chinpoko]], and further popularized by YouTuber '[[FaceandLMS]]', where it is suggested that what matters in attracting women are mainly [[looks]], money and [[status]].<br />
LMS denies [[confidence]], [[personality]] and [[PUA|game]] to be the most significant factors.<br />
<br />
=[[Looks]]=<br />
<br />
<br />
Multiple studies on face-to-face, [[online dating|online]] and [[blind dating]] concluded that among a variety of physical and personality traits, including extroversion, ''only physical attractiveness'' predicted initial romantic interest and strongly so.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_speed_dating</ref><ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_video_dating</ref><ref name="walster">https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_blind_dating</ref> One of these studies dates back to 1966,<ref name="walster" /> so superficiality in face-to-face dating is unlikely a novel phenomenon.<br />
<br />
Similarly, when OkCupid asked users to rate looks and personality separately, users did not distinguish between the two.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Your_looks_define_perception_of_your_personality_in_online_dating</ref> To confirm their hypothesis that pictures were what people were rating as good personality, OkCupid followed up with another internal study which showed that online bio text accounts for less than 10% of what users think of the profiles.<ref>https://archive.li/QNCbf</ref> This means ''game'' in terms of witty and confident textual self-descriptions is also largely ineffective.<br />
Meeting online is notably now the primary way people meet for relationships,<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Meeting_online_is_now_the_primary_way_relationships_are_formed</ref> however, this includes meeting up through social networks and chats, where personality may play a larger role than in the blind and semi-blind dating.<br />
==Benefits of being attractive==<br />
<br />
By being attractive, you'll have an easier time getting:<br />
<br />
*Dates/getting laid (provide sources)<br />
*A job where looks are relevant (modelling, acting or being a digital influencer, having youtube channels or instagram) (provide sources)<br />
*People socializing, starting and carrying conversations with you (provide sources)<br />
*People gravitating towards you, as well as having people rationalize anything you say or do as positive (provide sources)<br />
*A penalty reduction for being old/past your prime, especially if you still have sex appeal. (provide sources)<br />
*Forgiveness from people. (provide sources)<br />
*Less jail time in case you are arrested. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive feedback and a better overall life and opportunities. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive outlook about life and better chances at being neurotypical (provide sources)<br />
*Less likely to get bullied (provide sources)<br />
*Positively biased grading on some activities that require scored evaluation (provide sources)<br />
<br />
==Face==<br />
<br />
Face is arguably the most important factor in looks {{Citation needed}} , as it is the body part used on profile pictures, be it important ones (resume, Linkedin) or on general social media (Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, dating apps), and alongside height is the biggest social opener. <br />
===Measuring attractiveness, getting ratings and feedback===<br />
<br />
In order to take action, you must first attempt to measure your current level of facial attractiveness, from an unbiased perspective with honest opinions, take notes of it, and later enumerate your strengths and flaws. You can do the following:<br />
<br />
1- Create a thread on [[Looksmax.me]]'s Ratings board (https://looksmax.me/forums/ratings.7/) with your pictures, front, profile, and full body.<br />
<br />
2- https://www.photofeeler.com/<br />
<br />
3- Create a Tinder profile on an area with many users, a city with a huge population (provide a sample population size). Preferably use four pictures (pictures containing face, full body, at least one picture on casual environment). Then use this widget to calculate your attractiveness level based on match percentage (per 100 swipes): https://www.wolframalpha.com/widgets/gallery/view.jsp?id=1f51953255f63027635d602d42b96718<br />
<br />
4 - Use Omegle https://www.omegle.com/<br />
<br />
5- Don't ask women in real life for opinions, and don't ask on Reddit for ratings. They are known for virtue signalling and sugarcoating, and not providing honest opinions, thus leaving some people in the dark.<br />
<br />
After that, take notes on what made you be considered unattractrive.<br />
<br />
- Post a list of surgeries accordingly to each body part and their average prices around the world, also mentioning the cheapest place in average pricing to get the surgery (and refer to the money guide of the article)<br />
<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
<br />
====Upper third====<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair density/ receding hairline||Finasteride / minoxidil||Hair transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair color||hair dye||<br />
|-<br />
|Natural high hairline/ oversized forehead|| ||hairline lowering / forehead reduction<br />
|-<br />
|Overly sloped forehead|| ||forehead implants/ bone cement<br />
|-<br />
|Forehead wrinkles||Botox||facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Sunken temples||fillers||fat transfer<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eyebrows||castor oil/ latisse/ minox/ microblading||eyebrow transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eyebrow shape||styling/ Botox / browlift||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak brow bones|| ||supraorbital implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow skull/ ugly cranium / subhuman occiput||haircut/ covering up||<br />
|}<br />
<br />
<br />
====Middle third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye area||Fillers||Blepharoplasty / fat graft / Lower eyelid retraction<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye shape|| ||Almond eye surgery / Canthoplasty / Orbital decompression<br />
|-<br />
|Poor PFL|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Poor IPD|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eye lashes||Castor oil/ Latisse||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad eye color||Contacts||<br />
|-<br />
|Hollow undereye area||Fillers||Fat transfer / implants<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly nose|| ||Rhinoplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Flat cheekbones||Fillers||Implants / ZSO<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed maxilla|| ||LeFort 1 osteotomy<br />
|-<br />
|Nasolabial folds||Fillers||Fat graft<br />
|-<br />
|Overall bad midface|| ||Lefort 1-2, 3.. Midface lift, high cut lf1<br />
|}<br />
<br />
====Lower third====<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed jaw|| ||Implants/ Bimaxillary orthognathic surgery / BSSO / Chin wing (Genioplasty)<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow jaw||Fillers||Chin wing (Genioplasty) / Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate/maxilla||Face pulling||Maxillary Skeletal Expansion (MSE)<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed chin||Fillers||Implants / Genioplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Round jaw / chin||Fillers||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Pencil neck||Neck training||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Neck wrinkles|| ||Neck lift<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate||Palate expander||<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly teeth||Teeth whitening||Orthodontist treatments<br />
|-<br />
|Small lips||Fillers||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Bloated mouth area|| ||Buccal fat removal<br />
|-<br />
|Long philtrum|| ||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly facial hair|| ||Beard transplant<br />
|}<br />
<br />
====Overall====<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Acne||Accutane||<br />
|-<br />
|Big pores||Chemical peel||Laser<br />
|-<br />
|Skin aging||Retin-A gel||Facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Bad skin coloring||Tan (Darken) / Skin bleaching (Whiten)||<br />
|-<br />
|Small skull size|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Fat face||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Low [[SMV]] race / phenotype|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad facial harmony in general|| ||<br />
|}<br />
<br />
===Voice===<br />
<br />
==Body==<br />
<br />
===Ideal bodytypes===<br />
<br />
- Mention what are the most desirable and physically attractive bodytypes<br />
<br />
===Dieting===<br />
<br />
- Provide dieting tips, mention that crash dieting is shit<br />
<br />
===[[Gymmaxing]]===<br />
<br />
- Provide tips on ideal bodyweight, how to calculate BMI and bodyfat etc<br />
<br />
- Provide the average training routine to achieve ideal bodytypes that gives results as fast as possible with the least effort as possible<br />
<br />
====Lifting====<br />
<br />
====Calisthenics====<br />
<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Short height (manletism)||Platform shoes / Height insoles||Limb lenthening<br />
|-<br />
|High body fat||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow shoulders||[[Gymmaxing]] (back and shoulder muscle development)||Shoulder lengthening<br />
|-<br />
|Bad body proportions|| ||<br />
|}<br />
<br />
===Clothing===<br />
<br />
=Money=<br />
<br />
==Carreermaxing==<br />
<br />
===Recommended fields===<br />
<br />
- Mention which fields are the easiest to get decent jobs, and which ones are the easiest to get higher salaries<br />
<br />
===Where to look for jobs===<br />
<br />
===Building your CV===<br />
<br />
===Studymaxing===<br />
<br />
==Managing money==<br />
<br />
- Provide basic finance management tips<br />
<br />
==Trading==<br />
<br />
- Provide the basics on trading<br />
<br />
==Getting money online quickly and legally==<br />
<br />
- Provide (LEGAL) tips on how to get money quickly on online jobs<br />
<br />
=Status=<br />
<br />
<br />
- Provide tips on how to build a good reputation (also, a partial NTmaxing guide)<br />
<br />
==Building a good reputation==<br />
<br />
==Arranged marriage==<br />
<br />
https://www.jstor.org/stable/23644606?seq=1<br />
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/2217232/arranged-marriages-lead-to-happier-relationships-because-couples-put-more-effort-in-to-make-them-work/<br />
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704919887706<br />
<br />
==[[Neurotypical|Neurotypicalmaxing]]==<br />
<br />
==[[Inhibition|Lowinhibitionmaxing]]==<br />
<br />
==[[Online dating]]==<br />
<br />
==Talent / Skill maxing==<br />
<br />
===Art/Design===<br />
<br />
===Playing musical instruments===<br />
<br />
===Cooking===<br />
<br />
===Sports===<br />
<br />
==[[Successful personality types]]==<br />
<br />
- Mention which personality type can land better opportunities at life and how can specific personality traits improve socialization endeavors<br />
<br />
<br />
{{Blackpill}}<br />
{{Looks}}<br />
<references /></div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=User:Samaritan/Ascension&diff=64219User:Samaritan/Ascension2021-08-09T08:32:27Z<p>Samaritan: /* Benefits of being attractive */</p>
<hr />
<div>This guide aims to summarize the process of [[ascending]] from a [[blackpilled]] perspective. It is structured on the principles of '''LMS''', which means '''L'''ooks, '''M'''oney and '''S'''tatus, the generally accepted theory of how female sexuality operates on the [[blackpilled]] [[incelosphere]], especially incel forums that are relatives of [[4chan|4chan's]] [[r9k]] board or [[PSL|PUAhate.com]]. It is a concept developed by a member of the former [[PSL|anti-pickup-artist community]], [[Chinpoko]], and further popularized by YouTuber '[[FaceandLMS]]', where it is suggested that what matters in attracting women are mainly [[looks]], money and [[status]].<br />
LMS denies [[confidence]], [[personality]] and [[PUA|game]] to be the most significant factors.<br />
<br />
=[[Looks]]=<br />
<br />
<br />
Multiple studies on face-to-face, [[online dating|online]] and [[blind dating]] concluded that among a variety of physical and personality traits, including extroversion, ''only physical attractiveness'' predicted initial romantic interest and strongly so.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_speed_dating</ref><ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_video_dating</ref><ref name="walster">https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Looks_are_most_important_to_women_in_blind_dating</ref> One of these studies dates back to 1966,<ref name="walster" /> so superficiality in face-to-face dating is unlikely a novel phenomenon.<br />
<br />
Similarly, when OkCupid asked users to rate looks and personality separately, users did not distinguish between the two.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Your_looks_define_perception_of_your_personality_in_online_dating</ref> To confirm their hypothesis that pictures were what people were rating as good personality, OkCupid followed up with another internal study which showed that online bio text accounts for less than 10% of what users think of the profiles.<ref>https://archive.li/QNCbf</ref> This means ''game'' in terms of witty and confident textual self-descriptions is also largely ineffective.<br />
Meeting online is notably now the primary way people meet for relationships,<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Meeting_online_is_now_the_primary_way_relationships_are_formed</ref> however, this includes meeting up through social networks and chats, where personality may play a larger role than in the blind and semi-blind dating.<br />
==Benefits of being attractive==<br />
<br />
By being attractive, you'll have an easier time getting:<br />
<br />
*Dates/getting laid (provide sources)<br />
*A job where looks are relevant (modelling, acting or being a digital influencer, having youtube channels or instagram) (provide sources)<br />
*People socializing, starting and carrying conversations with you (provide sources)<br />
*People gravitating towards you, as well as having people rationalize anything you say or do as positive (provide sources)<br />
*A penalty reduction for being old/past your prime, especially if you still have sex appeal. (provide sources)<br />
*Forgiveness from people. (provide sources)<br />
*Less jail time in case you are arrested. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive feedback and a better overall life and opportunities. (provide sources)<br />
*Positive outlook about life and better chances at being neurotypical (provide sources)<br />
*Less likely to get bullied (provide sources)<br />
*Positively biased grading on some activities that require scored evaluation (provide sources)<br />
<br />
==Face==<br />
<br />
Face is arguably the most important factor in looks (citation needed) , as it is the body part used on profile pictures, be it important ones (resume, Linkedin) or on general social media (Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, dating apps), and alongside height is the biggest social opener. <br />
===Measuring attractiveness, getting ratings and feedback===<br />
<br />
In order to take action, you must first attempt to measure your current level of facial attractiveness, from an unbiased perspective with honest opinions, take notes of it, and later enumerate your strengths and flaws. You can do the following:<br />
<br />
1- Create a thread on [[Looksmax.me]]'s Ratings board (https://looksmax.me/forums/ratings.7/) with your pictures, front, profile, and full body.<br />
<br />
2- https://www.photofeeler.com/<br />
<br />
3- Create a Tinder profile on an area with many users, a city with a huge population (provide a sample population size). Preferably use four pictures (pictures containing face, full body, at least one picture on casual environment). Then use this widget to calculate your attractiveness level based on match percentage (per 100 swipes): https://www.wolframalpha.com/widgets/gallery/view.jsp?id=1f51953255f63027635d602d42b96718<br />
<br />
4 - Use Omegle https://www.omegle.com/<br />
<br />
5- Don't ask women in real life for opinions, and don't ask on Reddit for ratings. They are known for virtue signalling and sugarcoating, and not providing honest opinions, thus leaving some people in the dark.<br />
<br />
After that, take notes on what made you be considered unattractrive.<br />
<br />
- Post a list of surgeries accordingly to each body part and their average prices around the world, also mentioning the cheapest place in average pricing to get the surgery (and refer to the money guide of the article)<br />
<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
<br />
====Upper third====<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair density/ receding hairline||Finasteride / minoxidil||Hair transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Bad hair color||hair dye||<br />
|-<br />
|Natural high hairline/ oversized forehead|| ||hairline lowering / forehead reduction<br />
|-<br />
|Overly sloped forehead|| ||forehead implants/ bone cement<br />
|-<br />
|Forehead wrinkles||Botox||facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Sunken temples||fillers||fat transfer<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eyebrows||castor oil/ latisse/ minox/ microblading||eyebrow transplant<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eyebrow shape||styling/ Botox / browlift||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak brow bones|| ||supraorbital implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow skull/ ugly cranium / subhuman occiput||haircut/ covering up||<br />
|}<br />
<br />
<br />
====Middle third====<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye area||Fillers||Blepharoplasty / fat graft / Lower eyelid retraction<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly eye shape|| ||Almond eye surgery / Canthoplasty / Orbital decompression<br />
|-<br />
|Poor PFL|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Poor IPD|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Weak eye lashes||Castor oil/ Latisse||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad eye color||Contacts||<br />
|-<br />
|Hollow undereye area||Fillers||Fat transfer / implants<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly nose|| ||Rhinoplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Flat cheekbones||Fillers||Implants / ZSO<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed maxilla|| ||LeFort 1 osteotomy<br />
|-<br />
|Nasolabial folds||Fillers||Fat graft<br />
|-<br />
|Overall bad midface|| ||Lefort 1-2, 3.. Midface lift, high cut lf1<br />
|}<br />
<br />
====Lower third====<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed jaw|| ||Implants/ Bimaxillary orthognathic surgery / BSSO / Chin wing (Genioplasty)<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow jaw||Fillers||Chin wing (Genioplasty) / Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate/maxilla||Face pulling||Maxillary Skeletal Expansion (MSE)<br />
|-<br />
|Recessed chin||Fillers||Implants / Genioplasty<br />
|-<br />
|Round jaw / chin||Fillers||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Pencil neck||Neck training||Implants<br />
|-<br />
|Neck wrinkles|| ||Neck lift<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow palate||Palate expander||<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly teeth||Teeth whitening||Orthodontist treatments<br />
|-<br />
|Small lips||Fillers||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Bloated mouth area|| ||Buccal fat removal<br />
|-<br />
|Long philtrum|| ||Lip lift<br />
|-<br />
|Ugly facial hair|| ||Beard transplant<br />
|}<br />
<br />
====Overall====<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Acne||Accutane||<br />
|-<br />
|Big pores||Chemical peel||Laser<br />
|-<br />
|Skin aging||Retin-A gel||Facelift<br />
|-<br />
|Bad skin coloring||Tan (Darken) / Skin bleaching (Whiten)||<br />
|-<br />
|Small skull size|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Fat face||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Low [[SMV]] race / phenotype|| ||<br />
|-<br />
|Bad facial harmony in general|| ||<br />
|}<br />
<br />
===Voice===<br />
<br />
==Body==<br />
<br />
===Ideal bodytypes===<br />
<br />
- Mention what are the most desirable and physically attractive bodytypes<br />
<br />
===Dieting===<br />
<br />
- Provide dieting tips, mention that crash dieting is shit<br />
<br />
===[[Gymmaxing]]===<br />
<br />
- Provide tips on ideal bodyweight, how to calculate BMI and bodyfat etc<br />
<br />
- Provide the average training routine to achieve ideal bodytypes that gives results as fast as possible with the least effort as possible<br />
<br />
====Lifting====<br />
<br />
====Calisthenics====<br />
<br />
===Possible interventions===<br />
<br />
{| class="wikitable"<br />
!Problem||Soft intervention / Softmaxing||Hard intervention / Surgery<br />
|-<br />
|Short height (manletism)||Platform shoes / Height insoles||Limb lenthening<br />
|-<br />
|High body fat||Losing weight / Dieting and exercising||<br />
|-<br />
|Narrow shoulders||[[Gymmaxing]] (back and shoulder muscle development)||Shoulder lengthening<br />
|-<br />
|Bad body proportions|| ||<br />
|}<br />
<br />
===Clothing===<br />
<br />
=Money=<br />
<br />
==Carreermaxing==<br />
<br />
===Recommended fields===<br />
<br />
- Mention which fields are the easiest to get decent jobs, and which ones are the easiest to get higher salaries<br />
<br />
===Where to look for jobs===<br />
<br />
===Building your CV===<br />
<br />
===Studymaxing===<br />
<br />
==Managing money==<br />
<br />
- Provide basic finance management tips<br />
<br />
==Trading==<br />
<br />
- Provide the basics on trading<br />
<br />
==Getting money online quickly and legally==<br />
<br />
- Provide (LEGAL) tips on how to get money quickly on online jobs<br />
<br />
=Status=<br />
<br />
<br />
- Provide tips on how to build a good reputation (also, a partial NTmaxing guide)<br />
<br />
==Building a good reputation==<br />
<br />
==Arranged marriage==<br />
<br />
https://www.jstor.org/stable/23644606?seq=1<br />
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/2217232/arranged-marriages-lead-to-happier-relationships-because-couples-put-more-effort-in-to-make-them-work/<br />
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704919887706<br />
<br />
==[[Neurotypical|Neurotypicalmaxing]]==<br />
<br />
==[[Inhibition|Lowinhibitionmaxing]]==<br />
<br />
==[[Online dating]]==<br />
<br />
==Talent / Skill maxing==<br />
<br />
===Art/Design===<br />
<br />
===Playing musical instruments===<br />
<br />
===Cooking===<br />
<br />
===Sports===<br />
<br />
==[[Successful personality types]]==<br />
<br />
- Mention which personality type can land better opportunities at life and how can specific personality traits improve socialization endeavors<br />
<br />
<br />
{{Blackpill}}<br />
{{Looks}}<br />
<references /></div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64218Unicorn women2021-08-09T08:05:33Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
<hr />
<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
<br />
These women are often depicted to be willing to [[date down]] by having [[relationships]] with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population.{{Citation needed}} An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that would commonly be perceived as not being [[ugly|conventionally attractive]], or not notorious enough in terms of social status in regards to their female partner. <br />
<br />
In a broader [[PSL]] definition, a woman being an Unicorn in a relationship means she [[mogging|mogs]] her male partner in many regards, where she noticeably has a higher [[SMV]] than her partner; while she could use her high SMV to date a man with quantitatively similar or higher SMV, she settled down with a man valuing other aspects other than superficiality points of the [[dating market]]. This is considered a positive trait that disrupts the usual [[Blackpill|Blackpilled]] rhetoric.<br />
<br />
It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status,{{Citation needed}} but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are labeled as myths, like unicorns are.<br />
<br />
Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] as secondary (particularly looks, money and status), deciding instead to prioritize their partner's [[personality]] traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.<br />
<br />
Most Unicorn women are depicted as having good personality traits in regards to their romantic relationships, thus these women are more likely to marry earlier or stick to the same partners for several years. For [[oldcel|older single men]], finding Unicorn partners can pose quite a challenge as these women may become unavailable as their age range increases, since this group of women are most likely already in a relationship and out of the dating market.<br />
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Within the [[incelosphere]], many consider white women who date out of their [[Racepill|racial group]] as Unicorns, as white women are often considered the most loyal group in regards to exclusively dating people from their own race.{{Citation needed}}<br />
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Women who "settle down" for men who are wealthier than them, even if said men are considered less physically attractive, are generally not considered Unicorns as this still configures an hypergamic trait, where in this case the woman is dating up considering wealth resources.<br />
<br />
== Examples of women who are considered unicorns ==<br />
Here are some sources related to famous women who are considered to "date down"; be warned that some of the men mentioned in the articles are of high social status, thus the women are not considered complete Unicorns by this page's definition. <br />
<br />
https://www.therichest.com/entertainment/13-female-celebrities-who-have-dated-below-their-league/<br />
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https://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/slideshows/13-average-joes-who-married-way-out-of-their-league/<br />
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https://www.thesportster.com/entertainment/15-female-athletes-who-dated-way-below-their-league/<br />
<br />
== See also ==<br />
<br />
* [[NAWALT]]<br />
* [[Hypergamy]]<br />
* [[Oofy doofy theory]]<br />
* [[X-factor theory]]<br />
<br />
[[Category:Theories]]<br />
[[Category:Hypergamy]]</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64217Unicorn women2021-08-09T08:04:57Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
<hr />
<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
<br />
These women are often depicted to be willing to [[date down]] by having [[relationships]] with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population.{{Citation needed}} An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that would commonly be perceived as not being [[ugly|conventionally attractive]], or not notorious enough in terms of social status in regards to their female partner. <br />
<br />
In a broader [[PSL]] definition, a woman being an Unicorn in a relationship means she [[mogging|mogs]] her male partner in many regards, where she noticeably has a higher [[SMV]] than her partner; while she could use her high SMV to date a man with quantitatively similar or higher SMV, she settled down with a man valuing other aspects other than superficiality points of the [[dating market]]. This is considered a positive trait that disrupts the usual [[Blackpill|Blackpilled]] rhetoric.<br />
<br />
It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status,{{Citation needed}} but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are labeled as myths, like unicorns are.<br />
<br />
Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] as secondary (particularly looks, money and status), deciding instead to prioritize their partner's [[personality]] traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.<br />
<br />
Most Unicorn women are depicted as having good personality traits in regards to their romantic relationships, thus these women are more likely to marry earlier or stick to the same partners for several years. For [[oldcel|older single men]], finding Unicorn partners can pose quite a challenge as these women may become unavailable as their age range increases, since this group of women are most likely already in a relationship and out of the dating market.<br />
<br />
Within the [[incelosphere]], many consider white women who date out of their [[Racepill|racial group]] as Unicorns, as white women are often considered the most loyal in regards to exclusively dating men from their own race.{{Citation needed}}<br />
<br />
Women who "settle down" for men who are wealthier than them, even if said men are considered less physically attractive, are generally not considered Unicorns as this still configures an hypergamic trait, where in this case the woman is dating up considering wealth resources.<br />
<br />
== Examples of women who are considered unicorns ==<br />
Here are some sources related to famous women who are considered to "date down"; be warned that some of the men mentioned in the articles are of high social status, thus the women are not considered complete Unicorns by this page's definition. <br />
<br />
https://www.therichest.com/entertainment/13-female-celebrities-who-have-dated-below-their-league/<br />
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https://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/slideshows/13-average-joes-who-married-way-out-of-their-league/<br />
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https://www.thesportster.com/entertainment/15-female-athletes-who-dated-way-below-their-league/<br />
<br />
== See also ==<br />
<br />
* [[NAWALT]]<br />
* [[Hypergamy]]<br />
* [[Oofy doofy theory]]<br />
* [[X-factor theory]]<br />
<br />
[[Category:Theories]]<br />
[[Category:Hypergamy]]</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64216Unicorn women2021-08-09T08:04:04Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
<hr />
<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
<br />
These women are often depicted to be willing to [[date down]] by having [[relationships]] with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population.{{Citation needed}} An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that would commonly be perceived as not being [[ugly|conventionally attractive]], or not notorious enough in terms of social status in regards to their female partner. <br />
<br />
In a broader [[PSL]] definition, a woman being an Unicorn in a relationship means she [[mogging|mogs]] her male partner in many regards, where she noticeably has a higher [[SMV]] than her partner; while she could use her high SMV to date a man with quantitatively similar or higher SMV, she settled down with a man valuing other aspects other than superficiality points of the [[dating market]]. This is considered a positive trait that disrupts the usual [[Blackpill|Blackpilled]] rhetoric.<br />
<br />
It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status,{{Citation needed}} but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are labeled as myths, like unicorns are.<br />
<br />
Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] as secondary (particularly looks, money and status), deciding instead to prioritize their partner's [[personality]] traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.<br />
<br />
Most Unicorn women are depicted as having good personality traits in regards to their romantic relationships, thus these women are more likely to marry earlier or stick to the same partners for several years. For [[oldcel|older single men]], finding Unicorn partners can pose quite a challenge as these women may become unavailable as their age range increases, since this group of women are most likely already in a relationship and out of the dating market.<br />
<br />
Within the [[incelosphere]], many consider white women who date out of their [[Racepill|racial group]] as Unicorns, as this group of women if often considered the most loyal in regards to exclusively dating men from their own race.{{Citation needed}}<br />
<br />
Women who "settle down" for men who are wealthier than them, even if said men are considered less physically attractive, are generally not considered Unicorns as this still configures an hypergamic trait, where in this case the woman is dating up considering wealth resources.<br />
<br />
== Examples of women who are considered unicorns ==<br />
Here are some sources related to famous women who are considered to "date down"; be warned that some of the men mentioned in the articles are of high social status, thus the women are not considered complete Unicorns by this page's definition. <br />
<br />
https://www.therichest.com/entertainment/13-female-celebrities-who-have-dated-below-their-league/<br />
<br />
https://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/slideshows/13-average-joes-who-married-way-out-of-their-league/<br />
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https://www.thesportster.com/entertainment/15-female-athletes-who-dated-way-below-their-league/<br />
<br />
== See also ==<br />
<br />
* [[NAWALT]]<br />
* [[Hypergamy]]<br />
* [[Oofy doofy theory]]<br />
* [[X-factor theory]]<br />
<br />
[[Category:Theories]]<br />
[[Category:Hypergamy]]</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64215Unicorn women2021-08-09T07:59:33Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
<hr />
<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
<br />
These women are often depicted to be willing to [[date down]] by having [[relationships]] with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population.{{Citation needed}} An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that would commonly be perceived as not being [[ugly|conventionally attractive]], or not notorious enough in terms of social status in regards to their female partner. <br />
<br />
In a broader [[PSL]] definition, a woman being an Unicorn in a relationship means she [[mogging|mogs]] her male partner in many regards, where she noticeably has a higher [[SMV]] than her partner; while she could use her high SMV to date a man with quantitatively similar or higher SMV, she settled down with a man valuing other aspects other than superficiality points of the [[dating market]]. This is considered a positive trait that disrupts the usual [[Blackpill|Blackpilled]] rhetoric.<br />
<br />
It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status,{{Citation needed}} but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are labeled as myths, like Unicorns are.<br />
<br />
Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] as secondary (particularly looks, money and status), deciding instead to prioritize their partner's [[personality]] traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.<br />
<br />
Most Unicorn women are depicted as having good personality traits in regards to their romantic relationships, thus these women are more likely to marry earlier or stick to the same partners for several years. For [[oldcel|older single men]], finding Unicorn partners can pose quite a challenge as these women may become unavailable as their age range increases, since this group of women are most likely already in a relationship and out of the dating market.<br />
<br />
Within the [[incelosphere]], many consider white women who date out of their [[Racepill|racial group]] as Unicorns, as this group of women if often considered the most loyal in regards to exclusively dating men from their own race.{{Citation needed}}<br />
<br />
Women who "settle down" for men who are wealthier than them, even if said men are considered less physically attractive, are generally not considered Unicorns as this still configures an hypergamic trait, where in this case the woman is dating up considering wealth resources.<br />
<br />
== Examples of women who are considered unicorns ==<br />
Here are some sources related to famous women who are considered to "date down"; be warned that some of the men mentioned in the articles are of high social status, thus the women are not considered complete Unicorns by this page's definition. <br />
<br />
https://www.therichest.com/entertainment/13-female-celebrities-who-have-dated-below-their-league/<br />
<br />
https://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/slideshows/13-average-joes-who-married-way-out-of-their-league/<br />
<br />
https://www.thesportster.com/entertainment/15-female-athletes-who-dated-way-below-their-league/<br />
<br />
== See also ==<br />
<br />
* [[NAWALT]]<br />
* [[Hypergamy]]<br />
* [[Oofy doofy theory]]<br />
* [[X-factor theory]]<br />
<br />
[[Category:Theories]]<br />
[[Category:Hypergamy]]</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64203Unicorn women2021-08-09T07:45:45Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
<hr />
<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
<br />
These women are often depicted to be willing to [[date down]] by having [[relationships]] with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population.{{Citation needed}} An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that would commonly be perceived as not being [[ugly|conventionally attractive]], or not notorious enough in terms of social status in regards to their female partner. <br />
<br />
It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status,{{Citation needed}} but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are labeled as myths, like Unicorns are.<br />
<br />
Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] as secondary (particularly looks, money and status), deciding instead to prioritize their partner's [[personality]] traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.<br />
<br />
Most Unicorn women are depicted as having good personality traits in regards to their romantic relationships, thus these women are more likely to marry earlier or stick to the same partners for several years. For [[oldcel|older single men]], finding Unicorn partners can pose quite a challenge as these women may become unavailable as their age range increases, since this group of women are most likely already in a relationship and out of the [[dating market]].<br />
<br />
Within the [[incelosphere]], many consider white women who date out of their [[Racepill|racial group]] as Unicorns, as this group of women if often considered the most loyal in regards to exclusively dating men from their own race.{{Citation needed}}<br />
<br />
Women who "settle down" for men who are wealthier than them, even if said men are considered less physically attractive, are generally not considered Unicorns as this still configures an hypergamic trait, where in this case the woman is dating up considering wealth resources.<br />
<br />
== Examples of women who are considered unicorns ==<br />
Here are some sources related to famous women who are considered to "date down"; be warned that some of the men mentioned in the articles are of high social status, thus the women are not considered complete Unicorns by this page's definition. <br />
<br />
https://www.therichest.com/entertainment/13-female-celebrities-who-have-dated-below-their-league/<br />
<br />
https://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/slideshows/13-average-joes-who-married-way-out-of-their-league/<br />
<br />
https://www.thesportster.com/entertainment/15-female-athletes-who-dated-way-below-their-league/<br />
<br />
== See also ==<br />
<br />
* [[NAWALT]]<br />
* [[Hypergamy]]<br />
* [[Oofy doofy theory]]<br />
<br />
[[Category:Theories]]<br />
[[Category:Hypergamy]]</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=User:Samaritan/Fallacies_against_Inceldom&diff=64202User:Samaritan/Fallacies against Inceldom2021-08-09T07:35:33Z<p>Samaritan: /* "It's not possible to be Incel / There's someone for everyone" */</p>
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<div>This page is under construction<br />
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=="It's not possible to be Incel / There's someone for everyone"==<br />
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While it's possible that some men are celibate over purely [[mentalcel|psychological conditions]], it is strongly believed that many men are involuntary celibate over conditions beyond their control, such as [[ugly|physical unattractiveness]], [[autism]], or [[disabledcel|disabilities]].<br />
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While factual evidence and studies showed that women can get dates and long term relationships despite living in critical conditions that poses hardships for them (such as disabilities, birth genetic defects, third degree burns, or acid victims), the same isn't true for men, as proportionally men facing the same critical conditions have higher chances of remaining single and celibate.<br />
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The following video shows a man who failed to get a date, despite paying a date arrangement company for it, possibly being socially ostracized over his genetic condition:<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dALbAg4TX6o<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5eomCyoUSoM<br />
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=="Just flirt or approach random women a lot"==<br />
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In the current times where feminism and cancel culture are rampant, it isn't a good idea to make [[pickup artist|pickup artistry]] styled approaches, as there have been multiple reports of men facing jail over randomly approaching women. <ref>https://www.kentlive.news/news/kent-news/man-30-arrested-over-youtube-4344422</ref> <ref>http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/almost-went-to-jail-banned-from-campus-for-doing-daygame-vt145519.html</ref> <ref>https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-scotland-glasgow-west-46839531</ref><br />
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=="Just socialize and get lots of friends first!"==<br />
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While socialization and bonding used to be the most common way of establishing relationships, this isn't the case anymore, as between 1995 to 2017, meeting people through friends saw the largest decline, with 40% fewer people meeting this way, and meeting people online is now the primary way were relationships are formed <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Meeting_online_is_now_the_primary_way_relationships_are_formed</ref>.<br />
Since in most online social network environments people get to know each other through imagery, such as profile pictures, rather than skillset, knowledge or personality, relationships are considerably more superficial. Most incels are known for being unattractive, and it is a known fact that a man's looks are significantly correlated with his popularity and peer status<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#A_man.27s_looks_are_significantly_correlated_with_his_popularity_and_peer_status</ref>; Significant factors correlated with social status are extroversion and physical attractiveness, with no significant correlation found between agreeableness and status, and it is speculated that physical attractiveness may have been more linked to popularity and status among men because of gender norms rewarding men for sexual success. There is also credence to the idea that humans in part decide social status by looks. <br />
It is also known that people accurately perceive a man's mental health from facial appearance alone <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#People_accurately_perceive_a_man.27s_mental_health_from_facial_appearance_alone</ref>, so unattractive men can be perceived as needy and/or neurotic which can be an obstacle in building friendships and bonds, and it is a documented fact that [[autism|autistic]] men are judged as awkward, less physically attractive and less approachable within seconds <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Autists_are_judged_as_awkward.2C_less_physically_attractive_and_less_approachable_within_seconds</ref>, which can be impactful as physically attractive people convey personality traits better during first impressions <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Physically_attractive_people_convey_personality_traits_better_during_first_impressions</ref>.<br />
Attractiveness is a major social magnet, as good looking people are perceived to have a higher intellect and a better personality <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill_(Supplemental)#Good_looking_people_are_perceived_to_have_a_higher_intellect_and_a_better_personality</ref><br />
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Particularly, a considerable amount of members of the millennial generation are often or always lonely and friendless, not just sexually and romantically, but in all respects; This reflects that loneliness and social isolation is on the rise for younger generations <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#30.25_of_millennials_are_often_or_always_lonely_and_22.25_have_no_friends</ref>, which might be related to the change of paradigms of how human relations are established, and how superficiality has been on the rise.<br />
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=="Just hit the gym"==<br />
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There are studies suggesting that facial attractiveness contributes more to overall attractiveness than body, particularly in men <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Facial_attractiveness_contributes_more_to_overall_attractiveness_than_body.2C_particularly_in_men</ref>; It is regarded that facial structure better provides cues of genetic fitness, sexual dimorphism, and health, because while a body may be changed easily with diet and exercise modification, a face cannot so easily be changed. This provides the paradox of "self improvement" whereby the things that matter most are the things one can "self improve" the least. <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Facial_attractiveness_is_more_important_than_body_because_a_face_can.27t_easily_be_changed</ref><br />
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=="Just get rich or famous"==<br />
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Both women and men are known for virtue signalling and lying about the importance of looks over financial prospects and personality <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#It_is_Looks_.3E_Personality_.3E_Money_for_both_genders.2C_but_women_lie_more_about_it</ref>. While it may be true that possessing money and status improves the person's mating prospects, it diverges from true sexual attractiveness, and provides fewer incentives to bond into long term relationships than when possessing proper appeal to sexual selection. It is a similar situation where a man seeks [[escortcelling|paid sex]] and [[sugar daddy|paid relationships]].<br />
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=="I know a guy who is very ugly and short but has a pretty girlfriend/slays"==<br />
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This is a common [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anecdotal_evidence anecdotal fallacy]; Isolated examples relying of personal testimony in an attempt to refute a claim. <br />
It's a mix of cherrypicking and survivorship bias ('I know an ugly guy who made it, let's forget about the majority of other ugly guys who didn't', etc).<br />
Overwhelming scientific evidence about sexual selection based on looks and empirical experiences from an incel interlocutor should be more than enough to debunk this kind of argument; An exception is hardly a rule. Also, perception of physical unattractiveness can sometimes be subjective, so while for some a particular man who is in a relationship/who has an easy time getting hookups is physically unattractive, this perception might not be shared by the women that were attracted to him.<br />
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=="Sex and opposite-sex relationships aren't that important"==<br />
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Sexlessness, singledom and loneliness likely have a number of adverse effects, and some studies point that sex is regarded as the most pleasurable activity of all. Lonely people are 50% more likely to die prematurely than those with healthy social relationships. Being in a relationship may increase men's social status, sexual activity was related to greater well-being the next day and warm partner contact lowers cardiovascular stress <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill_(Summary)#Inceldom_is_harmful</ref><br />
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=="Looks aren't everything"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#People_broadly_agree_on_who_is_good_looking_or_not.2C_and_it_affects_every_aspect_of_life<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Beauty_is_objective_and_measurable_in_the_brain<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#It_takes_less_than_one_second_for_people_to_accurately_judge_beauty<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill_(Summary)#Looks_are_not_everything<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Attractive_people_are_perceived_much_more_positively_than_they_really_are<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Attractive_men_are_perceived_as_.27funnier.27.2C_even_when_they_are_actually_not<br />
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=="Men care more about looks than women"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill_(Summary)#Why_women_are_seen_as_less_shallow<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#70.25_of_women_would_openly_avoid_a_man_solely_because_of_his_looks<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_sexualize_themselves_online_to_attract_high_status_mates<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Being_unattractive_reduces_men.27s_chances_of_finding_partners.2C_but_not_women.27s<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#In_short-term_dating_and_when_women_have_many_dating_options_they_are_more_choosy_about_looks_than_men<br />
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=="Just use a dating app"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Your_looks_define_perception_of_your_personality_in_online_dating<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#The_top_10.25_of_men_get_58.25_of_women.27s_likes_in_online_dating<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#The_.231_most_important_thing_to_women_in_a_man.27s_online_dating_bio_is_if_he_says_he_is_6.27_tall<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Most_online_dating_sites_are_dominated_by_men.2C_only_21.25-34.25_of_users_are_female<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_are_more_racist_in_online_dating.2C_and_92-95.25_with_a_.22preference.22_exclude_any_ethnic_men<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_reply_most_online_to_white_men_and_least_to_Indian_men<br />
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=="Just solicit services from prostitutes"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Younger_female_prostitutes_are_in_higher_demand_and_charge_more.2C_across_numerous_cultures<br />
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=="The Blackpill philosophy is bad, just take the Redpill and do the following bro: *cope advices that has nothing to do with improving looks*"==<br />
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Common beliefs among the [[Redpill|Redpilled]] manosphere are the Spinning plates theory, holding frame, and hypermasculinity.<br />
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As seen in the [[Scientific Blackpill]], for spinning plates, the effects of mate-choice copying are consistent, but small, maybe due to academic bias and/or wrong/unrealistic conditions. Female mate-choice copying agrees with humans being moderately polygamous.<br />
About holding frame, most women do seem to be drawn to leadership, confidence as well as manipulativeness and other [[dark triad]] traits (to the extent they get to choose), but displaying these traits toward the female likely requires no attainable skill (links between IQ and short-term dating interest are 0) and may be a waste of time. It's rather about male competition and social context, as well as persistence (nearly everyone needs to wait for their hardwired coyness program to switch from no to yes) and risk-proneness (don't be scared of [[metoo]], babies, STDs and embarrassment).<br />
Women want tingles, drama, holding frame is being stoic, they don't like 'strong silent types' anymore. Such men are 'boring' unless they bring other things to the table in terms of [[SMV]]. It's likely only true in that women have contempt for men that are whiny and share their feelings with women and expect sympathy, not really in terms of being low in neuroticism. Many young women would be quite attracted to some beta males who are constantly engaging in histrionics and shows of weakness, as long as he meets their other requirements.<br />
Redpillers are also adept of hypermasculinity, where attractiveness of masculinity is curvilinear with the peak being possibly slightly above average masculinity. Humans are very self-domesticated and neotenous, so some amount of neoteny is also attractive/present/normal in men, but it does not seem to matter anyhow, as most is down to competition, persistence and coercion or parental mate choice (depending on mating context). {{Citation needed}}<br />
This study seems to oppose the redpill theory that the majority of women are very attracted to conventionally masculine behavior:<br />
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* ''In general, correlations show that higher masculinity in heterosexual women and higher femininity in both heterosexual and homosexual men are related to higher sociosexuality. Higher sociosexuality in masculine women can be explained by prenatal or actual androgen effects on sexual libido and can reflect a fast life history strategy. <br />
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886919305070''<br />
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Much of the redpill type advice probably does work for confident, fast LH men who feel comfortable in the more ancient free mate-choice context, and this is likely strongly genetically determined<br />
and it's arguably a minority of guys given that free-mate choice was only normal in ~30% of societies, and those were presumable also more r-selected than european and ne-asian societies.<br />
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Female behavior is actually linked to promiscuity (sociosexuality, measures promiscuity related intentions, attitudes and behaviors) in men. This partially measures actual sexual behavior, so we can assume they are more sexually successful on average.<br />
Probably the main masculine trait that matters in terms of sexual success is being sexually aggressive and pursuing the woman, due to most women having a completely passive courtship style (at least when they are interacting with most men).Some Dark Triad traits that are correlated with masculinity are also correlated with sexual success, but it's not clear whether women's attraction to masculine behavior is the casual factor here. It likely isn't. As for physically masculine traits, the only one that is consistently linked to higher levels of sexual success is bodily masculinity (muscularity). <ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Across_91_studies.2C_bodily_masculinity_was_predictive_of_men.27s_mating_and_reproductive_success</ref><br />
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Besides looks, there is a weaker evidence for vocal depth being linked to both sexual and reproductive success. This is pretty much immutable post puberty for most men. Height as well, but redpillers don't emphasize this much.<br />
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=="You are probably not confident enough, or you have a weak/bad personality"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#On_average.2C_women_are_attracted_to_the_Dark_Triad.E2.80.94narcissism.2C_manipulativeness.2C_.26_psychopathy<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_are_more_attracted_to_psychopathic_men<br />
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There are researches that shows that social awkwardness in itself isn't directly linked to sexual success, actually the more socially maladjusted in some regards have more partners.<br />
Women hate [[autists]] mainly because they are robotic, boring, nerdy, and rule abiding (you need to break rules to be exciting and romantic). They likely even hate sub clinically autistic men, it's a pure k selected beta provider arranged marriage adaption (sub clinical autistic traits, full blown autism is obviously maladaptive).<br />
Also because of their demeanor, lack of normal facial expressiveness etc. This isn't just limited to the opposite sex though, everyone instinctively hates autists.<br />
They are also typically low status and very shy.<br />
Plus it's also likely linked to being less PA on average, due to higher mutational load, but this effect is expected to be fairly weak in most cases.<br />
The study in the [[SB|Scientific Blackpill]] had autists lower PA rating as being fairly weak, we don't know if this is mediated by their lack of correct grooming, awkward body postures, demeanor, lack of facial expressivity, or any innate differences in facial morphology like asymmetries though. Likely a mix of all of the above.<br />
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=="You are just being picky! Stop chasing model-looking women"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Men_are_attracted_to_.22nice.22_women.2C_but_women_are_not_attracted_to_.22nice.22_men<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#70.25_of_women_would_openly_avoid_a_man_solely_because_of_his_looks<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#.27Very_unattractive.27_women_are_more_likely_to_be_married_than_other_women<br />
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=="Just aim for very ugly women"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#.27Very_unattractive.27_women_are_more_likely_to_be_married_than_other_women<br />
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=="Incels are a group of people that hate women / Incels are terrorists or shooter worshippers"==<br />
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=="Have you considered suicide?"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Incel_forums_are_disproportionately_populated_by_suicidal.2C_disabled.2C_autistic.2C_and_ethnic_men<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Men_are_more_likely_than_women_to_commit_suicide<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Autistic_men_have_10_times_as_many_suicidal_thoughts_as_normal_men<br />
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=="NAWALT / Not All Women Are Like That"==<br />
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There is some evidence that women are more comformist and less variable in pretty much every way than men. It is assumed this also holds for general mate preferences.<br />
Women largely agree on ratings of men's looks:<br />
https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#People_broadly_agree_on_who_is_good_looking_or_not.2C_and_it_affects_every_aspect_of_life<br />
There is also evidence that [[SMV]] is real, and a measurable concept and there is a general factor of smv like there is with intelligence.<br />
It's dubious that exists evidence that shows individual women don't care about looks completely, these cases are outliers so it's hard to examine them in a systematic, scientifically rigorous fashion. And of course we don't know if they are actually 'unicorns' or there are actually very pragmatic reasons they are with these men.<br />
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=="You just need to find the right girl"==<br />
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=="You're probably not trying hard enough"==<br />
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=="Just take a shower, haircut and lift bro!"==<br />
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https://incels.co/threads/lonely-people-shower-more-while-80-of-women-dont-shower-daily-and-1-in-8-dont-brush-their-teeth-before-bed.265607/<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Bald_men_and_men_with_thinning_hair_are_perceived_as_less_attractive<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Facial_attractiveness_contributes_more_to_overall_attractiveness_than_body.2C_particularly_in_men<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Facial_attractiveness_is_more_important_than_body_because_a_face_can.27t_easily_be_changed<br />
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=="You don't understand women"==<br />
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=="Natural selection is the reason you are not getting laid. Most men that have ever existed didn't leave descendants, that's just how life is"==<br />
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=="You just need game"==<br />
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https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Winners_in_a_rigged_game_will_consider_the_game_fair_as_long_as_they_keep_winning<br />
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Game only works in the sense that you need to follow conventional courtship rituals to get laid in most cases, except if you're really attractive/high status/get lucky, and you need to lead the woman, escalate to sex etc. So it prevents you missing opportunities. As for the behavioral traits women are attracted to, they are all very hard to change, easily as hard to change (I would argue much harder for most people) as one's looks, so the redpill argument that 'learning game' is all you need to be a slayer is silly. Some of their insights into female nature are very good and stuff like 'spinning plates' and 'dread game' has some merit to it if all you care about is maximizing copulations and you aren't incel in the first place.<br />
Women appear adapted to lose their sex drive when they think they have a man locked down, unless they perceive the man as being 'better' than then in some way. Then they will put in effort to maintain the relationship by giving the man what he wants, typically sex.<br />
A german psychologist called Klausmann did a research on this, women's sex drive steadily declined in long term relationships except when the man was more educated than her. So we would expect similar effects if the man was more attractive, higher status, wealthier, had clear options in terms of other women etc.<br />
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=="Who hurt you?"==<br />
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=="Are you gay?"==<br />
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=="Weirdo!"==<br />
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=="You misogynist creep!"==<br />
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=="Man up, you pussy!"==<br />
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=="You're just bitter because you can't get laid"==<br />
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=="Fucking incel/loser !!!"==<br />
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=="You have issues"==<br />
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=="Stop whining"==<br />
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=="You need therapy"==<br />
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=="You must have a small dick"==<br />
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* [[Dick shaming]]</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Hypergamy&diff=64199Hypergamy2021-08-08T15:48:10Z<p>Samaritan: /* See also */</p>
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In scientific literature, '''hypergamy''' refers to '''marrying up''' in socioeconomic status. It can refer to either men or women, but it is more commonly observed in women. <br />
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In the [[manosphere]], the term hypergamy is used more broadly for marrying or dating up and it sometimes refers to dating up relative to a woman's [[branchswinging|previous partner]] or relative to other males available, not just herself or the social standing of her family,<ref>https://www.amazon.com/Rational-Male-Rollo-Tomassi/dp/1492777862</ref> and it sometimes simply refers to female mate preferences for socioeconomic status or for the activity of [[orgasms for resources|whoring for resources]] and related instances of [[female sneakiness]]. Women are thought to [[pussy cartel|incite one another's hypergamy]].<br />
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Women's hypergamy is mainly a result of their higher [[Sexual selector|choosiness]], [[variability hypothesis|higher uniformity of sexual desire]], and men's [[Libido|higher sex drive]] and promiscuity. These differences are thought to have evolved from higher [[Bateman's principle|parental investment]] on part of the female.<ref name="mp">Mogielnicki C, Pearl K. 2020. ''Hominid sexual nature.'' [[https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12064-020-00312-8 Article]]</ref><br />
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As a result of these differences, men have fewer alternative mating options available to them, so they more readily make compromises and date down.<ref>https://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71503.pdf</ref> Women's preference for high status men ties into the natural [[Dominance hierarchies|hierarchical social organization]] found in humans.<br />
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==Causes of hypergamy==<br />
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[[File:needs33.png|500x500px|right|thumb|The choosier sex (i.e. ''least interested'') gets to ''date up'']]<br />
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=== Choosy, dependent women ===<br />
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Historically, women had to [[Bateman's principle|invest more]] into their offspring than men because pregnancy used to be physically risky,<ref>The maternal death rate used to be 1 in 100 births, but in modern societies it is around 10 / 100,000, so a hundred times lower. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maternal_death#cite_note-47</ref> and by virtue of having a womb, women had more natural responsibility over children.<br />
As a result, women evolved to be [[libido|choosy and coy]] and they specialized in childcare and extracting resources from men. This dependency can to some extent also be observed in our closest primate relatives with the males sometimes sharing their food with their mate and their offspring.<ref name="mp"></ref><br />
The amount of resources men provide is quite extreme compared to most animals and unique among primates, with men providing twice as much calories in hunter-gatherers than women and exclusively providing the more nutrient dense meat from hunting, which men used to get mating opportunities and invest into offspring and their mate ever since.<ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S016748701630277X</ref><ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1090513810000279</ref><ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill_(Supplemental)#In_hunter-gatherers.2C_men_use_meat_to_obtain_mating_opportunities_and_to_invest_in_mates_and_offspring</ref> The importance of resources to women is apparent even in egalitarian societies such as the Ache and the Sharanahua, where the best hunters are able to attract the most sexual partners,<ref>https://pdfs.semanticscholar.org/bbf7/77fbe21100d32ebd55a41b65de7151628235.pdf (Cashdan 1996)</ref><br />
and also in modern societies, women disdain qualities in men that signal inability to accrue resources, such as lack of ambition (d = 1.38).<ref>https://www.researchgate.net/profile/David_Buss/publication/15471658_Psychological_Sex_Differences_Origins_Through_Sexual_Selection/links/0deec5181791b421a4000000.pdf</ref><br />
As men are held more responsible economically, more men than women are expected to completely fail in life due to [[Matthew effect]]s. As women avoid such loser males due to their thirst for resources and status in men, it means women tend to date up.<br />
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=== Principle of least interest ===<br />
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In unregulated dating markets and even though physically weaker, women turn out to be ''the chief [[sexual selector|sexual selectors]]'' and [[Briffault's law|gatekeepers of sex]] due to the ''principle of least interest'': When an activity depends on mutual agreement, the person with the ''least interest'' decides the terms of that activity.<ref>Waller & Hill, 1951</ref> This is because the person with the most interest has fewer options, thus they more likely compromise than the other party to reach an arrangement. Women desire initiating sex with a partner of average attractiveness much less than men.<ref>https://www.sciencefriday.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/gender-differences-in-receptivity-to-sexual-offers.pdf</ref><ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Men_like_61.9.25_of_female_profiles.2C_women_like_only_4.5.25_of_male_profiles</ref> Thus, most men have few mating options and hence more likely make compromises in order to get any sex at all.<ref>https://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71503.pdf</ref><br />
Making compromises means dating down, which in turn means women date up.<br />
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=== Pussy cartel ===<br />
{{main_article|Pussy cartel}}<br />
<!--Due to women's dependence on men, women naturally want resource security in relationships much more than men.<ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S109051381730315X</ref>-->In terms of [[sexual economics theory]], women sexually ''commodify themselves'' with a certain exchange value whenever they sexually reject or accept men based on their resources.<br />
Sex then becomes a resource itself that men can ''purchase'' by amassing a broad array of valued goods, including non-monetary resources such as fame and competence.<ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S016748701630277X</ref><br />
Women compete in "selling high" by strategically withholding sex, thereby increasing men's sexual frustration, thus inflating the "price" of sex and baiting men into engaging in more committed resource provision, even when there is an abundance of resources in society. Women are also believed to slut-shame one another to maintain the value of sex, as sex given away for free lowers the value of sex, which reduces women's leverage over men.<ref>Baumeister & Twenge, 2002</ref> In this manner, women collude, forming [[pussy cartel|pussy cartels]], and inciting one another's hypergamy. By having men work for them, women become a leisure class.<br />
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=== Polygamy ===<br />
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{{main_article|[[Polygamy]]}}<br />
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Humans and most pan are moderately [[polygyny|polygynous]] species, meaning that some males monopolize multiple females. In fact, the vast majority (84.6%) of historical societies had at least some polygynous marriages.<ref>Grey, JP. 1998. ''Ethnographic Atlas Codebook'', derived from George P. Murdock's ''Ethnographic Atlas'' recording the marital composition of 1231 societies from 1960 to 1980. [[https://web.archive.org/web/*/http://eclectic.ss.uci.edu/~drwhite/worldcul/Codebook4EthnoAtlas.pdf Article]]</ref> Assuming there was no significant shortage of men, polygyny meant high status men drew from the mate pool of men of equal or lower status men than themselves. Thus, lower status men went empty-handed or were urged to date less desirable women still available, so their female equals could date up on average, i.e. could marry hypergamously. As polygyny was a highly prevalent mode of mating in human history, one would expect mate preferences to evolve in human females that make use of opportunities to marry up and polygynously, that is, along with already mentioned selection pressures from women's need to get resources (resource dependence) and to be protected as the physically and emotionally weaker sex ([[bodyguard hypothesis]]).<br />
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== Relation to female submission ==<br />
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{{main_article|[[Female subordination]]}}<br />
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Female hypergamy is related to ancient [[courtship]] adaptations in which pair formation only succeeds when the male is able to [[mogging|dominate]] the female, a behavior that can be observed in many reptiles, birds, and mammals.<ref>[[Irenäus Eibl-Eibesfeldt|Eibl-Eibesfeldt I]]. 1989. ''Pair Formation, Courtship, Sexual Love.'' In: ''Human Ethology.'' Rougtledge. [[https://books.google.com/books?id=-CExDwAAQBAJ&lpg=PT6&ots=KctjD7Zprm&dq=Pair%20Formation%2C%20Courtship%2C%20Sexual%20Love&pg=PT335#v=onepage&q=Pair%20Formation,%20Courtship,%20Sexual%20Love&f=false Excerpt]]</ref><ref name="eibl1990">Eibl-Eibesfeldt I. 1990. ''Dominance, Submission, and Love: Sexual Pathologies from the Perspective of Ethology.'' In: Feierman, J. R. (ed.): Pedophilia. Biosocial Dimensions. Springer-Verlag, New York, 1990 151-175. [[https://doi.org/10.1007/978-1-4613-9682-6_6 Abstract]]</ref> In the ancient context, power was largely decided by brute force, whereas in modern humans it is more about resources. Modern resource hypergamy can, hence, be seen as a more [[life history|k-selected]] version of the ancient testing for physical power. Analogously, there is resource-defense and mate-defense [[polygyny]].<ref>https://www.jstor.org/stable/3565861</ref> Human females still appear to use the same adaptations of sexual submission ([[lordosis]] posture) from the mate-defense context to [[whoring|attain access to resources]] in the modern resource-defense context, e.g. by wearing high heels.<ref>https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s40806-017-0123-7</ref><br />
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== Women want poor men to die in a fire ==<br />
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Women's behavior in online dating is particularly useful for revealing their preference for dating up and against dating down: One study showed female users 'like' male user profiles with a higher education status than their own ''twice'' as often when compared to a profile with equal education status, and they like user profiles with lower status only ''half'' as often.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Men_like_61.9.25_of_female_profiles.2C_women_like_only_4.5.25_of_male_profiles</ref><br />
The IFS found women are twice as likely to marry up in income when they marry down in education.<ref>https://ifstudies.org/blog/better-educated-women-still-prefer-higher-earning-husbands</ref><br />
In the Swedish top 1% income bracket, 70% of men, but only 30% of women, are partnered with someone in the bottom 90% bracket.<ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S004727271930177X</ref> Job promotion increases the likelihood of a relationship breakup more in women than in men.<ref>http://www.ifn.se/wfiles/wp/wp1146.pdf</ref><br />
According to a study by Guanlin Wang, women are '''1,000 times''' pickier about a potential partner's wealth than men. The authors of the study speculate that women's preference for affluent men poses a barrier in encouraging males to adopt a low-consumption lifestyle and thus a barrier in solving ecological crises.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_are_1.2C000x_more_sensitive_than_men_to_economic_status_cues_when_rating_attractiveness</ref><br />
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Women also rate men with cues of wealth (e.g. presentation of luxury goods) as more sexually attractive, while men don't care about this when rating women.<ref>http://doi.org/10.1556/JEP.12.2014.1.1</ref><br />
People pay more attention to photos of men with high status attire, but not to women with high status attire.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Dominance_hierarchy#Eye_contact</ref><ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill_(Supplemental)#Women_.28and_men.29_pay_more_attention_to_high_status_men.2C_not_high_status_women</ref><br />
Men's social status also accounts for 62% of the variance of frequency of copulation opportunities (though it is less related to men's [[reproductive success]]).<ref>https://doi.org/10.1017/S0140525X00029939</ref><br />
Men's income was found to be positively correlated with their partner's orgasms and negatively with sexlessness.<ref>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1090513808001177</ref><ref>https://cnnespanol2.files.wordpress.com/2012/10/polletandnettle-orgasms.pdf?attredirects=1</ref><br />
Women's promotion increased the risk of divorce,<ref>http://www.ifn.se/wfiles/wp/wp1146.pdf</ref><ref>https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-017-0968-7</ref><br />
and aversion to having the wife earn more than the husband explains 29% of the decline in marriage rates over the last thirty years.<ref>https://doi.org/10.1093/qje/qjv001</ref><br />
Women dating up in education and socioeconomic status is a robust pattern across many online dating studies.<ref>https://boris.unibe.ch/72034/1/paper_HICCS_final(1).pdf See table 4</ref><br />
One study found that while relationship quality was negatively associated with the woman earning more, they did not find power differentials (in terms of income or education) to affect the likelihood of women's divorce initiation,<ref>https://web.stanford.edu/~mrosenfe/Rosenfeld_gender_of_breakup.pdf</ref><br />
however, reported relationship quality generally is not very predictive of divorce risk.<ref>Vaughan’s (1990)</ref><br />
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Evidently, men with a relatively lower socioeconomic compared to women's status is regarded as ''red flag'' even though there is no risk of starvation in modern Western welfare states. In the wild, men with lower status than women would likely be complete failures, but today, this can be explained by women having been [[affirmative action|artificially elevated]] into a higher social status and/or that men have been left behind, which can be regarded as an [[evolutionary mismatch]].<br />
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== Intensifying hypergamy ==<br />
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=== Rising male sexlessness ===<br />
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[[File:Aaqa.jpg|thumb|500px|right|The rise of the sexless affects men more than women. See [[Demographics]].]]<br />
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Substantial evidence of increased hypergamy is the rise of inceldom, which affects both sexes, but men more than women.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Demographics_of_inceldom#Growth_in_Numbers</ref><br />
The share of men under 30 who aren't having sex has possibly tripled in the past decade according to the Washington Post using data from the General Social Survey.<ref>https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2019/03/29/share-americans-not-having-sex-has-reached-record-high/?utm_term=.9b52429c7136</ref><br />
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More evidence is that the top 5-20% of men are having more sex than ever before. The data from the 2002 and 2011–2013 National Survey of Family Growth, a US household survey focusing on sexual and reproductive health can demonstrate this.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#The_top_5-20.25_of_men_.28ie._.22Chads.22.29_are_now_having_more_sex_than_ever_before</ref><ref>Harper CR, Dittus PJ, Leichliter JS, Aral, SO. Changes in the Distribution of Sex Partners in the United States: 2002 to 2011–2013<br />
Sexually Transmitted Diseases: February 2017 - Volume 44 - Issue 2 - p 96–100. doi: 10.1097/OLQ.0000000000000554<br />
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The researchers found that compared to 2002, men overall had the same number of partners in 2013. However, the top 20% of men had a 25% increase in sexual partners. The top 5% of men had an outstanding 38% increase in the number of sexual partners. <br />
Thus while the amount of male sex that was had was unchanged, more of the sex was consolidated into extra sex for the top 5-20% of men (i.e., "Chads"). Thus Chads are truly having more sex than ever before. Below are direct quotes from the study:<br />
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* ''Although we found no change in median numbers of sex partners [for men], we found significant increases in the numbers of sex partners reported by the top 5% and 20%.''<br />
* ''We found an overall statistically significant increase in reported lifetime opposite-sex sex partners overall for men in the top 20% from 12 in 2002 to 15 in 2011–2013 (95% CIs, 11–14 and 15–15, respectively).''<br />
* ''Similarly, there was a statistically significant overall increase in reported lifetime partners for men in the top 5% from 38 in 2002 to 50 in 2011–2013 (95% CIs, 30–40 and 50–50, respectively).''<br />
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=== Women surpassing men ===<br />
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There are indications that both male and female inceldom is partially born from college educated women and the like.<br />
Technology and liberalism have allowed more women to enter the workforce and surpass men in educational and socioeconomic status, hence rendering more men unattractive to women due to women's hypergamous preference to date up.<br />
This has possibly resulted in an increase in male [[inceldom]], but also female singlehood, in fact high status women are frequently observed to prefer singlehood over dating down.<ref>https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6004239/High-flying-career-women-refusing-marry-despite-struggling-Mr-Right.html</ref><ref>https://www.edge.org/response-detail/26747</ref><ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill_(Supplemental)#Women_lose_mating_opportunities_with_higher_status.2C_men_gain_mating_opportunities</ref><ref>https://doi.org/10.1093/qje/qjv001</ref><ref>https://fee.org/articles/why-single-women-are-way-more-likely-to-own-a-home-than-single-men/</ref><ref>https://newsroom.wiley.com/press-release/journal-marriage-and-family/do-unmarried-women-face-shortages-partners-us-marriage-mar</ref><ref>https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/jomf.12603</ref> What is more, women more readily continue to provide sex in a long-term relationship when they are economically dependent on the man,<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_rapidly_lose_interest_in_sex_once_in_a_stable_relationship_or_living_with_a_man</ref> which may suggest they hand out sex to ensure continued investment. Independent women have thus less need to give sex to anyone and may refrain from sex entirely. As such, their unusual independence poses an [[evolutionary mismatch]].<br />
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This is not only bad for men, but also for women, as they too suffer from more loneliness and sexual deprivation<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Health</ref> when strong men who sexually satisfy them become rarer, since clearly not all women then can find a satisfying partner and rather stay lonely. In fact, women have become less [[female orgasm|orgasmic]] with the [[sexual revolution]],<ref>https://www.researchgate.net/publication/319414654_An_Evolutionary_Perspective_on_Orgasm</ref> which may be due to a lower prevalence of strong, confident men who [[mog]] them regarding income.<br />
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Buss et al. summarized women's tendencies to switch mates when rising in social status:<br />
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{{quote|Women whose mate value increases substantially will become (1) more emotionally dissatisfied with their current partner, (2) more likely to evade a partner's mate guarding efforts, (3) more likely to cultivate backup mates, (4) more likely to initiate new [[relationship]]s with higher mate value men, and (5) less inclined to stay with their current partners.<ref>https://labs.la.utexas.edu/buss/files/2013/02/The-Mate-Switching-Hypothesis-FINAL-PUBLISHED-2017.pdf</ref>}}<br />
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=== Online dating and social media ===<br />
Sexually frustrated men and the abundance of them in online dating and social media, likely also intensify hypergamy: Frustrated men aim down more, which inflates women's self-esteem and gives them hope of securing a mate with exceptional high mate value, so they become even more choosy and date up more or show [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Decision_fatigue decision fatigue] which creates even more sexually starved men, forming a [https://en.wikipedia.org/w/Positive_feedback feedback loop].<ref>https://www.technologyreview.com/s/601909/how-tinder-feedback-loop-forces-men-and-women-into-extreme-strategies/</ref><br />
Growing economic inequality and decreasing economic growth likely have the same effect as fewer men can attain reliable high status, which is what women go for.<ref>https://journals.openedition.org/chs/737</ref><ref>http://ftp.iza.org/dp4456.pdf</ref><ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_sexualize_themselves_online_to_attract_high_status_mates</ref><br />
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=== Marriages are falling apart ===<br />
[[File:WantSexOften.png|right|thumb|400x400px|Women's interest in sex declines rapidly while men's interest remains relatively stable. [[Scientific Blackpill#Women_rapidly_lose_interest_in_sex_once_in_a_stable_relationship_or_living_with_a_man|More information]].]]<br />
There are other indications of intensified hypergamy besides the rise of singlehood and sexlessness, namely less stable relationships.<br />
With the decline of marriage norms, greater acceptance of polygamy<ref>https://news.gallup.com/opinion/polling-matters/214601/moral-acceptance-polygamy-record-high-why.aspx</ref> and [[divorce]] laws that greatly benefit women, women more readily [[Marriage#Move Toward Polyamory with Rise in Divorce|jump ship]] when a better man is available. This can be seen in women initiating divorces more often than men and a closing gender gap in infidelity,<ref>http://www.fincham.info/papers/2017-infidelity.pdf</ref> despite the fact that men oppose their partner's infidelity much more strongly.<ref>http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2196146/Why-affairs-unforgivable-Six-women-forgive-partner-strayed-twice.html</ref><ref>http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1745691617698225</ref> Women appear to have a fundamental anxiety about not having made the ideal partner choice in terms of wealth and power and no-fault divorce laws and other institutions and norms that facilitate mate switching satisfy this female desire.<br />
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=== Cock Carousel ===<br />
The increase in single motherhood, and a higher rate of childless men,<ref>https://sciencenorway.no/childlessness-fathers-forskningno/a-quarter-of-norwegian-men-never-father-children/1401047</ref> likely also points to hypergamy as a minority of men engages in ''serial monogamy'' (i.e. remarries often) which is ''de facto polygamy''. Single motherhood may also come from riding the "[[cock carousel]]" too much. Young women chase the [[666 dating rule|666 rule]] and then turn bitter when they have to settle with an ugly [[betabux]], and so end up lonely with their kids. The fact that they've been "[[pump and dump|pumped and dumped]]" is evidence that these women have aimed excessively high and carelessly, i.e. that their high [[SMV]] men lost interest due to their plentiful better options (backburners), especially after the woman hits [[the wall]]. Women are known to turn bitter towards other men once rejected by a high SMV man.<ref>https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Women_bitterly_reject_unattractive_men_after_facing_rejection_themselves_by_an_attractive_man</ref><br />
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== Sexual inequality ==<br />
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=== 80/20 Rule ===<br />
[[File:413.jpg|thumb|left|<center>OkCupid deleting their internal dating studies shortly after the [[Alek Minassian]] attack</center>]]<br />
[[File:okcupid.png|thumb|right|<center>Women rate 80% of men as below the average of all men, source: OkCupid</center>]]<br />
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The 80/20 rule, or "[[Pareto principle]]", comes from economics and refers to the observation that inequality often approaches a distribution where the 20% richest own 80% of the wealth due to the [[Matthew effect]], i.e. due to success breeding success and the unsuccessful tending to find themselves in a downward spiral. In case of the sexual market, wealth means the number of sex partners.<br />
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Pareto used his laws in attempts to prove that social darwinism was necessary to [[eugenics|"eliminate" undesirables]] (which he referred to as "toxins").<ref>http://www.paecon.net/PAEReview/issue80/Flomenhoft80.pdf</ref><ref>https://books.google.com/books?id=zg91TAIs6bgC&pg=PA155&lpg=PA155&dq="which+will+promptly+perish+if+prevented+from+eliminating+toxins"</ref> However, these laws have yet to be proven unchanging or inevitable. In other words, the "80/20" rule is a certain model of how inequality can manifest, but it does not prove that things will always be as severely unequal. Some economists, take less extreme positions and merely use such models to argue that some inequality is inevitable.<ref>https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/is-inequality-inevitable/</ref><br />
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Many incels perceive their inceldom to be caused by the 20% most dominant men hoarding 80% of the females, which is a somewhat exaggerated view of the facts, except perhaps for a few subcultures and online dating platforms with very unequal sexual markets. For this reason, many incels rather use 80/20 as a meme to warn of the damaging effects of our current dating scene and increased competitiveness in online dating, knowing reality may not be as unequal (yet).<br />
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An internal OkCupid study from 2009 revealed that women irrationally evaluate 80% of men, brave enough to show their mug on a public website, ''as below medium'' (below 5/10).<ref>http://archive.is/489UV</ref><br />
Many people mistook this as evidence of 80/20 in the sex market, but the 80 figure is just coincidental, and it actually is only evidence of female choosiness and coyness without information how look ratings convert into sexual success. OkCupid deleted this study after the [[Alek Minassian]] attack, which some incels understood as attempt to hide or downplay substantial inequalities in the sexual market, and hence evidence of their existence.<br />
<!-- NOTE & TODO: i've read critiques of this analysis as it makes some pretty vague guesses on very small sample size. There are better statistics from Bumble and Hinge<br />
In the most popular [[dating]] app Tinder, a mating analyst found out that “the bottom 80% of men are fighting over the bottom 22% of women and the top 78% of women are fighting over the top 20% of men".<ref>https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a</ref> Because women are [[sexual gatekeeper]]s their preferences decide the [[dating]] scene.<br />
NOTE: not sure these numbers disprove 80/20 since 80/20 just says 20% have 80% of the sex or opportunities or sexual attention etc.<br />
According to data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, about 56 percent of women and 59 percent of men have had sex by the time they finish high school.<ref>https://www.cdc.gov/healthyyouth/data/yrbs/2017_tables/sexual_behaviors.htm#t133_down</ref> If access to sexual intercourse in real life followed an "80/20 rule", then we would expect less people having sex by the time they left high school. At the same time, more people are online dating, and the real-life dating sphere will become more unequal over time as online dating becomes even more popular. --><br />
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Besides the share of wealth of the top 20%, another measure of inequality is the [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gini_coefficient GINI coefficient] which measures how much the distribution of wealth deviates from equal distribution with a GINI of 0 meaning equal distribution.<br />
A study analyzing GINI coefficients in human [[relationship|relationships]] found that “single men have a higher Gini coefficient (.536) than single women (.470). Thus, female sexual partners are more unequally distributed among single men than male sexual partners are among single women”.<ref>https://contexts.org/blog/who-has-how-many-sexual-partners/</ref><br />
This roughly corresponds to the top 20% men having 60% of the sex, so 60/20, and 56/20 for women i.e. less extreme than 80/20, in the general population at least.<ref>https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pareto_distribution#Lorenz_curve_and_Gini_coefficient</ref><br />
Mark Regnerus estimated the distribution to be 70/20 for men older than 25.<ref>https://books.google.de/books?id=928uDwAAQBAJ&pg=PA86&lpg=PA86&dq=%22Pareto+would+be+proud,+or+nearly+so%22&source=bl&ots=jErxDCkmJ4&hl=en&sa=X#v=onepage&q=%22Pareto%20would%20be%20proud%2C%20or%20nearly%20so%22&f=false</ref> Data from GSS also suggests it is around 68/20 for men and a bit less unequal, 59/20 for women.{{citation needed}}<br />
A study found that Tinder's GINI coefficient for men was comparable with the income inequality of third-world countries (see chart below).<ref>https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a</ref><br />
A data scientist for Hinge reported on the Gini coefficients he had found in his company’s abundant data, treating “likes” as the equivalent of income. He reported that heterosexual females faced a Gini coefficient of 0.324, while heterosexual males faced a much higher Gini coefficient of 0.542. While the situation for women is something like an economy with some poor, some middle class, and some millionaires, the situation for men is closer to a world with a small number of super-billionaires surrounded by huge masses who possess almost nothing. According to the Hinge analyst:<br />
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|On a list of 149 countries’ Gini indices provided by the CIA World Factbook, this would place the female dating economy as 75th most unequal (average—think Western Europe) and the male dating economy as the 8th most unequal (kleptocracy, apartheid, perpetual civil war—think South Africa.<ref>https://quillette.com/2019/03/12/attraction-inequality-and-the-dating-economy/</ref>}}<br />
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Sexologist [[Kristin Spitznogle]] regards the slightly higher inequality among men as evidence of [[Bateman's principle]] in modern western societies.<ref>https://resett.no/2018/06/29/menn-i-ufrivillig-solibati/</ref> In ancient societies, the sexual markets were likely stacked much more against men, with men only reproducing [[reproductive success|half as often as women]] and men outnumbering women 1:10 in the lowest social classes (see the quote by Orwell below). More inequality in [[reproductive success]] among men has been found in 94% of human societies that were considered in a 2009 study.<ref>Brown, G.R., Laland, K.N. and Mulder, M.B. 2009. ''Bateman's principles and human sex roles.'' [[https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0169534709001128 FullText]]</ref><br />
[[Matthew effect]]s operating on sexual success, and skewing the distribution of sex to be unequal, especially in case of males, is evidenced by the fact that, cross-culturally, male [[sex haver]]s are regarded as winners and male [[virgin]]s as losers.<ref>https://digitalcommons.humboldt.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1008&context=senior_comm</ref> The reverse applying to women is known as the "[[double standard]]" in mating. Men's sexual success is also more tied to their socioeconomic standing as discussed in this article, and this in turn is also known to be subject to Matthew effects.<br />
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== George Orwell on hypergamy ==<br />
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The famous English writer and socialist, George Orwell, poignantly wrote about male poverty and homelessness frequently being concomitant with inceldom due to female hypergamy, in his famous novel about the underclass, Down and Out in Paris and London:<br />
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Tramps are cut off from women, in the first place, because there are very few women at their level of society. One might imagine that among destitute people the sexes would be as equally balanced as elsewhere. But it is not so; in fact, one can almost say that below a certain level society is entirely male. The following figures, published by the L.G.C. from a night census taken on February 13th, 1931, will show the relative numbers of destitute men and destitute women:<br />
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Spending the night in the streets,<br />
60 men, 18 women.<br />
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In shelters and homes not licensed as common lodging-houses,<br />
1,057 men, 137 women.<br />
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In the crypt of St Martin’s-in-the-Fields Church,<br />
88 men, 12 women.<br />
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In L.C.C. casual wards and hostels,<br />
674 men, 15 women. <br />
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It will be seen from these figures that at the charity level men outnumber women by something like ten to one. The cause is presumably that unemployment affects women less than men; also that any presentable woman can, in the last resort, attach herself to some man. The result, for a tramp, is that he is condemned to perpetual celibacy. For of course it goes without saying that if a tramp finds no women at his own level, those above - even a very little above - are as far out of reach as the moon. The reasons are not worth discussing, but there is little doubt that women never, or hardly ever, condescend to men who are much poorer than themselves.<br />
A tramp, therefore, is a celibate from the moment when he takes to the road. He is absolutely without hope of getting a wife, a mistress, or any kind of woman except — very rarely, when he can raise a few shillings — a prostitute.<br />
It is obvious what the results of this must be: [[homosexuality]], for instance, and occasional rape cases. But deeper than these there is the degradation worked in a man who knows that he is not even considered fit for marriage. The sexual impulse, not to put it any higher, is a fundamental impulse, and starvation of it can be almost as demoralizing as physical hunger. The evil of poverty is not so much that it makes a man suffer as that it rots him physically and spiritually. And there can be no doubt that sexual starvation contributes to this rotting process. Cut off from the whole race of women, a tramp feels himself degraded to the rank of a cripple or a lunatic. No humiliation could do more damage to a man’s self-respect.|George Orwell, Down and Out in Paris and London, 1933<ref>Orwell, G. 1933. ''Down and Out in Paris and London.'' Chapter XXXVI. [http://www.telelib.com/authors/O/OrwellGeorge/prose/DownandOut/downandout_36.html FullText]</ref>}}<br />
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==Universities teaching about female choosiness==<br />
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== References ==<br />
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== See also ==<br />
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*[[Orgasms for resources]]<br />
*[[Princess syndrome]]<br />
*[[Unicorn women]]<br />
*[[Blackpill]]<br />
*[[Romance]]<br />
*[[Hinge]]<br />
*[[Juggernaut law]]<br />
*[[Wagecuck]]<br />
*[[Hypogamy]]<br />
*[[Anna Bey]]<br />
*[[Sexual realism]]<br />
*[[666 dating rule]]<br />
*[[Sow Believers - 母豬教]]<br />
*[[Metthew effect]]<br />
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[[Category:Science]]</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64194Unicorn women2021-08-08T12:48:28Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
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<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
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These women are often depicted to be willing to [[date down]] by having relationships with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[LMS|looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population. {{Citation needed}} An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that would commonly be perceived as not being [[ugly|conventionally attractive]], or not notorious enough in terms of social status in regards to their female partner. <br />
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It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status {{Citation needed}}, but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are labeled as myths, like Unicorns are.<br />
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Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] as secondary (particularly looks, money and status), deciding instead to prioritize their partner's personality traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.<br />
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Most Unicorn women are depicted as having good personality traits in regards to their romantic relationships, thus these women are more likely to marry earlier or stick to the same partners for several years. For [[oldcel|older single men]], finding Unicorn partners can pose quite a challenge as these women may become unavailable as their age range increases, since this group of women are most likely already in a relationship and out of the [[dating market]].<br />
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Within the [[incelosphere]], many consider white women who date out of their [[Racepill|racial group]] as Unicorns, as this group of women if often considered the most loyal in regards to exclusively dating men from their own race. {{Citation needed}}<br />
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== Examples of women who are considered unicorns ==<br />
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Here are some sources related to famous women who are considered to "date down"; be warned that some of the men mentioned in the articles are of high social status, thus the women are not considered complete Unicorns by this page's definition. <br />
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https://www.therichest.com/entertainment/13-female-celebrities-who-have-dated-below-their-league/<br />
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https://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/slideshows/13-average-joes-who-married-way-out-of-their-league/<br />
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https://www.thesportster.com/entertainment/15-female-athletes-who-dated-way-below-their-league/</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64193Unicorn women2021-08-08T12:41:07Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
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<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
<br />
These women are often depicted to be willing to [[date down]] by having relationships with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[LMS|looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population. {{Citation needed}} An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that would commonly be perceived as not being [[ugly|conventionally attractive]], or not notorious enough in terms of social status in regards to their female partner. <br />
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It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status {{Citation needed}}, but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are considered a myth, like Unicorns.<br />
<br />
Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] as secondary (particularly looks, money and status), deciding instead to prioritize their partner's personality traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.<br />
<br />
Most Unicorn women are depicted as having good personality traits in regards to their romantic relationships, thus these women are more likely to marry earlier or stick to the same partners for several years. For [[oldcel|older single men]], finding Unicorn partners can pose quite a challenge as these women may become unavailable as their age range increases, since this group of women are most likely already in a relationship and out of the [[dating market]].<br />
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Within the [[incelosphere]], many consider white women who date out of their [[Racepill|racial group]] as Unicorns, as this group of women if often considered the most loyal in regards to exclusively dating men from their own race. {{Citation needed}}<br />
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== Examples of women who are considered unicorns ==<br />
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Here are some sources related to famous women who are considered to "date down"; be warned that some of the men mentioned in the articles are of high social status, thus the women are not considered complete Unicorns by this page's definition. <br />
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https://www.therichest.com/entertainment/13-female-celebrities-who-have-dated-below-their-league/<br />
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https://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/slideshows/13-average-joes-who-married-way-out-of-their-league/<br />
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https://www.thesportster.com/entertainment/15-female-athletes-who-dated-way-below-their-league/</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64192Unicorn women2021-08-08T12:39:57Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
<hr />
<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
<br />
These women are often depicted to be willing to [[date down]] by having relationships with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[LMS|looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population. {{Citation needed}} An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that would commonly be perceived as not being [[ugly|conventionally attractive]], or not notorious enough in terms of social status in regards to their female partner. <br />
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It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status {{Citation needed}}, but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are considered a myth, like Unicorns.<br />
<br />
Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] as secondary (particularly looks, money and status), deciding instead to prioritize their partner's personality traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.<br />
<br />
Most Unicorn women are depicted as having good personality traits in regards to their romantic relationships, thus these women are more likely to marry earlier or stick to the same partners for several years. For [[oldcel|older single men]], finding Unicorn partners can pose quite a challenge as these women may become unavailable as their age range increases, since this group of women are most likely already in a relationship and out of the [[dating market]].<br />
<br />
Within the [[incelosphere]], many consider white women who date out of their [[Racepill|racial group]] as Unicorns, as this group of women if often considered the most loyal in regards to exclusively dating people from their own race. {{Citation needed}}<br />
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== Examples of women who are considered unicorns ==<br />
<br />
Here are some sources related to famous women who are considered to "date down"; be warned that some of the men mentioned in the articles are of high social status, thus the women are not considered complete Unicorns by this page's definition. <br />
<br />
https://www.therichest.com/entertainment/13-female-celebrities-who-have-dated-below-their-league/<br />
<br />
https://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/slideshows/13-average-joes-who-married-way-out-of-their-league/<br />
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https://www.thesportster.com/entertainment/15-female-athletes-who-dated-way-below-their-league/</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64191Unicorn women2021-08-08T12:38:41Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
<hr />
<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
<br />
These women are often depicted to be willing to [[date down]] by having relationships with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[LMS|looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population. {{Citation needed}} An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that would commonly be perceived as not being [[ugly|conventionally attractive]], or not notorious enough in terms of social status in regards to their female partner. <br />
<br />
It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status {{Citation needed}}, but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are considered a myth, like Unicorns.<br />
<br />
Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] as secondary (particularly looks, money and status), deciding instead to prioritize their partner's personality traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.<br />
<br />
Most Unicorn women are depicted as having good personality traits in regards to their romantic relationships, thus these women are more likely to marry earlier or stick to the same partners for several years. For [[oldcel|older single men]], finding Unicorn partners can pose quite a challenge as these women may become unavailable as their age range increases, since this group of women are most likely already in a relationship and out of the [[dating market]].<br />
<br />
Within the [[incelosphere]], many consider white women who date out of their [[Racepill|racial group]] as Unicorns, as this group of women if often considered the most loyal to their own race. {{Citation needed}}<br />
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== Examples of women who are considered unicorns ==<br />
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Here are some sources related to famous women who are considered to "date down"; be warned that some of the men mentioned in the articles are of high social status, thus the women are not considered complete Unicorns by this page's definition. <br />
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https://www.therichest.com/entertainment/13-female-celebrities-who-have-dated-below-their-league/<br />
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https://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/slideshows/13-average-joes-who-married-way-out-of-their-league/<br />
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https://www.thesportster.com/entertainment/15-female-athletes-who-dated-way-below-their-league/</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64190Unicorn women2021-08-08T12:34:09Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
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<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
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These women are often depicted to be willing to [[date down]] by having relationships with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[LMS|looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population. {{Citation needed}} An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that would commonly be perceived as not being [[ugly|conventionally attractive]], or not notorious enough in terms of social status in regards to their female partner. <br />
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It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status {{Citation needed}}, but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are considered a myth, like Unicorns.<br />
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Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] as secondary (particularly looks, money and status), deciding instead to prioritize their partner's personality traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.<br />
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Most Unicorn women are depicted as having good personality traits in regards to their romantic relationships, thus these women are more likely to marry earlier or stick to the same partners for several years. For [[oldcel|older single men]], finding Unicorn partners can pose quite a challenge as these women may become unavailable as their age range increases, since this group of women are most likely already in a relationship and out of the [[dating market]].<br />
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== Examples of women who are considered unicorns ==<br />
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Here are some sources related to famous women who are considered to "date down"; be warned that some of the men mentioned in the articles are of high social status, thus the women are not considered complete Unicorns by this page's definition. <br />
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https://www.therichest.com/entertainment/13-female-celebrities-who-have-dated-below-their-league/<br />
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https://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/slideshows/13-average-joes-who-married-way-out-of-their-league/<br />
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https://www.thesportster.com/entertainment/15-female-athletes-who-dated-way-below-their-league/</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64189Unicorn women2021-08-08T12:33:25Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
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<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
<br />
These women are often depicted to be willing to [[date down]] by having relationships with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[LMS|looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population. {{Citation needed}} An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that would commonly be perceived as not being [[ugly|conventionally attractive]], or not notorious enough in terms of social status in regards to their female partner. <br />
<br />
It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status {{Citation needed}}, but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are considered a myth, like Unicorns.<br />
<br />
Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] as secondary (particularly looks, money and status), deciding instead to prioritize their partner's personality traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.<br />
<br />
Most Unicorn women are depicted as having good personality traits in regards to their romantic relationships, thus these women are more likely to marry earlier or stick to the same partners for several years. For [[oldcel|older single men]], finding Unicorn partners can pose quite a challenge as these women may become unavailable as their age range increases, as these women are most likely already taken and out of the [[dating market]].<br />
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== Examples of women who are considered unicorns ==<br />
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Here are some sources related to famous women who are considered to "date down"; be warned that some of the men mentioned in the articles are of high social status, thus the women are not considered complete Unicorns by this page's definition. <br />
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https://www.therichest.com/entertainment/13-female-celebrities-who-have-dated-below-their-league/<br />
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https://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/slideshows/13-average-joes-who-married-way-out-of-their-league/<br />
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https://www.thesportster.com/entertainment/15-female-athletes-who-dated-way-below-their-league/</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64188Unicorn women2021-08-08T12:28:34Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
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<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
<br />
These women are often depicted to be willing to [[date down]] by having relationships with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[LMS|looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population. {{Citation needed}} An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that would commonly be perceived as not being [[ugly|conventionally attractive]], or not notorious enough in terms of social status in regards to their female partner. <br />
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It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status {{Citation needed}}, but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are considered a myth, like Unicorns.<br />
<br />
Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] as secondary (particularly looks, money and status), deciding instead to prioritize their partner's personality traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.<br />
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== Examples of women who are considered unicorns ==<br />
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Here are some sources related to famous women who are considered to "date down"; be warned that some of the men mentioned in the articles are of high social status, thus the women are not considered complete Unicorns by this page's definition. <br />
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https://www.therichest.com/entertainment/13-female-celebrities-who-have-dated-below-their-league/<br />
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https://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/slideshows/13-average-joes-who-married-way-out-of-their-league/<br />
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https://www.thesportster.com/entertainment/15-female-athletes-who-dated-way-below-their-league/</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64187Unicorn women2021-08-08T12:25:37Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
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<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
<br />
These women are often depicted to be willing to [[date down]] by having relationships with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[LMS|looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population. {{Citation needed}} An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that would commonly be perceived as not being [[ugly|conventionally attractive]], or not notorious enough in terms of social status in regards to their female partner. <br />
<br />
It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status {{Citation needed}}, but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are considered a myth, like Unicorns.<br />
<br />
Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] as secondary (particularly looks, money and status), deciding instead to prioritize their partner's personality traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.<br />
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== Examples of women who are considered unicorns ==<br />
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https://www.therichest.com/entertainment/13-female-celebrities-who-have-dated-below-their-league/<br />
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https://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/slideshows/13-average-joes-who-married-way-out-of-their-league/<br />
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https://www.thesportster.com/entertainment/15-female-athletes-who-dated-way-below-their-league/</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64186Unicorn women2021-08-08T12:24:08Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
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<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
<br />
These women are often depicted to be willing to [[date down]] by having relationships with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[LMS|looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population. {{Citation needed}} An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that would commonly be perceived as not being [[uglycel|conventionally attractive]]. <br />
<br />
It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status {{Citation needed}}, but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are considered a myth, like Unicorns.<br />
<br />
Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] as secondary (particularly looks, money and status), deciding instead to prioritize their partner's personality traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.<br />
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== Examples of women who are considered unicorns ==<br />
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https://www.therichest.com/entertainment/13-female-celebrities-who-have-dated-below-their-league/<br />
<br />
https://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/slideshows/13-average-joes-who-married-way-out-of-their-league/<br />
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https://www.thesportster.com/entertainment/15-female-athletes-who-dated-way-below-their-league/</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64185Unicorn women2021-08-08T12:19:04Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
<hr />
<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
<br />
These women are often depicted to be willing to [[date down]] by having relationships with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[LMS|looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population. {{Citation needed}} An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that would commonly be perceived as not being [[uglycel|conventionally attractive]]. <br />
<br />
It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status {{Citation needed}}, but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are considered a myth, like Unicorns.<br />
<br />
Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] as secondary (particularly looks, money and status), deciding instead to prioritize their partner's personality traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.<br />
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== Examples of famous women who are considered unicorns ==</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64184Unicorn women2021-08-08T12:18:32Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
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<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
<br />
These women are often depicted to be willing to [[date down]] by having relationships with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[LMS|looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population. {{Citation needed}} An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that would commonly be perceived as not being [[conventionally attractive]]. <br />
<br />
It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status {{Citation needed}}, but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are considered a myth, like Unicorns.<br />
<br />
Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] as secondary (particularly looks, money and status), deciding instead to prioritize their partner's personality traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.<br />
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== Examples of famous women who are considered unicorns ==</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64183Unicorn women2021-08-08T12:18:13Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
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<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
<br />
These women are often depicted as people that are willing to [[date down]] by having relationships with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[LMS|looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population. {{Citation needed}} An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that would commonly be perceived as not being [[conventionally attractive]]. <br />
<br />
It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status {{Citation needed}}, but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are considered a myth, like Unicorns.<br />
<br />
Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] as secondary (particularly looks, money and status), deciding instead to prioritize their partner's personality traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.<br />
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== Examples of famous women who are considered unicorns ==</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64182Unicorn women2021-08-08T12:16:23Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
<hr />
<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
<br />
These are often women that are willing to [[date down]] by having relationships with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[LMS|looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population. {{Citation needed}} An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that would commonly be perceived as not being [[conventionally attractive]]. <br />
<br />
It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status {{Citation needed}}, but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are considered a myth, like Unicorns.<br />
<br />
Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] as secondary (particularly looks, money and status), deciding instead to prioritize their partner's personality traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.<br />
<br />
== Examples of famous women who are considered unicorns ==</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64181Unicorn women2021-08-08T12:15:31Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
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<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
<br />
These are often women that are willing to [[date down]] by having relationships with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[LMS|looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population. {{Citation needed}} An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that would commonly be perceived as not being [[conventionally attractive]]. <br />
<br />
It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status {{Citation needed}}, but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are considered a myth, like Unicorns.<br />
<br />
Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] (particularly looks, money and status) as secondary, deciding instead to prioritize their partner's personality traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.<br />
<br />
== Examples of famous women who are considered unicorns ==</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64180Unicorn women2021-08-08T12:13:56Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
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<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
<br />
These are often women that are willing to [[date down]] by having relationships with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[LMS|looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population. {{Citation needed}} An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that would commonly be perceived as being an [[incel]]. <br />
<br />
It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status {{Citation needed}}, but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are considered a myth, like Unicorns.<br />
<br />
Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] (particularly looks, money and status) as secondary, deciding instead to prioritize their partner's personality traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.<br />
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== Examples of famous women who are considered unicorns ==</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64179Unicorn women2021-08-08T12:13:16Z<p>Samaritan: /* Examples of famous women who are unicorns */</p>
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<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
<br />
These are often women that are willing to [[date down]] by having relationships with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[LMS|looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population. {{Citation needed}} An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that is commonly perceived as being an [[incel]]. <br />
<br />
It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status {{Citation needed}}, but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are considered a myth, like Unicorns.<br />
<br />
Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] (particularly looks, money and status) as secondary, deciding instead to prioritize their partner's personality traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.<br />
<br />
== Examples of famous women who are considered unicorns ==</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64178Unicorn women2021-08-08T12:11:19Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
<hr />
<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
<br />
These are often women that are willing to [[date down]] by having relationships with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[LMS|looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population. {{Citation needed}} An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that is commonly perceived as being an [[incel]]. <br />
<br />
It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status {{Citation needed}}, but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are considered a myth, like Unicorns.<br />
<br />
Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] (particularly looks, money and status) as secondary, deciding instead to prioritize their partner's personality traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.<br />
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== Examples of famous women who are unicorns ==</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64177Unicorn women2021-08-08T12:10:23Z<p>Samaritan: </p>
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<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
<br />
These are often women that are willing to [[date down]] by having relationships with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[LMS|looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population. {{Citation needed}} An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that is commonly perceived as being an [[incel]]. <br />
<br />
It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status {{Citation needed}}, but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are considered a myth, like Unicorns.<br />
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Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] (particularly looks, money and status) as secondary, deciding instead to prioritize their partner's personality traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn&diff=64176Unicorn2021-08-08T12:09:16Z<p>Samaritan: Redirected page to Unicorn women</p>
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<div>#REDIRECT [[Unicorn women]]</div>Samaritanhttps://incels.wiki/index.php?title=Unicorn_women&diff=64175Unicorn women2021-08-08T12:08:11Z<p>Samaritan: Created page with "'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the manosphere for women that are considered an exception to hypergamy. These are often women that are willing to ..."</p>
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<div>'''Unicorn''' is a designation created within the [[manosphere]] for [[women]] that are considered an exception to [[hypergamy]].<br />
<br />
These are often women that are willing to [[date down]] by having relationships with men considered to be "below their league" by the common social views, or women that completely disregard [[LMS|looks, money and status]]. They receive this name as they are considered exceptionally rare among the female population. An example of a Unicorn would be a [[Stacy]] or [[Stacylite]] who dates a man that is commonly perceived as being an [[incel]]. <br />
<br />
It is considered a dream for many [[incels]] to find an attractive partner who would put past their looks and lack of high social status {{Citation needed}}, but since this isn't a common recurrence, these women are considered a myth, like an Unicorn.<br />
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Another definition for Unicorn women would be women that consider the usual traits of [[sexual selection]] (particularly looks, money and status) as secondary, deciding instead to prioritize their partner's personality traits and aspects related to [[natural selection]], such as health, intelligence and inherent skills.</div>Samaritan